₦airaland Forum

Built2last:
The worst that can happen to a man is to train children with pension money. Most men gallivanting today never think about old age. So short sighted.

You can't be doing school runs at age 60 because you married late. I dread it. God forbid. If you are struggling to have kids, go and do IVF. forget the bullshit people say. Na your sperm, na your pikin. get ready for old age. If you are 35 years. You have spent half of your life on earth already except God give you extra bread.

At 60, you should be planning retirement. last born is planning to move out of the house and you are ready to tour the world with your wife.

I dread old age without money. That's the only fear i have. So i am now investing in my children while i have the money and the energy

There are fake boys and fake men out there but there are good ones also. If you postponed because you think you will find in the future. Hey, that future is not guaranteed. find a good woman and wife her now.

Don't look for a perfect woman as you are not one. We always set high and unrealistic expectations for the other person forgetting that we are all far from perfection.

Don't marry just who you love, marry who you can Tolerate their madness. All of us dey craze last last.

Love and beauty doesn't sustain marriage. Naa. Tolerance and Trust does.

OkukoIgbo:
Have you thought about some people should actually have investments that will take care of them at old age and not pension?

Have you thought of the fact that some people will die before 30?

Have you thought of that even those your early born children can all be wiped out before you even get to 60 and your wife already in menopause?

I am trying to tell you that this life has no textbook, if your pattern is working for you, it is not the model that all will follow.

So some people wey never chop belle full will come and spawning children like spider, breeding societal misfits because they have noting to train them with.

In essence respect yourself, respect other people's lifestyle as far as it is not illegal.

Even if a person didn't marry, he can contract and pay nurses who will be taking care of him at old age.
When will you Africans have sense and stop creating unnecessary problems for yourselves.


Side note:
In my work place, when I was busy hustling for education, masters, certification and skills, some of them were busy breeding children like old layers and marrying hundred wives, it is same fools that are envious that I just came and am getting paid 5 times their pay, I am still shocked at how humans will want to eat their cake and still have it.
If you are one of them, respect yourself.

Built2last:
Good Evening Chief judge of heaven.

Make sure you make heaven sha.

klimkid:
Men can you allow another man do this to your woman?

I had this conversations with my colleagues yesterday at the office, both men and women and I heard funny replies.

I would like to get your own opinion too, both male and female.

WildChild00:
Your administration is not doing well anofe, Nigerians are suffering, you never had a blue print of what to do when u resumed office.

Taylor90:
You dey whine my handsome amiable president?

Is my T-Boy a joke to you?

My Economy Squanderer president wey dey use white substance brush teeth every morning

The only human wey him dentition dey spoil teeth whitening machine

My president that refused to patronize toothpaste rather opted for Nigerian made charcoal to boost Naira

Built2last:
The worst that can happen to a man is to train children with pension money. Most men gallivanting today never think about old age. So short sighted.

You can't be doing school runs at age 60 because you married late. I dread it. God forbid. If you are struggling to have kids, go and do IVF. forget the bullshit people say. Na your sperm, na your pikin. get ready for old age. If you are 35 years. You have spent half of your life on earth already except God give you extra bread.

At 60, you should be planning retirement. last born is planning to move out of the house and you are ready to tour the world with your wife.

I dread old age without money. That's the only fear i have. So i am now investing in my children while i have the money and the energy

There are fake boys and fake men out there but there are good ones also. If you postponed because you think you will find in the future. Hey, that future is not guaranteed. find a good woman and wife her now.

Don't look for a perfect woman as you are not one. We always set high and unrealistic expectations for the other person forgetting that we are all far from perfection.

Don't marry just who you love, marry who you can Tolerate their madness. All of us dey craze last last.

Love and beauty doesn't sustain marriage. Naa. Tolerance and Trust does.

IconicR:
Is this necessary ? What makes them think she's regretting her decision. Mtcheww do much from 30b gang dirty boys.
There's no regret in dumping community preaks

Lutherblaq:
They say Forgiveness is the firs step to fixing relationship issues. It gives you a window to understand the reason behind your partner’s actions.

