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cococandy:
Here we go again

Feel free to embarrass your wife.
When she asks same of you as she does for you, it becomes feminism.

Classic nonsense

I rather said ur question smacks of feminism,then I provided ur answer,just read my comment again.
What I meant by feminism in ur post is that women thinks that its a must that a formula that works for men can also works for women,which may or may not be so.
We both may have different ideas of handling that issue,and we will adopt the most effective...and I just suggested the one that will work for me(or the Op's husby if he is my kind of person)

Mondisweets:
I hope you will be all ears when your wife talks daily about her ex she still has a soft spot for too

I will rather feel insecured if she is secretive abt it.

byvan:
Will you do this for your wife to get over her eX?

feminism speaks here. Anyway,we must get over it somehow,in her own way or my way. Mind u,there is no formula,it depends on the person involved nd the kind of attachment they habour.

ernie2007:
I am not protecting anything i am trying to do what is right for the child, like i said, i will talk to him and not tell his mother this one, if he does it again after talking to him, i will report. I am surprised that he did not ask me for the money because he used to ask me for money to buy recharge cards and church offerings. I would not like it if he distance himself from me and exhibit this character outside, i would rather have him ask me for stuff even if i cant or dnt give him. I think talking to him will have a better effect in this situation, if talking does not work. I will report. Though i am beginning to think this is not the first time he has done this to me, cos am as careless as careless can be and i would hate to watch my back anytime he is in my house.

let me tell u, in all my waywardness during childhood,I was only caught once,and I wasn't reported.
It made me go underground after,develop more tricks nd be more subtle. Please u have a chance now. Whatever u do,don't give the child an impression that what he did is a light thing. let me stop here.

@op, what are u trying to protect by not telling the mom? The boys reputation,his friendship,shame or what?
I don't want to say something that's in my mind,cos I had a similar experience as a kid,and I wish I was reported by pple who knew then.

No wonder GEJ isn't involved in the back and forth arguement with the APC,he is silently proving the difference through works.

LordReed:
LoL, this all sounds nice until you realize that people don't change because of another person, they do because they want to. A lovey dovey wife might make it easier but if you never put in the effort those inappropriate feelings will remain no matter how loving the wife is. This is why some men can still cheat on beautiful loving wives.

yeah dats right for some men depending on what they want. My advice was hinged on the premise that "if her husband is like me,my kind of person". I think i am within the normal perimeter of a man,their are abnormals/extremes though.

@op,i ve been reading comments here and i must say that you must have been adviced accordingly.
However,you must know something about some men, there is that one lady you will have unconditional love for,who in most cases wont be ur wife. She may be ur first love,ur perfect ex,an uncompensated lover or a childhood friend. They are always in ur heart no matter what.
I have such feeling,and its like part of me.

Now my advice,if am ur husband(*laughs*)i will want my wifey to get closer to me in this time,when i see that she is closer than before,i will open up to her abt that ex,be telling her everything on daily basis,we can joke abt it atimes,i will also want my wife to learn why i had that soft spot for that ex,so she can flow with me.
With time the love that she showers on me and the mood we share about the matter will sway my heart to regard my ex as an ex,thats only worth joking abt over lunch. And in that way,u will use ur love to overshadow that affection that ur husby has,tho it wont completely vanish,but ur husby wont backstab u cos u are in the pics.
But on a serious note,ur husby's facebook account is not married,or else he wouldnt be behaving that way. There is a way married people handle social media these days.

The best reason for almajiri school system. Thanks to the federal Govt present initiative

The north wants to win power over to their side through intimidation.
This is not democratic at all

obiak4:
many things bro number 1 have segregated my body(bleep 200......+) women,whores,and the likes I need it like seriously and to find true luv afterwards.

you can be forgiven by God,he is merciful.
You jst need to give ur life to christ,he will give u the power to be Gods son

obiak4:
MFM ABI HOPE THEY STILL DO DELIVERANCE BECAUSE I NEED ONE FOR MYSELF

lol. U need deliverance? From what?

