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@EzePromoe
as much as i understand your stand on this issue (to each their own), you have to remember one thing... the cootie cat area stimulation is one of the surest ways to arouse your woman, and as much as licking it may be against your beliefs, it is the most powerful way to interact with the coochie.

as for you claiming that the act is deadly and a source of STDs etc, it sure aint no different than any deadly STDs a woman would get while going down on you.

Saronna:
Every action has an equal and opposite reaction.

then i certainly would hate to see what will happen when your husband EQUALLY "reacts" to your sudden madness, and deals with you accordingly.

Taolyn4lif:
Who is forcing who?

here is a clue: if a lady says she doesnt want to meet a guy any longer, he "can" ask her why, but when she tells him the reason then he should accept it and move on. insulting her while begging her in the same sentence (like a pycho), lying through his teeth claiming that she was rude, while trying to make her believe that this is how all men act, is certainly NOT accepting her decision.

A40:
I agree partially they really should have pitted but that is one way of looking at it. They also probably thought and ended up trying to build a lead then pit knowing fully well they might not have won another face off with the Mercs.
Still but for Alonso's m0ronic driving Vettel was winning that race easy. When Alonso is at fault in a collision with Esteban goddamn Gutierrez you realize how much the mighty have fallen
Another Championship? Alonso is likely not winning another race never mind Championship. He's done braah

come on bro, Alonso crashed on lap 17 (out of 57) and Ham got on medium tyres a lap before, that means Ferrari had plenty of time to REACT, and they foolishy didnt. why blame anyone but them?!

as for blaming Alonso for that crash, or remotely claiming that great drivers dont crash with careless drivers (who are swerving all over the track), i can only blame such poor statement on your usual biased views towards Alonso. during the F1 after race, Anthony Davidson clearly showed Gutierrez steering wheel swerving where Alonso was trying to overtake, thus being the reason for the damn collision. Alonso is only being diplomatic about the issue because he aint fighting for the championship anyway (with such dreadful car)

as for winning again, he only needs a good (not even great) car to do that...... just watch!

Taolyn4lif:
And what if we have different opinions/observations about the conversation?

then thats ok, but you cannot force this lady to accept your opinion/views, and therefore you both go your separate ways

Saronna:
How! So ur telling me she should let him talk to his "ex" every night and smile pretending as if nothings happening?!

probably not, but i doubt that "dealing with them" can solve anything, far from it. your violent ways will only give him tools to use against you, and possibly ruin a business deal.
mature COMMUNICATION is the only solution here.

What kinda bussines is diccussed at midnight?

i dont know as i dont have a crystal ball, but it certainly isnt impossible to only have free time at night to discuss such dealings. if they are busy with other jobs during the day then night time would be the only time to discuss. if she is a mother and have a family of her own to deal with then only when the kids are asleep could she be free to discuss business. would that be so far fetched or do you women see everything NEGATIVE as soon as another woman is involved?
mature COMMUNICATION is the only solution here.

And does this bussines discussions have more priority than his wifes feelings?

what a selfish statement!!! so now just because you aint cool with your men's business dealings, he should stop them to accommodate your low self esteem and insecurities, without having a mature discussion about the issue 1st?!
mature COMMUNICATION is the only solution here.

He clearly doesn't CARE!

bwaaaaaaah! women are quick to throw the above statement when they have no valid point to bring to the table. why dont you explain to us why your feelings should be more important than your husband making money?
actually he does care... but obviously he cares more about his business. again, your feelings are important but NOT a priority in a family's wellbeing. get over it.

