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Animegirl:
I don't understand men at all. Before you guys get married, you always seem to love women with thick bodies, even ending up with them. But after marriage, you all want slim girls to be your side chics. Why is that?

A man simply wants some one who gives him peace of mind.
Fat ladies usually give less drama than slim ladies.

izonborn098:
In ur imagination anybody who doesn't believe in your religion is suffering? What a dumb thinking.. See this is not where i will brag about my life.. But i have get what many of my age mates has not got yet.. Say u get..

When was the last time you had peace of mind?

izonborn098:
My friend will u get lost... what do you have to tell me concerning life... Just because u want to defend ur useless religion..

I'm sure life is already telling you about life.
Just be humble and you will save yourself from life showing you more shege.

Come to the Way, the Truth and the Life and you will know and experience the difference between life and Eternal Life.
God bless you.

christistruth01:
No Government on Earth will release a Terrorist that went on Live Radio to demand
and Order the murders of it's Security Agents


Not to talk of demanding the burning down of all Government buildings

It is a Slap in the face of that's Nations armed forces how do you expect the fallen security Agents Colleagues to feel

Even Donald Trump is on Trial for the one he did

It's sad to watch really, that they still don't get this, even their educated professionals and learned ones, even their pastors.
Most of them are blinded by their pride/traditions/tribalism.
Yet they believe other tribes are the problem.

May God never fight us.

Reality3080:
One question

Where is the Igbo pride?

Shebi dem dey always brag about bowing to only their chi n that they don’t respect anyone, I think their chi have been replaced with northern elders

Pride truly goeth before catastrophic fall

The northern elders they hate with passion is who they are begging today

You've said it all, yet they will not listen, neither can they understand.

When a culture/tradition instills Pride and Love of Money in her people, where is the hope for them?
I mean Igbos take Pride in their Pride.
Like Nothing and No one can take their Pride away from them.
The same Pride that the bibles says, God Resists the Proud but gives Grace to the Humble.
The same arrogance that Jeremiah declares;

“Behold, I am against you, O arrogant one,”
Declares the Lord God of hosts,
“For your day has come,
The time when I will punish you.

It's only those who have obtained Great Grace and Mercy among the Igbos that can be delivered.

izonborn098:
The fire will deliver her...
Gullible religion fools...
When it didn't favor them' they blame satan.. And when it's favor them' they go and give their useless thanksgiving.. He fit dey bleep her too...
Look at china' russia' japan and many more countries'' the world respect them not because of religion but because of science and inventions...
I wonder the young generation refuse to learn.. With religion you only go backward because it is just over hyped..

That some are using phone wrongly does not mean phone is the problem.
The problem is lack of knowledge of God.
Pray you never encounter the kinda problem that will make you believe in God by force.
More importantly, pray for Grace to easily know God personally, life and existence has meaning when you do.

BluntCrazeMan:
From @General_Oluchi on X-(Formerly-Twitter)


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Source:
https://twitter.com/General_Oluchi/status/1694899224083677230

This is truly a tough nut to crack.

1. The petitioner is the rightful owner but seems not to value his property.
2. The respondent covets the petitioner's property. We are not told if the respondent has her own toy/property.

Legally the petitioner who is the rightful owner should keep his property.
However scripturally, if he does not value his property, God gives it to the one who values it, as long as he doesn't steal it.

This is my 2 cents. May the judge judge wisely.

DaddyCoool:
There's nothing beautiful or holy about sticking your finger in somebody's ass hole. Love is beautiful and holy

I see what's wrong here.
You're imagining Porn sex. lol

I guess I should I said, making love.

DaddyCoool:
Nope, sex itself. There's something incompatible between the spirit of holiness and sex. And actually sex is sweeter when sneakily and secretly done with whispers😁

Sex is so beautiful that it is worth waiting for. SoS 8:4
Just saying you should probably change your perception about it.

