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nikkypearl:

nathasha:
Which?? D 1 I did since 2013 n have collected d permanent 1 early ds yr...he should b ashamed of this n 2 think dey r even registering him in his house. Smh

nikkypearl:
Black is beautiful!

Mrcork sey you hear I repeat, BLACK is BEAUTIFUL!

LuveU2:
As funny as it may sound, there are things you should stop saying to dark skinned ladies and men. Stop the insensitivity.

Most times we hear people throw "good" and bad compliments at nonfair people without giving a thought to the psychological damage their statements can have on them and the nation.

In 2016, we should have learnt so many things from history. Come out from the cloak of willful ignorance and embrace truth.

Stop saying these to dark skin people:

1. You are dark BUT beautiful Wth. Most people say this without going through what they are saying. Why BUT and not AND? because they think dark skin is ugly! Simple. They are saying "well youve got a beautiful face and body but you are covered in ugliness." In other words, you are not so beautiful. Put it to them that this is what they imply, and they become self defensive.

But is dark skin ugly? The truth is dark skin is as ugly as fair skin just as fair skin is as beautiful as dark skin. And beautiful people come in all shades

2. You will be cuter if you were fair This is similar to the first but it carries with it such guts and certainty.

Like seriously? a beautiful 10 and a handsome 10 are brought before you and the only thing you can think of is "well they look good, but they will be better fair." Good enough, this statement only reveals the mental damage that you, the judge is suffering from.

The problem with this statement is that it denies reality. You are of the opinion that a beautiful dark skin lady will look better fair but reality says beautiful people look better always.

3. Light skinned people look better What now? Be jealous and hate yourself O ye dark people! Not only is this a lie it brings shame and disgrace to the entire continent. A lie has no good consequence.

An ugly fair man is called handsome and a handsome dark man is called average looking or some times ugly. O ye of poor taste and battered minds, you think like children and are short-sighted.

Again, reality says beautiful people look better always.

4. You are jealous and envious of light skinned people People who say this are so sure that non fair people are jealous and envious of them because they(dark people) have been made to feel lesser than them for a very long time now. In addition, many NOT MOST, dark people bleach their skins. So yea, they've got to be jealous of our "pretty" skin.

But are they right? Maybe. Some dark skin people get caught up in jealousy and envy not because fair skin is better but because the ground(system) is unlevelled and has put them at a disadvantage.

Almost all non fair people started with being comfortable in their skin not until some demons of division and deceit were let loose.

So dont pat yourself on the back thinking ye, we look better because we are fair. No, the demons of deceit are dealing with some dark people for now. Who knows whose turn it will be tomorrow.

5. Black is beautiful: Wow whats the problem with this statement? you say. Everything dear.
First, black connotes a people of a particular race. And this race has so many shades/complexions be it from extremely fair to extremely dark. They all form black. But you wonder why only a fraction is called black beauty. Are others white beauty, red beauty and so on.

If you say well you do not mean it by race but by skin shades. Then why is a chocolate woman called black beauty? Does she look black like black board? No you say. Why then do you not call her brown beauty? Fair doesnt look black. And brown doesnt look black too.

But thats not all, "black is beautiful" is a false statement because....simple, there are so many ugly black people and this alone renders it false.

You might think its a great compliment but dark skinned people are not moved because to them it is shallow and insensitive and non-problem solving. They can see through the lie.

Some even carry a mocking tone when it is said and only makes matters worse for some dark skinned people who have been battered mentally. No thanks.

At the end, dark skin is not the problem. You are.
You only form your opinions and preferencesfrom what you see on tv, magazines, in shows, etc. When you do a reality check up on yourself you will come to see dark skin for what it is. It is not ugly.

Dark skinned people will appreciate you question the lies in your head than make empty statements you do not believe yourself.

#Up next :5 things light-skinned people are tired of hearing#





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Dygeasy:
I hope to God no one has beat me to this already and even if, who cares? It's never too much the wishes you can make for an amazing person.

