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ENIMONEY:
all these are excuses you would use to justify cheating in marriages? a man that would cheat would cheat, doesn't matter what you do. all am saying is more men should try to make their homes work. am not here to play the blame game. temptation must come, the moment you are married a lot of temptation will come that will make you feel like you have an excuse but you don't. you made an oath and you should keep to your vow no matter what.

we all know that to solve a problem you have to check the source of it.... many weak men cheat due to the reasons i posted above. dismissing these issues will only have you women fail time and time again. and let me say it ONE MORE TIME: if ALL women were decent women then these men would have nobody to cheat with... and its because many of you women are willing to sleep with married/taken men that we can NEVER solve this issue . that would be as silly as blaming prostitution on the men who pay for these ashewos, without putting EQUAL blame on these women who gladly sell their charms at street corners.

Chidoks:
You see, you men have corrupted yourselves because you feel you can do whatever you wish but like the op said God will judge all of you
You expect us to divorce you on the ground of adultary right? How many of you have married divorcees? OK, how many of you respect divorcees without calling her the p name at the slightest provocation.
What happens to the children?
The fact that we accommodate your it responsibilities doesn't mean we are the cause thereof.

the reason why your uncle and other men think in such a poor way is RIGHT THERE IN BOLD!!!! the day you women will act RIGHT is the day some men will possibly think of changing their ways, but until then, keep bringing whatever excuses under the sun in order to stay with a cheating disrespectful man.

whether men want to marry divorcees or not is irrelevant to the subject of DOING WHATS RIGHT when discovering that your man is cheating.
how can you expect these men to change when you openly say that you will accommodate their irresponsibilities (out of desperation)? of course, you are the reason they will NEVER change, why should they?! they have their cake and eat it too.

You call her fat right, do you know that the fluids from you is fattening, child bearing is fattening, contraceptives are fattening too.
You guys do age too. You grow tummy, you grow bigger do we misbehave because of that no because its a question of discipline, you hear me? It's a question of discipline!!!

again, STOP making excuses for you desperate state of mind. if you are willing to accept potbellied monsters, then thats all on you... i am just telling you that men would rather cheat with young sexy women instead of trying to settle with their "now" baby whale desperate wives.

@Jadekitana
from what you just wrote we can now understand your poor state of mind...

That's because 99.9 percent of you men are always interested in the cookie!

so instead of just turning a man down, the solution is to string him along?! btw do you know that there are many ways to satisfy a man sexually with no penetration?! btw is there anything wrong with being interested with something that women like you use as bait?!

When a lady gives in too early, she's considered a cheap slut, when she doesn't she bcoms a gold digger.

are you now confirming that you are a golddigger?!

And even after waiting for years the day he hits it, excuses starts coming!

if a man waits for years, only to realise that the toto is no better than that of any ashi out there, then no wonder these guys are pissed!
unless there are gold leaves in that toto, and it is filled with diamonds, i see no reasons why a non virgin adult man should wait for years to mount a toto, NONE.

That's how men are wired from 100bc so we need to be careful how we open our legs.

there is a huge difference between being careful and wasting someone's time while pushing them to their sexual limits.
you are deluded if you write the above and yet act surprised when these same "sexually wired" men show you how they cope when they are stringed along by clueless women.

let me educate you on the issue:
the golden rule IS: toto comes a dime a dozen, and men can get sex EVERYWHERE. the smart ones get it for free while the novices spend good money for it, until they finally learn the golden rule. sadly, some women are selling their totos on street corners for nothing so the real value of women aint in their totos, its in their abilities to satisfy their men WITHOUT it. the point here is that you can DATE a man and discover him properly, make him happy and reward each other with affection/satisfaction etc, with no sex involved. you will end up much further in life instead of using your toto as a carrot and having "donkeys" foolishly run after it... because the majority of times these men A) get their groove on with other women while making you think that they aint (but you know that already), B) ultimately want to hit the toto to recoup the time/money invested, and NOT because they give a damn about you, and C) they get so emotionally desperate that they end up falling for the 1st one willing to show them any kind of affection.

the most silly part in all this is that you women will try to make it look like its only us men who enjoy sex, and that you gals are doing us a favour. NONSENSE!

who lives in that house?

Jadekitana:
You can imagine the rate at with conji be killing some guys! to say i'm disappointed is an understatement. I'v been friends with this guy for some months,he's been on my case and has agreed to give me all the time I need before we start dating.