I'm sure if it was vise versa he would break the phone and the marriage! Talk about hypocrisy!!

he probably would but is it RIGHT?!

kokaneprodigy:
My own be say y'all can't take anything from those merc cars, they gonna dominate this season as well. Hate it or love it. teamMercedesAMG_petronas, team Hamilton

there wasnt any "dominance" last weekend and they barely got away with that one... or did you miss the few last laps when Vettel was creeping on Ham (until he made that biatch mistake)?

why is everyone talking about dikc size as if this would make any difference?! so you guys believe that women should only participate/interact in the bedroom when the dikc hit the right spot?! bwaaaah highly laughable!!!!

here is a clue: if she is stiff as a log during f0replay then you shouldnt even continue, until she shows some sort of desire for you to continue (or her to participate). only a very desperate/depraved or cruel man would happily bang that log away, as if all was great/normal... i mean, what/where would the satisfaction be in mounting such gal anyway?

sadly, many of our African brothas are inadequate in the bedroom, and therefore they actually believe that violating (aka hurting her as hard as they can) could solve the issue, because pain and discomfort is "interaction" in their mind.

Taolyn4lif:
The guy's problem is that he talks too much

there is a big difference between talking a lot AND talking down on someone. one you will listen while being bored, the other you will listen while being offended.

Saronna:
Wow , how are you still calm? Do you have any blood in ur vein?! Any self respect!?? If my husband's ex called him at midnight and he answers in front of me!! huh well I would deal with him and her. U need to talk to him now and be serious about it! Does he care about ur feelings at all? Ur pride? I Pity you oo

after reading the above, we can clearly understand that in your world everything is about you, you and only YOU.... i do feel sorry for the man who has to live "under" you command.
to each their own misery.

psycho alert!!!! that gal dodged a bullet and should thank her stars.

since it is Africans who elect these bastard poli"thief"ians (who mismanage and rob the continent's wealth for their own selfish agenda), it is only the African people (as a whole) that should be blamed.

but let us not fool ourselves and understand that whites are just the same as us, they just have a few more people sharing/controlling the wealth at the top, and they grow their wealth in places where the economy is more stable (aka the west). if anyone believe that Bill gate is actually Rich then you are mistaking... families like the Rothschild and Rockefeller whose banking empire is worth +100trillions are the real people controlling the world. they own reserve/central banks of countries all over the world (yes, the Central bank of Nigeria too!!!!), and we all know that whoever controls the money supply, controls the world.

of course she aint pregnant, this photo surfaced back in sept 2015... and if she was indeed pregnant, she would have popped the child by now.

@cliquevibes
a lady is suppose to COMPLETE her man (and vice versa), if she doesnt then she is just a disposable property/employee of that said man.

she may be shy ...and therefore cant act out. have you tried turning the lights off and see if it helps in the dark?

she may be too "holy" ...and through listening to her pastor, believe that sex is solely for procreation and only ashis perform in the bedroom.

she may NOT know what to do ... and since you havent said anything, she thinks all is ok. show her how she "could" move/interact with you

she may be uninterested ...communicate with her to understand what she desires in the bedroom, and what turn her engine on, if anything.

put her on the spot ... as you guys are getting it on, talk to her and ask her to lead you. let her sometimes be in charge through bedroom games, and simply say:" today is your day and i will lie here motionless while you do me"

that dress looks great for a wedding dress... simple, stylish and definitely sexy!

@Gistmack
how could you forget my 2 favourites:
the bottom of their feet if the gal has clean feet then kissing and munching on her feet can trigger some powerful reaction, especially via the bottom of her feet

her closed eyes, tell her to close her eyes as you kiss her neck then ears and finishing by kissing her closed eyes... if she doesnt flinch, she is all yours.

also, the back of her knees is a great spot.

@Oleku93
bro, we cant really judge your gal's actions, as she could simply be very gullible and friendly, like that. but something that is CERTAIN here is that, you do NOT trust her, and when the trust is gone in a union, it is difficult to have an healthy rewarding r/ship. therefore you must ask yourself if it is really what you want... the stress alone isnt worth going down that road.

you cant look at all the positive side of this person, immaturely believe that you can remove whatever you dont like about her (through control/pressure/blackmail or whatever), and think that you will ever be happy in such one sided selfish r/ship. you just CANT!!!!! you have to let this woman be HERSELF, let her show you who she is without any interference/advices from you, and study/discover who she really is.... and possibly be attracted and fall in love with THAT person. that person is the only one that matters because thats who you will ultimately end up with (when all the fakeness is gone).

