Do understand that all we have is a planet circling it's orbit and humans who choose to keep track of its movement in the form of a calendar. Understand that the best way to enjoy this life is to live each day like it's brand new and with the belief that most things are still achievable regardless of how many birthdays you've celebrated. Age is a man made concept, refuse to internalize it and you'll be truly free.

There's more risk jumping around than sticking to a man for long. What's wrong with defining the relationship from the onset and constant communication of needs then leaving when these aren't met.

I can easily marry a woman who stayed faithful to her ex in a relationship that lasted 10 years but later got dumped than a hoe testing the microphone with different men cos she's obsessed with quickly 'settling down'.

Cheating is a nature. You don't cheat if you don't have it naturally in you. Same way a carnivore can't feed on plants. Ya'll can rationalize these things all you want, but a woman who has any reason to cheat instead of ending things is a virus that will eventually destroy the man she eventually 'settles' with.

It's a mistake to push a man to violence when violence is what he has dedicated his life to perfecting. Iran doesn't know their mates.

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He has Sowore to thank for that.

South west owns the media. Buhari rode on this to ascend power and with same will he and his demonic party go down. We will not forget.

Beckysexy:
Nice, I would like to be in the same room with all of them.

*P.S - We need articles like this more often .......

I’m just short of words....

You want a foreign diplomat of a powerful country out of your midst cos of your homophobic inclinations. Inclinations that has no proven correlation with economic development. Interesting...

If you're around the same age bracket as her, you'll die young dabbling into any serious relationship with girls that age. She's exploring, you should too.

Dmanky:


Well researched and analyzed....Thanks. pls can I copy n paste on my fb wall.

No problem

The problem with this country is more fundamental than it appears. The citizens don't speak with one voice so the so called democracy is dead on arrival. Take for instance this Sowore issue, we're now divided into four major factions.

1. The ones who still support Buhari despite all his excesses
2. The ones who don't support him but are still filled with ire how their 'kinsman' Jonathan was booted out of office. Even though at the time, he was performing awfully which left Nigerians with no choice.
3. The ones who initially supported Buhari due to the excesses of Jonathan but later realized the former is even worse. These are the few open minded ones with no blind loyalty to any particular individual but driven by sheer desire for the Country's prosperity.
4. The indifferent ones who are probably doing well financially and don't really care about the political happenings in the country.

Since the citizens aren't speaking with one voice, the ruling aristocrats can afford to be reckless cos they will always have citizens in these four factions who'll fight their own fellows to ensure the tyranny continues.

And it's in this mess Sowore finds himself. He evidently means well but he's fighting a cause only him can't achieve alone and needs the support of the majority. Unfortunately there is no sane and favorable majority. They all fiddle while Rome burns.

Nicklaus619:
Finally federal government has borrowed sense.
I disliked this guy each time I remember how he blackmailed GEJ and sold Buhari to us in 2015....

Fvck you and your useless GEJ diick sucking. It's cos of motherfvkers like this Sowore's consistent activism is a waste of time. So cos one is bad and someone spoke about it, he shouldn't speak against anyone that turns out worst? Your low IQ is enough reason to declare your existence a threat to the society. Mtcheew...Even the GEJ has moved on. I don't normally get this vulgar but moronic slimes like this needs to be purged from this country for any breeze of progress to come. GEJ my black ass. Less I forget, Fvck you once again!

Audio court order

Always said it. Humanity is overrated. The so called homophobes will secretly shag this dude when all the seductive curves are flaunted at them. We try so hard to deny the fact that we are all ignoble animals flattered by superficial traditions and norms. Life is complex, so is human sexuality. Get over it.

pauladeboye:
I can't remind my login details on Ican website. I can't even remind the e-mail I used.I have tried so many times but I can't login, pls help.

Please correct yourself. This is embarrassing and it doesn't even appear to be a typo. I would have easily ignored if it's a thread of plebeians and non academicians. But the Institute has fought hard for its reputation to admit folks like you as ambassadors.