Being cheated on is one of the most traumatic feelings one can go through in any relationship. There are times when the love and affection between two people decrease due to various factors.

Cuddles, romance, and communication become less frequent with time. It is in times like these either of the partners may search for love outside.

As a man/woman, tell us;
Can You Leave A Good Woman/Man Because They Slept With
Someone By Mistake?

mayor1814:
Nice pic. Genevieve don dey old small oo. I be I no see well ni. No b white hair I dey see so.

Cooolme:
I guess he wants me to bribe him but he has already uploaded the results and I'm determined to go to any extent immediately I finish my clearance and names are out.

Purvan:
Why are girls so lucky? They get approached by rich simps and get plenty of opportunities to rise in the society without lifting a finger. Girls literally live easy lives.


Women are so lucky to live in a patriarchal society ?

They just wake up and bill the nearest dude close to them

Even the ones in the trenches bill their boos and glucose guardians
The ones way no get boo bills their rich pops uncles and brothers

My sister no day work or do biz but she day get money way day above my salary
Omo She go wake up chop better breakfast login to Snapchat or IG day there like 21 hours
Every Sunday she go family house with massive goodies from shopping mall
One go think say she day work for shell

In my next life I go come as woman because to be man na work I swear die

I don day reason to transition to trans laikdis
I identify as she/her , lesbian from now on wards

TheKingOfCrumb:
pseudo-marriages is A sham marriage or civil partnership is one where the relationship is not genuine but one party hopes to gain an immigration advantage from it.

TheKingOfCrumb:
For a woman, yes marriage is an achievement.
Its an achievement to make a man pay for your misbehavior, manipulation, disobedience, disloyalty, feed and cloth you.

Jostoman:
he still did not win that election.

IconicR:
I have suddenly dislike akpabio with that his seductive smile. Asiwaju is currently very angry with him, I don't know why he chose to be unfortunate with what he did. Please he should be very careful and not give our government a bad name.

jogojogo:
He is not an ipb but a sore loser.
Why will he contest for a primary election on the platform of APC and start spewing rubbish after scoring zero votes. He is pained and lack principle

Jostoman:
Majority of nigeria did not vote for him, he forced himself on nigeria through the help of yakubu.

Edipet:
Till date I don't still understand why person go leave him village/ lhouse go dey hustle for another Man village, then use the money just to pay house rent bill, buy food. Pay NEPA bill,pay high transport, Maybe hire experience olosho, at the end he might die without achieving anything part from paying those bills. Whereas in his village, there is free accommodation, cheap food, fresh food, farmland to plant of the things, cheap NEPA bill, cheap transportation and cheap girls .
Human never know wetin them want. We over labour ourselves unnecessarily. And animals will be laughing at us.
How can we be earning salary just for bills and House and food.

Candidlady:


Super nice


Nothing like hairy armpit, mouth odour and Even body odour around you... Just you and your girls



Amazon Acres that's what we need

IamKizzbrown10:
Many people have happy, fulfilling, healthy
romantic relationships without having sex
with their partners.

It ultimately depends on
your personal beliefs, physical desires, and
the nature of your relationship.

There are many reasons why people don’t want to, or don’t, have sex. However, this doesn’tmean that the relationship will be unhealthy.

And it certainly isn’t a sign that your partner
doesn’t love or value you!

This is my humble opinion though, tell us what you think nairalanders?

talented321:
I don't know the last time i pray

IamKizzbrown10:
Prayer is a form of communication with
God. It can be formal or informal, spoken or
silent. There is no right or wrong way to
pray.
Some people pray to ask for God’s help. Some
pray for guidance, strength, or healing. Others
pray to express their gratitude to God for all the
blessings in their lives. Still others pray to
simply spend time with God and to get to know
Him better.
Prayer can be a powerful tool for connecting
with God and for finding peace and hope in
difficult times. It can also help us to grow
closer to God and to become more like Him.
What If I Don’t Pray?
If you don’t pray, don’t worry. You’re not alone.
Many people including myself ,don’t pray at all
because prayer is useless to me.
There are many reasons why people don’t
pray. Some people don’t believe in God.
Others don’t know how to pray. Still others feel
like their prayers aren’t being answered.

jesusjnr2020:
Although nudity not doubt played a significant role in the rise of sexual lust to its present alarming level in the society, which calls for serious concern, the fact that there was 0% sexual lust at the point there was 100% nudity (in the beginning), proves this is not just about nudity but has to do with the mentality.