DaddyCoool:
Nope, sex itself. There's something incompatible between the spirit of holiness and sex. And actually sex is sweeter when sneakily and secretly done with whispers😁

Like I said, sex is so beautiful once it is with the right person- especially when it's a mutual affection.
It is dirty when it is just for sex's sake, and no feelings involved.

TrustNone:
Hello guys, I graduated earlier this year but couldn't serve as I wasn't eligible for NYSC as I was above 30 years of age when I graduated.

Coming back to Port Harcourt, I applied as a Subject Teacher in several schools, went through several interviews and made it, after going through their salary rates, I had to go for the highest bidder which is 40k and I'll be Teaching two subjects..

Now the thing is, I lied heavily that I'm a experienced Teacher during the interview and added imaginary and non existent schools to my CV, what made me scaled through the interview here was that I researched and also went through several threads and noted down all what could possibly be asked and I also obtained lesson notes and lesson plan samples from one lessonnotes moniker, researched, practiced, found a topic and revised and scaled through the micro teaching, the next day I was offered the job.

Now schools would be resuming two weeks from now and I don't need to fumble, guys please any insight on what is expected of me as teacher?

How often should I give assignments?
Where do I get the syllabus and textbooks?
How often should I teach a topic, should it be one week per topic?
Any other thing I need to know?
Your inputs would be so highly welcomed.

Teaching is not for you, at least not for now.
Teaching as a profession is too sensitive a job to place children's minds in the hands of a duplicitous mind like yours- having lied through your CV to secure the job.
You will teach them, knowingly or unknowingly bad habits that with shape some of them for life.

If you do want to teach, please be sensitive of this.

Teaching as a profession is one of the best professions in better climes, it's unfortunate any tom dick and harry can become a teacher in this country because our government has also watered down the education system.

I wish you the best all the same.

DaddyCoool:
Of course. You'd even find sex so dirty you'd be wondering how on earth people enjoy such

Not sex but sexual immorality.
Sex is beautiful when rightfully done even more especially with the right person.

JetApartment:
* The court cases with oppositions challenging his victory in the 2023 Presidential election.

* The court case in US challenging the authenticity of his Certificate.

* The petition by Allied People's Movement (APM) which wasn't challenged by APC at the Tribunal regarding the replacement of a placeholder "Vice President" which wasn't done within the constitutionally required 14 day period.

* The rise of the fearless online headless mob (Endsars2.0) that forced Chicago State University to shut down all their social media accounts.


Are you sure President Tinubu will still be President before Christmas?

Do you know how many cases aggrieved Democrats had against Donald Trump yet won his first election and completed his 4 year tenure.
Do you know how many court cases Buhari had? Yet he completed his 8 years?

When you realise that an incumbent has immunity, you will finally rest.
The only body that could have nullified his election INEC has no case against him.

DaddyCoool:
See below

Xanax is a major hit abroad especially as an antidepressant because most of them are going through mental health issues.

I don't always like to sound religious about e erything but the best anti-depressant and libido-controller is the Word of God.

Ps.119.9 - How can a young man cleanse his way? By taking heed according to Your word.
Ps.119.10 With my whole heart I have sought You; Oh, let me not wander from Your commandments!

Ps.119.11 - Your word I have hidden in my heart, That I might not sin against You.

helinues:
What a headless mob group with no decorum nor direction. They didn't even know the difference between Chicago State University ( CSU ) and University of Chicago ( UoC) .

They have gone to the UoC page again to disgrace themselves looking for Tinubu's certificate there.

How can concentration of people in a group be such half baked? Their hatred and toxicity is getting out of hand.

So many uncultured and unmannered people in that Obidients group..

They are a big shame to Nigerian youths

How can a people be so full of hate?
I can only imagine how much one has to be blinded by hatred to go as far as these people are.

It's really sad to watch really. An eye sore that hurts the retina and churns the stomach with nausea.

