₦airaland Forum

CryptoClub2018:
Those loan apps are criminals and they shouldn't be allowed to operate in our space. They are mostly Chinese and Lebanese companies who doesn't care about privacy invasion. Defamation and blackmail isn't a good strategy for loan recovery

paqman:
On what ground exactly, a beauty peagent show in prison , what is wrong with nigeria? The organiser of the show must arrested and put to prison for six month with hard labour

EcoLaw:
Wow, somebody on here once said that America started underrating Putin after Ukraine survived a week of his invasion. If this news is true, I guess Putin himself is shocked that Ukraine and Ukrainians can last this long.

Gainman:
You are right my bros. Some unmarried think they can give advice to a married couples. This is not like u are telling a married man not to beat his wife or u are telling him not to get drunk or he should take care of his family. What is happening in different homes are more than these. Is like someone who doesn't know how to drive a car teaching someone who have been driving truck for more than 15yrs how to drive. It is until you have been in that situation before u can know how it feels. I believe this man who killed his wife sef have promised himself years back that no matter what a woman do,he will not raise his hands on her. But see what happened now. Even we have heard of pastors who committed d same crime. These are pastors who give marriage advice to people in churches too. D solution to this is just pray u don't marry a devilish woman.

Bahamas95:
@Gainman

Vawulence is never the solution in a troubled marriage. If both parties can't tolerate each other the best thing is to quit instead of doing what you would regret later outa anger.....I am not supporting the woman because I don't know what has been happening in their matrimonial home. But the man fvcked up to allow his temperament get the better of him. There're many ways to kill a rat.

The fact that someone isn't married doesn't mean he/she isn't qualified to advice married couples. Marriage is not a yardstick to judge maturity. Any idiot that can afford to pay a brideprice can get married.

Daboomb:
You are wrong about the above.
1) Abusing a Child - Using profanity on a child (Verbal); applying extreme Violence or physical injuries on a Child (Physical abuse)
2) Hitting a Child - Use of one's Fist to impact a child
3) Disciplining a Child - Training a Child to have desirable Values
4) Flogging a Child - Applying a Cane to the hand or buttocks of a Child

Now, all the above will cause pain and make a Child Cry but they are very different from each other.
As a Parent, l cant stand and watch an adult Abuse a Child or Hit a Child with their Fist. I have have challenged many Parents or older people who do such to a Child in my presence.

When it comes to disciplining a Child, l am 100% for it. I consider it as part of the necessary job of a Parent, to mould a Child into a decent member of the society. Most of the problems we have in Nigeria today, arises from lack of discipline, of our children.
It even gets worse because untrained Parents who themselves lack discipline, have now given birth to children they cant train, because "you cant give what you dont have".

Flogging is not compulsory but at times, it is necessary to drive home a point, A point that repeated verbal correction has failed to drive home.
It all depends on the child, some Children will conform, just by the "red eye" of their Parents.
Some other Child will not harken to the red eye but wil only conform when you shout and repeat the correction a few times.
Some other children are like Goats, you need to drive home th point ina mature and humane manner, not out of anger.

Every Parent needs to understand their child and apply the appropriate level of discipline but just dont be doing copy-copy of other parents because your children are not the same.

The Golden Rule for physical punishment of a Child is: Never flog a child when you are ANGRY.
Focus on the lesson (using pep talk, before and after canning), let the flogging be as minimal as possible because the goal is not to inflict 'damage" but to re-inforce a learning an change of behaviour.
Most Parents flog out of anger and that is very wrong
Show the child more love, after the flogging, so he knows that he is still loved but needs to be corrected.

That is how l was raised, that is how l am raising my Children and that is how my eldest Son is raising his own child, it has not failed us to date,

Yes, l flog my Children occassionally, the last one just finnished SS4 and three are already Graduates,

fuckingAyaya:
Perfect illustration of marriage look sweet on pictures until you enter one

MALIGNANTGuest:
You call a 19yr old Lady, TaTa?
You call 18yr old Lady under age? Sometimes I wonder the kind of men we have these days.
You expected him to settle for Old Layers right? .
Your parents are still busy looking for Fresh Blood, you are busy looking for a Lady with an experience. Better Wake up.

ChangetheChange:
Russia has always bragged to have 900,00 troops , why isn't Putin sending some of those troops into Ukraine, but instead a world power like Russia is begging Terrorists/jihadists to help them take over Ukraine
Putin confused Nairalanders should come and defend Putin on this one
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LeJeun3:



Who steals a Hybrid??

Mom007:
All of you who go collecting loans from these companies and refuse to pay, what really is your problem? How dies such act differ from buying things at your neighborhood grocery and refusing to pay? These people may be going about their agitations wrongly but they are genuine agitations. If you cannot pay back as at when due, don't borrow!

Divoc19:
If possible, get a new sim or transfer all contacts before borrowing.

Rexymania:
If you never collect loan from these guys and them never defame you, then you're not a Nigerian

Stevenson1:
Lol
Federal government should look into those loan shark people oo. They are behaving like rogue agency and it's not okay.

234GT:
The money loks huge sha.

meedoLock:
Which kind wahala be this, as in. Why yo no add the ruged "short cake" na

ZUBY77:
Useless man.
Food scarcity is normal now.
Fuel scarcity is normal
Scam fuel subsidy is normal.

Rice went up and never looked back.
Foreign Excahnage went up and never looked down.

We know Crude oil trades above 100 dollars now, the Nigeria Budget benchmark has been 45 dollars, nobody has been talking about the excess.

Excess 65 dollars X 1.6 million barrels per day X one month = over 3 billion Dollars.
Where is this money?

Who needs forgiveness? Rogues.

EmptyGarden:
Bill was probably written in Chinese.

Mummyfour:
Not even an intelligent or smart pensioner o, but someone that would have fared better receiving his pensions in fura with his cattle rearing as a vocation.
How this man came to rule over intelligent and smart Nigerians in all spheres of life still baffles me
No be JuJu be that?

Daguga:
Did i hear weak purchasing power? Are these telcos joking. Don't they know that Nigerians are one of the highest consumers of telecommunication products in the world?
In saner climes, the likes of mtn, glo, airtel, 9mobile should have been flushed out of Nigeria due to their worsening services. Especially that useless glo.