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Come for surgery and say goodbye to play piles forever.

Pictures please

I pity those pitying the young lad. If he keeps succeeding, in a few years time he'll carry gun enter road.
Kudos to the guy for catching him early.

It's called perversion.

pcguru1:
Definitely not true, I am an example of such and i turned out well that's if you take out alcohol, depression and stuff. My Mother never took out frustration on us, then again it was a widow situation not single mother, plus never liked my dad before and after his death. I would say it depends on the individual, if anything guys raised by only the mother have it tough and also will have a hard time as they would have learnt to be self sufficient. Most times when i see kids with two parents i feel weird because am not used to it, visiting day in school for me was hell, my mother was a banker so she had to work at a young age i already realized what we and my mother had to face, it meant understanding anytime she had to be absent. The only negative effect i can say is that it has made me adjust emotionally in the sense that i find it hard to reach out to anyone or share with anyone, since i was brought up like this.

Chai see epistle i was planning to write a line o.

It's OK. I don't reply people that heap insults when they mention me. You really tried to counter my submission with your reasons. I can't claim to understand how you were raised but I sympathise with you.
Note that I kept saying that male children need a GOOD father figure. Not just any father but a good one.
Take it from a guy that has a wife and six sisters. The emotional and psychological makeup of males and females are totally different. Without one partner, the equation in my own opinion will never be balanced.

Things haven't changed much. Currently the fence is still mud, the people are still backward and some of the cars are still in use as vintage.

Sadly, they still believe Nigeria is theirs.

Like OBJ retired as a recruit.
You've met your match. OBJ was also a general in the army and a two time head of state.

I wish I had something to say.

Impressive!!!

Please where is the food?

Dreamer!!! Just note that life is not black and white.

A son definitely needs a good father figure. A boy's psyche will be totally messed up when raised only by a woman.

This woman has issues with men and the African society. She'll definitely pour out her frustrations on the innocent boys. A good man's presence is needed to balance this equation.

Once you poke her she will claim you are hers. Guys please if you don't want a woman for a relationship, don't touch her and don't accept unusual favours from her.

Why talk about marriage now? Don't be in a hurry to marry her. Start from dating and see how it goes. Please do not clutter your mind with thoughts of marriage yet.

Na waa!!!

Na lie abeg!

What kind of ugly Mercedes is this one?

Are doctors really rich enough to be kidnapped? Most doctors are not. Kidnappers should please leave our doctors alone.

sainty2k3:
Advices like this make one feels less spiritual. Can we just drop this and work a practiceable way .
Personally i believe you should be open with your wife and go out with her often,let her know your ways and your friends. If your friends cheat you are proned to doing so toi

You are free to do whatever and go wherever you want with your wife. It will take discipline to look away from lust. All I'm saying is don't let her know about that girl you find sexy but you're struggling to avoid.
You might think you're doing the right thing but your girl's self confidence, trust in you and self worth will crumble under that information. She will feel less sexy around you and if she finds another man that's ready to make her feel good, sorry she's gone.
Would have said more but let me stop here. Mind you I've been there.

RegalD:
she should understand...Though i will have to overcome lust before i marry

Simply pray that lust does not overcome you. Be aware that temptation lurks around on all corners. We Christians ask our father to deliver us from every evil.
Carry your cross and do not burden your weaker partner with a load that you find very difficult to bear.

Quite unlike you. Is dt all you've got?

[quote author=RegalD post=64017931][/quote]Don't ever make the mistake of telling your woman about your lust for another woman. You won't believe the amount of trouble you'll face. Let that thought die with you. Don't burden her with it.

Thanks for the pics.

Wow!!!! 8 boys and 2 girls.

More pictures please.

I totally enjoyed reading this article.

Freethought:
I have been dreaming about snakes for the past 2 weeks.. The dreams were not really specific but every single dream i had have a snake in it.. Even until this morning..

Please I'd appreciate if anybody can help..

Thank you

I don't know you or your circumstances but in your shoes I'll enter worship mode as a christian.
The Lord is showing you that you need to be careful in your dealings with people. The snake is very clever and deceitful. Trust in the Lord and He will help you navigate the storm of deceitful people and situations around you.
Only Him can lead you through. If you've not given your life to Him, the time is now. Without His help, these snakes will overwhelm you and clutter your mind leading to lots of regrets.

Desiring to establish a strong relationship with Him is already many steps towards Him. You need to understand that desiring to relate with Him is already a gift from Him. We love because He first loved us.
The next step is to sincerely ask Him to teach you, to help you to love Him. Then daily spend time in the Bible getting to know Him better. As you draw near to Him, He will get closer to you. He matches each of our step with a leap.
Teach us to love you Lord!!!

Gloryr:
One of my biggest regret is the fact that I did not end up as a pastor. ...such a lucrative job.......you get to sleeep with the best of women...drive the best of cars...literally enjoy life here on earth. ......smh

Not late bro! The harvest is plenty but the labourers are few.

[quote author=paxonel post=63776612]Nebes was saying that God has already judged in our favour for any case at all, both on earth and beyond.
And i say that is not true, in a case where we are wrong God will not judge in favour of us. For instance, if we fail to read we will fail our exams. Not reading is wrong, so God will not help us to pass simply because we are christians and praying. In that case we are not always winners. We only win where we work. [/quote

The more we sincerely go after Him, the more we become like Him. The more we walk with Him, the more we move in love. The whole law is summed up in love. Love for God and love for humanity. Therefore, when I walk in love, there is no law that can fault me. In the wisdom of love, I cannot but do only the right things.

This is why I say that the verse is only for Christians who TRULY seek after our Lord. In him we become better humans. We now do not struggle to obey any law for as we become like Him we only do the right things. If I do not read, I will not pass the exam. But walking in wisdom, there's no way I will not study for He directs me.

In all these, when any man or creature seeks to victimize me, I am rest assured that the judgement is in my favour. My only true business is to focus on the Lord, and focusing on Him, I daily become more like Him.

N:B. God's correction is different from human punishment. In love He teaches me to avoid sin and stupidity. I learn from Him in freedom. Man on the other hand will seek to punitively enslave his fellow man.

Beautiful!!!

paxonel:
As self explanatory that scripture is, you are getting it wrong.
Pastors are getting it wrong too.

God can not judge a case in favour of any christian when he is wrong. God is not that bias.
If you are wrong as a christian you will go for it.
However, that scripture is simply saying that, nobody can judge a christian such that, he will loose the eternal life that was once given to him as a gift through Christ, irrespective of what he or she has done

You can see it in whatever way you deem fit but we pray "thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven".
We do not wait for eternity to experience God's will. We live out heaven on earth. Christianity is not a licence for criminality. But as we consciously experience God in this life, we move boldly knowing that in all things, He has judged in our favour. We are His righteousness. Walking in Him, He sees nothing wrong in us. When we think we've erred, we must remember that we are on the side of mercy. For mercy triumphs over judgement both here on earth and in heaven.

N:B. If u are just a church-going christian, you might never experience the reality of this verse. You will need to delve deeper to true Christianity to see it manifest.