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Sagamite:
If she stuck it out until her obvious break-point, I will not take her back but I will be her friend and nice to her. At least she tried.

But since I am rich and she did not have the patience to go the whole hog, then I will get myself an upgrade as I would be a more attractive man then (though looks would not have changed, money makes you look good to women).

I would be nice to her and even be happy to support her financially extensively but no getting back together.

If she just dumped me without even trying, I would be ice cold. Wouldn't piss on her if she was on fire.

now that last part was funny

Pweety4me:
Dat is irrelevant uncle just stop shouting ok?

now u have 2 questions to answer, the thread's question and the other valuable question

Tee_Jay:
i know it will be hard but unless you have experienced broken home b4 u wont want your kids to go thru that ever

dude, the moment she has walked out on me she has broken the family and i will explain to my kids the best i can. and if i make it and she shows up, unless God sends and angel with serious koboko threatening me, i ain't taking her back for nothing sorry. that hurt will be hard to heal man, really hard.

follypimpi:
@na2day

Not @ GUN POINT infact the moment she steps outside i will zero my mind about her.

u bi my man, 24/7. ppl need to be realistic abeg, when u are down they waka, when u are up and running they want to call it love, na film?

davidylan:
this thread is quite funny . . . its succeeded in revealing the fact that deep down a lot of us are simply insecure little wimps. At the end of the day . . . you wont add an anonymous "award" to your real life CV.

that's why alot of them are scared of being ban, they think there is a reward for being on NL

mama-gee:
Please ask that question three more times?

i can't recall u contributing anything useful on NL either

mukina2:
wait make i put the phone on

waiting 4 ur call

iice:
[color=#9900ff] I will just say, i hope you have stamina ~ mental as well as emotional because you will need it [/color]

i am blessed heavily in those departments

We owned Denver, sweet deal! Heading home now, go mavs!

Tee_Jay:
i will take her back for the sake of the kid. I saw the film as well

i must say u are more noble than i am, i may let her see the kid(s) but take her back will be super hard

daduke2k:
Oops, foul mood. *runs off*

come back here!

shooze:
George D u wan marry me . i fine oh

no mind geroge d, na slacker, me i go marry u. how much u go pay me?

Pweety4me:
Will u stop shouting my[size=20pt] ( . )( . )[/size] r hurting. . .

forgive my crassness but are those your boobiies? 

Cherechy:
Where d hell is THE AMAKA's name on dt list? I think she of all pple deserves to hv her name up there. And no i'm no asskisser! Her posts are enlightening and not biased or sentimental. I've been following her right frm bellanaija.
Anyway, good job to @jarus. This is no mean feat!

what has amaka contributed?

davidylan:
she wont leave me in the first place. you shld know whom you married.

cough cough!, u will be unpleasantly surprised, sh1t happens!

kodewrita:
Its funny but really workaholics tend to advance faster in life than other people. Its a simple fact. I am trying to be one too. however, I need someone a little less workaholic to balance me otherwise both parents will burn out. However she'll motivate me to work hard in my own workplace too.

[size=20pt]So the answer would be Why not.[/size]

that is not an answer, that is a question! nigerians sef

mukina2:
am waiting for your call

not gonna happen unless i am gonna make a million dollars, but u can call me on my cell +1-617-861-3962

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Impossible feat [/color]

u dont know me very well, do u?

