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iSense247:
Architect of the modern day Anambra

The most popular politician in Nigeria

African most accessible leader

World's most humble billionaire

This is why Peter Obi lost and may continue to lose.
His own people are his downfall.
He may truly be genuine but he has been idolised.
God hates idolatry In every way, shape or form.

Also, he may look the part and yet God sees His heart.
Had Peter Obi won the election, will igbos not have become more trabalistic than ever?
Even at his loss, Nigeria has never been this tribally polarized online and offline, how much more if he had won?

Igbos are blessed, truly.
It's the pride, lack of honor for others and idolatry (mammon and graven images) that's the undoing.

YourBestWriter:
The biggest mistake Nigerian parents do is to prioritize on seeing your children through school without a clear plan about their lives after they graduate. Have you heard about living rich but die poor? This is often the outcome for many unlucky families that thread through this path. The society is unforgiving. Not only in Nigeria, but also in developed countries.

I call on all parents to invest in their children's lives beyond just going to school. Buy lands if you could, buy art works in the hope of passing it to your children for huge profits, build connections, get ready because if you retire one day, and your children are still unemployed, is it not back to poverty? Education alone doesn't pay in the 21st century. If you insist on investing solely on your children's education, then strive to make that investment abroad in developed countries. Don't fall into the modern scam called private universities in Nigeria.

Above all, force your children to learn skills. Tinubu doesnt care about who you are, or what struggles await the future Nigerians.

The Only mistake a person can make is listen to the voice of everyone except the voice of God.

Some parents did all what you listed here and it still failed. As long as no one knows tomorrow, any thing can happen at any time and disrupt ones perfectly drafted and charted plan for their family.

Man truly is lost without God.

Prov.19.20 - Listen to counsel and receive instruction, That you may be wise in your latter days. -- null
Prov.19.21 - There are many plans in a man's heart, Nevertheless the LORD's counsel--that will stand.

success1smyn:
I watched the video. She said those things unapologetically which is what I like, cos I have hypocrisy.
But sleeping with all those people don't make sense

I'm still rebooting from the shock. Because e off me.
To even go as far as listing her CV without any regard to their respective families and careers.

I am simply waiting patiently watching how this pans out.
And these are all Christians and Muslims o.
Or should I say church and mosque goers.

MT:
You don't need to say "lie here and there". It was my experience, respect it. Just like I respect yours.

It is an open fact that in the olden days Yoruba warriors chanted incantations in wars. Not fighting like Romans with swords.

Yourbas didnt have arena like Spartacus where they fight.

Go and watch "the woman king" - they tried to copy that movie and it turned bad.

Viewers will get carried away with the wacky storyline because of the visual effect. It's not a well thought out my movie.

That's my experience. You have yours and I respect it.

As for me, Anikulapo remains far Number 1

With all due respect, your opinion/experience or not, a lie is a lie.
And he gave you facts and truths.
Hence your opinion/experience was a lie.
You should be glad he delivered you from an age-long false opinion.

You should thank him and apologise for misleading the public.
Apologise to professional movie critics.
Apologise to the movie producers and cast.
Apologise to the Yoruba community.
And Apologise to NL.

False opinions is what's destroying this information/social media generation.

Samantha124:
His beautiful voice will just get wasted in prison.

He go join prison choir.
This is a clear case of the complexity and dual or multi-personality disorder of the human being.

On the one hand he is a rational person who tries to be responsible for his family.

But on the other hand, in his elements, he's an irresponsible and dangerous person perhaps influenced by substance abuse and or ego tripping.

This really balls down to the Will of man.
Who/What is in control of the will of the man?

Tyktoker:
You don't want pressure?, but you cooked your question under pressure before posting? Maka y?

It's to provoke intelligent responses.

TemplarLandry:
It depends on the individual, not the gender.
Let's be guided.

My sentiments exactly.
All it takes is self-discipline. Unfortunately most don't have it.
And some of us are growing in it.