How can a people be so wise in their own eyes thinking they're the only ones that are wise and the rest of Nigeria is foolish?

How can a people be hell-bent on destructive agenda against Nigeria yet claim others are the problem?

How can a people unite against God's agenda?

When will they learn? Who will deliver them?
Even in their own states they hate their own leaders, yet they want to lead the country?

Igbos are making it difficult not to hate them.
If not because I am detribalized, and thank God for a president who is not vindictive, igbos are setting themselves for national indignation.

I pray they don't experience the wrath of God like Biafra war.
Who will tell them? That Biafra war was divinely orchestrated as a punishment from God.
Yet they have not so learnt.

sanusi4truth:
I'm shocked that Tinubu's supporters are attacking Obidients, Peter Obi and Igbos in general, leaving out Atiku and her white lawyer, Angelina Liu who is on top of her game. What do you call this type of supporters? Foolish or dumb? Anyone like me who takes a different view like Atiku supporter becomes Obidient. Are you saying Atiku has no supporters again? What type of drug do they take that they all see Igbos in their failures? This obsession about Igbos is getting out of hand.

Why do majority of igbos constitute the opposition against Tinubu?

DaddyCoool:
Supply and demand. There'd be no market for it - older folks who are the ones with money for such rarely have that problem

It will actually be a hit.

millstone:
Good day nairalanders,

APOLOGIES FIRST CAUSE MY STORY LONG SMALL!!!

So sorry about all you've been through.
You're simply a product of a marriage of 2 unequally yoked people.
You've not said much about your mom but I perceive she is a true child of God (wheat) but married a tare.

Your dad is not even a Christian to begin win. He may be a believer but not a Christian. The difference is in the fruits they bear.

I'm glad you're in a better place but, more importantly this salvation thing is a personal race.
We simply have to pray for others and do our part in preaching to them.

You need to cut off your dad for now. Forgive him for the pain he's caused you, your mom and your siblings.
Intercede for him if perhaps God will have mercy on him and he still has a shot at salvation.

Love your mom. She has really tried. She will make a good marriage counsellor now because she will be preaching and counselling from wealth of experience, if she has indeed learnt the needed lesson. And not preaching from regret and bitterness. She should find a place in her heart to forgive your dad too even if she doesn't talk to him. She can pray for him too. It will bring her inner peace.
Let her know that him leaving her was actually God setting her free from the bondage she got herself into.

Please re-dedicate your life to Christ.
Ensure you are baptised in the Holy Spirit.
The absence of the Holyspirit indwelling is why we often resort to substances to fill the void.

You are the Son of a Pastor (your mom) certainly you have a calling even though it might not be the pulpit.
Be intentional to know Christ personally, not as a religion but as your LORD and Savior- Your guide and teacher through life.

I'm sure being a pastors son, you know these things. When you receive the baptism of the Holy Spirit, Word will become Flesh in you. It goes from being a head knowledge to a reality and lifestyle.
Give yourself time to grow. Don't be in a hurry to be successful, to be a pastor, to marry. Pressure will come but the Prosperity of your soul is primary.

Thanks for sharing your story, this honesty will by God's grace help others speak out too.
I pray by this time next year, we will hear a good testimony concerning you and your household in Jesus name. Amen.

cornelboy:
Jehovah is the founder

Yes Jehovah is the founder.
But who is the apostle that established the JW organisation?

Asgard73:
This 1980..

Tinubu said 1979..

Think paying for the csu official link will suffice.. not this achievers something.
Because that’s the argument on the other thread..


People only want to know . Certificate he used in getting admitted.

Again .. all this already dey court ..beside this your personal findings.. just like others… e no prove anything

Mere statement from “ his “ brother means nothing.. e no even carry paper weight.

This is exactly why I have stopped trying to prove any thing to a nay-sayer.
No matter the evidence you present, they have made up their mind not to accept it, so they will keep finding a reason not to accept it.

