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Andyblaze:
[b]I found myself in a serious situation that i
don't even know what to do. There is this girl that i
love so much and i asked her out but her response
wasn't that convincing. She never say YES or NO, that
keeps me in balance and gives me the hope that with
time, she's definately going to say what i want to hear
(YES). Last week her junior sister called me and said
she wanted to see me, i was so glad, thinking maybe
her sister may have send her to me but to my
suprise, when she came to my place, she told me that
her sister is never going to date me because am not
good enough for her, hmmmm! she asked what's the
thing that even attract me in her sister, she said
didn't i see that she's far better than her sis.. She told
me all sort of things that makes me believe that she's
crazily in love with me, and she never hide her
intention of wanting to date me.
I'm now a confused guy, i don't even know what to do
but truthfully, they're both pretty and blessed, they
have almost the same stature but the junior one is a
bit fair in complexion.. Am now in a Love triangle..
My question now is ''What should i do?'' You guys
should pls put yourself in my shoe.. Its a crazy Love
Triangle.[/b]

She has put me in love triangle

#BITG

Andyblaze:
[b]I found myself in a serious situation that i
don't even know what to do. There is this girl that i
love so much and i asked her out but her response
wasn't that convincing. She never say YES or NO, that
keeps me in balance and gives me the hope that with
time, she's definately going to say what i want to hear
(YES). Last week her junior sister called me and said
she wanted to see me, i was so glad, thinking maybe
her sister may have send her to me but to my
suprise, when she came to my place, she told me that
her sister is never going to date me because am not
good enough for her, hmmmm! she asked what's the
thing that even attract me in her sister, she said
didn't i see that she's far better than her sis.. She told
me all sort of things that makes me believe that she's
crazily in love with me, and she never hide her
intention of wanting to date me.
I'm now a confused guy, i don't even know what to do
but truthfully, they're both pretty and blessed, they
have almost the same stature but the junior one is a
bit fair in complexion.. Am now in a Love triangle..
My question now is ''What should i do?'' You guys
should pls put yourself in my shoe.. Its a crazy Love
Triangle.[/b]

She has put me in love triangle

#BITG

melotreaah:
So you this fucking Mcork self is claiming LONDONER..... hahahaaaaaaa.. common english you can't compose. ODE OSHIII!!!

naijababe:
I am not a fan of stereotypes, so in general I often avoid people who like to use labels. That particular trait has and I believe will continue to serve me well.

I love black men; in fact I love Nigerian men . When I was shipped to Britain at 18, I knew within a few years that nothing but a cocoa brown of the naija variety would cut it for me . Some of my friends were keen on white men because they wanted biracial kids and they supposedly make better husbands. I was having none of that, it had to be a nucca and a naija nucca for that matter, it didn’t matter if he descended from the east, west, south or sahel. All I wanted was a naija man with his usual special brand of swag and ‘toasting!’ Certain lines are particular to Nigerian men, I have not heard non-naija men use those lines

If I am interviewed today and asked what mould of men I consider Nigerian enough to be married to if I wasn't married to my true Naija hubby of course , my first answer would be King Sango of the old Oyo Empire, he may have been arrogated all sorts of mythical powers but any man who could marry women as strong as Oba, Osun and Oya was no weakling and certainly didn't need to demand respect from his wives. From contemporary times, I can only think of the Late Rev. Oludotun Kuti, husband of Mrs Olufunmilayo Kuti and father of Olikoye, Fela and Beko Kuti. Rev Kuti in particular is ultra-special because he made all his marks in education while his wife Mrs Kuti was all about politics, a mean feat for their times. The other man that comes to mind is Dr Ekpo, the husband of Margaret Ekpo; in fact the history of NCNC as a political party would not be complete if the names of these two women’s were omitted, what Mrs Kuti did in the West, Mrs Ekpo did in the East. Two strong Nigerian men married them and did not stop them from achieving dreams; the fear of their wives stealing their thunder apparently did not come into play.