MrBrownJay1:
as much as these married men are to solely be blamed for this shiiit, you have to understand the hypocrisy of the animal they are dealing with. these side chics are indirectly hoping for the below (and thats why so many men can entice these lost souls):

You have contradicted yourself simply by the use of the phrase "solely be blamed".
Sexual engagement involves and should be blamed on the parties involved except for r*pe cases, in which there are exceptions.

rightopdeep:
All my child's Subjects result was held ,They gave a reason : That Biology paper 2 Essay ,Candidates copied each other One Another .

Infact I was shocked because my son is very very good in biology ,right from His Jss1 till Ss3 he does not scores below 70 ,I do access him myself ,If it were to be another Subjects I won't be bordered but Biology ,It's Quite Surprising .

I need an Advise Please .

Is there any hope ,I read that a Complaints can be Lodged ,Has anyone be successful with this ?

Book recommendation: Making the Best of Your Critical Years (for Teenagers) by Tope Oni
Very important for teenagers. Thank God later.

FreeStuffsNG:
By implication, only 5 states and literally one geopolitical zone,SW, dominate and can take the opportunity unlocked by the new electricity law signed by President Muhammadu Buhari in May before completing his second term.smh.

Other states and geopolitical zones need to buckle up.Check my signature for free stuffs!



None of those two states has a state electricity market and law in place. Go and read the electricity law, only 3 states were exempted and unfortunately the only state with the state law in SS is Edo yet Edo can not afford transmission. Delta and Rivers can afford but have no state laws in place.
Again, you need to read to understand my point before lamenting. It's a wake up call to you and your mediocre and somewhat complacent leaders you keep making excuses for.

Deep retorts.

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Fake News On Social Media.

Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala speaks after meeting with President Tinubu Yesterday:

“I keep receiving toxic calls and messages regarding my meeting with the president yesterday, and from those I hold in very high esteem. Honestly, I am shocked at the contents of the messages and the tone of the callers. Has Nigeria sunk this low? A visit I made for the good of our dear nation is what they are using to threaten my life and family! You don’t recognize someone as your president yet begging him to save you from the hands of killers in your region.
I am bringing investors to Nigeria using the president’s commendable policies as bait. Is that too difficult to understand?

President Tinubu’s reforms might be harsh now but they would birth a new and prosperous nation. I have lost count of presidents, respected Institutions, and investors that have called to congratulate me on Nigeria eventually having a focused leader since the reforms were rolled out.

At least, six multi-national manufacturing giants are coming with me by December later this year to see how their firms can have factories here. It’s all part of my contributions to the progress of Nigeria. I am not a politician. I only desire the best for my dear country. It informed my visit to President Tinubu. The world has accepted him as our president, like it or not. May God heal us”
– Ngozi Okonjo Iweala

Fake News Debunked
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/statement-of-threats-after-my-visit-to-tinubu-false-says-okonjo-iweala/%3famp

PureFace1:
I have always been happy and I don't believe in your fake god.

Typical brainwashed sheep, even this dead pastor did not have peace and joy despite all his beliefs in your fake god, your god couldn't saved his two wives and sister from dying or even saved him from dying untimely too.

Go and ask the richest billionionaire in the world that don't believe in any god if they are not having peace and joy.

John.14.27 - Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.

That's the Peace I'm referring to.
And happiness is different from Joy.
Only God gives you these.

The subject of death is one that remains a mystery.
Some times, the righteous are taken away to save them from an impending evil and imminent wrath of God. Some times people mistake evil people for righteous people. But by their fruits you'll know them.

Believers should rejoice when righteous people die.
Sinners should be very afraid when people that are considered/confirmed righteous should die.

Isa.57.1-3 The righteous perishes, And no man takes it to heart; Merciful men are taken away, While no one considers That the righteous is taken away from evil.
He shall enter into peace; They shall rest in their beds, Each one walking in his uprightness.

"But come here, You sons of the sorceress, You offspring of the adulterer and the harlot!

Isa.57.19-21 "I create the fruit of the lips: Peace, peace to him who is far off and to him who is near," Says the LORD, "And I will heal him."