I was on my own last night when he invited me to go take sharwarma somewhere around.
We were just gisting normally about life and next thing he said was he's getting really bored and there's a new place on the island he would like to take me to.

We got there, I noticed the bouncers were really fierce looking! I got scared and asked him why they had 6 hefty bouncers,he just laughed and said it's cos the place is new. He quickly paid for VIP and when they opened the door first thing I saw was a fair beautiful girl stark naked dancing holding a pole. There were about 10ladies or more completely naked, with guys having fun with them!

I didn't bother to proceed to the VIP, I left in annoyance, boarded a cab and deleted his number sharply.

A guy who takes a lady to a strip club to watch other naked ladies and probably partake in frolicking with them can never be serious in a relationship! Quote me anywhere.

if you did what was RIGHT from the onset, and not string him along for months (under the guise of some people r/ship), then this man probably wouldnt have to quench his sexual frustration by going to strip clubs. the good part in this issue is that, at least, now he doesnt have to spend money on a smoke dream.

women who ask men (not virgin teenagers) to wait for MONTHS, while not "helping" them in any way whatsoever... are setting themselves for failures.

you women are so funny!!!! as much as these men are doing something wrong, YOU have to take EQUAL part of the blame in this issue.

A) if you women divorced/dumped these cheating men when caught then maybe, just maybe, some of these men would start to act right. but sadly these men know that the majority of 9ja married women wouldnt leave the union because they wanna keep the charade of "happiness in marriage".

B) if some of you women married these men for the RIGHT reason (instead of marrying due to peer/religious/family/social/financial pressure), then maybe, just maybe, these men wouldnt be turned off by you so early on in the union.

C) if there were not so many desperate women out there willing to sleep with married/taken men then maybe, just maybe, these men wouldnt have anyone to cheat on their partner with.

D) if some of you women took better care of your appearance after marriage, and also stop slacking after childbirth (instead of turning into baby whales) then maybe, just maybe, some of these men would actually still desire you sexually.

so as you can see, WOMEN are directly linked with cheating. but please, remember that i am just stating a fact here that would greatly help these men think thrice before cheating... even though some would cheat even if all the above point were met.

Kelklein:
Hint: don't forget this 4 as you count..

these 4 above + the 14 below makes 18...

Uchddaniel:
@ MRBrown: Gbam! but make dem consider her age....lolz thanks for commenting.

let me ask you, if you had inherited a house that some lady was using for free, because your grandparents made a promise to her. what would you do?

18

who goes on social media talking shiit about their employers, while hoping to keep their jobs?! let someone who respect their employer get that position

@Zaicon1
we all know that Christians only follow (from that said Bible) what fit their selfish agenda.

here is more:
MURDER/INFANTICIDE IS OK
- If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother, and that, when they have chastened him, will not hearken unto them: Then shall his father and his mother lay hold on him, and bring him out unto the elders of his city, and unto the gate of his place; And they shall say unto the elders of his city, This our son is stubborn and rebellious, he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton, and a drunkard. And all the men of his city shall stone him with stones, that he die.
Deuteronomy 21:18-21

SLAVERY IS OK
- You may purchase male or female slaves from among the foreigners who live among you. You may also purchase the children of such resident foreigners, including those who have been born in your land. You may treat them as your property, passing them on to your children as a permanent inheritance. You may treat your slaves like this, but the people of Israel, your relatives, must never be treated this way.
Leviticus 25:44-46

CANNIBALISM IS OK
- If in spite of this you still do not listen to me but continue to be hostile toward me, then in my anger I will be hostile toward you, and I myself will punish you for your sins seven times over. You will eat the flesh of your sons and the flesh of your daughters.
Leviticus 26:27-30

- I will make them eat the flesh of their sons and daughters, and they will eat one another’s flesh because their enemies will press the siege so hard against them to destroy them.
Jeremiah 19:9

RAPE IS OK SO LONG AS YOU MARRY YOUR VICTIM
- If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered, he shall pay her father fifty shekels of silver. He must marry the young woman, for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives.
Deuteronomy 22:28-29

MURDER FOR BESTIALITY
- If a man has sex with an animal, he must be put to death, and the animal must be killed.
Leviticus 20:15

BANG YOUR CHILDLESS BROTHER'S WIFE
- Moses wrote for us that if a man’s brother dies and leaves a wife but no children, the man must marry the widow and raise up offspring for his brother.
Mark 12:19

STONING OF NON VIRGNS
- If, however, the charge is true and no proof of the young woman’s virginity can be found, 21 she shall be brought to the door of her father’s house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death. She has done an outrageous thing in Israel by being promiscuous while still in her father’s house. You must purge the evil from among you.
Deuteronomy 22: 20-21

