₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Menist have overtaken the thread. Women are the problem, men are near perfect. Women change o!!!

i usually see post from feminist and their myopic view. Always seeing things from their gender bias.

Today I am seeing another angle. Menists shifting blame.

Selflessness and Rationalism are two qualities that beat any other.

Daeylar:
When he becomes more possessive and abusive she should continue to laugh and not disturb us oh,

it's little signs like this people ignore.

Removing her wig because she was talking to guys,
Didn't she go there to talk to people?
Didn't the boyfriend also talk to girls?

maybe he didnt

Safiaaa:
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

you are speaking from your own experiences and generalising as "Nigerian Men". Men are not homogenous. Neither are women. And if we are going to take a sample space and look at the numbers, you will likely find that more men prefer independent women.

ezewealth:
Am I the only one that notice that bank didn't sent us season greetings. I hope all our money is intact

they send new year not christmas

Catalyst4eva:
There has been accusations and counter accusations from different quarters and Organisations as to who is the cause of the fuel price hike that has greeted Nigerians this Yuletide.

NNPC blames IPMAN, IPMAN blames NNPC and Private Depot owners in return.

Who do u think is responsible for this? Your opinion matters....let's discusss.

I didn't need to read your full post. I saw the word "blame" therefore I answered below:

JONATHAN!!!

BadBlaize:
He is North, I am South, we are all blacks.. That's all dat matters

We are all humans. that even matters more

Dollyak:
You don't have to be a Muslim to see that this is a legitimate protest. Defending an adoption of western culture i.e Lawyers wig, rope and dressings, while criticizing an Islamic dress is a master piece of hypocrisy.

stopping the lady from being called to bar, though unfair, was very valid.

the focus now should be to modify the dress code to remove the head covering clause and allow for hijabs and the likes as the clause is useless and adds no value.

Note that this also affects catholic sisters and nuns so it is more than just Islamic interests here

pocohantas:
There are lots of responsible guys around. It's the ones whose pricks work overtime that are spoiling the image of the good ones. I have a friend like that, highly self-controlled guy. I have also met the one who seems so sinister...like he could snuff life outta me in a second.

She should be careful how she drinks though.
Lest she runs outta luck.

Beht how can you bathe someone without 'touching' her?

@ the bolded. It is possible. I have showered with a lady and she didnt want me to touch her.

however in this case above, the guy could be accused of sexual harassment in some countries except she had agreed that he takes her to his house.

a girl was drunk and you took her to your house, took off her clothes, showered her etc.

it is not entirely a clean slate for him.

superstar1:
Jonathan knew that and he could still not declare full State of Emergency and he did not have the liver to arrest Shettima.

Does that not confirm what we have been saying for the past half a decade --- he is clueless, liverless and he was the Chairman of looters of our treasury.

it only confirms the first two

Integrity test that Saraki, Tinubu and Dino passed. Is that one an integrity test. Lol

MhizzAJ:
That is why I like sensible men...It's only sensible men that reason this way

Men are totally different from boys...If you say that to a boy consider the relationship Shaky because he will think the lady is a desperado

As for me i can't date more than 2 years max

I cant even do more than 3 months if I dont think i can marry the person

Icon79:
Supa slowpoke FIFA was in charge of Ballon d'Or until last year when they separated.


O pari

FIFA Ballon d'Or is different from Ballon d'Or

So I was talking about this year.

don't be in a hurry to insult. It shows immaturity

Icon79:
Thank you, my broad!

It only becomes based on the silverwares won when it favors Cristiano Ronaldo. Real Madrid and FIFA has corrupted and politicized the game so much that it's not fun any more.


O pari

Ballon D'or has nothing to do with Fifa

Criis:
I dunno when ballon d'or became a team award

Ain't it an award for individual brilliance?

It irks Me when Madrid/Penaldo fans mention trophies when discussing ballon d'or.

actually this started during the 2011 (or was it 2012) season when messi was given the award because barca won the champions league despite ronaldo having made more individual contributions

Taniaa:
Many people say they don't want to hurt another person and tiptoeing around the situation can do more harm than help-don't tiptoe, be decisive.
It is an action to avoid as much repercussion as possible, don't be too soft in the break up, but don't be insensitive.
Speak the truth but not the whole truth. You don't need to tell her her flaws, etc.
Let her know how you feel about the relationship and that the action you're taking is best for the both of you.
Be honest, open, and sincere.Wish for the best and prepare for the worst and behave cordially.

Best advise so far.

She will get over the hurt. Time heals all.

be decisive but not insensitive. I have broken up with someone i felt the world would crash on her. I even cried and nearly thought of not breaking up with her again. At the end I did it. She cried her hearts out. Cursed me etc. but got over it and we are friends now. She apologized for the curses and told me it was an emotional response.

ArchangeLucifer:
Slay queens strike again.

I won't say anything this time.




Fuvk it, I MUST say something.

These women have long hidden under the "weaker sex" tag as I have always said.

We are equals. Men are not stronger than them.

They should not be treated lightly.

I'm still wondering how far someone will provoke me before I decide to disfigure him/her for life.

Its no coincidence that women are rarely given prominent / controlling positions worldwide regardless of race, or religion. Even when they are in power, adequate measures are taken to ensure they do not fall out of control.