Hmmmm. Exactly what we were taught in a retreat seminar yesterday.
My questions:
1: must the will of God for you in marriage make the marriage a bliss,as in no problem at all. When the op and proponent of this idea talk,the suppose that becus the spouse is nt Gods will,thats why there is problem. In otherwords saying that the one thats Gods will is a perfect union.
2: can a brother know or even like a sister as per her pedigree,and then ask God to show him signs to comfirm if she is the right one,sincerely?. It seems from the proponents that the will of God must be somebody outside ur friends circle,infact a stranger.
3: can a brother who loves a certain sister submit his written interest(testimony) to the marriage committe on the ground that he loves the sister sincerely and wud want her as a wife,as in no dream,vision,revelation or any such kind of foreknowing?
4: even the people that asserts to have married their God willed spouse still have problems in marriage,so what is the place of patience,tolerance and consideration in marriage?
Plz i need matured answers,

Wow. Oga presido,oil price has fallen ooo!!!! If u haven't heard it before,hear it now.
I use to think that by now, Gej would have transferred some of the presidential jets to the Nigerian airways to revive that corporation.
I hope he remembers that moribund company(one out of the countless govt companies that has fallen into disuse)

AMINDA:
Everything said in this report are comments from the President's aide and members of the PDP. This is another attempt by PDP and Vanguard to cause hatred in order to ensure maximum support in their only stronghold. It will backfire again as it always has.

its true bro. Sule lamido said something like this when the central mosque kano was attacked.

trendygirl:
Can't he just be using that his car as cab in abuja. Abuja cab drivers make good money.

asin? With the high tfare. Lesson: as much as we look for the messiah that will eradicate corruption in nigeria,he should ensure that the system doesn't encourage corruption,or else new tricks will be invented out of necessity.

Lawlessness in Nigeria amazes the elites.

Don't take me too serious. But u limited our views to evidence alone. Can u write on "privileged communication versus counter-terrorism;a critique of the terrorism Act". Success 2u

Hard to find a gal with 4 and 7, and being the hardest to find,they are the most important to me.

Yungwizzzy:
12. Marry someone who is light-skinned

including the bleached ones? Time will tell the true colour.

Ok. We will still know who the real owner is.

That's why they never progress in their enterprise...because they are sycophants,sinking with the govt. Check almost all the state owned radio n Tv corporation,they are way behind their private owned competitors.

That historic announcement go be like a whistle blown for athletes.

DGKN:
She's was d one daht approached me.

wow. I will appreciate it if some experienced mind will shed light on the new twist. This girl was the one that came for my guy,and I think he is still banking on that as a sign that there is hope in waiting.

Thanks to the OP. This was(and to an extent still)my bane. Troubled me back then in school. What I do now is to avoid looking at her face,look in another direction,think of another thing,or manufacture immediate hate for her so that her darts won't get me.
Men in this world are like fishes in the water,but thanks to those ordained to be fishers of men.

Inadequate town planning laws and enforcement.

Its good for the court to strike the case out so that they can start up the case again,though the time is short. 2015 is here.

They need a helper,their family needs a helper,she wants to go with the trend,she is racing against menopause,and her assets shrinks with time...so there is urgent need for a buyer. Women are like fruits,it sells when its fresh.

Zoharariel:
Thank you, my brother. The American & the British governments know GMB is a bad market for their agenda.

They know GMB will not hesitate to sideline & cut them off, just like he did to them in 1984, resulting in the I.B.B coup d'etat in August 1985, which was a C.I.A & MI6 backed plot.

Our concern now should be GMB's safety because we do not need star gazers & astrologers to tell us the C.I.A & MI6 will throw hits at him again just like they attempted in Kaduna.

was it no longer BH that wanted to kill him in kaduna?

Nigeria leader denigrating our national institutions and still expecting the masses to comply obediently. Obj shud be committed for contempt,no one is above the law.
Ask urself," if all litigants shud act in this way,where will our judiciary sanctity be?
Later he will be looking for who spoiled nigeria.

Its a pity when people still think this way. Boko haram is not a pdp,apc,gej,sls,gmb's affair. Its a loosed canon,a hydra headed monster. Look to the middle east for inspiration.

bayulll01:
u are one of the most sensible people av ever set my eye on,nigeria the most useless and pathetic country in the whole continent pls send me the contact Tunisia pls I beg you

see u,u are the most gullible person I ve ever met on NL. No offence but you need to be a man.