But the wicked are like the troubled sea, When it cannot rest, Whose waters cast up mire and dirt.

"There is no peace," Says my God, "for the wicked."

PureFace1:
Typical brainwashed sheep

The hard way like this dead pastor that his sister died an untimely death, lost one of his wives to plane crashed and another one to cancer while he died untimely in a US Hospital himsel.

yeah he learned the Hard way that there is nothing like God.

Tell me, when last did you experience Peace and Joy?

PureFace1:
Too Bad his God couldn't save him.

I'm sure he died in a US Hospital instead of Jesus to heal him from whatever illnesses he was suffering from.

Religion is only mean to brainwash and control people, many christians don't want to be christians out of their own free will they are just afraid of hell fire.

A God that threaten to burn you for eternity if you don't do his bidding is that a God or a Devil?

You raised very good questions.
I pray God reveals the answers to you the easy way and not the hard way.

Helpfromabove1:
Tell me something

This same ‘’ Take a bow and go senate’’ will have the effrontery to step down El-rufai that tinubu has one time publicly announced that he will be in his cabinet because he knows how to turn rotten situation to bad

The caption is misleading. They were not stepped down. They are still undergoing security process.
It will be resolved tomorrow.

labake1:
I have fear of height (Acrophobia), I always run away from storey buildings. In fact I always avoid a situation where someone will carry or lift me. On my wedding day, I will tell the MC to skip that part. I don't know how to overcome the fear.

What are you afraid of?
And have you conquered your fears?

God Almighty.
Fear God and every other fear disappears.
We are a generation that has been taught to only Love God and not fear God which is why most are nursing one phobia or another.

I was battling all sorts of fear viz fear of failure, fear of success, fear of dying, fear of nightmares, fear of powers of darkness, fear of sickness esp terminal diseases, fear of not getting married to a good wife, and especially fear of the unknown which often led to depression and anxiety.

I cant explain how it all disappeared. All I can say is God is good.

Battlefield2:
Seriously, I'm pained right now,how can one decide to be stvpid and senseless at the same time
Before I begin, I swear to God who made me, this is not a lie,this is a true story....The story may seem long

So I have this friend, a close friend that works in a bank in Lag, he lives In his family house because his parents are late and he earns 70k plus,though he complains every now and then that the salary isn't much, if he collects salary by month end, before the 10th of the following month,he is already calling me for help on transports and all that and once in a while I help him with 1k or 2k to take transports and all that.

Last weekend,he was discussing with me on WhatsApp about car washing business,telling me it's lucrative and all those....I didn't pay much attention to it until he called me on Thursday and started crying...I asked him the problem,he told me a cousin of his sweet talk him into car washing business that it is lucrative and he can earn as much as 5k a day washing cars and he dropped the bombshell

He told me he sent in his resignation letter on Monday and Parked out of his family house telling those ones that he has been transferred to another branch, he moved to the one room apartment the car washing company provided to him n 3 other guys and started work. He said he hoped in his mind that if he can make 5k a day, he can save as much as 3-4k daily and that is a big improvement to the bank work

The reason for the lamentations now was things are not the way his cousin told him,he said since last week Monday up till this moment, they have only washed maximum of 3 cars per day and at the end of the day, the owner only gives them 5h each in which he used for eating. I requested for video call on Sunday and he is seriously looking lean and unkempt

He apologized that he didn't seek an advice from me or anyone before taking that bold move, he told me he is seriously depressed and wants me to profer a solution to him

Problem now is,he told me he is ready to quit the work and come to a different state that I am in other to restrategize.....I don't know what to tell him because I don't have much too and I'm struggling too because I'm sure if he comes,I will be fully responsible for feeding and all that
Moreso,I can't tell him "No" because right now,he has no where to go,his parents are late and he has already packed out of his family house rendering him homeless,moreso he is my very good friend

So I seek an advise from you all
Pls advise me, I'm confused!

He should pray for salvation first.
He has been delivered from the bondage of being stuck in a slave job. Note, not all bankers are in bondage depending on the contract.