Honestly, the summary is simple- one of us is blind to the truth and only time will tell/prove/validate/justify which of us is.

Tecnophone:
untimely death, sorrowful end awaits those(including their generations and of those who supported the rigging ) who rigged elections against people's mandate. May Almighty God visit them with the evils from the everlasting mountains. God should avenge the (sane) Nigerians who are bearing this scourge of this rigging, it's done.

Where does one even begin to educate you from?

Have you considered that Labour Party and PDP rigged just as well or even worse?
So technically you're cursing yourselves especially.

You should be very afraid that God blesses those who bless whom He has blessed.
And God curses those who curse whom He has blessed. Genesis 12.3

It sucks to be you right now. You are just heaping more curses on your head instead of you to be seeking how God can deliver you from the one you are still battling with? It is well.

fergie001:
SOURCE

Like really??
What do these clowns gain from fake news? This is clearly beyond the money.
We need good trackers that can track the footprint of the original poster of this fake statement either on social media or blog.
This is totally out of control.

Wordsfrombimpe:
"Achieving gender equality is everyone's responsibility." - Abaker, Musa , Ezekiel & Digital Bimpe

It is a reminder that gender equality is not just a women's issue, but a human issue that we all need to work together to achieve.

Sustainable Development Goal 5 (SDG 5 or Global Goal 5) concerns gender equality and is fifth of the 17 Sustainable Development Goals established by United Nations in 2015.

The 17 SDGs recognize that action in one area will affect outcomes in others, and that development must balance social, economic and environmental sustainability.

Copyright ©️ Global Youths Alliance For Change

Gender Equality is very important discourse. However we must try to distinguish between Gender Equality and Gender Equity.
The more apt and correct Goal is Gender Equity.
Definitions:

Equality:
1. (not comparable) The same in all respects.
Equal conditions should produce equal results.
All men are created equal.

2. (mathematics, not comparable) Exactly identical, having the same value.
All right angles are equal.

Equity:
1. Fairness, impartiality, or justice as determined in light of "natural law" or "natural right".

Since our genders are naturally and biologically created unequal it is wrong to claim gender equality.

Equity recognises our natural and biological inequalities while ensuring fairness and justice in the rights suitable to each gender.

Gender Equity in the real sense actually favors women than men. When we start to consider the fact that women are given access to the same rights and jobs as men while being exempted from the hardships due to being weaker vessels yet collecting the same remuneration, including pregnancy and as nursing mothers. Men don't get this same treatment since we can't be pregnant.lol Even single fathers are not considered for paternity leave in most countries.

While gender equality actually favors men than women. Especially when we start to consider the not-so-rosy responsibilities and jobs imposed on men by virtue of being created as men. Or In dating and marriages, women in most cases often find it difficult when the roles are reversed/swapped.

So really it's a matter of mutual understanding.

Deepspirituals:
Wonderful Packages ,Very Rare to get these Packages in a Woman oooooo in this Indomie Generation of Ladies Calling Men My baby ,No Respect ,Gender Equality,Pride , Ego,Lack of Manners etc

Yea, a rarity in this generation but certainly also very many. That's why we should also commit our marriage into God's hand as we also allow God prepare us to be a blessing to such ladies too.

...a prudent wife is a Gift from God. Prov 19:14

It might be difficult to find one who checks all the boxes, but you should know what is core to you and what you can do without.

confusedlady:
Why do you always go around posting controversial issues?
Why do you always search for faults in the Bible?
These are books that were inspired by God but written by men subject to many translations. As a Christian, which I assume you are,read the Bible as a religious book and seize the MESSAGE intended. STOP looking for errors/faults and controversy .
There was a resurrection! He rose and ascended to heaven.FINISH.

But she is not wrong to want an answer to these significant inconsistencies which the enemy may exploit in some.1 Peter 3:15
It shows she is not just religious but studious like the Bereans.
You should learn from her.