CURSE YOUR PARENTS, YOU DIE
- anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death. Because they have cursed their father or mother, their blood will be on their own head.
Leviticus 20:9

WEARING OF CLOTHING MADE OUT OF DIFFERENT MATERIAL
- Do not wear clothing woven of two kinds of material.
Leviticus 19:19

YOU SIN WITH YOUR ARM; LEG OR EYE, YOU CUT IT OFF
- If your hand causes you to stumble, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life maimed than with two hands to go into hell, where the fire never goes out. And if your foot causes you to stumble, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life crippled than to have two feet and be thrown into hell. And if your eye causes you to stumble, pluck it out. It is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into hell.
Mark 9:43

SOMEONE STEALS FROM YOU, GIVE HIM MORE
- And if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well.
Mathew 5:40

NEVER GETTING A ROUND HAIRCUT OR CUTTING YOUR BEARD
- Do not cut the hair at the sides of your head or clip off the edges of your beard..
Leviticus 19:27

A BASTARD (or any of his descendants) CAN NEVER EVER BE A CHRISTIAN
- No one born of a forbidden marriage (bastard) nor any of their descendants may enter the assembly of the Lord, not even in the tenth generation.
Deuteronomy 23:2

OK TO THROW KIDS ONTO WALLS
- Happy is the one who seizes your infants and dashes them against the rocks.
Psalm 137:9

WOMEN CANNOT TEACH MEN
- I permit no woman to teach or have authority over men; she is to keep silent.
Timothy 2:11

WOMAN TOUCH ANOTHER MAN'S DIKC, CUT OFF HER HAND
- When men fight with one another, and the wife of the one draws near to rescue her husband from the hand of him who is beating him, and puts out her hand and seizes him by the private parts, then you shall cut off her hand.
Deuteronomy 25:11-12

WOMEN UNCLEAN WHILE MENSTRUATING
- When a woman has a discharge, if her discharge in her body is blood, she shall continue in her menstrual impurity for seven days; and whoever touches her shall be unclean until evening. Everything also on which she lies during her menstrual impurity shall be unclean, and everything on which she sits shall be unclean.
Leviticus 15: 19-20.

LOOKING AT A WOMAN IN LUST IS A SIN
- But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Matthew 5:28

CIRCUMCISED MEN CANNOT BE CHRISTIAN
- No one who has been emasculated by crushing or cutting may enter the assembly of the Lord.
Deuteronomy 23:1

SHARE ALL YOUR POSSESSIONS
- Anyone who has two shirts should share with the one who has none, and anyone who has food should do the same.
Luke 3:11

WOMEN MUST PRAY WITH THEIR HEADS COVERED AND NEVER SHAVE THEIR HEAD
- But every woman who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head—it is the same as having her head shaved.
1 Corinthians 11:5

FamouPeopleMag:
The winner of Most Beautiful Girl In Nigeria, 1992, Sandra Petgrave is now in prison. She and the husband, Chiedu Chukwuka were jailed in the United State of America for mortgage fraud worth 5.8 million dollars. The husband was jailed for 9 years while she got 3 years. The couple has 6... http://www.famouspeoplemagazine.com/ex-mbgn-sandra-petgrave-in-prison/

did she get 3yrs or just 18months?

Sandra Petgrave, 43, of Stone Mountain, Georgia, was sentenced on December 4, 2015, to one year, six months in prison, to be followed by three years of supervised release, and ordered to pay restitution in the amount of $1,051,970.77. Petgrave was convicted after pleading guilty on August 18, 2015.

source: US dept of justice website
http://www.justice.gov/usao-ndga/pr/lead-defendant-sentenced-58-million-mortgage-fraud-ring

they want to keep the charade of being married (aka happy) for as long as they can, so that single deluded women out there will be envious of her "married" status, even if deep down she is miserable.

whether 97 or even 150yrs old, the day the owner who made her a promise died, thats the day she was NO more entitled to stay there for free.

its called "breastpleasuring"... babies do it to feed, while men do it for pleasure.

is that not a TOY gun?!

