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FamilyRe: Its S€X That Necessary? by MRBrownJ: 10:39pm On Mar 20, 2016
@ LOVEGINO
if you and your wife are genuinely not phased by that then its all good.

mineANDurs:
We need more men like u and less of those thinking thru their pants. U did a good thing letting ur wife have all the tym she nids to recover from the stress of pregnancy and childbirth. kiss
She will surely gv u d signal wen she is ready.
funny how the OP wrote that he AND his wife (aka BOTH) does not desire sex lately, while you understood that "wifey isnt ready for sex therefore thats the reason why they havent had sex, and when SHE will be ready, they will again"
RomanceRe: How Can I Stop Hating Fat Girls? by MRBrownJ:
ellacute45:
There is nothing like perfect body undecided
so what you are trying to tell us all is that if MY definition of a perfect body is Beyonce (for example), and my woman has the exact same perfect body, "you" will tell me that my woman does NOT have a perfect body, because it does not pass YOUR definition of a perfect body?! BWAAAAAAAAAAAH, since when did they make YOU the holiness of perfect body criteria?! MY idea/criteria/definition of a perfect body is solely what me and my own brain decide on what constitutes a perfect body, NO one else.

but hey, if "you" believe that there is no perfect body, then that is "your" view and you are entitled to your opinion... but dont try to enforce YOUR own view unto others.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Live Bush Rat Caught By Me by MRBrownJ: 6:13pm On Mar 20, 2016
no wonder so many peope are dying of Godforsaken illnesses
CelebritiesRe: Leaked!!! 5 Movie Producers Who Sleeps With actress by MRBrownJ: 6:08pm On Mar 20, 2016
why would these producers cast these useless/talentless actresses if not because they smashed?!
RomanceRe: How Can I Stop Hating Fat Girls? by MRBrownJ: 5:31pm On Mar 20, 2016
Fumiex:
if person fat, wahala for some, blessing to others. u slim, problem for some, blessing to others. u tall, another wahala for some, blessing to others. u short, double wahala for some, double blessing to others. such is the ying/yang of life!
FIXED
Christianity EtcRe: Please Check This Photo!!!! by MRBrownJ: 5:20pm On Mar 20, 2016
vybzkartel:
John 11:25
if any of you sheep actually followed the teachings of the holy book that you are quick to ignorantly quote (or pick in it ONLY what fit your selfish agenda), then there wouldnt be thread such as this one... let ME educate all you sheep on this beautiful sunday:

your holy book tells you to Sell your possessions and give to the poor. Provide purses for yourselves that will not wear out, a treasure in heaven that will never fail, where no thief comes near and no moth destroys. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. (Luke 12:33-34)

so if you actually followed such teachings (from the same holy book you base your life upon), you wouldnt ponder on whether money was the root of all evils, duh!
RomanceRe: How Can I Stop Hating Fat Girls? by MRBrownJ: 4:57pm On Mar 20, 2016
ellacute45:
[qujote author=MRBrownJ post=43944552]
so you mean girls being fat is disgusting that's if I understood your first sentence
YES, to some people, fat people are disgusting, just like some people may find skinny women disgusting... and there is nothing wrong with that.

and yes there is nothing like perfect body if you don't like fat or skinny people fine.it's not a crime to have preferences if the one you preferred will be find disgusting by the other as you know one man's food is another man's poison.
WRONG!!!!! each and everyone of us have our own idea/criteria of what the PERFECT body should be like, and it isnt impossible to find. just accept the fact that however/whoever you are, there is nothing wrong with someone hating you. its called LIFE!
RomanceRe: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by MRBrownJ: 4:41pm On Mar 20, 2016
@Vinshu
let me ask you a few questions, if i may:
- do you believe that marriage is a do or die event?
- does renting a 2bed (or less) house for your family considered suffering in your opinion?
- equally, must EVERY couples focus on having a big family at all costs against having the family that they can afford to support?
- is there anything wrong with families taking public transport?
- do you believe that only rich families are happy?
- dont you think that it isnt logical/plausible for women to demand so much while expecting to bring so little to the table?
- dont you find it a bit strange that in ALL your fancy calculations, you havent written ONE thing about what would women CONTRIBUTE to that said family wellbeing?
- it seems like you think that women are doing men a favor when marrying men?
- if women were "that" comfortable single while living at their daddys home, why would they remotely want to marry them?