Once he sorts the spiritual aspect out, he should do a job that can help him build a skillset that he will be able to start on his own and establish himself. He will need to be patient and endure. At leastt give himself 3 to 4 years to become an expert in his chosen field while also building himself in Christ.

Life really is not so hard when we take fear, shame and vanity/pride away and accept God's timing and process.

Jesus Christ gives you rest from your hard labour and his own labour is relatively much easier.

Matt.11.28-30
Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."

Battlefield2:
Seriously, I'm pained right now,how can one decide to be stvpid and senseless at the same time
Before I begin, I swear to God who made me, this is not a lie,this is a true story....The story may seem long

So I have this friend, a close friend that works in a bank in Lag, he lives In his family house because his parents are late and he earns 70k plus,though he complains every now and then that the salary isn't much, if he collects salary by month end, before the 10th of the following month,he is already calling me for help on transports and all that and once in a while I help him with 1k or 2k to take transports and all that.

Last weekend,he was discussing with me on WhatsApp about car washing business,telling me it's lucrative and all those....I didn't pay much attention to it until he called me on Thursday and started crying...I asked him the problem,he told me a cousin of his sweet talk him into car washing business that it is lucrative and he can earn as much as 5k a day washing cars and he dropped the bombshell

He told me he sent in his resignation letter on Monday and Parked out of his family house telling those ones that he has been transferred to another branch, he moved to the one room apartment the car washing company provided to him n 3 other guys and started work. He said he hoped in his mind that if he can make 5k a day, he can save as much as 3-4k daily and that is a big improvement to the bank work

The reason for the lamentations now was things are not the way his cousin told him,he said since last week Monday up till this moment, they have only washed maximum of 3 cars per day and at the end of the day, the owner only gives them 5h each in which he used for eating. I requested for video call on Sunday and he is seriously looking lean and unkempt

He apologized that he didn't seek an advice from me or anyone before taking that bold move, he told me he is seriously depressed and wants me to profer a solution to him

Problem now is,he told me he is ready to quit the work and come to a different state that I am in other to restrategize.....I don't know what to tell him because I don't have much too and I'm struggling too because I'm sure if he comes,I will be fully responsible for feeding and all that
Moreso,I can't tell him "No" because right now,he has no where to go,his parents are late and he has already packed out of his family house rendering him homeless,moreso he is my very good friend

So I seek an advise from you all
Pls advise me, I'm confused!

He should pray for salvation first.
He has been delivered from the bondage of being stuck in a slave job. Note, not all bankers are in bondage depending on the contract.

Once he sorts the spiritual aspect out, he should do a job that can help him build a skillset that he will be able to start on his own and establish himself. He will need to be patient and endure. Atheist give himself 3 to 4 years to become an expert in his chosen field while also building himself in Christ.

Life really is easy when we take fear, shame and vanity/pride away and accept God's timing and process.

successmatters:
Your topic is very different from what the woman wrote.

This is gross misrepresentation of facts, Aisha Yusufu never said she will slap her mother inlaw, she only said she will like to be slapped double if she slaps her daughter inlaw.

All in a bid to get sensational captions, they spread lies.
I'm so glad Eniola Badmus set an example. And I hope more celebrities follow suit.

While I don't support Aisha Yesufu's reply, thr bigger blame is on the mother-in-law who slapped some one else's adult daughter simply because she married her son.

Instead of returning the slap there are better ways of addressing such issue. She should simoly not say a word and wait for the husband to come or call him on the phone to report the issue to him.

She should let the son handle his mom. His response would determine her next course of action.

This is why marriage is not only between a man and a woman but the man's family and the woman's family.
Please we should pray to marry into good homes.
If not, we should be prepared for spiritual warfare. Only God can help this kind of wrongs. Because if the foundation is destroyed, what can the righteous do?

God help repair our marriages. I'm so excited by the ongoing powerful move of God in breaking ancestral and generational curses in marriages.
Please this is the best time to pray for your homes and join church programs with the intention to encounter Christ for yourself and cry for His help over your self and your family.

Danisaint112:
Everyone know the druggies was and is still a criminal. Only his Agbado munching baboons think otherwise.