I don't know if I have to start eulogizing you or your awesome qualities but I believe that to an extent, a good number of people have had a bit of your billion shades of awesomeness and I think it is only appropriate to join you in celebration of today which is the day you were born.

Blow all the candles in the world, I wish you triple of those blessings. I ask that you be happy and never have any reason to be sad. The good lord will shower his mercies and favour upon you and that intelligence you have been blessed with will never wane or whither. You will keep soaring.

Happy Birthday to an intelligent and lovely woman. Happy Birthday Mizmycoli!!!!

May you have all the happiness in the world today and henceforth.

Have a blast!!

Dygeasy:
I hope to God no one has beat me to this already and even if, who cares? It's never too much the wishes you can make for an amazing person.

I don't know if I have to start eulogizing you or your awesome qualities but I believe that to an extent, a good number of people have had a bit of your billion shades of awesomeness and I think it is only appropriate to join you in celebration of today which is the day you were born.

Blow all the candles in the world, I wish you triple of those blessings. I ask that you be happy and never have any reason to be sad. The good lord will shower his mercies and favour upon you and that intelligence you have been blessed with will never wane or whither. You will keep soaring.

Happy Birthday to an intelligent and lovely woman. Happy Birthday Mizmycoli!!!!

May you have all the happiness in the world today and henceforth.

Have a blast!!

GurlFriend:
This is so wrong. I mean, it is these kind of humans that make people shy away from helping those genuinely in need of help

Bleaching expert Okuneye Idris Olanrewaju, popularly know as "Nigeria's Male Barbie" took to his Facebook to publish a very disturbing text message he got from someone he helped financially.

This evil person in question requested N100,000 from Idris to cover his/her mother's hospital bills. Olarenwaju sent N50,000 .


Rather than be grateful, the unnamed recipient blasted Idris, calling him a fool.


http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/03/for-helping-someone-pay-their-mothers.html

firstEVA:

damiloladuke:
Since Kanye West revealed via his infamous Twitter rant episodes that he need $53 million; begging Facebook founder, Maark Zuckerberg and other World billionaires to help him out, lot of people have come out to offer him money mockingly and seriously.

Now this Saudi Arabia multi-millionaire Prince Mohamed has also come out to announce that he's willing to help Kanye sort out his financial problems but on one condition...


The Prince has revealed his condition is to be allowed to have just one night with Kanye's sexy reality TV star, Kim Kardashian!

We are waitng to hear Kanye's response to this amorous proposal. Knowing Kanye, he would probably tell the Prince to shove his money up his a**...then again, you can never tell...

Over to Kanye.

http://www.blackberrybabes.com/2016/03/saudi-arabia-prince-offers-kanye-west.html#more

jimfarayola:
I'm finding it improper to hate someone just because she is fat,am I the only one in this state and how can I do away it?

firstEVA:
I haven't stopped, but I'm still wifey material.

Saronna:
Whose the one angry set off to ruin people's day as a job , u are a miserable and a sadistic being with no hope.

firstEVA:
Nairaland chief nuisance

Saronna:
You've got issues, please get off my tail.

firstEVA:
Hatred because someone is fat? Mad op.

mencade5:
Please bear with me. The thread is a bit long. This thread is about me and not my friend. (lol)

i honestly need mature advise from the married and matured folks here.

I am in a very serious relationship with this lady. This is our 12th months together and i plan to propose to her in few months time.

I observe that she has hot temper. Each time we had little misunderstanding she flare up and wouldnt calm down for us to resolve and settle it amicably.

Being a gentleman i believe there are no perfect relationships. Quarrels and disagreements must pop up no matter what.

Yesterday we quarreled due to certain issue we had agreed on. I must confess i caused it but i was quick to realise it and apologise but she wouldnt listen. She made an attempt to call a friend of hers to report the issue. I stopped her. She again wanted to call her pastor too i blocked her hands and was surprise why she is inviting third parties to our matter. She was even voicing it out for people to hear us quarreling and i was calming her down to lower her voice.