the reality of it all is that many men wouldnt even get married if there wasnt so much social/family/religious/peer pressure for them to do so.
Christianity EtcRe: Is The Love Of Money Really The Root Of All Evil? by MRBrownJ: 3:23pm On Mar 20, 2016
redwriter:
Is the love of money really the root of all evil? Or is it poverty?
I think poverty is the root of all evil. Poverty will make you do evil things that you would not have done if you had money. Poverty will make you steal,lie, envy,backbite and even kill. Poverty will make you pull down your neighbour that is doing well because of envy. Poverty will make you lose dignity and respect in front of your peers. Even your family will not want to reckon with you.
I believe poverty is the root of all evil.
What is your own view?
only criminals in robes will say that money is the root of all evil, so that you can hand it all to them via tithe etc, for their next private jet purchase!

people should use their brains!
RomanceRe: How Can I Stop Hating Fat Girls? by MRBrownJ: 3:18pm On Mar 20, 2016
ellacute45:
Until you realise there is nothing like perfect body
does that mean we should now love whatever we find disgusting?! is it now against the law for people to have an opinion/preferences etc ?
RomanceRe: How Can I Stop Hating Fat Girls? by MRBrownJ: 3:14pm On Mar 20, 2016
GreenWhiteGreen:
It is wrong to hate someone like you because he/she is fat. It has nothing to do with who you are but how you think as a person. Going by your logic, hope you won't feel bad if a white guy calls you monkey.
again, dont misunderstand me... there is NOTHING wrong with a white man hating me just because i am black, it is ONLY wrong when he starts to insult me.

so, the OP has all the right to hate on fat women as much as he desire, and so long as he doesnt go disrespecting these women, all is well.
RomanceRe: Am Afraid : Is There Still Decent Babes? by MRBrownJ: 3:06pm On Mar 20, 2016
BiggerBangs:
Getting girls is quite easy unlike before, I joined my friends to plan a fake birthday for one of our guys ...our intentions was to pull the birthday stunts so that this our particular friend can get a new side chick(He just came back from school ).

We raised #10k to get drinks and suya,Our planned bday is took place at a cool luxury house in the GRA,no average babe will come visit without dreaming of getting laid in the house(the well furnished house belongs to a top politician )

A guy suggest George (bday boy),to CONTROL a certain babe on phone,he gave George her number (from the looks of things this girl isn't a runs girl just a normal girl that stays off campus, she actually stays alone tho)

After calling her, this girl accepted to meet with our friend at a public place inless then 1hrs to their meeting this lady not only accept to come down to the bday house but she slept over night with our friend(Imagine,he slept with her barely 2hrs of meeting him without getting a dime, what a shameful World).

Fast forward to Last week Sunday, I decide to Woe a girl at Shoprite, at least as a Sunday take home gift.I stopped by at GO Lounge after seeing two babes sitting aimlessly at the entrance.. I approach them to pay their bills for bottles of drinks, inshort my favorite of the girls is now mine, I now wonder, does love truly exist or lust ?Things are getting out of hands,sexual Immority has dominate the heart of the youth.

