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nedekid:
What is paining you with my post?
Why don't you make your own submission mr "adult" and move on?
All these babies on nairaland. Seun ought to make folks do age verification.
Are you even married? I doubt cos if you were you wount be talking of dating sites etc on your profile.
Na anonymous forum I blame.

Ori e gbale...epe ni gbogbo yin ma gba lenu mi

StPete:
Oponu! Go back and clearly read the comment the lady posted before you put your gutter mouth or wrinkled shriveled hands to pen down your insanity. Beast! Gedifok off my mention

You don't have a soul or human feeling...cos u are an idiot .Eran maluu is better than you....
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So cos she said that means she's wrong to say it...well, she's an honest person...you deal with your low self esteem wretched mentality whose importance lies around a vagina of a woman...Eran oshi

IMASTEX:
No word for you, just keep eating to become of age.

Your kind should not be allowed to speak in public forum like this...so u won't spread your delusional mentality around

zanshi:
Hello Community,
Women of nowadays cannot be trusted and i cant emphasize that enough, as a man, i need to be on top of situations of things with what my woman is up to at every point in time. I reminisced aback to that movie "MAGUN- Thunderbolt" i watched in the early 2000's and it's efficacy on how it dealt with women who broke their marital vows and slept around. If could pick my preference on how i want the African science connocated, it is either the guy runs mad or he and my supposed woman's glues up together while she calls me on the phone after running out of options to come and see what she has brought upon herself. My reaction would be terrifying because i would mock and jest them take a private snapshot so her mature family members can be aware of the prostitute of a daughter they have before i divorce her.

For those of you wondering why this? My woman has in the past betrayed my trust by sleeping around when we were in a committed romantic relationship and i felt really hurt by that. I need recommendations on how best i can go about this.

Hope you dint later marry her...if you did...I say sorry o

IMASTEX:
Scanning. . . finally finds a sensible comment. Such mentality will obviously & gladly use her body to negotiate anything in time of needs. Life is valuable & everyone including clergymen will do anything to negotiate for it. But painting a rape case as a giveaway especially when the example is so personalised shows a high sense of disrespect & less value for her body. Many ladies don't like watching scenes of rape let alone assuming to be the person involved. It is simply her value system!

Just STFU...you and the OP have the IQ of a chicken...very parochial and delusional mentality

CheedyJ:
I know you’re just being silly or rather playing to d gallery .. no be only Hero na Trophy..

The babe is known for silly comments on this space, always playing to the gallery

jeesprecy:
Rape can be traumatic. She probably said that cause she doesn’t know the trauma attached to rape but also death isn’t an option too. May we not find ourselves in duct situations like that.

Ogbeni why not pick one option and stop hiding under big big grammar to spew thrash. Or just tell us rape is more painful and traumatic than death. Rubbish

jeesprecy:
Rape can be traumatic. She probably said that cause she doesn’t know the trauma attached to rape but also death isn’t an option too. May we not find ourselves in duct situations like that.

Ogbeni pick one option and stop hiding under big big grammar to spew thrash. Or just tell us rape is more painful and traumatic than death.

StPete:
Your comment has been the most honest and reasonable so far. I mean for crissake, why would a lady just assume rape is pleasurable except of course she's intrigued by the pleasure of it. She wasn't even supposed to make such comments even if she had harboured it in her head

Her comment was the stupidest, followed by yours.

nedekid:
The wife talks without sense. Certainly not smart.
While we agree it is survival instinct, there was no point in her mentioning what she will do faced with such situation.
Somethings best left silent.
Put yourself in the ops shoe, how will you feel if wife says such?
Its just like a man saying he will die to protect his wife, yet we know most men wount. But you do not go telling your wife to her face you wount die for her.

Just shut the fviick up you kid...

reubenobi:
Last week, I met a lady. I collected her number and we got chatting. The next day, she came over. I tried to get to know her better but she was so glued to her phone. It was so annoying that I kept quiet and didn't say anything to her anymore. I waited for like 15minute staring at her but, she was still on her phone chatting. I was so pissed off that I had to form a call. I tapped her before she came to her senses and I told her I was going out now. Immediately she stepped out of the gate, I locked my gate and blocked her number.

You did the best thing...even if she chat you up, don't view or reply it.

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

Calidra, abi wetin be your name...wot kind of bullshit are u spewing....You mean she died a hero...I don't get uo...u are always forming one saint and prim...but na format. May God help u be honest in ya life. And for ya information...Yes, some ladies enjoyed being raped...some fantasize being raped ..so what's ya point...if not all bullshit

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

Na small pikin dey do you. If it happened in real life, so u will prefer they shot your wife for resisting rape Get sense na..

I will rather retire and become a farmer in my village than fight for this useless country.....

Lol lol lol lol lol.

This one is about to make a mistake of a lifetime.
Using love and change in thesame sentence...2 impossicant things....People don't change... they even get worse in marriage....then love..few people love these days....and if they do, love usually go cold in marriage...it takes grace and extra effort to keep it burning...
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So don't deceive yourself..be pragmatic..don't be an idealist in issue of marriage.....Na full premium tears

Namkbank:
Active on social media has nothing to do with cheating

I don't expect you to say otherwise anyway

Mardarling:
Yahoo boy spotted

You no geh sense at all. Are you not tire of people saying money ritual doesn't work...when they could have just gone ahead to prove them wrong. People are dying everyday and some fools think it doesn't work. If it doesn't work.. common sense is that the herbalist should have gone out of business since..yet that's not the case

ednut1:
Fools, these things dont work. Ifnit does you will simply go to a bank and command the manager to give you money

Then go ahead and try it out first now...I hope you are not the fool here cos u are too scared to try something that won't work...prove them wrong first

Vv

Na this kine investigative journalism Nigerian blogger dey do

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Nigeria will soon start playing their home game here....I doubt if any Nigerian stadium has a lush green covered pitch that's perfect like this

Shortyyy:
Every business now has gone online. Stay in your village and don't get exposed.

But that shouldn't be an excuse to carry and showcase promiscuity online

DaniDani:
This is absolutely true. This is one major problem that ruined my marriage. Sge is everything the op described above.

So heart-breaking to hear. Sorry bro

olokos201:
]Big thunder fire the mod that ban me for a month here, he shall not live to see next year, the hatred whoch he has on me that makes him banned my acc and not banned others acc doing the same thing he said I committed will consume him to death before the end of this year. I have been banned for two weeks now but kept silent, anytime I see someone doing the same thing this walking dead mod banned me fall, I am always filled with this rage to kill the mod right away. You shall not prosper, from this very moment things will be going south for you untill you finally meet your demised this year. Even after the your death, ypu shall not find peace, ur spirit shall move about the sacred places here on earth begging and crying for your bias deeds on earth here will torment you even in hell.

The mod should keep on been bias in his/her doing and he/she knows themselves, all the curse here and the curse in the bible wil locate you very soon, Continue.

Guy man..easy now ... Did the ban make you lose millions of naira? ...Even Buhari no chop this kine swear from 9ja people. Doo

baralatie:
actually chatting his additive

Only additive when you have people fanning your ego. For some months now, I've cut down on every of my social media engagement....and I'm fine...I even freeze my Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Whatsapp. Only a bit active on Nairaland.. sometimes you need peace from all the glamor and time wasting fake life of social media

bereavedheart:
The moniker was suitable then, when I first opened this account. Am I free to assume you are a "freak"

I'm a normal human being.... ... only freaky in the positive side of tins

Liposure:
am not referring to you

May God bless you for me