This lady is the type every man needs. Religious, good cook, prayerful and she gives me advise on so many occasion.

Her parents are late and she was abandoned by her brothers and sisters due to change of religion. I dont know maybe this affected her attitude.

I myself i have my own wrong sides yet i am ready to accept her wrong and hope she do the same to me. But she wouldnt.

I have talked to her about her anger and made her understand that it is not good for us. Yet yesterdays event surprised me.

Please sorry about the long post. I just need advise or advises about how to handle this issue with my woman.

To add she is 23 and i am 29 years.

Saronna:
Wow , how are you still calm? Do you have any blood in ur vein?! Any self respect!?? If my husband's ex called him at midnight and he answers in front of me!! huh well I would deal with him and her. U need to talk to him now and be serious about it! Does he care about ur feelings at all? Ur pride? I Pity you oo

handsam:
ur woman lols. .i won't talk. .will just leave it to kingcheezypuff to deny u . Wack illiterate. .(no offence pls)

handsam:
"say wat" u mean "type wat" . .well u saw it ryt . .now back off!

Monalisa185:
hehehehe, MRCORK, go back to sleep abeg...

wait!! who woke you up in the first place?

handsam:
she is taken mrcork . .or u be wan drag ha with oga at d top wildflame . .u myt not last tho . .so back off

KingCheezyPuff:
Goodbye Cork!

KingCheezyPuff:
Yeah,I like bow ties.
An I'm Afro American!....An proud of it

ettaetta:
Guys read and learn. this happened to one of my cousins. according to what he told me he met this girl far back in 2005 by then his business was going on well, he was rich. this girl claimed to love him so much and the guy fell for it. they were like love birds inseperable and with the kind of love the girl showed him he never believed this girl will ever leave him. after dating for about four years the girl got pregnant and gave birth to baby girl. he went to see her family he did marriage introduction. his wife to be really had passion for education and always wished she came from a rich home where she will be sent to school. so after the marriage introduction the guy decided to send the girl back to school with the belief that she would be his wife. every one in the family kicked against it, his mother advised him to futher his since he stopped @ secondary school level but he said he wont be able to combine bussiness and studies since his bussiness involves travelling alot. The were both living together and and planned to get married after the girl graduates. The girl graduated last 2 years and along the line the guy lost a huge sum of money to fraudsters which is really affecting his business. This dude is not as rich as before. To cut the long story short this girl left him without any quarel. The guy travel and came back to see that she has packed all her belongings. He called her and she said she was tired of the relationship, that she wanted to move on with her life just like that. This guy begged and begged but the girl didnt change her mind. this happened in december last year. The girl just got married two weeks ago to another guy forgetting all the guy has done for her leaving the guy heartbroken. They guy only went and collected their 5yrs old child who now stays with him. I really pity this dude because he is really heart broken and d whole thing is still like a dream to him. Women sha... I read a thread here yestertday and d girl said you must have a car,a house and a big bank account before you date or marry. My question is what happens if the money is not there again after marriage? You will pack your load and abandon the man abi? End time girls...

KingCheezyPuff:
I'm not a femi

Monalisa185:
in this kinda economy, someone still sends this trash




Lalasticlala ...can you imagine??

Timzy16:
Guys, i have been having dis problem often nd often for yrs nd am afraid nd so confused to d extent dat i cant tolerate it anymore both physically nd emotionally. A girl i love so much keep appearing in my dreams each evry nyt tho she is nw in a far away distance. pls what can i do or what is d cause of d problem. matured and experienced mind pls help me out.

Rollar:
Stop you?? Sister I'd pay money to make you! I'll bet if you wanted to upload some nυdes they'd try to stop you too. Maybe you should do it to spite them, show em who's boss

KingCheezyPuff:
Sly you clown

JohnieWalker:
Get a life dude...

KingCheezyPuff:
Was to...Bye.

JohnieWalker:
I understand the doctor said yu will definitely get well but hope yu taking d drugs