Is not just Love At first sight but also Sex at first day of meeting,Our behavior can be liken to that of the animals, Bleeping everywhere it catches you.
bunch of HYPOCRITES!!! you want to score "side chicks", but you expect them to act holy and shiit so they can stroke your misplaced ego?! you have a demon outlook/stance and therefore will attract likewise... get real bro, you cant expect anything GOOD from your WRONG actions.
RomanceRe: Olympus Has Fallen ;D by MRBrownJ: 2:59pm On Mar 20, 2016
these are the type of breasts that will rest on each side on the bed, when she lays nekkid on her back.... cry cry cry
FamilyRe: My Wife To Be Has Anger Issue. How Do I Curtail It? by MRBrownJ: 2:47pm On Mar 20, 2016
mencade5:
Yesterday we quarreled due to certain issue we had agreed on. I must confess i caused it but i was quick to realise it and apologise but she wouldnt listen. She made an attempt to call a friend of hers to report the issue. I stopped her. She again wanted to call her pastor too i blocked her hands and was surprise why she is inviting third parties to our matter. She was even voicing it out for people to hear us quarreling and i was calming her down to lower her voice.
pls can you give us more detail of the above, in order to have a better idea of the situation.
RomanceRe: How True Is This ? by MRBrownJ: 2:40pm On Mar 20, 2016
@Realone92
people who tell you that sex aint important are either WOMEN, virgin men, unexperienced men or men who are simply fooling themselves.

now, dont get me wrong, sex isnt the most important thing in a union (unless we are talking of bootay call, FWB or cuum dump type of r/ship) but it is just as important as anything else, and a NEEDED foundation (for us men) for that union to have any chance of success/fidelity.
Christianity EtcRe: Please Check This Photo!!!! by MRBrownJ: 2:33pm On Mar 20, 2016
bingbagbo:
You are handsome
You are Pretty
You are rich
You are strong
You have links
You have 6 packs
You are learned
You are famous
You have a big yansh
You are tall
You are good in bed
You are eloquent


But.....

See your end
another pile of NONSENSE from gullible sunday sheep, fresh out of church!!!!

will you live forever if you were the oppsite of what you wrote?!
RomanceRe: How Can I Stop Hating Fat Girls? by MRBrownJ: 2:21pm On Mar 20, 2016
jimfarayola:
I'm finding it improper to hate someone just because she is fat,am I the only one in this state and how can I do away it?
nothing wrong here... its just who/how you are. some people love them, others simply dislike them, and a few like yourself hate them.
we all have some hatred for one thing or the other... to each their own!
BusinessRe: .. by MRBrownJ: 2:11pm On Mar 20, 2016
A) 15% of 150K is 22.5K not 15K, get your NL scam right!
B) the only advice i can give you is SELL THE CAR as is, and repay the loan asap
C) next time, never take a loan that you are not 110% sure that you can repay!
SportsRe: FORMULA ONE F1 Official SeasonThread - Revamped by MRBrownJ: 8:13am On Mar 20, 2016
ooooooh my brotha A40, it seems that this year, only the best driver will get this championship! if Vettel hadnt shaken in his bloody boots, we might have seen a wonderful battle at the end for 2nd/3rd place!

Haas finishing 6th on their 1st ever F1 race while motherfukcing "mighty" Mc Laren/Honda cant even get a decent bloody race or even points?! WTF!!!! these bastards are testing my nerves! what is it with that God forsaken Mc Laren BS car?!

I need a drink!
SportsRe: FORMULA ONE F1 Official SeasonThread - Revamped by MRBrownJ: 7:12am On Mar 20, 2016
WHAT A FANTASTIC START from Vettel/Ferraris, damn!!!!! i am truly impressed with their pace, it seems like we are gonna get a proper motor racing battle this year.... and yes, as much as i hate to see Vettel in front, this madness can only be good for F1. let's see if the Ferraris can hang on and make this 1st race of the season a clear UPSET. the Mercs are a shadow of themselves and they are clearly trying to catch up but it does look like a lost cause, and then Alonso crashed... :' NOOOOOOOOOOOO, anyone but NOT "el maestro" (baba Ijebu must reimburse me o!!!!)
RomanceRe: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by MRBrownJ: 10:20pm On Mar 19, 2016
Oliviaarims:
Lol...funny,right. But it's a different kind of happiness. A girl dating a 60yr old married man who spoils her silly and a girl dating a 30yr old average man who loves her sincerely and shows it in every possible way are happy in different ways. U dig?
there is a very fine line here, which is that ANY woman MUST get all the happiness she requires in her man just from his "being" (aka character etc).... whether he can help her financially or not is irrelevant to that fact. these gifts/handouts should be the cherry on the cake, and not the way around where the gifts and financial backing IS the cake (aka the whole foundation of that said r/ship), and his character is the cherry on top.
RomanceRe: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by MRBrownJ: 1:50pm On Mar 19, 2016
Oliviaarims:
Don't see it as a requirement or reward or anything of that sort. I THINK it's sth that comes naturally to a man . Men are meant to provide naturally for women,aren't they? Supposed to be for a wife quite alright, but I feel there's still that sense of obligation towards a gf,even if it shouldn't be demanded.