Watch how they would leave those guys and start blaming Igbos and IPOB for Tinubu past and present horrible lifestyle which has since gone global.

I simply chose to dignify you with a reply because you carry the name Saint in your moniker-deceptive as it may be, I'll give you the benefit of doubt regardless.

Tinubu and in fact every Nigerian politician is corrupt.
You and I may like wise be corrupt if elected too.

That said, my point is we can't find a Saint in the present condition of Nigeria to be elected democratically into office.
At best, we will work with what we have.

My major point for replying you is simple- please do not mistake foreigners as your allies/friends.

The problem of Nigeria is not only Nigerians but Foreigners especially the West: UK and US especially.
Nigeria was conquered and enslaved by them. Our 1960 independence was merely a paper transaction.
Nigeria has remained under our colonial masters while being ruled by their stooges.
Call it a conspiracy theory if you will, but it is what it is.

Libya was prosperous under Ghadaffi because he fought against Western powers.
What did they do?
They eventually found a way to demonize him and riled up a faction of his citizens against him. That's how they were able to murder him.
Libya has been thrown into turmoil since.

Africa, including West Africa has remained mostly 3rd World because the West has kept it so.
If you're a believer, pray for Nigeria.
Her enemies are not only internal but more external.
They simply use the internal enemies to achieve their agenda of keeping us down using the greatest weapon ever- Divide, Conquer and Rule.

Igbos are not fighting a wrong fight concerning Biafra.
Igbos are simply going about it the wrong way.
And fighting the wrong enemy while calling on their true enemies to save them.
It makes Igbos become offensive to non-igbos.

When Igbos finally align with the rest of Nigeria, we will easily be liberated.
We will then be able to decide if Nigeria stays as an entity or there's a need to restructure or secede.

Pray for Nigeria, pray for the East/Igbo.
Only God can deliver us cos our enemies are greater than we are in experience, weapons, number, etc
But if God is on our side, who can be against us?

Oyindamolah:
Do not walk away if you have no alternative in this economy. Doing a proper report on why it pays to pay tax is the best option. Start looking for a better job in a responsible legal entity. The wrath of the law will definitely cut up with your MD sooner than he expect and he is going to pay.

It's well...how can an Accountant of an entity prepare the Audited Financial Statement of the same entity.....May God help ooo.. They always want Accountant to be doing everything. They dont even want to pay PROFESSIONAL PAYMENT AS SALARY

Seconded.
I'll just add that this may also be an opportunity to learn AFS. If not for the current job, but for the next.
He should be humble to learn as much from those he can learn and understudy from in that company. Know how to chew the meat and throw away the bone.

His integrity is commendable but he has to apply wisdom cos corruption has eaten deep into every nook and cranny of Nigeria's system and swallows people with integrity if care isn't taken.
So He should be as wise as a serpent while being as gentle as a dove.

talented321:
Normal'' just imagine seeing ur mother's dead body tied with some essential part harvested'' emotional damage to that child and when is she going to overcome that trauma''
The people in that part of the country are not trying all'' must they kill for ritual everyday.
To cash out good but you must follow due process or u pay for the consequences when caught.

Where does one even begin to speak on a matter as this?
1. May her soul rest in peace. But this is only possible if she had a chance to repent before she died.
2. Why was she at her Ex-lovers apartment?
3. The poor child by God's grace will receive the Grace to turn to God who is the Father to the Fatherless and Mother to the Motherless.
4. I pray the Ex-lover receives speedy judgment in Jesus name. Or finds salvation in the prison after paying for his wickedness, as God wills.

This world is evil, especially in this last days.
Please Satan knows his time is short and he is roaming around like a raging lion seeking whom to devour. His prey is anyone who does not know who they are in Christ;

1. The unsaved who have not even come into the knowledge of Christ.
2. Church-goers are still seeing Christianity as a religion.
3. Believers who have accepted Christ as their Savior but not as their LORD. They are busy enjoying the dividends of sin not knowing the Spirit in them is a jealous Spirit.