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Story. I'm a woman unfortunately [/color]

that is highly debatable

chidipupay:
If I am opportune, I will also have her current girl to date 5 girls until he his sure of the one to marry and then love the person also

my point exactly, we dont want him putting his eggs all in one basket ooo

deemayjee:
[b]My girlfriend told me that her ex invited her for his wedding in May. I know this issue has be trashed out (being invited to an ex's wedding), but i want to know it from the significant other's view. When she told me that and asked me whether she should go or not, all i simply said was "if u feel it is right, u can go, but if u feel it is not right, don't go". i didn't mean to impose her onto anything as the decision is hers, but she told me my statement is really "pregnant" with meaning (what she meant by that was i was indirectly telling her to use her senses to decide whether to go or not, which i wasn't) and that she would not go, cos she doesn't want a situation whereby something like this will occur in the future and i would refer to this issue (my girl is the very jealous type and though she doesn't show it, i know she's not really happy when i talk to my ex, which is not often).

this is a guy she told me left her in her dire time of need, when she was in a critical life-threatening situation in the past, and who left her to tend her wounds alone. she had vowed not to date anyother man again in her life b4 i met her. it even took me so much of my time and patience b4 she even agreed for me to take her out on a date. afterwards the guy came running back to her, pleading for her to give him another chance, even calling and talking to her mum to plead with her daughter on his behalf. he later said that he was getting married to his present gf because he was getting older and that forever in his life, he will know he has lost a precious gem.


did i reply her right?[/b]

what more do u want to say, if u step out of the boundaries of what u have already said u will land urself in hot water, so u are good. the decision is hers and she should learn to accept it like that, that is what adults do.

luvbooks:
Your topic is "In pursuit of happiness" . . . meaning happiness is what you really want.

[b]If she is the only one whom you THINK can make you truly happy, take her back [/b]but keep an eye out just in case she decides to walk out again. If that ever happens I guess you'll have learned the second time around.

This is the only scenario where I would ever advocate someone having a Plan B.

sum1 who walks out on me when the going is bad can never make me happy, period! that said, u might have a point

Raimond:
No way,she didn`t beleive in me enough to stay with when the going was tough,why should i take her back after i had made it. I means if i fall into hard times again,she`ll leave again.

I `d start a new life with my son, and marry someone i know truly loves me!

i concur!

oyb:
see why naija is still in a quagmire

i know right!

eldee:
WTF!!!!

What's gender got to do with this??

Na wa for NL feminists ooh . . . first sumone was complaining that there are not enough Black chics shaking their bootays in Taio Cruz videos.
Now this??

no mind them, tomorrow they will say black men no get respect for their fellow black women, now we don respect them enough not to show their bootay on silly videos them dey vex.

eldee:
@tkb
Oya . . . redistribute your list . . . 4 men, 4 women and two hermaphrodites
Right now you only have one hermaphrodite . . . Dayo

LMAO  

Ujujoan:
I just find it very difficult to beleive that out of 10 best NLer, he could only come up with one female (abi?)! That's just typical of NL guys, they think they are all better than us!   

I can tick off 10 ladies on NL who are much better than all those alpha-males he came up with!         

go create your own earth this one belongs to men! [size=3pt]FYI: we the men so solemnly swear that we are better than all u females   ***docks for cover***[/size]

rhymz:
@Na2day
oooops. . . My bad!
Didn't know the person in question was a She. . .too much work and play at dsame time na im dey cause. . Now make I get busy. . .

dont let it bother u, even her fellow alien species dont know her sexual taxonomy, abi iice, i lie?

Ranks007:
Legend of the seeker Award goes to the compiler

now that rings a bell

@ OP

NL has up to 50 ppl? shocking!

mukina2:
abeg na call me na

not even for a million dollars! what did i just say? for a million dollars i will call oooo!

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Aww, you say the sweetest things [/color]

anything to eliminate Jonny, i am game

~Sissy~:
dodge wetin after the getting the swollen black N blue eyes and cheek

no vex me again oo or . . . .

that was just one of those black eye patches they use for the movies, see, i fooled you again. i am good!

