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ayjay45:
I can't help but feel sad bcuz I don't have much sexual relationships even at 26.

I get rejected on Dating apps after sending my pics.
Imagine being handsome or even average looking. Friends would flock more towards you than an ugly guy.
People would like you and want to help you

To make things worse, my family is POOR

Bye nairaland

Olawade24:
Am I the one who gave birth to them or is your head paining you. Maybe perhaps you should go do awareness programme there.

Oversabi, no offence.

Olawade24:
So I had to goto a remote area here in Port harcourt, precisely mango estate at elele one.

I went there to chill a little, if you know what I mean.

Surprising, the place risk of heavy ghetto. You need to see how poor the neighborhood is, very epileptic place with children in their number roaming all over the place.

I thought by now people should be wise enough not to give birth like rat in this tinubulation. Time will tell.

A great lesson they will learn by force. Because I see hunger coming for them but unfortunately my friend don't seem to agree with me, instead he told me they will continue cheating children even if Nigeria is as poor as Somali.

I giveup.

Olawade24:
So I had to goto a remote area here in Port harcourt, precisely mango estate at elele one.

I went there to chill a little, if you know what I mean.

Surprising, the place risk of heavy ghetto. You need to see how poor the neighborhood is, very epileptic place with children in their number roaming all over the place.

I thought by now people should be wise enough not to give birth like rat in this tinubulation. Time will tell.

A great lesson they will learn by force. Because I see hunger coming for them but unfortunately my friend don't seem to agree with me, instead he told me they will continue cheating children even if Nigeria is as poor as Somali.

I giveup.

Trollegend:
Oga shut up, what are we saying what is this one saying

iLegendd:
I'll give it a try. Send me your Bitcoin wallet let me transfer all my money to you before I do it.

iLegendd:
There is a certain food I don't really like much, but I began to like it this year because I'm tired of garri (my favorite), rice, yam, and others.

I put some cups of beans in water, but lost the motivation to cook it. After approximately two days in water (I changed the water 3 times), I decided to cook it thinking the softness will make it boil faster since it mostly takes me 2 hours to cook my 2 and half or 3 cups of beans on electric stove.

Guess what? Since yesterday, e never boil. It's more than 12 hours on fire now, but it keeps getting harder. I'm even using the bigger size of the stove. Every passing hour, it gets harder. I used gas, yet same thing. I finally brought it down. I no do again.

I want to dispose it, but a thought came to me to blend it. The beans self don turn brown after suffering hours on fire since yesterday.

Should I dispose it or what can I do with a blended beans?

I always advise people never to give up in life,
but look at me giving up on this one. The beans is just too haaaaard. The softness it had when I soaked it has disappeared.

iLegendd:
There is a certain food I don't really like much, but I began to like it this year because I'm tired of garri (my favorite), rice, yam, and others.

I put some cups of beans in water, but lost the motivation to cook it. After approximately two days in water (I changed the water 3 times), I decided to cook it thinking the softness will make it boil faster since it mostly takes me 2 hours to cook my 2 and half or 3 cups of beans on electric stove.

Guess what? Since yesterday, e never boil. It's more than 12 hours on fire now, but it keeps getting harder. I'm even using the bigger size of the stove. Every passing hour, it gets harder. I used gas, yet same thing. I finally brought it down. I no do again.

I want to dispose it, but a thought came to me to blend it. The beans self don turn brown after suffering hours on fire since yesterday.

Should I dispose it or what can I do with a blended beans?

I always advise people never to give up in life,
but look at me giving up on this one. The beans is just too haaaaard. The softness it had when I soaked it has disappeared.

Uche7779:
Hello Guys,

I just violated one of my biggest rules in life and I have been sober ever since.

I got into Abuja on an official assignment, A bit bored, I asked my ex to come over just to have a harmless talk. The first day she came to the officer with her daughter and it was purely just reminiscing and having a harmless laugh. We had lunch and she left.

Two days later, I invited her to my hotel and she came and the unimaginable happened.

I have been filled with guilt, my head is so full with regrets. Another man's wife.

I need help to get over this, who can I talk to please. It appears I am depressed. Can someone please make me feel better. Please!

Uche7779:
Hello Guys,

I just violated one of my biggest rules in life and I have been sober ever since.

I got into Abuja on an official assignment, A bit bored, I asked my ex to come over just to have a harmless talk. The first day she came to the officer with her daughter and it was purely just reminiscing and having a harmless laugh. We had lunch and she left.

Two days later, I invited her to my hotel and she came and the unimaginable happened.

I have been filled with guilt, my head is so full with regrets. Another man's wife.

I need help to get over this, who can I talk to please. It appears I am depressed. Can someone please make me feel better. Please!

frozen70:
My sister has separated from her husband because for 16yrs of marriage,she has gone through depression.

From the very day of their traditional marriage, after few days he told her he won't wed her and because of that she started nursing bad feelings about her husband.

He is so lazy that he believe that he can't kill himself to feed his family.

As God will have it she was progressing in her place of work and was running the family with 3 children successfully, with time the husband became jealous of her and because he has an I don't care attitude towards her, she made sure the husband has no access to the money she is marking, rather she was building houses in her husband village and a duplex some where in Lagos.

At a stage the husband told her he will kill her. Mind you she is the one paying the house rent they are living, school Fee's of children, medical and feeding

When she discover that the husband is displaying more of his wicked act because they have issues almost every day, he told her that he will frustrate her.