If u love a woman,u'd feel naturally inclined to want to do one or two things for her to make her happy. I wouldn't say it's from a sense of duty,but maybe it is...It's the same way a woman would find herself wanting to do things for her man...cook for him,keep the house clean,screw him(lol),perhaps do his laundry and whatever else she expects would make him happy.

There's an extent to which all of these should be done, of course,but if u can't do any for a gf,then u might just as well find it difficult doing for a wife.

It's just the way these things work. There's no disputing it.
yes men should support their women, but again, if my woman's need/happiness is always related to MONEY then i must find a way to make sure that she makes her own, so that she doesnt have to be in bondage, via my handouts/help whatever.

funny how some women's happiness is always linked with money.
RomanceRe: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by MRBrownJ: 1:36pm On Mar 19, 2016
firstking01:
Dunna why you asking this question, i think the thread answers your question of the role of a man in a relationship...
so far, the thread is very confusing as you are saying many different things.

Aside from assisting her monetarilly,
so now you are saying that it is a MAN's role to assist monetarily, therefore if it is our "role" in a r/ship, then a man must ALWAYS assist women with money.... but didnt you write earlier that it is only "lil assistance and shouldnt be always"? so which one is it bro?! is it lil assistance OR our role (aka duty) in a r/ship?

MBJ's view: my role in a r/ship is to love, care, cherish, support, protect my partner the best i can, in order for the r/ship to prosper. assisting her monetarily can NEVER be my role in this union. i may help her (aka support) monetarily ONCE, but if monetary assistance is something that repeats itself then i need to sort the issue at its root, so that my partner does not depend on my monetary assistance any longer. a r/ship where a partner always assist the other monetarily can never be healthy!

you'd be the mirror through which she sees herself,
so if thats the case, then this "mirror" would show her that her role would also be to assist monetarily, isnt it?

give her your shoulder to lean on when she's passing through trying times
if you are not really trying to help/support her then your shoulder is pointless. throwing money at someone that demands for it is certainly NOT helping them.
MBJ's view: if a partner is passing through trying times then you need to "understand" why she finds herself in that position, and possibly find a mature solution so that you can make sure it doesnt repeat itself. if a person find themselves in trying time and DO NOT LEARN from their mistakes, then they will ultimately do it again and again. it is your duty to make sure she LEARNS how to NEVER find herself in that negative position ever again.

Mrbrown you are grown up, you shoud know these things...if you look @my last submission on my post, i stated that, "this is what i 've come to realised even in my own relationship"...so, it prolly means i did not compell anybody to or must be spending on her woman, it's a thing of choice...
actually, YES, you did say that it was a necessity and there was nothing in your statement that told us that it was a choice. here is what you wrote: if you have money you must spend on your girlfriend, unless except your brokeness is taprooted or hereditory ...that was your 1st sentence on this thread.

but i'm convinced if you, Mrbrown hit jackpot tomorrow, you must spend on your woman...the issue here is, it's either the guy is broke, stingy or he doesn't love the girl...
i already spend generously on my woman and hitting the jackpot wouldnt change what we have. i spend with LOVE/CARE/AFFECTION/RESPECT etc, and this is what we use to evaluate the r/ship we have. gifts are nice but they certainly aint part of the foundation that makes a r/ship stand strong.
MBJ's view: if a woman values you via the size of your monetary handouts then you are certainly doomed, and she is obviously lost. only men with very little self esteem would flip the script and blame themselves for not being able to help their women... as if helping someone in needs is now a requirement in a r/ship, that must be met, whether you can or not. what a distorted world, where the beggars are now in a position of power.