i know that you may like this gal a great deal, but if you dont like her enough to TRUST/RESPECT her fully, then this is a waste of time/energy/life, unless you just want someone close to "mount" some time to time.

ramuona:
My issue is that I'm naturally jealous. Why do business with her? Since September last year.. Business I have not seen.. Or heard the business name. He can do business but not talking and chatting all the time. If I'm talking to him he will be busy chatting with her.... If I come close he hides his phone.
My issue is not self esteem... My issue is that I'm jealous they talk all the time + laughing too (to my hearing .. Even in mid night. She calls him

there are few issues here:
- you are jealous, well this is a problem with YOU, and therefore YOU need to find mature ways to change in order to live a fruitful life. your husband will have to smile and laugh with women in his life, whether you can take it or not. expecting others to change, and subsequently act inadequately, in order to accommodate you and your unhealthy way of life, is not only UNFAIR to your partner, but also WRONG towards the wellbeing of your family, in so many ways.

- why do business with her, are you insinuating that because she is his ex, he should never do business with her, even if it is beneficial to your family's wellbeing? with such mindset, your family can never "win" and find peace.

- you are suspicious that something is fishy, well sit this man down and communicate openly about your worries, and find a healthy mature solution (asking him to never talk to her again is NOT one of them). if it is indeed business dealings, he shouldnt have any reason to hide anything from you, and could explain the late calls... but then again, if he knows that you are the jealous type which takes everything out of proportion, then no wonder he doesnt want to show you his phone. the important part is that you have to trade carefully here and try to come to some form of amicable understanding between the two of you, instead of a clash that would have him not talking to you.
btw smiling to a business partner is normal, unless you expect him to fight with partners?

A40:
Shaken? Your wasteman Alonso pretty much cost the Vettelmeister the race! Why can't he just retire and spare us the ignominy of watching him crawl to the finish every other week, its not like he is ever going to challenge for another title

Prior to the crash Vettel had that race in the bag. Just ran out of laps to pass Hamilton. I'm confident my boy would be in the running this year. He is the only one that can break the Merc monopoly

come on bro, we arent gonna start this F1 season with bias statement like the one above in bold!!!! although the red flag was a decisive point of the race, Vettel could have still won the race if Ferrari had taken the RIGHT decision then and pitted for medium. so blame Ferrari for that 3rd place finish, nobody else... same with Ricciardo.

yes, Vettel showed that he is up there with a great chance to give Mercs a run for their money (and make this season a possible gem) but i believe that Ricciardo is up there too.

as for saying that Alonso is finished, i beg to differ... and i will go even further and say that i believe he will win another championship before he retires.

gullible Nigerians believing any photoshop BS they see online since ever!

there is nothing wrong with someone sticking to their cultural heritage, and if it may offend a few, then let them mind their own business?

there are 24 other countries who participated and left without a single medal, such as Portugal, Switzerland, Sweden, Belgium, SA, Brazil etc

but my question is: where did you realistically believe that Nigeria had any chance of medals with the 7 athletes (apart from the relays) they had over there?! finishing 4th in the 4x400 women's relay, while timing their season best, is a "good" result.

Painfulife:
I have been wondering whether or not demon could be the cause of gay feelings?
Share your opinion please?

but of course, the devil is the direct cause for anything that your holy book is against, and everything that it stand for (aka good) is from god.

now all you sheep can peacefully go to sleep.

mineANDurs:
Goan sleep kid, gentlemen barely disturb their wives for sex after watching her go tru d stress of childbirth. Most women will even prefer not to have sex with their hubby ever again after experiencing childbirth but time they say heals all wound. They both need time to recover physically and emotionally.

again, stop showing your bias state of mind by believing that everything in this issue is about WOMEN. but, as i see that you are clueless about what MEN go through, let me educate you on the issue, aunty:
- there are married men who turn away from sex because witnessing childbirth can be a traumatic experience that puts them off completely.
- there are married men that turn away from sex due to the sometimes unattractive sight of their pregnant wives and/or post birth physique.
- there are married men that turn away from sex after childbirth because they believe that, now that they have a child, they have done their duty and dont need to have sex with that woman again (especially in arranged marriages)
- there are married men that turn away from sex because they dont believe they can ever pleasure a woman that had a baby's head enlarge their vag1nas to an unrealistic size.

the list as to why men "could" turn away from sex after childbirth is endless, so stop thinking that this is all/only about women.

vjpearl:
Good evening ladies and gentlemen,God bless you all.

