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Abekeade08:
Sorry poster but you sound like a wimp, you need to man up. [b]No woman, no matter how educated she is, has no right to walk all over her husband. [/b]How can your wife just travel and not even have the courtesy of letting you kno w where she is goin, and you just Siddon there they take am. Are you sure you are even a Nigerian man What if something happens to her while she is away and her family calls to find out where their daughter is?? you will sound like a wimp telling them you have no idea where you own wife is. Me no fit marry person like you oh, I trust my Yoruba brothers wives one is a doctor, the other one a lawyer they no get liver to try that kin rubbish.

now that's my baby, u see why i fell head over heels in love for u?

Naijagal12:
The longest I've gone without a cell phone was 1 week and it was pretty rough. . . I don't think I can live without technology.

one week!

A-40:
R-40! Roddy Buckets drops 40 with 9-11 3pt shooting dude is a terrorist. Surely we must have a Tony Parker on our hands

i swear! last time we played celtics and rick didnt put him until the end of the game, i almost left my seat to go slap the coach, if not for security. i wanted the coach to refund my ticket. will be there this monday against denver and God help him if he skips roddy, i will do aluta sharply

Idowuogbo:
na wah u 2 behave now i love a happy home

@ pweety u 2 ansa now give d bobo some ansas so hes no if he can do love actually wit u cus i tink he deeply wana no your tots

free am abeg my dear sista

GOD BLESS U
LOL

u like fight ooo! that na my baby sister in the Lord

Deep Soul:
Leaving a child is a highly unnatural thing to do, esp for women. Even mad women who somehow end up getting pregnant are very attached to their kids.

In the rare case that a woman does this, that woman shld undergo intensive psychological and mental evaluation. Hv we stopped to consider that ths woman might have had a loose nut smwhere. . . .We are all very different people and we dont expect Mr A to act the same way Mr B would.

Some people are just not strong and dont know how to handle pressure as well as sm others, as I have recently learnt. It's left for the strong ones to realise that and complement the difference(s).

That's just me tryin to look @ it from a different point of view!

In reality, if na my brother, e go hard sha. . . . . .

E go hard. . . .

i hear u girl, e go hard

mbolu:
Dnt luv a gul too much coz she will 4sake u yes!

pele, take care

rhymz:
hahahahahaha. . I was goina ask him if he was a human robot or island. . Hahaha

him-her-she u mean

xynerise:
What an experience. She is a married woman today.

4 real? that's why u were customer care, u where just the side kick for her. pele

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Me and phone no be friends
I don't do calls (unless they are important). . .don't like texting.  I've gone without phones for long periods.  Longest being two years
I often leave my phone behind and once i get home, i throw it on the bed and dont bother with it again, till the next day. 
I prefer not to use my phone to surf or play games, unless i'm stuck on an hour boat ride to an island, and i'm bored or not sleepy [/color]

nobody ever said u were a human

SMH @ these casual women with major issues

Pweety4me:
I lost my brain i can't think. . .

today is sunday, it is too early in the week for this kind of surprise

Pweety4me:
I was not d 1 dat told him 2 pregnate any1 in d first place was i?

wicked sister! my friend answer the question properly b4 i disown u!

eyoniggar:
@na2day, assassinate Johnny depp, and iic is finished.

i got Johnny on my radar 

iice:
[color=#9900ff]He'll have to go thru me first to get to Johnny is all i'm saying [/color]

willingly

~Sissy~:
[size=1pt]checks self in the mirror, sees no finelines or crows feet. breaths a sign of relief [/size] gives him a dirty slap feels even more better

i dodge am! i still get skills

rhymz:
haahahahahaha. . . Two of Una no well O. . Lol. . Very soon i go botox d two of una for nya. . . Hahahaha

we need am

bawomolo:
i hope the scoreline tonite motivates you to get them dog ears checked

yes i need to wear my glasses bcuz it i am seeing the wrong score line between bulls and nets

Pweety4me:
Se i be man?

what if it was ur brother, what will u advice him to do?

Tink_sh:
For starters, there is nothing and no one in this world that could make me leave my child!!!! I never understand a women leaving her child/children. Secondly, if my brother was in this position i would suggest he doesnt give a single thought to taking her back. If she really loved him she would have stood beside him in the hard times!

good talk

Pweety4me:
So?

answer the thread question jor

Abekeade08:
no mind harakiri jare, all na mouth. It takes a lot to disembowel one's self.