Cutehector:
lol noo, dats called "getting wet". Their kitties just become moist dats all.. the real orgasm itself is just heavenly whch needs more Dan enough stimulation for it to come.

bro, i am sorry to say you are wrong... although what you wrote above is true for many women, there are "lucky" women who can have an orgasm without being touch. i say "lucky" because we all know that a great deal of women never even had one orgasm in their lives (talk less of having one without being touched). if you know what turns your woman on and what act turns her on then you are half way there.
btw if she indeed does get wet then you are half way there.

blackchukky:
Tu habites vous vivez à où exactement à paris

je ne vis plus à Paris, après avoir beaucoup voyagé, je vis maintenant à Rio.

the true way to discover Paris is to lose yourself in that city, interact with French people and immerse yourself fully in the French way of life.
all the above are just French monuments and museum, and after visiting them, you still wouldnt know much about the people of that great city and its wonderful secret spots... that would make you discover a completely different city.
btw I am French, parisian born and bred.

omron:
Fellow Romance landers
How was your day?
I woke up from bed dis morning and noticed different scratch on my chest and lower abdomen, there was traces like using blade to strip my skin
But which animal do u think might have been the culprit behind these scene

there is only ONE animal that could have done that: the mad woman you drunkenly brought home last night

Cutehector:
It is sexually proven Dat a woman can have an orgasm by smooching, sucking the boobs.., urm touching herself, cunnilingus and penetration.


Am I too raw?

the truth can never be too raw?
some of them can even cuum without being touched, just a beautiful/sexy thought going through their mind is all that is needed.

if she came from finger.ing then there is satisfaction/pleasuring but, the fact that she had an orgasm certainly shoudnt be a reason to stop there.

iliyande:
I don't think you are against assault sir. Y?

Read the op story very carefully again.

1. He is not in anyway complaining of being dismissed.

2. All he is saying is that "How I Was Assaulted By My Lebanese Boss Yesterday Morning" and not How I was dismissed this morning.

the OP is painting a picture where the Lebanese guy is wrong on all front while i am just saying that, whether the guy is Lebanese or Thai is irrelevant to this issue.... simply because, what most people on this thread are saying about Lebanese, arabs and Asian IS the definition of racism. go back and read how so many are quick to judge/blame/insult people simply because of their nationality/ethnic group, yet they turn around and cry RACISM? what a bunch of hypocrites! and also, there are 2 issues here (assault and dismissal) and we shouldnt use one to excuse/cover for the other.

mhiz:
This ur statement is so myopic
a) So because a man does his job and provides for family he calls the shots in the home? the importance of the wife depends on how much she contributes to the family? Dude if I want my money to give mi a voice I'll go and buy a large amount of shares in a company, it will give me a voice and its more profitable self.

your contribution towards the wellbeing of the family gives you a voice, if you bring NOTHING to the table, then as faith111 just said, be proud that a man contributes to all the family matters while you have NO say whatsoever in the matter. why should you anyway? at least you can decide what Louboutin pair to buy.

b) Dude if they didn't sign a prenup she entitled to half of all he owns, don't decieve ur self, she leaves with both her luobittonsnd half of all he owns.

what man in his right mind wouldnt sign a prenup in this day and age, knowing fully well that he has a LAZY and/or UNEDUCATED wife who wouldnt contribute a kobo to the family's wellbeing, but instead believes that her money is to buy Louboutin shoes and Gucci bags?
furthermore, even if there is NO prenup, remember that these luxury Louboutin shoes and Gucci bags will be part of the family's wealth. so lets say daddy spends 200k a month to pay for the family home/car notes etc, while mummy uses her salary to buy Louboutin shoes and Gucci bags for 150K each months. come divorce 2 yrs later, we have a family wealth of whatever daddy paid with the 200K monthly + all the luxury shoes and bags that mummy bought. so judge tells mummy to keep her half of the family wealth (aka luxury shoes/bags) while daddy continues doing what he is doing BWAAAAAAAAAAAAH!

c) No sensible and responsible man will need or insist on his wife to spilt the bills with him, except on circumstances when the man is broke and the woman is financially buoyant, then I'll say its okay for the woman to assist.

that's what lazy women are happy to say... dont get it twisted, you are not assisting your man, you are contributing towards the wellbeing of your family. how selfish of you to think that daddy's salary is for the whole family's wellbeing while mummy's salary is for mummy's Louboutin and Gucci bags. daddy shouldnt even ask, and you should instead gladly contribute towards the wellbeing of your family... only a lazy/conceited woman wouldnt. if you believe that the ONLY reason why a gainfully employed wife should contribute to the family, is if the husband is broke, then i am sorry to say that you are living in La La land! the days of our forefathers are over, back in the days that was the norm because women didnt normally work, but today is different. funny how lazy women want to take from that past only what fits their selfish agenda.

