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ETX-NG is at best unserious and at worst fraudulent.

they fabricate fake statuses. my transcript process is over 5 months old and I have missed an admission window as a result. up till now no transcript has been sent.

Just avoid them if you can.

ETX-NG is at best unserious and at worst fraudulent.

they fabricate fake statuses. my transcript process is over 5 months old and I have missed an admission window as a result. up till now no transcript has been sent.

Just avoid them if you can.

ETX-NG is at best unserious and at worst fraudulent.

they fabricate fake statuses. my transcript process is over 5 months old and I have missed an admission window as a result. up till now no transcript has been sent.

Just avoid them if you can.

lilprinze: is like FG brains have now starting
functioning. if not how would a
reasonable government just sack 16000 doctors or workers who are fighting for their rights or what they are entitled to. IN Nigeria is you want anything from government you have to go on strike or protest before they would know you are serious and answer you.

they had no intention of sacking them. i think they just wanted to meet "irrationality" with irrationality.
we see this in negotiations a lot

Arsenate: Lol so true about the female drivers thingy. they'll never allow you in no matter how hard you plead with them. I've understood that now anyway and I don't even bother to ask them for space. I just wait till it's a man and usually men don't have problem allowing you drive in.

actually that is because of the stereotype that women don't drive well. the female driver thinks you are trying to bully her because she is a woman and she is often right.

Men think they are better at driving. so wrong.

babygirlfl: The post you quoted answered the question. I don't go back and forth

no it did not answer the last part of his post. the part where he suggested that it is less prevalent in Man-Man

Amhappy: OP's eg is not directly a woman to woman problem but madam -maid. I bet the woman will do same thing if her servant is a boy. That said,women are still their own worst enemies. Envy and unncessary competition are the major factor.

that's the thing. usually the woman does not do this to a male house-help. i have seen this over an over again.

it seems sexist to say this but i suspect there is a woman-woman thing here especially when one is a master and the other is a seeming slave. the master tries to humiliate and take away the slave's esteem. This is much less prevalent in Man-Man, Man-Woman or Woman-Man. it mainly occurs in Woman-Woman.

while I agree about the normal human nature to be mean to those beneath one, i also notice there is a unique woman-woman side to these.

dexterinc2003: Normally i wouldnt try 2 correct ur ignorance....but just b4 u infect others.i'll be glad if u can mention how many cases of d virus u know that has been treated successfully in nigeria.case fatality ratio in nigeria remains 100percent currently...whether you choose 2 panic or not is left 2 u,but will not change the truth...prevention is key and get educated..google is your friend @ least.

the problem was the statement "YOU WILL DIE" connotes 0% survival which is false info. maybe you should rather do the google-ing

cococandy: True.
And other men should stop making the guys who speak out seem like wimps or weak men.
I think abused men should be encouraged to open up more.

Good move

lol difficult. other men will always regard such a guy a wimp

Ty207: This statement is not true i leave in ejigbo too....to me ejigbo can be classify into two..the west and the north...what you are seeing here is northest side of ejigbo(Ori-lowo side) why the western side ailegun,ronik side, burkor side etc....though 80% of the roads are bad but is not as dirty as this....70% of people living here are igbo's.

... and I weep for Nigeria

falsehood, tribalism and a total lack of objectivity in your post

sandijey: Na good girls suffer pass. Tsheeeeeeeew. Like I said earlier. Everything is wrong in this country. All the runs girls in my class have good jobs now. Many of them are married. Through this runs they were able to take care of themselves., use the best creams, wear the best clothes. Hangout in nice spots where they can meet bachelors, Isn't it obvious that they will attract guys quicker than the girl next door who relies on her dad just to even buy sanitary pad. Life is not fair. That story he gave is 1 in a million.

very true jare.

it is even comfortable decent guys that chase after the ex-runs girls. the breadth of this runs girls tin in schools is heavily understaimated.

more than 10% i dare say. and a lot of them end up doing well.

jamace: I believe they did have them. The fact that they were created does not eliminate features which God wanted ALL humans to have.They were created complete just as we are today.

so peeps born with one kidney or no hand and legs are not created by God? lol.

does our completion as humans lie in physical completion.

frosbel: The Bible is not unreliable when you read it from the context of the overall message of God's love and salvation for MANKIND.