Make me too go seek my bed. Goodnight ya'll

goodnight baby

Pweety4me:
But d spotlight ain't nuffin without u boy. . .lolz i thought it were your topic?

yup, it is my my thread

daduke2k:
C chykin. Abeke no gree o, im go kom bak kom generalize. @op, nt in bleepin hell. She can kiss ma black a$$ 4 all i care.

i wont blame u my brother

harakiri:
I will commit harakiri/sepuku before they take me alive.

my bois will take u alive and skin u alive  

Abekeade08:
na2day doesn't scare me though

really? i am losing my super powers!  

harakiri:
6 days a week?That's pretty intensive. . .you wouldn't be a dancer now would you?

my assassins are at ur door step  

harakiri:
In between, you aren't a bad looking girl yourself.Are you taken?

Abekeade08:
No and I am not looking---and besides you scare me.

she is taken, she doesnt know it yet!

Idowuogbo:
@ poster

Helll no

she made vows on her wedding day to stick by her man regardless ,.its bad enof dat she left d kids that shows signs of her bin irresponsible AS A MOTHER, also i tot love shud ave bin her motivating factor to stay and encourage d sayin from rags to riches, obviously not she just wanted a rock on finger . Love my brudas to bits so i wud defintely not create anoda room for error .my fellow brudas dont be blind if she is  not dere tru thick and thin den d kokolet doesnt deserve anoda chance .

i dont know if ppl actually believe in their marriage vows again even right there at the alter  

luizworld:
I really dont know It all depends on the circumstance

its gonna be hard bro, no matter the circumstance, Jesus will really have to come live in my house, no joke

Pweety4me:
@Na2day would u?plse no long story. . .

why are u gonna put a brother on the spot like that?

[PyRo:
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No way in dante's hell would i happily welcome back a woman who leaves me out to dry.

i hear u

Abekeade08:
hmm I watched that movie too.

Well your question is tough cos some men are just dreamers and have no plans of realizing their dreams and love can't feed anyone. As long as a man has big ambitions and a plan to follow through with it, then I will stand by him, but a "joseph the dreamer" type can stay far away.

If I were the guy in pursuit of happiness, no i will not take her back since she did not believe in my dreams.

yea, if the guy gives a clear plan, i think it is worth fighting for. but why will a woman leave her child and just disappear? women are more emotionally attached to their love ones, right?

southern1:
I would stick with him, although I will have a reasonable time limit for him to make this dream become a reality/come to fruition.  I'm not a dream killer.  If a brotha is seriously trying, I'd work with him.  If we're in a relationship we're in it together and I expect him to support my dreams and vice versa.  As for taking him/her back after 'making it', I don't think I would because he/she should have been there when the going was tough, not wait until the going is good and now want to share in the rewards.  Because what happens when all of a sudden the riches disappear again, they'll hit the road again and traumatize the child once again.  That's what's wrong with a lot of society today, instant gratification.  Everyone wants everything fast and easy and don't want to work for things.  The want the guy or girl who already drives the mercedes not the ones who are taking the bus or driving a hoopty who will someday drive the mercedes.

great contribution

joepayne:
nope!

what's ur reason for saying no?

I just finished watching the movie "in pursuit of happiness" by Will Smith for the up-tenth time and i just wondered, guys if it was u that ur wife walks out on u bcuz things became hard financially and she could not just believe in u or ur dream anymore and she left. u suddenly find urself alone taking care of ur kid(s) but u never gave up and things turned around in the future; if she comes back will u take her back again say after some months or years, will take her back bcuz of the kid(s)? like to know urs thots on this one guys and for the ladies will u advice ur brother to take her back? ur thots too are welcomed

akinolasam:
@ na2day:
why is my name not up there, after all my input was the most important one of all, i dey vex oo!

Sorry for the oversight. I sincerely appreciate you, even though you lashed at me unnecessarily in a response I sent to a post on "open letter to you ex". Once again thanks for your contribution.

u r welcome. anytime u need more lashing let me know, i will oblige

0hsisi:
I am proud to be married to one (though he hates that term)
We are where we are today because of his workaholicness.
It has it's challenges but if it produces good results and our time together is quality why not?
I'll rather have a supra workaholic than a lazy good for nothing ,kpof kpof eating, beer drinking slob that I'll have to take care off.
At least if I drive out now ,I know exactly where he is
Better a workaholic than a skirt chaser

i hear u sis, there is a time for everything, a time to work and a time to chill, now is the time to work all u can work and make that $$$

awwwww, check out these two love birds. happy casual!

bawomolo:
go treat your ear infection before its too late

lmao! waiting for the new health care bill to take effect but still bulls lose 2nite

i hear chicago is going to lose to the nets tonight. like i said, i heard!

luizworld:
^^how u doin, u dis 2day man

lol, i dey ooo, how ur side?

Abygul:
lol am sorry but he said i shld give u dat already mayb u shld find smtin else.

did he, i got a rain check for him, multiply those 2 middle fingers by 2, u welcome