A-40:
@Na2day
I don't understand his love affair with J.J Barea! He must be supplying Carlisle with some Puerto Rican mamichulas! They say he looks like Jim Carrey must he behave like him too? If only he got more playing time he woulda been competing with Tyreke Evans and Brandon Jennings for R.O.Y

Barea is a weaker shooter,less athletic and way too under-sized to guard a Roy,Williams or Billups he is a decent player but Roddy B should be getting more minutes

We are the best free throw shooting team in the league and yet Carlisle allows us settle for jumpers

@Bawomolo
He is better than Jerk Hinrich and Luol Dung and by the way the Chicago Bulls.hit ain't making the playoffs! Gba be ski! I said it!

I believe JJ strength over roddy is his overall experience of the game and his court sense. he can pull a charge just like devin harris would, he hardly force the issue so makes fewer mistakes making him a true point guard directing traffic. he also has good body control and can litterally walk through a tight defense and if they pay too much attention to him, break them all to shreds. he can stop at will when he is on top speed which roddy is yet to learn how to pump those brakes. for roddy, once he has taken off, he has taken off, u better get out of his way or he will climb u to get to that hoop which might put him in foul trouble but when it comes to just raw talents, there is no one like roddy pants hands down!

bawomolo:
you mav fans are delusional, comparing a back up guard to tyreke evans and brandon jennings. 

i would take kirk hinrich over some unproven backup guard

FYI - marcus thornton is a better rookie guard than that french import

oh be quiet, the nba analyst made that conclusion that if he gets more mins he might just be way better than all that have been mentioned above

platinumnk:
heheh single lonely men full this thread lol
@bawo-

while all the casual s3x advocating women here are all happily in a r/s. deception is a very powerful thing. SMH!

Pweety4me:
Na wa sef. . .

answer the question

ceasyc:
@topic
most def! wot r u going on about
i'm 1 of dem faithful ones

lie!

ZE:
''If you think education is too expensive then try ignorance''

All the ladies in the house who would not marry a workaholic, i can hook you up with the kind of men you want free of charge. The man will be there for you and your children 24/7.

FEATURES:
1. He wakes up early in the morning and put on a clean white singlet
2. At 7.00am hewill start drinking concentrated dry gin(aka akpuru-achia)
3. At 11.30am he is fully guaged with enough quantity of the dry gin , next item that will pre occupy
the rest of the day is playing 'ludo or draft'

Interested candidates should contact me immediately.

LMAO!

mukina2:
i can go long long without my cell phone

me and the phone have this love/hate relationship. sometimes it annoys me

i hate texting, Sometimes i turn my fone off the whole day, only put it on to make calls.

right! remind me not to get ur number

queeneve:
Nekkie,

If I was you I would simply date all three of the guys if you are doubting, if you are not engaged and just in a relationship, DATE, don't put all of your eggs in one basket until you are certain of the one that you about to marry, OF COURSE DON'T take my westernized way of thinking, like a chump on Nairaland said,

You will be more peaceful if you do that, now if you was married, NOW CHILE, love that man until the end of time, I don't believe in divorces, but I dont believe in rushed marriage either,

Check it Boo!

so now that u have given her this advice, should she be honest to tell each and every1 of those guys that she is seeing other ppl until she is sure who is really meant for her?

chidipupay:
I agree with you 100%

thank u jare

Nnekie:
Life can be a b*tch.  I  had been in a horrible relationship about 2  years ago that took me a while to get over.  Now i am in a relationship that is going really well and   i am happy.  But it seems like all my previous toasters have come back with a bang.  My boo has been away for two week and they are really good guys, three of them to be exact, focused, affectionate and ambitious.  Maybe the timing wasnt great when I first met them, but now they each want to seriously go the extra mile in the name of love.  I am trying so hard to stay focused on my bobo, but all my girls are like you can't put all your eggs in one basket, and to invest wisely in a guy - and that if i tell these other guys to bugger off i may live to regret it.  Confused

u see, if it was a guy that post something like this, all these hypocrites that run around nl with their female activist placards will crucify him saying "men don't know what they want". OP do u know what u want?

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Hehehehe. . .you have no idea
But thanks for being my sacrificial lamb [/color]

thanks for falling into my trap