A woman should contribute to the upkeep of her family only if she wish to and not because she needs to, to have a say in her marriage, or so that she can have properties yo take with her in the inventuality of a divorce or what ever story/reason you cook up.

dont get me wrong, so i will explain it to you again: it is called a UNION, where both party contributes equally (or as much as they possibly can) towards the wellbeing of the family. many low self esteem men would rather that their wife stay at home, so that such weak men can control their non working broke wives. that man will take all the important decision, as we all know that he who pays the piper, calls the tune. so bringing your share to the table empowers YOU, and put women in decision making position in the family (instead of just a womb). i mean, if she has no income/revenue where will she go when that man decide to get rid of her after 20yrs of joblessness? sadly, many women are happy to play that invisible/minority family role, to each their own.

Faith111:
You are totally biased.
A) When a legally married man divorces his wife, all he has is split...So you are wrong.

a good prenup will sort that out, especially if wifey wants to spend her money on Louboutin shoes while daddy pays for the family's wellbeing.
i guess in your narrow minded way of thinking, since they split everything, daddy will demand for his share of the Louboutin shoes, right?!

B) It should be a woman's pride that her husband calls the shot to important family matters unlike small boys of these days who wait 4 their wives to spoon feed them.

i guess, when a woman has absolutely NOTHING to offer a man apart from her womb, then i understand why she "must" be quiet and act as a servant in the home... but for all the hardworking driven women out there then they should have their own say/input regarding the family, thats why it is a called a UNION.

C) A woman changes her name to dat of her husnhusband when married so has no other name to protect. It is the responsibility of a reasonable man to provide for his wife and make her look flashy.

these are the words of lazy uneducated women who DEMAND that their husband take care of ALL their needs, simply because they have absolutely no power/education/desire to do it for themselves OR the family.

D)If paying for important family needs is a must for all wives, then babysitting, cooking and all important domestic needs is a Must for all Husbands.

YES, contributing towards the family's wellbeing FIRST, instead of Louboutin shoes, is a must for all wifeys. as for cooking and all domestic needs, the housegirl will do that just fine... and as for caring for the baby, when that child is past 3 yrs old, mummy doesnt need to be "babysitting any longer as the child will be going to kindergarden etc

If you know what pregnancy entails. If you know what nursing a Child entails. If you know what domestic cores entails. If you know what home keeping entails...Then You Will Obviously Know a Wife has her clearly defined role which is 'Must' while Man has a Must do...
I work and assist wilfully and its Never MUST.

absolute NONSENSE!!!!! the role of BOTH parents is to work together towards the wellbeing of that said family. a wife must do everything in her power to achieve that. now if you believe that you must stay home and do absolutely NOTHING, from the day that your child starts to go to kindergarden/primary/secondary school then i am sorry to tell you that you are useless towards the wellbeing of that said family.

omoharry:
I am begining to suppect that i have being talking to a Lebanese..your defence for this terrible Lebanese speaks volume..are you an Asian guy? if you are..you guys are terrible people to works..i am being honest here.

i stand by and defend the EMPLOYER (whether yellow, black or green) for his dismissal of the OP, and i am equally against the assault part.

yomi007k:
Hian!

Murder.

The babe is Right-handed. If she shot herself then d blood stain shud be on the opposite side.

Simple.

you almost got it, but the dead person is LEFT handed, check the position of the pen with the letter, the position of the ashtray by that letter AND the cigarette still in the dead person's left hand.... so it is clear that this person is LEFT handed while the gun is in its "right" hand..... clear case of MURDER, the gun was placed in the dead person's (wrong) hand after they were killed!

sam90s:
Genius, so what do you think should happen to the 'master'?
Sounds to me like you've been completely owned

i guess you have a problem reading what i post here, so i will simply copy and paste it for you again:
regardless of their nationality, the boss is guilty of assault while this employee should be dismissed, end of story!

they are lucky they are still breathing...

sam90s:
Dismissed for being assulted?

of course NOT dumbo.... dismissed for not following work procedures and disappearing (aka taking the day off) without consent from his manager/boss.

stop being a fool and passing fake news picked from satire/fake news websites!

Crieff:
Bro... You've no biz using an iPhone if you can't distinguish between a real and a fake.

Really, you do not need an iPhone at all....except you got a FU.... Still unnecessary.

this is by far the most stoopid statement i have heard this week on NL.

just because you handle fake Iphones on a daily means we should all be fake Iphone experts?! highly laughable!!!
here is a clue: Apple stores dont sell fake Iphones