Finally she organized some boys and they came and drove the husband away from their house.
Since then she is no longer depressed and also stop falling sick.
Pls house what advice do you have for her.

frozen70:
My sister has separated from her husband because for 16yrs of marriage,she has gone through depression.

From the very day of their traditional marriage, after few days he told her he won't wed her and because of that she started nursing bad feelings about her husband.

He is so lazy that he believe that he can't kill himself to feed his family.

As God will have it she was progressing in her place of work and was running the family with 3 children successfully, with time the husband became jealous of her and because he has an I don't care attitude towards her, she made sure the husband has no access to the money she is marking, rather she was building houses in her husband village and a duplex some where in Lagos.

At a stage the husband told her he will kill her. Mind you she is the one paying the house rent they are living, school Fee's of children, medical and feeding

When she discover that the husband is displaying more of his wicked act because they have issues almost every day, he told her that he will frustrate her.

Finally she organized some boys and they came and drove the husband away from their house.
Since then she is no longer depressed and also stop falling sick.
Pls house what advice do you have for her.

Bongadu:
Rate me and my gf

Bongadu:
Rate me and my gf

Trollegend:
I went to buy some fufu for lunch(ibo fufu are the best).
So after i told the seller the amount of fufu i wanted, my neck just directed me to a camry packed beside the roadside. Inside that car, one light skinned babe wearing hijab was biting her finger and staring at me. I became nervous and was wondering who she was staring at aside me. I just looked away and collected my wraps of fufu. Shey the babe dey look at me or iya ibo fufu? Crush or hunger? Is she ok?

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Is there an ulterior motive when people start liking everything you post?[/color]

chris81964:
Do you mean Pedophile?

Look4success:
You dey cr@ze
You get eyes, but you no fit read the 2nd paragraph

Look4success:
Secondary school teachers... how do you people cope with the rapid growth of these girls? Their growth rate is that of a 20 years old lady, especially in this Ibadan.

Make una sha no do any bad tin with them if you don't want your career to be spoilt.

1Sharon:
I guess I spoke too soon, because I was actually backing you up.

labake1:
If you want to be my Val, you must have the following;


You must provide either your NIN or Passport and a guarantor ( Your guarantor must be a Nigerian).
You must be tall (1.70 and above).
You must have six packs ( if you have pot belle, you can start going to gym before that day).
You must have a car ( you can't expect me to trek).
You must be neat inside and outside ( don't wear a neat suit on a dirty boxers, gross!).
You must not keep beards( I wonder why guys keep beards, do you want to plait it?)
You must prepare a gift ( you can't expect me to tell you this, you should know).
You must have a good sense of humor ( I don't deal with sadist). If you are frustrated, meet a therapist because depression is real and suicide is not an option.
If you are a redpill member, don't apply ( you are destined to be single).
If you are living in the North, don't apply unless your state has an airport. I don't have ransom.
Don't apply if you are married, spend your val day with your family.

Thank you!

Opanka44:
Considering the Economic issues bedeviling the country at this point in time when having what to eat is a Miracle, if your phone gets lost, How Long do you think it will take you to get a new one for yourself? I think at such time, many people tend to know how rich or poor a person is.
I mean replacing the phone with the exact one that was lost or even a bigger one, not a smaller one Please.
I can tell you that, more than 50%, if not more of the phones ladies have today were gifted them by their boyfriends and Husbands. When a man's phone gets lost, he buys a replacement for himself, when a woman's phone gets lost, the husband or boyfriend buys her a new one.

lordnkem000:
I have been observing my married friends, colleagues & even neighbors around and I noticed deep down their marriages were all lacking discipline, they cheat on each other, lie, they pretend and most of them are so miserable. Funny thing is two of my friends are not even up to 3yrs in marriage and they are so tired. Yesterday I met an old classmate of mine and he told me the girl I saw him with wasn't his wife, just for knacks, that he's been married for 1yr and 9months but he's tired of his marriage. It made me scared because here i am thinking of finding a wife and people in it are wanting out.
So I'm asking, what could be the problem with staying married these days?
People who have been married for 10+ years what is your secret? I'm curious to learn a thing or two

lordnkem000:
I have been observing my married friends, colleagues & even neighbors around and I noticed deep down their marriages were all lacking discipline, they cheat on each other, lie, they pretend and most of them are so miserable. Funny thing is two of my friends are not even up to 3yrs in marriage and they are so tired. Yesterday I met an old classmate of mine and he told me the girl I saw him with wasn't his wife, just for knacks, that he's been married for 1yr and 9months but he's tired of his marriage. It made me scared because here i am thinking of finding a wife and people in it are wanting out.
So I'm asking, what could be the problem with staying married these days?
People who have been married for 10+ years what is your secret? I'm curious to learn a thing or two

1Sharon:
What kind of man shouts at his wife in public? It became the strangers business when it was done in public in his view. Why didn't he berate her in private?

You can shame a woman by berating her in public but a woman has to cover your shame and refuse the money?

You people are mad.

erniok:
Why don't you speak for your bank instead of calling out all banks.

naijapips02:
What about the Yoruba minister that supported Peter obi?

Mercisharelove:
Knowledge of a new heart, a brand new blood and a new capillary vessels carrying newest blood in your heart.


Now, understanding this would automatically transform you forever

Mercisharelove:
The great deception is, even when your soul is gone, you won't know, because you have been looking at men success all this while, you haven't tasted or desiring the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living, to know your own soul and the mystery behind your existence would change your thoughts forever !

uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.

I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.

They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.

The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.

I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.

Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.

I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.

But for the guy I'll deal with him.