Note a few things :

1. God used imperfect human beings
2. He did not override their will, emotion or intellect
3. He inspired them and they put pen to paper as best as they could narrate the words of God.
4. There were obviously errors and misrepresentations in some cases but these are few and far between.
5. The original manuscripts are not available, what we do have now are copies from other copies.
6. If you think about it, in those days there was no press, so scribes at different locations and times had to painstakingly copy these manuscripts.
7. During the translation to Latin , the Catholic church deliberately inserted some outright errors to support their myths such as the Trinity , Hell etc
8. These errors were carried into the English versions.
9. Nevertheless we are able to understand the specific truths of God through his Spirit and this requires humility
10. The message of Salvation is still not lost and consistent as ever.



Don't use this opportubtiy to make rash statements on what you know not.

lol @ no 7. are you sure of this?

No 9 shhould be everyone's approach to the bible. with the spirit and in humility. Knowledge and salvation is for the humble not the proud.

meelorlah: What are you thanking me for? Is it for adding you to my list of strangers or what?I don't even reply or acknowledge them...I gently remove it from my wall.Guys that fall real guys' hand

if u dont intent to chat with the person the why accept? is it to increase your list of strangers/admirers (confidence-building?).

why shouldnt he thank you privately if you accept?

What is a "real guy"?

lol. The adulteration of "good ettiquette" is alarming.

if it is a private message then there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

u sent an "add" request to a complete stranger. courtesy could suggest that you thank her for acceding to your request.

the "should-be" issue is when peeps add you and after u accept, wait for you to say hi first. That is irreconcilable.

dexterinc2003: These 'johesuites' above no dey tire?
How many of u talking trash are willing 2 get in A bus with a confirmed ebola virus infected patient for just 1 minute?
But yall can say anything about drs who are locked up in wards all day wit patients wit all sorts(hepatitis,hiv,ebola,lassa) for N5,000 monthly hazard allowance(diaris goduoo)...
As a matter Of fact i think all health workers(cleaners included)should recieve a hazard allowance of nothing less than N100,000.
Not some ppl fighting 2 head hospitals or 2 be called consultants...get ur priorities right people.
PS: ebolavirus has no cure presently...once you get it,YOU WILL DIE!!

i ve got just one question for you: re you a doctor?

if you are then it is terribly unfortunate. i highly doubt it sha. False information that can create panic is not the approach of a doctor.

Kinkybraids: Well these are great characteristics and im not disputing them but all I'm saying is that many Nigerian men who date SA women arent thinking long term or marriage as he knows he will go back home at some point to take a Nigerian wife. I strongly believe that if a South African girl dates a Nigerian man she should know its just for fun or to experiment but it mostly likely wont lead to marriage especially if he isnt based in SA. Im just being realistic...it saves a lot of heartache

Also the Stereo types about South African women (which are not true in all cases) dont really give SA women points in the marriege department when it comes to Nigerian men... or other foreign men

i agree lots of stereo types. I have a friend whose elder bro is married to an SA lady. they met in SA. the lady is smart, intelligent. into consulting. The guy had genuine intentions and was based in SA for sometime. they got married in SA and lived there a while. The lady is loved by the guys family, she speaks yoruba and genuinely loves nigerian culture. thats a better model for a naija man who is settling with an SA lady and vice versa

mmsen: It is socially irresponsible to allow untruths to go unchallenged.

What is truth?

LMAyedun: It's sad how all muslims and Northern Nigerians are being tagged Boko Haram.

very sad. it gets worse when you keep beard and you are hausa.

it is mainly out of fear. suicide bombing is a whole new dimension in nigeria.

i am a xtian but it is really embarrassing to see someone called bokoharam because of bear-bear.

hardbody: Lol. Ok. on a salary scale of N24m plus per annum, i earn more than that in a month. Does that still make sense to you? I am coming strictly from my perspective and so do not see how N700k amounts to 'making it'. Its less than a couple of guys monthly take home. That is my point, i have not in anyway suggested that N.7m is not good money, especially when won on a bet, but it does not go beyond the short term.

it is > N7 million o. not 700k

guy calculate well before u blow ur trumpet o

he is not even the original author of that joke na.

the joke don tey and if you think it endorses rape then you dont know what a joke is.

wtf, 2002
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Epa!! domo sir.

Bros (or should I say Babe) !!!

i never too old like that na.

anyone has DKNY 2011 for Men?

DKNY NEW YORK SUMMER by Donna Karan EAU DE COLOGNE SPRAY 3.4 OZ (2011 EDITION)

shilling: Hmmmm...why did she wait for 2 weeks though? Very odd.

