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lordnkem000:
I have been observing my married friends, colleagues & even neighbors around and I noticed deep down their marriages were all lacking discipline, they cheat on each other, lie, they pretend and most of them are so miserable. Funny thing is two of my friends are not even up to 3yrs in marriage and they are so tired. Yesterday I met an old classmate of mine and he told me the girl I saw him with wasn't his wife, just for knacks, that he's been married for 1yr and 9months but he's tired of his marriage. It made me scared because here i am thinking of finding a wife and people in it are wanting out.
So I'm asking, what could be the problem with staying married these days?
People who have been married for 10+ years what is your secret? I'm curious to learn a thing or two

lordnkem000:
I have been observing my married friends, colleagues & even neighbors around and I noticed deep down their marriages were all lacking discipline, they cheat on each other, lie, they pretend and most of them are so miserable. Funny thing is two of my friends are not even up to 3yrs in marriage and they are so tired. Yesterday I met an old classmate of mine and he told me the girl I saw him with wasn't his wife, just for knacks, that he's been married for 1yr and 9months but he's tired of his marriage. It made me scared because here i am thinking of finding a wife and people in it are wanting out.
So I'm asking, what could be the problem with staying married these days?
People who have been married for 10+ years what is your secret? I'm curious to learn a thing or two

1Sharon:
What kind of man shouts at his wife in public? It became the strangers business when it was done in public in his view. Why didn't he berate her in private?

You can shame a woman by berating her in public but a woman has to cover your shame and refuse the money?

You people are mad.

erniok:
Why don't you speak for your bank instead of calling out all banks.

naijapips02:
What about the Yoruba minister that supported Peter obi?

Mercisharelove:
Knowledge of a new heart, a brand new blood and a new capillary vessels carrying newest blood in your heart.


Now, understanding this would automatically transform you forever

Mercisharelove:
The great deception is, even when your soul is gone, you won't know, because you have been looking at men success all this while, you haven't tasted or desiring the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living, to know your own soul and the mystery behind your existence would change your thoughts forever !

uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.

I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.

They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.

The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.

I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.

Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.

I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.

But for the guy I'll deal with him.

Mercisharelove:
Sorry ignore

^^^^^atitude again & then she complainshecan'tfindmansonnairaland!!!
...u want a man or u no longer need man....YES OR KNOW GADDDDEMIT??(no oofencsece)

Mercisharelove:
You see, you need revelations, revelation gives you totality rest. I am telling you. ALL the struggles is because revelation hasn't come, whenever your HEART is inspired, doubts, fear, negativity, every darkness disappears and you are free to reign in LIFE . Hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah!

Mercisharelove:
You see, you need revelations, revelation gives you totality rest. I am telling you. ALL the struggles is because revelation hasn't come, whenever your HEART is inspired, doubts, fear, negativity, every darkness disappears and you are free to reign in LIFE . Hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah!

LifeofDream:
You don old for this nairaland Corky

jeromestarks:
I will slap you. Continue playing with me you hear. You will tell me if I'm your mate. Don't worry.

God1000:
I can't believe some south Africans are even fighting with Israelis in Gaza, they must be white southis

betonnaira:
As in really, what sup with that self. Do you guys find it attractive

Those two glued wings

Carmartng:
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Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Life na per head. Always face your problem as yours. No go think say you get one brother or sister or uncle wey go help you. If you think or dey hope say you get one brother or sister or uncle wey go help you, you go grow Moses. No brother for Jungle ooo. Every man for himself, God for us all. "Ebikebina" Ijaw guys go understand the meaning.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi all, do you have any family members that / friends that want you to like their photos first before they like yours and how do you respond?[/color]

Juliearth:
These experiences shouldn't bother you. Clearly these people are the problem. Just try to keep an open mind and forge ahead.

jeromestarks:
The moment I saw your moniker, MrCork, I knew you had nothing serious to say. You're not a serious human being.

jeromestarks:
BEWARNED! THIS IS A LONG READ.

I have noticed that at some point in every new relationship or friendship I started, the person must test my love for him/her by making me jealous to see my reaction. Check out the following cases.