1). Marrying the wrong person,
2). Losing your personal identity (once you become daddy everything changes)
3). Falling out of love
4). Boredom

Day me and my pop went to a bar then and he was like 'Are you sure just two will be enough for you?, you can take more'. Well I took more and we both staggered home...Twas there I knew I was now a boss....

It's called je'kan oyo (eat one and be satisfied)

madridsta007:



I am a very objective person and take out emotions from my statements- something you clearly struggle to do.

In my option, Sowore is clearly being held accountable to his role in installing the most despotic regime currently in West Africa and certainly in Nigeria since the return to democracy. An accountability, that everyone who participated in this despotism, yourself included, would "enjoy" at some point in this life.

HOWEVER, the rule of law transcends my opinion that he be held accountable to this deed. The rule of law is enforced by the courts or, at least, works hand-in-hand. As the courts have ruled that he be released, and [b]as he has met his bail terms, he SHOULD BE RELEASED.
Pathetic[/b]

You're still missing the point. How do you hold an investigative journalist 'accountable' for speaking against the ills of an administration. Especially when this same Journalist has been consistent in criticizing regimes preceding the one you have a disturbing nostalgia for? And even gone to Jail severally for such criticisms.

Every sane country knows the importance of opposition especially in the Journalism industry because it's a potent tool to ensure there are adequate checks and balances.

What is wrong with everyone in this country? Suddenly almost everyone is incapable of stringing together a submission rich in sound logic and common sense anymore.

Lol. Plot twist. The accuser is now the accused. You're the one that was fvcked/'raped' severally like a dog yet you're the one paying 1 million naira for a 'job well done'.

madridsta007:


Forgive me for digressing. Your justification of lawlessness- quite clearly, despite the obfuscating nuances you've tried to mask them with, is the problem with Nigeria and Africa's fledging democracies. You are one of the reasons why many believe that the white man is a different mental and superior breed to the black man.

lol its funny how people use analogies that suits their bias. In your earlier comment you assert Sowore deserves no pity and he's only reaping the fruits of his labor.

Yet in this recent comment you agree it's improper for the Govt to flout court order and not release him.

The import of all these is that your sentimental attachment towards the previous administration has masked your ability to forgive anyone that spoke against its excesses which makes you lack the moral justification to talk about how a white man is mentally superior to a black man.

You're the full definition of everything a black man stands for that has kept us in the doldrums for centuries.

By the time Buhari is done with this country, he'll make Abacha look like an angel.

Freehuman:


But I'm sure of one thing and I'll bet my life on this assertion.....

I can bet with my life that if....

Here is a chronic gambler who doesn't mind staking his life in the casino....

ovadozes:

That Sowore and his Sahara reporters as well as every other newspaper of Lagos Ibadan axis played a very significant role in the enthronement of this govt is a fact and a fact is a fact even if it starts sounding like a cliché to you, people like me will continue to sound it so that history does not repeat itself, like my people say he who fetched an ant infested firewood should not complain when the lizard visits. I don't know what other deductions you want me to make.

Oga sit down and stop sounding like a broken record. Your nostalgic feelings for the woeful Jonathan administration shouldn't crowd out your sanity. This country need media outlets like Sahara Reporters that will always be in the opposition to serve as checks and balances to the excesses of any Administration. Sowore didn't endorse anybody, he was only doing his job as a Journalist and none of his investigations lacked substance. He did all these with the hope that someday your children can have a less fvcked up country with no thieves and Dictators running its affairs. So instead of rushing at any opportunity to punch your keypads, allow your mental faculties to catch up with the speed of those fingers too.

There is most likely a quid pro quo arrangement underlying the donation. Might be some Tax, Money Laundering or long term business considerations. Behind every great fortune, there is a crime....

UjuJoan2:


The shocking irony is that one of the people who was preaching self esteem, voice, choice yen yen yen . . . Is the same person asking her to 'pray'. Such hypocrisy.

The husband asked her to leave, and someone is telling her to stay and pray for him. I can't deal abeg.