TheMadame:
FOUR.


John 20: 1-18
1Early on the first day of the week, while it was still dark, Mary Magdalene went to the tomb and saw that the stone had been removed from the entrance. 2So she came running to Simon Peter and the other disciple, the one Jesus loved, and said, "They have taken the Lord out of the tomb, and we don't know where they have put him!" 3So Peter and the other disciple started for the tomb. 4Both were running, but the other disciple outran Peter and reached the tomb first. 5He bent over and looked in at the strips of linen lying there but did not go in. 6Then Simon Peter, who was behind him, arrived and went into the tomb. He saw the strips of linen lying there, as well as the burial cloth that had been around Jesus' head. The cloth was folded by itself, separate from the linen. 8Finally the other disciple, who had reached the tomb first, also went inside. He saw and believed. 9(They still did not understand from Scripture that Jesus had to rise from the dead.) 10Then the disciples went back to their homes, 11but Mary stood outside the tomb crying. As she wept, she bent over to look into the tomb 12and saw two angels in white, seated where Jesus' body had been, one at the head and the other at the foot. 13They asked her, "Woman, why are you crying?" "They have taken my Lord away," she said, "and I don't know where they have put him." 14At this, she turned around and saw Jesus standing there, but she did not recognize that it was Jesus. 15"Woman," he said, "why are you crying? Who is it you are looking for?" Thinking he was the gardener, she said, "Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have put him, and I will get him." 16Jesus said to her, "Mary." She turned toward him and cried out in Aramaic, 'Rabboni!" (which means Teacher). 17Jesus said, "Do not hold on to me, for I have not yet returned to the Father, to my God and your God." 18Mary Magdalene went to the disciples with the news: "I have seen the Lord!" And she told them that he had said these things to her.

This account did some thing I can't explain in me when it was preached by a pastor who was interestingly his namesake- John.

It's important to know that the Bible is an inspired book. Inspired by the Holy Spirit but documented by humans.1 Peter 2:20-21, 2 Tim 3:16-17

If the 2 of us were to give an account of the same event, we will share different accounts though the major story will most likely be the same but while I may pay attention to certain details, you may pay more attention to other details.

I believe this also accentuates the fact that the Bible is True. They didn't try to change or hide the obvious inconsistencies.
I have come to realise that God himself wanted it that way. So that not everyone can understand the Truth except those whom he has checked their heart and passion, those are the ones He reveals the Truth to.

You should know the Power of the Truth is that it sets you Free. And who the Son sets free is free in deed.
So whatever you desires to know, pray about it and ask the Holy spirit to guide and teach you.
Some times immediately it will be revealed, some other times the journey begins- depending on God's grace and mercy and timing.

Goodlady:
What do men really want after submission?
This same sex they are all lamenting about, some don't last longer. Why bother women with sex and you can't satisfy her. Is that not enough reason for her to lose interest?
And a times, some women may feel like staying celibate for a period of time. That should be respected. It's annoying how males here ramble about sex starvation as if it's food.

Everyone wants a fulfilling marriage. And yes for the man, a submissive wife is part of that package.
A presentable wife is part of that package.
A sexually active wife is part of that package.
A supportive wife is part of that package.
A peaceful wife is part of that package.
A hospitable wife is part of that package.
A good mother to their children is part of that package.
A good counsellor and companion is part of that package.
A prayerful wife is part of that package.

And guess what?
A woman is created to be all these and more if she chooses/wills.
Just as a Man has the capability to be the type of husband you desire in a husband.

Some times you meet someone who checks all these boxes, some times you decide which of the checklist is core to you and which you can manage.

Once again, everyone simply wants a fulfilling marriage. But it's important to be fulfilled as a single person so that marriage simoky complements your fulfillment. And only God can surely fulfill a person.

izonborn098:
in every secret that is kept untold there is a poison.....
Pls there is nothing heaven... Stop misleading people...
If heaven is real' what make you think with more than 3k religions only christianity is real and what about the rest?.....