The history of Babangida’s regime as terrible as it was will not be complete without mentioning Maryam’s mark. She is behind the creation of the ‘Office of the first lady’, maybe someone here can convince me that Babangida simply could not control his wife. We can't possibly have forgotten Stella and Turai so soon; strong women even if their strength was to our detriment. I have heard many oral accounts of the rifts between Awo and Akintola being largely fuelled by their wives, might have been hearsay but mama HID and late Mrs Faderera Akintola were no pushovers even if the office first lady was non existent.

The truth is that Nigerian women have always been strong and independent even if there are good and bad kinds. That some women are all about money is not new, many of our musicians sang about it, I remember the apt descriptions of some women as a kid as being 'Olorunsogo' women, but the men who coined the that term also described their opposites as 'Surulere' women.

Has the world changed so much that some of our men only want ‘yes’ women as wives? So much so that strong women can only be described as rude and disrespectful. I can’t think of anywhere else where Nigerian women in particular are bashed as they are here on NL. Some of these men need to start taking responsibility for their behaviour. You are what you attract after all.

prettybetty:
Hello my fellow nairalanders....
I decided to bring about this topic here on nairaland due to my friends view 'bou it when we discussed it in the room lastnyt....wot i meant by the term 'foot wagen guys in my topic is a popular term used for guys who transport theirselves tru commercial means or their foot depending on the distance!!!
The discussion started when a fwend came and narrated how her day went with a guy she met during midweek service on wednesday in which they exchange their digits and chatted up during the week till they met again after service on sunday which they discussed how they could meet privately to knw each other better....so they both agreed to av a date in an eatery....The guy called her later in d evening to let her know he is already there waiting for her....
Fastforward...they were set to leave the place for their various destination when the guy asked her if he could drop her at her place...she was still standing when she saw the guy moving toward a 'jincheng motorcycle parked at one corner..she couldn't believe her eyes until she saw him on it starting it..she had to go meet him and tell him he shouldn't bother himself that she would prefer a commercial bike drop her...tho,she said she cud see dissapointment in his face buh she cnt jz allow him drop her in her place...
After she discussed this,come see the ladies views for hostel....they all embrace her action wit their own different opinion.buh, d guys in d building didnt anyway!
I will be glad to see reasonable comment especially from fellow ladies..guys are not opted out too
N.T:plz do nt mind my shorthand of any form...nd av a nyc day ahead!!

Elantracey:
If this is true , I love that girl

Kefetjey:
Adepiero where is my cake?

tosyne2much why are your threads always 10 types of this and that?

Jboy73 why cant you be polite for once?

marieolae what's your secret? ***for getting fans?

iceberlyn why do you always comment first on almost every thread?

ghost1718 why are you everywhere.....you comment on almost every thread even the one that don't concern you?

Mrcork what's the big deal about light skinned ladies?

2swt why cant you forget about our personal misunderstandings?

Ipledge .....l reserve my question

Mizchief:
I don't know my skin tone, sweery

adepiero:
Cyber bullying is the use of information technology to repeatedly harm or harass other people in a deliberate manner.

According to U.S. Legal Definitions, Cyber bullying could be limited to posting rumors or gossips about a person in the internet bringing about hatred in other’s minds; or it may go to the extent of personally identifying victims and publishing materials severely defaming and humiliating them.

With the increase in use of these technologies, cyber bullying has become increasingly common, especially among teenagers.

Cyber bullying is now a major trend in our online social lives! why some find ways to deal with it, others are completely shattered and sometimes really depressed to the extent of committing suicide.

often times, I've seen cases of cyber bullying in this section mostly on topics that[quote author=Mizchief post=27896478]Fists and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt
me

preach93:
Toke Makinwa shares some photos on her instagram page some moments ago with a caption "I look like queen and that how I always wanted to be" see pictures after the cut... http://www.maxigist.com/2014/11/i-look-like-queen-and-thats-what-i.html

preach93:
Toke Makinwa shares some photos on her instagram page some moments ago with a caption "I look like queen and that how I always wanted to be" see pictures after the cut... http://www.maxigist.com/2014/11/i-look-like-queen-and-thats-what-i.html

folawiyoma:
My gf got pregnant for me when I only have two penetration without release.