You being able to deal or not has no bearing on anything. And it doesn't also make your point meaningful. These days you hardly open a thread on this platform without seeing all these moronic feminists trying too hard to explain why women shouldn't take shiit, are equal to men and all that nonsense - even when the issue requires deeper understanding and a diplomatic approach.

You guys now reason like a Robot with linear thinking process having no capability of understanding the importance of context. Have you even asked any further questions to know if the man is really as monstrous as the story painted? You just heard a statement and bam the woman should start packing her bags....And what is disturbing is the sets of kids already doomed to fail in marriages cos of their belief in this impetuous approach to marital issues.

You will all be alright las las.....

DameB:


And you didn't deem it fit to address his own infidelity?
That's why you guys end up being cheated on cos you think you are smart

His infidelity doesn't justify his wife fvcking another man in marriage!. All these feminist slimes who doesn't know their place in the marriage echelon always want to have an opinion. He cheated so?....So you're justified to let another man climb you like a donkey cos your husband cheated.

If our mothers followed this nonsense, we'll all be raised by wretched whores!..Surrendering your dignity (pvssy) for another man cos your husband hurt you already speaks to your nature...A lion can't eat grass regardless of the degree of its hunger. And yes I support women that seeks divorce (as a last resort) from a man who can't stop fvcking around. Any other approach that encourages doing similar thing the man does is a whorish one period!

Besides I want to believe you don't have comprehension problems cos my fourth point 'if you're really ready to stop cheating too....' already showed I subtly preached the Golden rule shiit you're all throwing around.

Honestly marriage isn't for this generation. It should be abolished.

1. The true picture of what really went down can only be depicted well by the man she fvcked. She certainly has edited the story....trust me the devil is in the details.
2. Her reason for cheating isn't the whole story...ultimately, she had it in her core nature and some things just triggered the monster in there.
3. She might still cheat and she might not. But one thing is certain, she will go on a long break first before doing such and it most likely will be emotional cheating not physical.
4. If you're really ready to stop cheating too, entrench a sacred law - No secrets. And find sophisticated ways to secretly track her in the future to see if she will break the rule. If she breaks it thrice in your marriage lifetime. Get a divorce. The psychological trauma an adulterous woman brings can shorten your lifespan.

Yinibixema:

Stfu arindin. A stubborn and disrespectful wife deserves real time beating from time to time

This is disturbing....but then judging from the stfu line appearing in most of your comments, I think it’s more of a neurological issue you’re battling with. Find a psychiatrist who can diagnose the degree of the deterioration for the sake of a less toxic social media space.

CHoccolaTE:


It's not only because useless husbands are tired of being breadwinners.

You embody enormous bitterness and it permeates all your contributions and topics on this platform. A large percentage of your topics/submissions reeks of weird and naive feminist advocacies. Tilting towards extremes in a bid to satisfy the reservoir of hatred built in you due to personal experiences can only consume your sanity. Hence I’ll advise you drink water, sit down and learn the principle of the Golden mean when analyzing issues.

Anytime Sowore is ready to contest again (whenever they choose to release him), he will have my unwavering support. I don't care if my vote won't count. And if he dies in prison, no baga that kept mute during his detention will ever have my regard. If Nigerians choose to vote Thieves, Hypocrites and Rogues, they should knock themselves out.

Real knows Real.

Maturity is about knowing what to pay attention to and what to ignore....you should be more worried about the ilk of naive lowlives your company is made up of.

Tale of a masochist who meets a sadist to the bewilderment of the neighbors....

I'm sure it started from a slap, then a punch, then a pounding....in between, the guy might have showed some bipolar tendencies and also showed his "romantic" side and it's this side the woman is fixated on which makes the suffering endurable. "He's not always like this" is the consoling factor.

My advice? Limit your involvement in this issue BUT create a sort of awareness to the security agencies. You would have done your civic responsibility. Also withdraw your child from there until normalcy is restored....such scenes of violence will have devastating effects on your son's outlook of the world when he grows. However in every way do your part, but in moderate doses.

Evil prevails cos good men do nothing.