Genesis 2:25 (KJV)

And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

That's why in some societies where the people were usually partly or totally nude as it was in the beginning, there were yet hardly cases of rapes and sexual abuses being recorded or reported there, because it's not necessarily about nudity but the mentality, as the level of sexual lust in such societies had not spiralled to the point where it is out of control.

However in some societies where people were usually fully clothed, such atrocities were yet more frequent, to prove it is not necessarily about nudity but the mentality, as the average level of sexual lust in such societies is higher, hence the higher rates of such sexually related atrocities in the society.

Imagine where an adult will rape a baby or little child.

It would be most absurd to blame nudity for such madness.

It's the mentality. Sexual lust has risen to the point where it's makes people lose their sanity and humanity, and drives them (crazy) to do the most unimaginable and despicable things, which they often regret after the deed has been done.

So that should be our major concern if we really want to address this societal menace - how to reduce the level of sexual lust in the society.

To do this, those responsible for the growth, multiplication, and spread of lust in the society were going to have a major role to play.

[b]They must henceforth desist from such activities which contribute to the rise of the level of sexual lust and moral decadence in the society, since it is causing much more damage than whatever good they may think they were profiting from it.

This includes those in the porn industry, those in music industry who deliberately promote sexual lust via their music(both audio and videos), those in the movie industry who do same via their movies, those who dress sexy to seduce others, also those who glorify sexual lust by pinning the blame of sexually related atrocities, as rapes, on nudity instead those who commit such atrocious acts etc.

If they however choose to persist, whenever they get to hear the heartbreaking news of such atrocities being commited these days, as when a little child or baby was being raped or sexually abused etc., they should feel very proud of themselves and pat themselves in the back for the job they've proudly done, because that is a consequence of the growth, multiplication, and spread of sexual lust which they promote.

God bless.

Offpoint1:
If you rely on God for everything, then what's the purpose of the brain he gave you? Are you clearly telling him the brain he gave you is useless?


Imagine paying your child school, equipping him with the necessary academy materials, then such kid still rely on you to help him during his exam... Do you know what that means?

You Africans are not ripe for religion

assholemods:
Smh! ...Oga it is not everybody that follows God or Jesus that succeed irrespective of what they might have done. I don't really like discussing religion or whatever you might call it.
There so many individuals and countries around the world that doesn't believe in anything yet they are successful. It is here in Africa that all what you talk about is Jesus Christ... nations are building industries for their people and nation to succeed, most Africans are building "religion" funny enough these are the people that brings the so called religion to us.
Saying this doesn't mean there is no success in following God but your success in that aspect should be your spirituality before any other thing.
Most people don't even do anything all they shout is God and Jesus. If I don't know God it doesn't mean that I will fail unless you are talking about spiritual failure. There are so many atheist who are millionaires and billionaires.

WildChild00:
False prophets claiming to be hearing from God.

Dreadlock69:
We know dey for 5 month . I just dey with my phone , scrolling through my contact list on what app the phone start to shake and called her number three times without me knowing.
She called back I don’t even know what to say.

assholemods:
Africans and religion radara! How about people that follow God and still failed?

Djamel:
i liked your comment



so i'm not being biased here......its a good advice to give however......

olaniyilukman:
God is present in all our lives...

twosquare:
Yet, the same Solomon says, "Give portions to seven, yes to eight, for you do not know what disaster may come upon the land." Ecclesiastes 11:1


"Put your investments in several places — many places, in fact — because you never know what kind of bad luck you are going to have in this world." (GNB)