This is not discrimination. This is because it is FACT that women are known to act irrationally & almost always abuse the authority bestowed upon them to intimidate others.

Every religion relegates women to the background. Its not a Christian or Islam or Buddha thing. Its nature.

Women reason emotionally instead of logically.

If women were running the world, we would have gone extinct by now from nuclear wars.

How many women can withstand insults, provocations and even mild assault from the opposition and still stay calm like the Obamas, Trumps, Putins & Kims? They would have erupted in emotional rage and blown this fragile planet away without thinking of the repercussions.

this is one of the worst stereotypes i have read about. Worse than the stereotyping of blacks as sub-humans

Jaykolo10:
So now pastors byuing pj Now it S a sin or what me am not understanding oo




Btw judge not so you won't be judged... so all of you seeing and saying it pointing out the sinners weldone oo continue yours is still coming....
plus na only naija we fit dey here all this kind shit no wonder we can't move forward here in Nigeria

if i get a dollar every time i read or hear the bolded, I would be a millionaire.

Day2logic:
I may have to believe this, I think I saw that woman two weeks ago, I was at Sango going to Abeokuta. Cant remember the precise place but I remember looking at her hair for mins and wondering how long she's been mad and why mad people walk the street instead of being in rehabilitation center. And I am no fan of pastors or anything but if that woman is truly heal, she was mad.

@nwaamaikpe seems we have seen that someone that can affirm she was indeed mad before

Jesusloveyou:
This is the reason our oba met with buhari few days ago.
To ensure this stupid izon people leave Benin before they will turn to herdsmen in Edo state

everything is tribal to you. why insult their tribe?

Laveda:
Well she's beautiful, smart, what else? It's nature and not everyone was born with a very perky boobs, y'all men and women better stop body shaming people. There's more to a woman than just her boobs, besides it was meant to breast feed babies and not old men.

Your body shouldn't define you. Be proud of every curve

body shaming is on the rise with social media. Unfortunately both genders are guilty of shaming themselves and the other gender.

doseni:
I really do not understand why this tithe issue is a problem, those that pay tithe, do so out of their personal conviction, so why the noise? I pay my tithes and have no regret whatsoever doing so. It's a personal decision, no one is forcing you to pay or not to pay.

many churches teach that it is a sin not to pay tithes

xtivin:
Tithing is not for carnal minds. And it sounds stupid but spiritually wise.There is a covenant in where you put your money for spiritual purpose. Pay to satan and loose the rest,give to God (the church) and have plenty.this is a spiritual wisdom. But the truth is pastors should not emphasize on 10 percent but the more you give the plenty you have.

you understand giving/charity is a virtue and what reward would be more than the gift of heaven?

there are normal laws of nature. Those who till the soil will reap the fruits thereof whether they pay tithes or not.

the rain will fall on the farms of both believers and unbelievers. The believers primary reward is not here on earth but is eternal communion with God hereafter.

Ishilove:
These men should not join issues with Freeze. They are bigger than this social media rubbish. Let them focus on touching lives with their ministry and leave the loud mouth to continue making noise.

We shall be made accountable for every word we speak so leave Freeze for God to handle.

the thing Freeze is still yet to get a scriptural answer to his questions. Only name calling so far?

shumuel:
hmm, true but up to today there is ever buying and selling in every church; if you do not buy Spiritual books, you would buy bulletins, buy Anointing oil or Handkerchief, or Convenant Stickers, Snacks and Drinks e.t.c and all churches today are guilty of these, so why condemn one without nullifying the rest ?

indeed and why i find the catholic bazaar to be ok is the honesty in it. It is more like a fundraiser for a noble cause where you know you are paying more than the real value for a product because the remainder goes to support the church.

and then it continues in the spirit of the first type of tithing (the one where you bring your fruits to the house and eat and drink it together).

The husband will simply move on to another chic who isnt married to a Boko haram member.

The solution to cheating is discipline. Discipline is not easy but possible.

Uyi168:
Op,how do u come to the conclusion that he's a muslim cleric?

my points exactly. btw I am Christian

Amarabae:
Africans and ethnic jingoism.
But which people get the etymology of gelegele.
Bini or ijaw?

gelegele is a benin word but that is not very relevant and both tribes can have their own name for the town

debola27:
Why was he trying to carry an angry woman? Why didn't he just leave her alone to come back to her senses on her own? You said so they can talk better, can you reason with that kind of woman at that particular time? I don't think so. It was very wrong for her to slap him, but he was trying to do the right thing at the wrong time in the wrong way, and she got angrier. Please don't try to 'reason' with any woman that gets angry like that at that particular time to avoid stories that touch. Let her calm down on her own before you even approach her. We have different types of women, as there are different types of men too, the sooner we accept that, the better for everyone.

well dude dodged a bullet. He should move on. She could easily become violent in the home.

Meanwhile, I don't understand why peeps wait till wedding day to change their mind. is it that a new substantial fact emerged on the day of the wedding?

Amarabae:
thats for people with Christianity view about creation.
A Hindu or buhdist etc may disagree with you.

similarly, a man being the head of the home is a christian/islam (or at least a religious) view