₦airaland Forum

EjaikreTheViper:
go find ur class of woman
U know where to find them
they are in the villages.

And your type are in the brothel working.

EjaikreTheViper:
...and so?
go to brothels if you ain't comfortable with it.

Go and work in a brothel if you want money for spreading your legs. Stop wasting time on NL.

6. Stingy guys: you can't spend a dime on a woman and you claim to love her. You want her to open her legs wide for you to do whatever you want but can't buy her a small gift. why not go to brothels and tell the girls there that you want sex but can't spend?

Interesting.
You are now advocating for sex for payment??

Well, that's called prostitution. Any woman that collects “gifts” after sex is a verified pròstitute.

Please call me stingy.
But I wouldn't spend because of sex.

If she'll open her legs wide for me, it shouldn't be because of my little petty gifts abeg.

IvarDboneless:
do you mean going the court way...

Yes.

Bro you made life together with your wife, a beautiful child, put your differences aside and try to nuture it together. Don't give up just yet.

Put in effort even if it's onesided from you.
Make her fall in love with you.

When you get her back, don't try to 'control' her because she'd put up resistance. It's not about feminism. It's human nature to react like that.

The decision will hugely go in your wife's favour. One of the reason being; the child's tender age.

So you'll have to establish that your wife is unfit (either mentally or financially) of taking care of the child. I think you can ‘tell’ the result already.

She has very bad anger issues . I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry...

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said....

You didn't scold your girlfriend; the one with the terrible anger issues but scolded your mother??

Chei! Your ancestors must be whirling in pain.

Keep tolerating her “anger”.

She'll put it to good use oneday and strike sense into your head, then you'll know it's time to RUN.

It'll end in tears.

I am not a prophet but I certainly know;

- Brown envelopes will exchange hands.

- The ministry of aviation will tender an apology claiming it was all a big misunderstanding.

RuudVanNisteroy:
No Nigerian leader can walk in the streets without security. They destroyed the country with their greed and embezzled all the funds.
Turning the citizens to scavengers.

No world leader can take a walk in the street without security... It's not a “Nigerian” thing.

Guy, you are naive if you believe he went out jogging alone. They are close by watching him.

They might even be among the “adoring fans”.

It'll be suicidal to approve. My reasons being;

1. Nigeria as a country is simply too corrupt for the accreditation system to work to perfection.

This implies approval will only empower thugs, psychopaths and fanatics with lethal firearms.

2. We don't have the technology or money to employ the use of ballistic record & fingerprint in case of misuse. Crimes will go unpunished.

3. Our surveillance system is nonexistent. So how do you intend we monitor and regulate distribution of firearms on such a large scale??

Women have suffered.
I can understand why some despise men.

They even hold video calls too?

And still yet, with the familiar background or noise (not to mention body recognition), she continues to pull it off?? Lol. Fabricated fantasy.

SweetCunt97:
And you don't know some emotional hurt can damage one for life? Pls let him leave d nest, he's an adult already. Atleast for his own sanity.

I hope you'll there for him when he creates a thread in the future begging for aid or protection.

Your job pays above the minimum wage, yet you want to turn to beast... I can only wonder what graduates without a job would want to turn into!

lefulefu:
3 yrs is enuf to get a degree in some countries sef

Abi
Long term relationships always end in tears.

You want to know if I'll marry someone who has a very high probability of getting cancer of the lips, mouth and lungs, brain damage, stroke, bad breath, cataracts & seizures because of love??

My answer is NO.

Davash222:
These are one of the techniques African mothers use to ostracize the spirit of laziness in their sons. No too reason am.

You call physical abuse & wrongful accusations techniques by AFRICAN MOTHERS to ostracize laziness??

Guy, don't try to normalize and generalize abuse with your toxic view against women. Just stfu.

Harsher reality awaits out there.
If you want to fly, grow wings first.

You've 2 or 3 years to graduation.
Stay put, cope and get your degree.

Spread your wings & fly out during your NYSC.

We seek advice on what to should be done

What to be done?
Pack and move out. It's either him or you guys.

You are all vulnerable and at risk.
That big plank might land on someone next.

I don't think he's mentally stable upstairs.

That all men are even looking irritating to her, she doesn't want men close to her.

Is she gay?
At this point, you've to question her sexuality.

Anyway, there's any spark left in her.
Your relationship is not salvageable. It's gone.

If only they'll listen and stop holding women to such high moral standards, things will be okay.

Apology is not a sign of weakness.
All these retards roaming Nairaland self

Who else is also waiting for the day that a Nollywood actress will say something sensible?

Dating for 3 years...
Are you guys “studying” for a degree?

Imagine submitting your resume to the same company everyday for 3years... Wouldn't you try other options?? Don't waste time with someone you intend to marry or they'll be forced to move.

Porn, masturbation and your unfaithful “exes”.

These 3 factors restructured your brain to now exist without any emotional volatility or desire.

You have no surge hence no feminine desire.

Give up on porn & masturbation.
Let your brain rewire.

Go out & make new female acquaintance.

1. It's a legal catch.
2. It's not an endangered specie.

But...
It looks human!!
If you can eat this, you can eat a Homo sapien.

Last I checked, that's a choice.
As long as she'll submit herself, I don't care.

Going by your analogy, it's also risky to marry a man who gives into sex. Now if you think of it, risky cancels risky; so they deserve eachother.

Welcome to Nigeria where;

-Your girlfriend is someone's girlfriend.
-Your girlfriend is someone's backup girlfriend.
-Your back-up girlfriend is someone's girlfriend.
-Your back-up girlfriend is someone's back-up.

And the circle continues...
In the end, nobody is loyal.

Well, just lower your expectations when dating a Nigerian girl... Don't ever put all your trust into it.

You didn't address important questions like;

— Criminal record
— Health record
— Body count
— Salary grade
— Marital history

No mentioned of her arrest.
I hope she doesn't get away with this.

I've been ghosted once by my crush.

She changed school. She didn't even tell me. I spend the holiday planning & rehearsing how to confess to her. Imagine my pain on resumption.