...and you won't tell me that you always turn your woman dwn each time she ask you for a lil favour financially, even if you cnt give her all, she should be able to understand hence you are telling her the truth.
again, if it happens ONCE, i will help, but as you wrote "each time she ask you for a lil favour financially", it means that she OFTEN needs my financial favours, and being a beggar will never set her free from bondage, which will always be counter productive in a r/ship. therefore she needs to sort her life out and 1st understand why she ALWAYS finds herself in financial strain. maybe she needs a job OR better financial managing skills OR a new lifestyle. either way, i aint father Xmas, and if she doesnt want to "learn", then the best i can do is give her a LOAN, and she can repay me back whenever she desires, but no other loan will be handed until she has repaid the last one!
RomanceRe: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by MRBrownJ: 5:52am On Mar 19, 2016
@corperscorner
let me be the bearer of bad news, if you brought a gal home , "touched" her everywhere (possiby kiss her too) and undressed her fully, then you have already cheated bro!

if you believe that cheating is only when you penetrate someone then you are clearly mistaking....
here is a clue: would you allow your gf to be "touched" and undressed fully by some other dude, since it is not cheating?!
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Flag Of Peru Is Similar To Nigeria by MRBrownJ: 5:45am On Mar 19, 2016
well same thing if you also change orange for green on the Ivory coast/Ireland flag, and red for green on the Italy flag
RomanceRe: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by MRBrownJ: 5:25am On Mar 19, 2016
firstking01:
I think i said "lil assistance" from my post, and this shouldn't be always...
bro,make up your mind once and for all... now you are saying that men shouldnt "always" assist their gf, while in your initial post you clearly stated that "if a man has money, he MUST spend on his gf". so which one is it?

Even if you get her a job, does it mean you wil stop playing your role as a man in the relationship??
well, at least it will stop this lady from begging her bf for money...but pls, do educate us all by telling us what is a MAN's role in a r/ship?!
RomanceRe: Please Who Is Right Or Wrong Here? by MRBrownJ: 2:44am On Mar 19, 2016
in this day and age of ritualist, body-part salesman/snatchers, rapist and what not, what gal in her right mind would go to a stranger's place on a 1st date?!
CelebritiesRe: Psquare Wives, Tania Omotayo Mock Unfaithful Men by MRBrownJ:
see another deluded donkey writing gibberish on this beautiful early evening. by all means, allow me to educate your poor uneducated soul

Philpham:
Let me educated ur empty, disillusioned brain.
You know that men are generally useless. The only thing that drive their brain is sex and nothing else.
if you indeed believe this 1st NONSENSE then i suggest you quickly go tell that to YOUR useless father whose brain was solely driven by sex when he conceived and raised you, right?

It is the biggest disgrace on a man for another man to take ownership and raise ur child in a capacity you are not deemed fit to do so properly. If another man I s raising your child, then the other man has failed in his role as a father and not entitled to even make further children with any woman because he is just nothin but a sperm donor in the life of that child.
2nd NONSENSE
- how can a man "take ownership" of a child, just because he is spending time with that child?!
- how can a father fail his parental role, simply because baby mama's new man is spending time with his child?!
only a woman can write such pile of BS!!!!

any man who will have a serious r/ship with Ciara MUST spend time with her child (unless you foolishly believe that her soon to be husband shouldnt interact with her child), just like any serious woman in Future's life will do the same, and spend time with his son too. this is what usually happens when 2 parents separate, move on, and have other r/ships. sadly your misplaced deluded ego would want this child to ONLY spend quality time with his biological father, and NO other men, and therefore (in your narrow minded way of thinking) Ciara's new man must NOT have any contact with her child, right?! ARRANT RUBBISH from clueless ignoramus!!!!!