God help us all.

jackcanfield:
I don't know o, I am yet to see where the criticism is coming from, I was on her page I don't think I saw criticism... Anyway whether you are aware or not , the fact still remains you send her name, the DSS obviously must have profile her , so you must find a way to compensate her ....Shikena

IGanduje utters lies effortlessly.
God will certainly vindicate Maryam Shetty.
I hope she doesn't dignify the liar with any reply.
His come-uppance meter is getting full already.

Odin13:
Why arrest them..

Many already believe Owomida is part of Yoruba tradition..

Honestly this is not fair .. Olumo and his people started like this and today they’re gods of Yoruba people and people actually worship them.. sing about them and tell tales of their powers ..

Lagos state government must start from those mini gods .. punish them .. so that others will learn

Arresting this one’s wil only prove their street credibility and among them.. they will be promoted and given rank

We all know this truth..

I hate propaganda..

But wetin we know ..

Na dem Dey do demselves.. no other Nigerian is deceived .

Anambra and Edo are same if not worse. Go figure.

paxonel:
what do you mean by "To fear God? "
Explain yourself?

Because what i know is, the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. Wisdom also implies doing what is right
I don't know what you people call fornication.

Two young people are matured enough to get married and become committed looking towards a better future for each other in sincerity without breaking each other's heart or cheating until they decide to start having children and raise a family. Tell me, how is that one fornication?

As for the op saying he was involved in a sexual sin. He didn't clearly state who he was involved with, whether she was someone he is dating or some hook ups.

But all I'm saying is, in either case the op should leave God out of it and face the consequences if he was involved in a hook up that perhaps may have lead to unwanted pregnancy or some STDs as no amount of prayer or crying for forgiveness will revert the situation.
Or if he was involved in a genuine committed relationship which is not different from marriage, and he is enjoying the union, he should also leave God out of it and enjoy his life.

God isn't a tyrant.
Whatever you sow, that is what you will reap

Let me indulge you since you seem to be feigning ignorance of fornication. May be there's another translation where it is not considered a sin before God.

Fornication:
religion, law) Sexual intercourse by people who are not married to each other, or which is considered illicit in another way.

So when two people- consensual adults or not engage in sexual intercourse outside marriage, it is clearly called fornication.

And all over the bible, this is a sin.

1. It is disobedience to God's word.
2. It is a sin against the temple of God (the body hosting the Holyspirit).
3. It is an exchange of spirits between 2 hosts of unclean spirits.
4. You also exchange STIs.
5. That's someone's daughter or son if you understand Parenting.
6. That's someone future husband or wife- if that means any thing to you.
7. Potential for unwanted (unprepared) pregnancy or abortion.

jesusjnr2020:
What Sin Would Do To You If You Continue Feeding It As A Christian

It will eventually feed on you.

That's why Jesus kept telling people to "sin no more".

John 8:11 (KJV)

She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.

John 5:14 (KJV)

Afterward Jesus findeth him in the temple, and said unto him, Behold, thou art made whole: sin no more, lest a worse thing come unto thee.

It's because if they don't kill their sin, their sin would end up killing them.

"The soul that sinneth, it shall die...". Ezekiel 18:20,

"For the wages of sin is death..." Romans 6:23.

God bless.

This is an apt illustration.
God help us all.

Sonnetoshodi:
Hello everyone.

I've been celibate for 10 months. Till I had sex couple days ago.

Before that time, I saw my self as God's favorite.

But now I just feel like God and I had a quarrel.
It hurts so bad, cause it's now like I don't know how to go to him.

A week now I've not said my night or morning prayers.

Has God left me? Can we still be close?
Have I don't something unpardonable.

Your penitent heart has won you forgiveness of your sin.
God doesn't like those who feel no remorse or repentance for their sins.

He knows our weaknesses. That's why He sent us the Holy Spirit to help strengthen and comfort us.
Please pray, confess your sin and let God know it won't happen again.

If possible stay away from the daughter of jezebel involved. You really have to be intentional to flee from every appearance of evil.