I hate pranks in general, but the more "normal" thing to do would be to tell you before you travelled, and not wait for 2 weeks! Anyways, if you trust her, go with your gut feeling and continue the relationship.

correct babe. i was interested in response of ladies. this is a very expensive prank. not one to be taken lightly. if only peeps knew the emotional trauma they put one thru with this so called pranks.

i dont trust the girl at all. in fact it could be #truestory + abortiontins

it is a stupid test. very very stupid IMO.

I might have been ok with continuing the relationship but the moment she tells me it was a joke or test. The very foundations of our relationship become shaken.

A joke/test is a form of deceit. especially an expensive one.

also fathering another person's child is not as simple as "I accepted the child". You have to make enough effort to reach the father. try to find the runaway father first.

I think OP really loves the girl and was very carried away.

Big2bore: Good day, I have a very good mechanic he works on audi and volks. His number is 08059648757 Tunde by name.

you mean your name is Tunde

Hello Tinuola

Thanks a lot for your help so far on this forum.

a friend of mine wants to register to write the Intermediate 1 in 2014 Feb. She is a graduate of microbiology and has no previous backgound in HR or finance. She does a 7am to 6.30pm job on weekdays (bank job).

she is worried that the time between now and feb might be too short for her to prepare? what do you think?

also, what is the best form of preparation (study centres, self study etc.)? what has worked for you?

Rawdeal: GODSPOWER EKUOBASE!!!!!!!

i trust this guy to want to lecture by fire by force

I trust the guy die. one of the most rebelious, non-conformist i know.

im dressing never still change for 10 yrs now

sparkle Red: Kelvin u jump reach d level wey u dey nw abi? Btw i miss those arrow bois ooh..cnt wait 4 dem 2 resume, am sure some of dem re on NL

it is "aro" not "arrow"

i used to be a member of the ABN (Aro Broadcasting Network) at Hall 3, Block B. this was 2002. good old days mehn.

Uniben, i wan mad o.

Elizabethoni: No mind d aprokos..na lie o,dem no fit cook,I'm not his wife,he shld come to my house if he wants to test my culinary skills...bla bla bla...na dem go dey tell d guy,"y don't u let me cook rather than eating out today...it would save us money u know"...

Nobody holy pass oh...a<b>s a matter of fact,a guy that doesn't find it interesting for his gf to cook for him is still a baby and not ready for commitment...</b>not all men like food but real men enjoy home-made food and respect a woman that can cook perfectly!

My Man loved me more the first time I cooked for him and still tells me how much he loved it,he still doesn't eat out and compliments my cooking... we've been married for over 2yrs...

the bolded is sometimes true too sha

no rule fits all. depends on the parties involved.

personally, I prefer she doesnt cook for me @ my house. if i visit her, she cooks for me. if she visits me, i cook (or buy take-away) for her.

but if she wants it and insists then i have no prob allowing her.

ogugua88: My mother and I had this discussion just yesterday. I showed her a picture of a guy that was trying to get close to my sister and I. Her response? "Some guys don't date within their caliber." I was telling her, if I were a man, I'd evaluate myself inside and out and toast accordingly, for the girl I want should have no reason to reject me. I wouldn't be surprised if many of the guys who bash Naija women in this section are the lacking guys going for Kim Ks.

I've always wanted to open a thread for women to share their toasting experiences (but I haven't because I already know the result of such a thread). The kind of offers some of us get are ridiculous, and we're still made out to be witches. If I tell you I was asked out on a date by a homeless man at a train station, who would believe me? Yet it's true lol.

That's always been my motto anyway. If you want the best, then be the best and attract the best. A guy who is seriously trying to get a woman should give her no reason to say no. You don't have to be wealthy or even handsome. Just carry yourself well. If you're lacking in some areas, then make up for it elsewhere. You're not handsome? Then be compassionate. You don't have a job? Then put your skills to work and tell her your plans. No man or woman is without a flaw. Any man who puts his best foot forward can get the woman he desires. After all his attempts, if she says no, then the man isn't the problem.

Your post is a breath of fresh air, DN. Well done.

i was about to disagree with you until I saw the bolded. My take is every poor man has a right to desire a hot KimK as every poor or ugly girl has the right to desire a Psquare or a Dangote. To each his own. The issue is when you castigate the other party for not accepting your advances.

"She is materialistic" - Yes, that is what she considers as value to her. You wey want hot babe, aren't you vain?
"He thinks he can get any girl because of his money" - dont you think you can get anything cos of ur stunning looks too


but seriously, there are guys who consider kimK to have little value. the hot body is not all there is.
also there are babes who dont consider a guy's wealth as "condierable value" he brings to the party.