Case1:
When I got admission into the uni, I met this great guy that i shared hostel with. We became close friends; sharing food together, doing assignment together, washing together etc. We even went to classes and church programs together. These went on for about 4 months or so.
Suddenly, this guy wokeup one beautiful Saturday and called a guy in the next room to escort him to the launder! I was like "what!"
We use to go washing together. Why call this guy and not me? I didn't say it out. I just wondered and pretended not to care.
Before I knew it, he had started cooking and sharing food with the other guy. Soon, he became best friends with this other guy.
I kept my cool and moved on with my life.
We graduated and everyone went his way. Note, we didn't fight. We do talk once awhile but it wasn't as it were.


Case2:
I went for an interview and I met this guy there. He had a car. We got the job and became close friends.
This guy always drove me home after work. We would talk about politics, women, alcohol, life goals etc.
This went on for about 2 months then suddenly, one evening after work, this guy called another colleague of ours and offered to ride home with him. I wanted to still follow them since I didn't plan on going home alone (I didn't hold transport fare). To my surprise, this my guy said he was not going home directly. That he wanted to see someone first. The other guy hopped in his car and they drove away. They got in his fvcking car and drove away.
Demnn! I thought in my head "today ehhh, you go trek. Who say make you no get your own car?"
I was heading towards the exist when one woman in her 50s offered to drive me home. Lucky for me, she was going to see her son who happened to be my neighbor. Guess what? I got home and met my friend's car parked at his gate.
We met with my friend the next day at work and he seemed to be very observant of me. Trying to see my reaction. I greeted him normal. Smiled and walked into my office.
Since that day, our friendship cracked. I didn't follow him home anymore.
I later learnt, through office gossipers, that he wanted to see my reaction that was why he ditched me that day.

Case3: My girlfriends.
I have dated a handful of women and I can confidently tell you that at some point in our relationship (3-4months later), ALL of them tried to make me jealous.
One girl I dated on campus hugged a guy in my presence and looked at me as she did it. I didn't flinch. Days later, this girl called off the relationship.

Another girl I dated in my neighborhood told me the names of guys crushing on her. She showed me text and chats they sent to her. I didn't flinch. I pretended not to feel threatened. Smiled and said " these guys really like you ooo". The following week, this girl called of the relationship.

The third girl woke up one morning, called me and said "if another man asked me out and he is very cute and has a lot of money, what would you do?"
I replied " nothing! If he's better than me and you chose him, I will be happy for you. I can't compete or fight my fellow man because of a woman"
She literally hissed on the phone. The following month, we broke up.

There was this girl that I dated too. After some months into the relationship, she started to form busy. I would call and call, she wouldn't pick up. She would wait until I called like 5 times before she would pick and say "I'm kinda busy now please"
I stopped calling. Days turned to weeks. Weeks turned to months. And that was it.
After two months, she called me and I replied " who is on the line?" She hug up and that was the end.

Another girl who was my ex. Started showing me green light (Calling to ask how I am doing, asking if I have eaten, texting me , blah bla blah balablue). So I asked her if we can chill at my house. She quickly told me that she has a boyfriend. I said ok no problem. I requested for the guy's number, called him and we talked like friends. I then called her back and told her that the guy is a great guy. He will be perfect for her. I sent the screen grab of my chats with her boyfriend in which I told him to keep her and take good care of her because she's like a sister to me.
The moment she saw the message, she blocked my line.

The latest one was a girl whom after we had been together for over 6 months, started to tell me about a certain guy that was very caring to her and how she had grown to like him a lot. She told me he makes her laugh and calls her all the time. In my mind I was like " this one want me to struggle to impress her. You dey whine?"
One day, she brought up the guy's name as we were talking and I said "Omo, this guy will be perfect for you ooo."
Boom! That was the beginning of the end of our relationship.

Who do you think is the problem. Is it me or them?

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi all, do you have any family members that / friends that want you to like their photos first before they like yours and how do you respond?[/color]

EEIA:
Hope you are still taking your medication?

CandidAdmin:
Guy rest!!!

papyjaypaul:
Google it MeCork

190:
Y'all take this clown called corkyjoe seriously?

@cork

U have a brain use it

papyjaypaul:
Excuse me sir.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zCs7q2gdmsE

papyjaypaul:
I had one pink and black shirt i could not wear back then when this alphabet people were not this strong. I didn't wear it because of what people will say. It is part of growing up to be a man. as a man let any of them near me because I wear pink. Now children cannot wear clothes because of people with bad mind