You're blessed.

paxonel:
I don't know why you people like putting God in a bad light, portraying him to the world as one wicked man who frowns when people have sex.

What you should bother is, how does you having sex affects you negatively or how does it affect the person you are having sex negatively?

You people should leave God out of your emotions o, he is not interested and he will not stop blessing you or being close to you so long you do other things right.

Have you ever seen a father disowning a child because he or she have sex?
You want to tell us that humans who don't disown their children are better than God abi?

You clearly don't know the Fear of God, having only been taught only of the Love of God.

God's Love makes you know Him and Fear Him.
That's said, it is His sincere repentance that will welcome him back into God's Grace.

You clearly don't see any thing wrong in fornication or any other sins listed jn the word od God that will lead many to hell fire.

peretei2024:
My fellow Nairalanders,

Tell me why I must forgive my daddy and my Late Mummy.

I was 4years while my elder Sister was 6years when my daddy and my Mummy had a serious misunderstanding, so few weeks later, my daddy was transferred to Kaduna from Lagos being a Solder ( who knows I he was the on that requested for that).

On one fateful day, my Mummy went to the market to buy some stuffs in the Market, then here com my Daddy's younger Sister( Aunt) with a vehicle. She forced I and my elder Sister to the vehicle and moved is straight to my Daddy's village in Ondo State. We cried, cried ,
and cried but our tears couldn't saved us.

Finally we landed in a village where there is no light, no hospitals, no good schools, in the hand of strange people we don't know.

Remember I said we were moved when I was 4years. Now at 5years in the village, daddy never visited, mummy never visited, so I had to start tapping Palmwine just to raise money to start my Primary school in the village. After a year or so, I was able to get some money to pay for my Primary school. I decided that I can't continue with this Palmwine tapping at this year, so I work hard and raise some money to start selling bottles of kerosene to sponsor myself from Primary to Secondary school.

When I was in JSS3 , my Elder Sister got pregnant for a guy out of frustration and betrayal from the path of our Parents who abandoned us for years. Our Uncle in the village who never care about us , informed my daddy that his daughter is pregnant for a guy ooh, then my daddy said the guy must marry her . Finally the guy agreed, then my daddy who never visited us for over 15years came down to the village because of the money he will collect.

After marriage rites, I was taken to Lagos by my elder brother.

Note: my Mummy whom I never see for over 15years knicked me out of the house after spending just 1week with her in the house. Her complain was that I believe like a bush boy.

My elder Sister is still married to the guy in the village and she can't even express herself in English, and this is a lady that was born here in Lagos.

Tell me how I will forgive them after going through hell because of selfish Parents.

My mummy died 4years ago but I didn't even know where her grave is because we were never in good terms and till tomorrow, I will not forgive her not even my daddy.

Reading through your story, I can only imagine how a life trajectory that would have been full of good memories just went south.
I can't even imagine the details you can't even share from the challenges you and your sis have had to face even from relatives.

I have to commend you for making it through thus far.
You're certainly a fighter and you have surpassed your dad already as a better man.

There is just one thing I would crave your indulgence, please find a way of making peace with your parents- your dead-beat dad and your late mom.

Truth is, they were not mature before they got married. They didn't know what marriage is. And they made you their children suffer for their ignorance and unpreparedness.

It hurts to use these words for your parents because no matter how bad they are they're still your parents. But I have to call it the way it is. And for that I sincerely apologise.

Please hold on to God to learn of His Love and Forgiveness. When you realise our own sins were worse than our parents could ever have committed yet God forgave us, you will also forgive them and learn to forgive others for their weaknesses too.

I pray you continue to make a better man, husband, father and leader to your household and beyond.
God bless you real good brother.

Kingpele:
Chai indeed niger people saw that ebola have reappeared in Africa except that this time is in human form in Nigeria...so this people are the best we could come up in this country..buharia wasted several months but still gave appointment to incompetent people and many saw nothing wrong with it..now this one was quick to compensate those who helped him during election which in itself is corruption

May God forgive you.
Honor men of honor and may be God will remove dishonor from your lineage.