This is a true life story,please I need your comments and advice..

My name is Dominic,I'm a student of cross river university of technology,Ogoja campus,level 200.I am 17 years old,I am an orphan and an only child of my late parents.

My parents died in a ghastly motor accident on their way to ogoja l.g.a in cross river state two years ago.(r.i.p)
My uncles have taken everything away from me,because I'm young,and besides I can't fight them cos they're evil.

I live with my maternal grandmother and two aunt's in ogoja,those are the people catering for me since my parents died last two years but things have gotten worse,that we hardly have food to eat,talk more of providing my school needs which are of great importance to all of us.

I'm in my year two already,and I can say I've tasted little suffering.
I have done different kinds of jobs,but u know jobs with good pay aren't easy to come by these days,all the jobs I engage in don't give me even quarter of the money I need in school,it's just so sad.
But I know that with God all hope is not lost,and he'll always make a way when all doors seem closed.

This is my first topic on NL,I'm here to seek advice from you all,please help me so that I don't drop out of school,education means alot to me,and I know it's a pathway to greatness,and this is the only way to repay those who catered for me up till this sad moment where their hands are tied.

Please what can I do earn enough money to buy textbooks,feed and other school necessities..Please help.Thanks.

A) why would you even seek money for textbooks and school necessities when you cant even get a decent meal?! GET YOUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHT!!!!
if your grandma/aunts cant even get decent feeding then you should FORGET about schooling for the time being and instead seek for ways to provide proper feeding for the whole family. your academic dreams MUST be put on hold until the situation at home gets better. dont be selfish thinking that textbooks are more important right now than a decent meal for your whole family.

B) why would an uneducated person seek for a well paying job anyway?! GET YOUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHT!!!!
stick to these low paying jobs until you have a better option, instead of coming on NL expecting handouts.

C) why would you even lose hope, and believe that doors are closed, when you can get a low paying job, while many Nigerians cant even get ANY job whatsoever (whether low paying or otherwise)?! GET YOUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHT!!!!
be grateful for the little that comes your way, instead of using God to dream of what you dont deserve yet!

whether over infidelity or whatever miserable reason under the sun, anyone who commits suicide (aka doesnt have any respect for life) deserve to ROT IN HELL

all people in attendance are smiling and having a good time, no beef!

ramuona:
My hubby is still chatting and calling his ex. He claims they are discussing business, another reason he gave is that his brother needs the lady's assistance . I have told him severally I don't like it that am jealous. Since morning they have been talking... Calling each other. I complained again he got angry and stopped talking to me. I don't have my ex's phone number anymore. I don't talk with my ex. I have also told him to put himself in my shoes. If I'm the one talking and laughing with my ex.. How would he feel.

Please family... Am I over reacting? Pls I need your advice on how to handle this. What better way can I tell him I'm jealous.

if we understand you clearly, just because YOU dont have any contacts with your ex, means that your husband shouldnt have any with his?

what is your issue really? if he says they have business dealings then let him show that to you. or shoudnt he go into any profitable business with her simply because you low self esteem cant handle it?!

Electronzeez:
As silly as the topic seems , I need your sincere Contribution on this , techy or non tech gurus are all invited to say why they upgrade/update their mobile phones.

Do you just upgrade because everyone is doing so, do you upgrade because your device is prompting you to do so.Whatever the reason please share it here , as you do you will be helping me to aid my research .

Thanks

the same reason why we upgrade car/clothing etc