Good question.

Like every thing spiritual Heaven is multi-dimensional.
Let's start with the definition of heaven;

Heaven (Noun):
1. The sky.
2. (religion) The abode of God or the gods, traditionally conceived as beyond the sky;
3. (religion) The afterlife of the blessed dead, traditionally conceived as opposed to an afterlife of the wicked and unjust (compare hell);
4. by extension) Any paradise; any blissful place or experience.
5. (by extension) A state of bliss; a peaceful ecstasy.
6. (informal, with a modifier) Similarly blissful afterlives, places, or states for particular people, animals, or objects.

From this various definitions, clearly heaven exists.
What you may be struggling with is the religious definition of heaven. Which I will also by God's Grace try to explain. Though only God gives the understanding as He wills.

It is important to understand that there is supernatural existence, phenomena, occurrences and experiences that cannot be explained by our senses.
Various religions have tried to explain these supernatural phenomena, including our indigenous religions.

I will try to explain it through the Bible which is the inspired book that documents the Truth of these supernatural phenomena according to Christianity.
Various religions have their inspired books. The onus is on us to test them and find out which one has proven efficacious and stood the test of time and results.

On this premise, I will like to also state that Christianity is beyond a religion but that's another discussion. Let's delve into the biblical explanation of heaven;

1. Genesis 1.1 - In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.

In the Bible we are made to know that in the very beginning God created the heavens and the earth.
So we believe there is a place called heaven just as we know that we are on earth.
We can also see here that wherever God was before this beginning was beyond heaven.
Heaven in this context referred to the Sky.
Genesis 1:8-10 gives more explanation.
We also notice that it says heavens (plural).

2. Heaven also refers to the kingdom of God- the dispensation of the Holy Spirit here on earth. Which is what Jesus Christ came to preach and also accomplished when He died and ressurrected, so that everyone can now have access to salvation and the gift of the Holy Spirit. Without which we cannot do God's will.

3. Heaven also refers to the realm of the unseen.
4. Heaven also refers to a state of mind. Romans 14:17
5. Heaven also refers to an actual place where those who die doing God's will on earth are going to inherit as a reward.

So I hope with this you agree that heaven does exist. However, to know more about the biblical explanation of heaven, you really do have to Believe First before you can See it or understand it.
The way things operate in the Supernatural realm is converse/opposite to the way things work in the physical/earthly/sensual realm. Like a mirror effect.

Once you choose to Believe in Jesus Christ and to know Him, you will start understanding all this.
I hope this meets you well.
God's Grace and Mercy multiplied to us all in Jesus name. Amen

cutecommend:
The Niger-delta is a great and blessed place. It needs to wake seriously. A place blessed with oil, yet still not up to standard. They can have their own country if it's God's will.

The South-East is blessed. Has the only tribe that lost almost everything in the civil war and became almost or the richest in Nigeria. South-East has low dependence on oil. The South-East does not need crude oil deposit to survive. Does USA have crude oil? Does Germany have crude oil? I am not sure. The South-East should throw away all anger, pride and fighting into the dustbin, and gather together to make the East Dubai. They are blessed. They can have their own country, but not in anger, agitation and fighting, and only if it's God's will. They may have to look for a new country name.

God bless the Yorubas.

God bless the Hausas.

God bless all tribes in Nigeria.

God bless one Nigeria.

Well said.

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naptu2:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w0sgr6IRP1Y?si=OgTrDwROBa7eAJlj



https://insidekaduna.com/poverty-eradication-and-investment-promotion-for-wealth-creation-depend-on-justice-reform-president-tinubu-declares-at-nba-conference/

PBAT keeps checking the right boxes.
God thank you for remembering Nigeria for Good.
We are highly blessed to be remembered.
Let your Good Will be done over us in Jesus name. Amen