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firstking01:
Enough of the self deception, if you have money you must spend on your girlfriend, unless except your brokeness is taprooted or hereditory....

We complain cos either we don't have money to spend on our girlfriends

or we do not just love the girl

spending on a gf means you "love" her, and if you dont spend the money on her then it means you "dont love" her!?!?!?!?!

...not saying this cos i have money or something, but this is just the plain truth

...relationship and money work in paripasu...

ok, how do you feel when a girl you love so dearly ask you for a lil assistance and you look her in the face and tell her, bae "sorry i don't have", need i tell you that there are 70x70 other guys she has been turning down waiting to give her the money, but she has refused them cosa you.

philcupid:
Of recent, the act of having children out of wedlock under the celebrity name of BABY MAMA. Many youths nowadays take glory in having these abominations many following their favourite musician(almost all musicians have children and only very few are married).
Is this now a self induced norm by our generation, some of my friends take it so seriously claiming that If Davido could do so and remain blessed then God didn't see it as a big thing? Some on social media flaunt their pregnant girlfriends whom they have a 10%chance of marrying as baby MAMAs, this was once viewed as an abomination in the time of old before some of our crazy celebrities came to light
What's the craze for the abnormalities about?

Mindfulness:
I am happy to hear it. I am great too, I love life.
It's nice having a discussion with you again.

The premise that you need someone else to feel love and loved is flawed. You can be full of love for yourself and life itself and just feel great.
Most people believe that they need a partner to feel love and to feel loved but it is not true.

You limit yourself when you believe that you need a partner and that you need your partner to behave in a certain way (be loving and caring) to feel love. I feel love all day, every day, for lots of people, the world, life, myself, my car, my job, my pets, my kids, my parents, my siblings, my friends, food, nature. I do not depend on any person / relaionship to feel love.

And there are people who have not been hurt but simply discovered that the monogamous relationships they were conditioned into having one day do not suit their nature. Some people love being alone. Some people prefer flings to relationships. Others love their careers, music or art.
I have the feeling that you believe that everyone is like you.

A40:
All na mind phuck. The last two years have been boring make we leave story. In the Vettel era only in 2011 and 2013 did he have the dominant car so they are about even. 2010 and 2012 we witnessed arguably the best title race in recent history

For this year I still think Seb is the only legit challenger

Godswillnwaoma:
I will never take you because you lack manners.

Stupedinluv:
You are sure its just a preference? Am i not suppose to prefer people who are close by?

Joysmith2:
A man was caught yesterday in Edo state who derives joy in sleeping wit peoples wives, he was beating mercilessly by the angry mob,,because dey said dis is not the first time he has be caught, same happened last year by d same man,,,.

tripplephi:
GOD HAS NEVER BEEN IRRELEVANT. GOD'S NOT DEAD

Mindfulness:
MrBrownJ,

long time. I hope you are fine.

I must admit that I very much enjoy reading your contributions and I agree with most of them.

However, I disagree with this one. Human beings are very different and there are many people out there who value independence more than a committed relationship.

tripplephi:
Lols. You forgot to add people with God and people without God.... All this stuff in the picture is crap. God is the ultimate and he is not religious.... Religion takes people to hell. God who owns heaven seeks relationship with the creatures he created and that's why he sent Jesus to us.... Anyway.... He is the only way to heaven. Good character is relative ND can never be generic. So your good moral conduct won't make it to heaven, y? Cos it's according to your myopic view of life.... ONLY the all seeing all knowing almighty sees the complete picture and set the standards. God is the ultimate referee of eternity o not good deeds.

Zceesneh:
not me

namedonfinish:
no oooooo... datz a creative drawing according to d op...

Strahovski1:
I'm Asian, my wife is English. I wasn't really comparing black or white. I just answer d op

deepchocolate:
Hummm...Thanks bro . This is so painful .!!!
My sister is even telling me that , the fact is she can not tell me point blank she has someone.
So she told me the truth half way , which probably explain her arrogance.
Why dont she focus on the one she almost dated and leave me alone. It hurt !

namedonfinish:
wow, lovely drawing...
Nigerians are very creative..

Datevilme:
I have noticed that the issue of hitting a woman is a very touchy subject. Most people are of the opinion that a man should never hit a woman, no matter the reason or situation. Now lets consider the following situations:

1. You catch a woman red handed trying to lure and kidnap your child...is it ok to hit her?
would beating her then solve any problem?!

2. You experience your wife, girlfriend, sister, or mother being robbed and beaten by another woman...is it ok to hit her?
at that moment you should PROTECT your wife the best way you can... and sadly, beating that other person aint it

3. You catch a woman red handed stealing your hard earned money or property...is it ok to hit her?
beat her so that she can use that against you to smokescreen her evil deeds? btw how would beating her solve anything?

4. A woman physically attacks you, and you have to defend yourself...is it ok to hit her?
THIS here is the only reason why i believe a man has the RIGHT to beat a woman (aka if she has no respect for you and decide to attack you then you must protect yourself and give her the exact same medicine

I really want to know your opinions on this...