Well after I have persuade her to consider our future, and go for abortion even thou I don't like abortion but she refuse.


Well now have come to conclusion to threaten her that I want to put myself up for an abduction .

Maybe she will be scared and think am crazy and at least consider the option I earlier told her

folawiyoma:
My gf got pregnant for me when I only have two penetration without release.

Well after I have persuade her to consider our future, and go for abortion even thou I don't like abortion but she refuse.


Well now have come to conclusion to threaten her that I want to put myself up for an abduction .

Maybe she will be scared and think am crazy and at least consider the option I earlier told her

victorian:
Have done my traditional marriage ... i never knew one of my ex, a known socialite will come back , plead, ask me to marry him and eventually fulfiled his promise . I would have mentioned his name or post our pics online here, but due to security reasons from my side and from his end too... Posting of pics will be placed, when we av done our white wedding. Honestly i never knew i cud forgive, let go of the past and love him again ... . i actually thot, i will get married to an upcoming career guy, but like an adage says, we make plans, God will crown the ones He wants fulfiled as our accomplished plans... Have gone through different taunts searching for true love and sincerity... Thank God, my true love found me and he is making me smile again.
I feel so happy but quiet and reserved, like someone who has gone through hot burning charcoals of life, and viewing all have gone through with all sense of seriouseness, warmth and responsibilty..... His other women competing with me, at that time, are so worked up now, shocked ,and defeated that he could trace his love back to me. I didnt have strength for wahala, when the heat was on with my rivals, i simply backed out with tears... thank God, am now smiling with joy
My new home is a mansion, situated in lagos. What more can i say, than? God, u r awesome... you are mighty... most people thot m because am flashy and pretty,men in their right senses will not see me as a marriage material, because i look good.. Some of my male frnds, neighbours even said, they can never marry a pretty woman..they preferred the ugly or average girls as wives, due to peace of mind but they got it all wrong..
My God has shown, he has never been asleep...My Lord u r good.. He is simply waiting for the right time... ..what more can i say?

If you are single ,waiting to get married, dont despair... When the right day comes, you will smile again, and your worries wiped away.. Just believe, dont stop praying, Be good, do your best and leave the rest to God...For the Lord is your strength.

Dextron:
Wats ur point? They won't respond?

SuperSauce:
you look like every dude on the scale of evolution except humans... ...make i leave this gay nerd jawe...

Dextron:
1) Very cute rich guy with small dick.

Or

2) Average-looking rich guy with big dick.

SuperSauce:
mtchew..diss me jur.. been looking for one online scape goat self

SuperSauce:
lamo...see same mistake ofense chai...oga quit the bull shit you ain't in a farmland where its needed ...reply and see how you cry

eminentme:
London my a$$...na only God know wetin you dey pass tru for thr...mere prestige

BrAkingNews:
[img]http://3.bp..com/-2-7bH3qaR4A/VEz83oGRO9I/AAAAAAADw9o/o71UASptE2g/s1600/unnamed.png[/img]
This woman is stunning! See another photo below:

[img]http://3.bp..com/-M5JgZKHxgcc/VEz_J0emG4I/AAAAAAADw98/LrTNN88bbFw/s1600/unnamed.png[/img]

http://www..com.ng/peter-okoyes-wife-lola-omotayo-stuns-in-new-photos/

MissTeaseMe:
I am sure our guys/men have always wanted to know the magic keys to press on their keyboards that would make a woman turn head over heels for them online.

Let me start by saying : It is very possible and easy (depending on what easy is in your dico)