₦airaland Forum

TonyeBarcanista:
Honestly, I don't know why Ibe Kachukwu is crying...

2. He seem to forget that he is the Minister of [b]State for Petroleum resources and not the Minister of Petroleum resources[/b], hence, any approval the GMD got from Buhari (the minister) subsist and NOBODY owe him any explanation concerning the decision of the boss at the top.

He is not being sidelined as Minister of State. He is sidelined as Chairman of the Board.

i agree he should have remained NNPC GMD and I think he would have wanted to. Indeed he was demoted to Minister of State and he knew it

Ninethmare:
39yrs still not married?
what have you been waiting for all these years?
I guess you must have been too selective
He must be rich, tall handsome, and Educated(take mud go create am)
Now you are desperate to marry

Why didnt you take contraceptives when you had the unprotected sex?
Trying to trap him i guess

Please keep the baby
Menopause is close

Slay queens keep slaying while your mate get married every saturday

can you simply advise without judging? you do not know why she is still unmarried but you will lace your advice with your primary prejudice.

brunofarad:
What's his own selling point ?

The previous era was Mr integrity


What's this one own ?

restructuring

Tolexander:
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Yes, if there is a better candidate

there could be but we usually focus only on the top two candidates due to our need to think in dochotomies (good & evil). peeps did not even consider that there were others besides GEJ & Buhari

seunmsg:
One thing you can't take away from OBJ is his patriotism. He is so passionate about Nigeria and supports anybody that comes his way irrespective of age, sex, religion, tribe or class. We need a lot of our former and present political leaders to be this passionate and supportive of Nigerians creativity.

unfortunately i can't say same about the current President

vedaxcool:
Young followers and little comprehension. .. he was attributing a lot of the success his government acheived to the visionary outlook of Rochas

lol political affiliiatons make it difficult to appreciate satire

diadem10:
I swear Peter is so much mature!

No where I've ever seen him insult his brothers nor their wives on media unlike the mgbeke Jude and Paul. Yes, he loves showing himself but his flamboyant life style hurts no one except some mgbeke who can't manage their homes but want to manage other people's home.

he is always the first to run to social media. That ain't mature to me

madridguy:
I no go talk.

thanks for not "talking"

nextstep:
So the two adult men who let something get between them get the least blame?

If they were 5 year old, I would understand, but Peter and Paul have nobody but themselves to blame.

Not Jude, not the wives, not the mother. That's how we like to absolve ourselves of responsibility and start blaming village witches, devil, or Buhari for our personal issues.

exactly

nextstep:
Pre-selection. I'm going to get scientific here.

Pre-selection is a theory that states that females are attracted to males who other females are already attracted to. You see it in birds, lions, humans.

The evolutionary advantage is that: men can fake success, but the presence of other women in a man's life means the chances of the success being real, is, well, more real. Success means the man has access to material wealth and social capital, which increase her chances of survival (particularly if she was to get pregnant; also ensures her ability to pass on those same strong genes into her offspring). She's got nothing to gain by being with a man other women don't want (which strongly correlates with being poor, unhealthy, unfit).

This is why only the strongest, fittest, healthiest males in the animal kingdom get all the girls, and the others are left to steal p*ssy here and there.

Even in this modern society, certain boxes get checked in a woman's subconscious mind when she sees married men with children. He has enough to take care of his loved ones, and some of that can extend to her. It's not her fault, you see, but her genes.

It's also quite practical... how many struggling men can give her what she needs? The only advantage of a young man today is he has energy and free time. Otherwise he is not as mature, wise, calm, gentle, experienced, resourceful, wealthy, or well connected as the older man he will become. As time goes on, the young man will transition into an older man, and acquire these traits through hard work, intelligence, and persistence.

As an aside, an older, poor unmarried man probably has less drive, ambition, or even luck, and would thus be much less attractive.

there's some sense here

intruxive:
Story has been out thr since last year, if u have alternate, tell us

i told you not to jump to conclusion the same way i tell those saying Lola is the issue not to jump to conclusion.

If i have an alternate story, i would have a conclusion and argue with you rather than telling you not to jump to conclusion

It is easy to argue from our context of safety. from your posts on nairaland, your context of safety is clearly your tribe so you would see things through tribal lenses.

AlanSugar:
It is only here you can hide to write rubbish. May God forgive you. Is it buhari that controls the judiciary or the prisons? When some corrupt judges were indicted and attempts were underway to punish them you lots shouted witch-hunt. That is the result of your witch hunt. Borrow sense.

so you think Nigeria Prison Service is under the Judiciary? It is actually under the executive and thus under Buhari.

Take your advice and get yourself some sense

intruxive:
Your sig says u r a woman, it is common in the eastern cultures to hide behind some fake tradition to subject the wife to inhuman treatment from husbands relatives, and in the case of death they automatically label her the killer so as to banish her and her kids and acquire dead relatives properties. I ve seen it countless times in the past. That's why they all wanna control another mans wife
And in this case jude is mad because peter doesnt wanna share proceeds 3ways anymore. He wants to pay jude for work done, and guess who the usual suspect....... of cos his innoscent wife

both you and mavinc4u have no idea what the true story is.