Future is a failure and there are lots of Nigerian men that are like that.
3rd NONSENSE
that is YOUR personal opinion and you are entitled to it, however, dont try to enforce your biased views as facts.
Nigerian women (like yourself) should take some, if not all, of the blame for the sorry state of Nigerian men.

Why do u think Future is greatly upset about the relationship between Ciara and RUssell , that is because Russell is a real man, and a wonderful father to little future , something the Buffon FUture can never be to a woman because his second job is to be a dead beat baby papa, spreading his unwanted sperm every where.
4th NONSENSE
ANY man would be upset to see baby mama's new man spending quality time with his child. this issue about Future has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with being a "real man" and all to do with priorities in life. Future is an artist that tours the world, and therefore he cannot spend as much time as he would desire with his child. should that make him a bad father? hell no! btw, just because this man spend some time with Future's child DOES NOT make him a wonderful father, get your facts RIGHT!

Any real man( which is obviously rare in our society Nigeria), hence the lack of husband materials, should stick his tiny Di.ck in his pants and keep his oath of faithfulness in marriage and look after his family and wife, otherwise someone 100% better than u will take your wife, give her a million dollar ring, wife her and be the only father your biological child will ever know.
Gat it?
FINAL NONSENSE
A) if there are no husband materials in Nigeria then blame it on the inadequate Nigerian women who sets there deluded mind too high!

B) how can the many Nigerian men keep their oath of faithfulness when most of their beautiful princesses turned into baby whales after childbirth?! abeg!!

C) if you actually believe that a baby mama's new man will always be a better father than the biological father of that child, then i suggest you quickly go hug the nearest transformer because you havent got a clue about what life is all about.

D) we can clearly see that your beef is also marriage. so now, if Ciara gets married, Future will not be a father to his child?! NEWSFLASH: Future will always be the father to his child and raise his child the best he can... and he certainly doesnt give a damn who Ciara marries.... if he did he wouldnt have dropped her, like all the other famous men who previously dated her and dropped her (Bow Wow, 50cent, Amar'e Stoudemire etc)
CelebritiesRe: . by MRBrownJ: 1:08am On Mar 19, 2016
whats good for the goose, is equally good for the gander!
CelebritiesRe: Neymar Found Guilty - To Pay €45m Fine by MRBrownJ: 1:03am On Mar 19, 2016
^^^ if really that money was no big deal to him then he wouldnt try to defraud the Brazilian gov out of it.
RomanceRe: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by MRBrownJ:
firstking01:
Mr man, i seriously do not know where you are smuggling to, this is one of my threads i know i 've poured out my heart with all sincerity, and i think the whole write up is self explanatory...maybe you need a recapitulation of the whole scenarios...those who have understanding have read through the thread, pick one or two things and left...if you cant assist your girlfriend when she's in dire need i wonder what you are keeping her for, maybe your sex tool or something, and i knw you wnt advice your sister to date somebody like youundecided
there is a very BIG difference between assistance, and paying a gf (for whatever she demands).
why dont you ASSIST her by getting her a JOB, or ASSIST her by helping her manage her finances better, or better yet ASSIST her by teaching her how to live within her MEANS?! why does your "assistance" must always be in MONETARY form?! giving a woman money/gifts for no damn reason doesnt solve anything. you need to evaluate the problem and solve the issue maturely. if your gf always requires monetary help then SHE has a problem that is bigger than money and therefore seek for the root of the issue instead of foolishly throwing money at her, because guess what? you aint solving anything, you are just turning into a very foolish ATM.

a man should ONLY offer a gift, when HE believes that his partner DESERVES one. the minute it is a requirement in order to stay in that r/ship then you have FAILED!!!!

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