You guys stop jumping to conclusions by labelling lola or jude as the bad person

kimbraa:
How often do you demand for sex. Hope you're not a sex freak 'cause such people are a turn off and very difficult to satisfy sexually. If your wife has a low libido, read up things on how to get her in the mood.

there are women who hate sex. I was told about someone whose wife only agrees to sex once a year. typically for child birth. The hubby was almost running mad. He unfortunately started having sex outside

it is both physical (hyposexual) and psychological (hidden fears, trauma etc.).

scholes0:
So the Benins have been lying to us all this while that the Oba does not see the crown prince right from his birth till his death, and their whole "preservation of tradition" ish?

Besides,
Who sponsors all these royal events and palatial Owambes?

how many of these online peeps know culture sef.

The crown prince is not raised in his fathers household. this translates to not sleeping under the same roof

but in those days trvelling about was not so easy so the crown prince would typically never live in benin city. note that ugbowo, uselu etc. are not part of the city

aariwa:
I heard under beni tradition that a king can never set eyes on his first son who is the heir apparent until the king dies.Binis here ,please is it true?

sleep under the same roof.

So to avoid that the prince usually leaves benin to live on the outskirts of the city.

in recent years they take up government positions to learn administrative skills

kimbraa:
Most of you already have sidechicks. I stopped trusting men long ago but I've never stated that all men are dogs 'cause not all think with your dicks.

The purpose of the thread isn't to cheat but to keep an open mind. To be able to discern a serious suitor coming while in an unserious one you felt is serious, you can't tell the heart of man.

I specifically stated it's for ladies whose biological clock is already ticking 'cause the girls are still catching fun with numerous guys. This topic isn't debatable for those who understand what it is.

The advice applies to guys too. some guys are only single because they have been in long term relationships that didnt work. I would find it tough to implement what OP is suggesting even though it seems an less risky approach. the thing is if you are not emotionally committed, you would keep being unsure even when he is ready to tie the knots.

celebsnes:
"There is a difference between a criminal activity and a terrorist activity, yes the fulani herdsmen are a criminal gang and they are being treated as criminals according to the law of the country.. But IPOB like Boko Haram as a territory have carved on to themselves as a sovereign state of their own, they have should willingness to invade states and raised concerns in neighbouring states, like Kogi, Benue and have said they are interested in taking over Bayelsa and Rivers and have raised up a flag"

in essence, Gerard Pique is a terrorist

Bolustical:
IPOB supporters are always quick 5o shout INNOCENT CITIZENS, GENOCIDE

But the question that runs through my mind like many other fair Nigerians are:

How will an innocent citizen attack a mosque because they have a problem with the Nigerian Army?

How will an unharmed people be searching for Hausas to kill?

IPOB members, over to you.

tribalistic bigot !!!! did you read that the mosque was attacked or that those in the mosque were hausa or that lives were lost in the report?

these are igbo muslims and no one knows the cause of the fire. It is implicitly thought to be accidental. Your hatred for Igbos blinds you.

and you are no different from the IPOB whatsapp propagandists

catwalq:
This rubbish of people insulting President Buhari online is cowardly and outrightly wrong. This is not freedom of speech one bit,this is unruly behaviour and reeks of disrespect. I'm sure this man will almostfall down on his face in order to greet Buhari if He was to meet him face to face. If you can't respect him because of his age,respect his office even if you are not sympathetic to his government.

the bolded is important

brownhawk:
the igbos made people hate them. their natural arrogance and hate is unacceptable

i agree they can be quite loud. Hatred however is not their prerogative. We all do. A lot of us have igbo friends in real life but use the safety of online anonymity to reveal our true hatred for other tribes.

It took time for me to challenge the Igbo stereotypes i was told while growing up.

AntiWailer:
That is the way to go...

That stupid dummy director had the audience he needed. Instead of him to sieze the opportunity and initiate d dialogue process.

He was busy living like a god. Everybody bowing to him.

U want to break up and u make enemy of every other person

I watched the f00l telling his audience not to attend a church with a Yoruba GO.

What do you expect from a man who failed in life. Life to him is just an experiment. (Something like let all of us die and start all over)

Instead of visiting all leaders across the Country pushing true federalism and also adding that secession is his preferred option and also making his demands known at every opportunity. He is busy spreading hate speech like a f00l he is.

You did not push for sovereign national conference.you did not allow Governors, Senators and House of two members from the region to sign an agreement to protect Ibo's interest or be voted out by ur massive supporters.

Even if you have your Biafra, won't there be diplomatic relations with other neighbouring countries ? Rude arrogant eediot

If you bathe with salt during the Ebola crisis dnt blame those who support Kanu. You are also an idiot. Just that they are the reigning idiots..

... and these are terrorists activities The word terrorism is banded with ease in Nigeria these days. Serves IPOB right though but hatred for igbos is blinding a lot of you.

queenjuli:
I hope you'll go with sound reasoning when you walk in on your wife in a heated argument with your mother

first, the thing is that this scenario is highly unlikely as men respect themselves more. Wifey in a heated argument with mum is more likely.

secondly, in African culture, i respect my father-in-law even more than my own father. so for me and father-in-law to be having a shouting match, it means some serious shit has happened. Wifey is to stand by me at that hour. irrespective of whether wifey stands by me or not, or whether her dad is right or wrong, I would still have to go and prostrate to her father based on African culture things. However, Wifey standing by me determines where her loyalty lies.

Adaumunocha:
U do so? You guys complain of wide kinni but don't u think a prostitute's would b very stretched? Cos of the per hour drilling of different sizes of kini.... Just wondering

I don't patronize prostitutes and I dont complain about wide "kini". I am trying to see it from the perspective of a single guy who does not want to hurt any lady by deceiving her but does not have the self control to abstain.

Adaumunocha:
Why visit a prostitute that gets down with different men in a day when u have a wife at home? Men dey try sha

how about if he is single?

micynute94:
Why should you ask in the first place or make subtle suggestions ?
There's a difference between needing an assistance financial wise or for something you can't do due to lack of knowledge AND trying to use feminine charms and wails to trick a guy to do things expected of your boyfriend or parents and u expect the guy not to want more.


Though you are right in a way. It's d guys that should be blamed. We need to stop this "women are weak, we need to protect and provide for them" mentality. If you know you can't give a lady any form of assistance without expecting anything in return, then don't..

Don't overstretch yourself trying to be your crush or lady "Knight in the shining armor" kinda person. You will end up being frustrated.

The rule of thumb is this; anything you can't do for your male padis, your very close ones, then don't do it for any lady that ain't ur sister, gf or family except you sort of have a connection that's deep and have no romance attachment.

There is a thin line between being nice and simply being foolosh. #Apa Omo.

Another rule of thumb is this; Any lady u can't run to for advice, financial assistance when you need it, emotional support or someone that makes you genuinely happy just been with you WITHOUT ANY FORM OF ROMANCE OR THOUGHT OF IT. Simply don't overstretch yourself for that lady.

It's not worth it.

this happens when the relationship is defined. you guys become real besties offering each other support without any inkling of romance.

kimbraa:
From the comments on here, one could tell how the average Nigerian guy's mind works. It's always;
Sex! sex!! And sex!!!. They don't know there're boundaries not to cross. I pity girls of this generation who're not wise. No wonder most of you act like "dogs" at the sight of women.

The girl should be blamed for rejecting his offer but the fool should be praised for trying to sleep with a girl he doesn't have a relationship with.

yes guys think sex sex sex

trying to have sex with a girl he doesnt have a relationship with is a moral wrong. it is still not against the law yet.

Adaumunocha:
If they ask you for material things and you refuse, will they force you? Do ladies force you men to spend??!! Let's b matured and reasonable in this argument pls

that's the same way this guy asked for sex, she refused and he didnt force her

Blueberrie:
Is self-control soo terribly hard?

at least 100 times harder than it is for the average female. but of course there are exceptions. you have females with hypersexualism and males with hyposexualism. Another challenge for males i being moved heavily by sight rather than sound or touch. it makes it more complicated.


refering to OP's posts and some comments from ladies who are disgusted. such encounters (when a "friend" asks for sex) typically occur when the relationship has not been defined. if it is clear to both parties that this is a platonic friendship then the lady should easily feel disgusted and hurt. For some guys (even for ladies), friendship might just be the first step to an intimate relationship. You need to note that the guy didnt attempt to rape etc. he asked for sex and she said no.

LadyGoddiva:
Congrats, girl!
To all those hungry Nairaland boys that'll soon come and open their smelly mouths to call her an olosho, shut up!! Some people actually work hard for their money. Whether she acquired the cars through her pussy or not, you can not tell so don't start judging her. At least she's way better than y'all that are still masturbating to Xvideos porn everyday while screaming "Oluwa bless my hustle". Hustle that you don't even have

Truth hurts, and if you quote me, just know that the shoe fits really well.

dont preempt them na. wait till they open their mouth.

I hate generalisations and was waiting for who would call her Olosho

sarrki:
This are ipobs occultist that we have been talking about

Nnamdi KANU is involved

I assure my fellow Nigerians that Python dance will take care of this thrash

your trolling makes me think it is a robot at the other end. way too mechanical

TundeHashim:
I completely and wholeheartedly agree with Messrs Falana. I've repeated it on several occasions and on different fora that I do not support Nnamdi Kanu and in extension, the "current" Biafra agitation. Although in as much as i believe every people are entitled to self determination, igbo people can, in my humble opinion, seek for an independent country BUT that shouldn't be done using hate speeches, chest-beating, calling others skull miners and other derogatory names. It should be done by advancing logical argument and trying to get both national and international sympathy towards achieving self independence. Also, I don't think the Army is needed for this operation. it is a bad political move on the part of anyone responsible for this. at least, it has drawn many people who are on the fence to sympathize with Kanu. When one looks at life retrospectively with the view that everything we have (and even ourselves) would one day come to naught, is it safe if we ask is there anything really worth killing ourselves for

the bolded is online tribalism done by both tribes