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I notice women with big ass and big boobs have a way of flaunting it to captivate guys. But what physical features as explicit and raunchy as ass and boobs that men have to flaunt apart from their diick?
I know the visual value of a diick lies in it's size. And guys usually love to flaunt their wealth or intelligence.
So do guys with big diick codedly showcase it or overtly flaunt it to ladies just to make them come to fvvck the diick, the way women do too of their sexy asset. Has it even ever worked? Cos gals showing us their pants, shaks their big yansh and exposing their boobs just to seduct us to bed them..How about guys?? Do they do it? Does it work?

SILENTandSMART2:
eleribuu man why will you forrkk a kayamated woman ?


you're simply BROstitute ,



shey the matter suppose freak you if you self is not oloribuu

wetin concern me if you're using kayamata or kayamoto when i no dey look for pussy up and down, if 'em use your glory nobody give a forrkkk don't blame anybody abeg, jusss blame your destiny wey dey push you to kayamated woman

Ode ni e.
Even your wife can use kayamata on you..to lock you to her own wishes so you won't go out to look other women. Be sensible....not to talk of desperate women looking for husband, money and sugar daddy

Kondomatic:
A lady gave me this explanation yesterday and I told her that this is not a man's problem as far as Uchenna is concerned.

Child swap happens... I have known that for long


But if my child isn't mine,(God forbid) after DNA test then there's only one person who can explain what happened; my wife.


I will ask what happened straight up and if she feels she's been faithful then she should prove it by doing her own DNA test. This is got nothing to do with me.




The women are guilty in the all the cases I have seen so far.

In most cases, the women are guilty no doubt...there's always an exception..thank God science can still prove that exception. And in that exception, sometimes, the woman may not know the child was swapped... especially if done mistakenly by nurses....or by some sinister plan unknown to her

Sounds fake. Like a clout chaser. Thank you.

dederocs:
mismatch...this rarely happens, women give birth and carry their child, in most cases.

Yes..rare....but in that rare cases, people should also be aware of that possibility, especially women that are sure they dint cheat....or women

Wahala for who be firstborn o....you will be suspectin your mother and wondering what if your dad that have been forming all love and macho is not ya dad......chai...not pleasant suspecting your parents

Can you imagine

baralatie:
imagine and it is no more than 2minutes o!

Now you get the implication

Men have been using aphrodisiac product just to enjoy sex and give satisfaction to women they fvvck. Kayamata, for men, is for sex prolongation without premature ejaculation, sheer pleasure and most times, nothing else.....
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Now to womenfolk
.... They all of a sudden caught the bug of kayamata to sweeten their vagina. Only God knows how they achieve vagina sweetening..If only they stopped at sweetening their vagina. But no...
Kayamata is now so devilish, and evil in the hands of our women that they add all forms of ritual, and incantation to the brand of kayamata they use. They now use kayamata just to finish and drain the life of a man, to Suck all his money, to bewitch him, to put him under spell so as to command him to their wishes once he inserts his penis to fvvck them. Everything to their financial gain...What a wicked world!
What a wicked and selfish species of human...fear women, fear women...they can be devilish especially in Nigeria.
Comparation of the use of kayamata by men and women in Nigeria only confirm women to be evil.
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Thanks

baralatie:
will they throw away the child ni

They can't..but it usually comes with a lot of
stress, trauma, strife and bitterr responsibility..if not death sometimes...

baralatie:
come.when the rich man dies!
you will see action film

That's the reason why family or the society is against it..cos it's ladden with alot of Wahala later in life

Mcslize:
People do give birth at home not only in the hospital.

Their women who are not medical personnel that deliver babies.

But won't you rather your wife gave birth in the hospital

baralatie:
does not make them less human and can in the eyes of the court claim everything the father /mother has

They are no less human in philosophical or idealistic terms..however, society don't approve of them...I mean no family pray for such fraud.

Agboki:
E dey very very possible, na now I dey c reasons y I dey behave like Bill gate.

Lol...

baralatie:
I don't think there is need to describe a human being that way.

As derogatory as it seems...that's just the word society assigns to children birthed by another man without the knowledge of the husband. Tells us how the world frowns at such fraud

baralatie:
there was a case where 60 years old was claiming child birth and then another young lady was claiming that the baby was hers.whenit came out to the knowledge of the police that the clinic was swapping babies.by the time the case came on air (it's newsline).a third couple that gave birth in that hospital came out to lay claim on that same baby.
the police took their dna plus the baby and found out that the baby belonged to none of the three.
every one went mad.the governor just order the closure of the clinic and the arrest of all the medical staffs

Can you imagine...!!!!!
And I wrote this post not knowing something of this grand scale have happened in Nigeria...even though I've known where it happened once, but not on this scale.........Men be raising bastards since 1900

ghettochild4u:
Stop watching Nollywood

Look at this one....child swapping happens everywhere in the world...even in the Bible, Solomon had to judge a case of child swapping with wisdom...it still happens.

iLegendd:
You people ask women lots of stupid questions and expect smart and favorable answers.

Real men don't bother asking too many questions. They do most things in silence and without trace.

You too much breh

donbachi:
apart from hospitals...where?

Happens in hospital...but where else do you want your wife to give birth

donbachi:
To avoid mixmatch,have a family member around.dat will follow them closely or u go to a private hospital and get a private ward.

Mixmatch can happen anywhere bro...

Nazgul:
I agree with you...most times the signs are there. Just that many men are blinded by a non-existing love. A woman that will divorce you after just one month in marriage will actually have displayed such glaring signs but most men foolishly choose to ignore them.

I learnt one bitter truth in relationships. Who isn't yours isn't yours, never force anyone to love you.

Never endure anyone who's character isn't compatible with you because you love them, it will end in premium tears because people don't change they only get worse.

Never invest heavily on a partner to win her heart, your investment will earn you her body but not her heart.

Never go into conflict with your parents or siblings because of a partner. You'll be on your knees begging when your relationship goes south. (This one applies to females as well)

Never try to change or rebrand a partner, you'll end up getting frustrated. Go for the one that exhibits the characteristics of what you want and date her.

Never fall in love with a girl you love, rather fall in love with a girl who loves you. When you fall in love with a girl you love, if she doesn't feel the same way, you'll spend all your time in that relationships trying to gain her affection. She will torture you emotionally, drain you financially, manipulate you into doing things for her against your wish... etc. But when a girl geninuely loves you, she'll go any length and give anything just to be with you. Flee from home, borrow, make sacrifices...just to make you happy.

Finally, men should be wise, flying your spouse abroad isn't bad, but make sure she has earned your loyalty, trust and love.

For you to write all these golden truth without adding Redpill, lol, you go don suffer gan from women o..lol

When you cheat and I catch you...I can only keep fvbcking you like a farm tool...nothing else, no more usefulness..just using you as a farm tool that u are

It means she won't make the mistake of fucking any man during her fertile ovulation period except you, and if she does, she will abort it or use pill...But after that, she can go all out on full throttle to gbensh any dicck she fancies behind you. Open your eyes well well. No loose guard breh
She was speaking in both parables and sarcasm

muystoy:
That's what Yorubas call 'ashigbe omo inu ward'

In the past, does Yoruba ever had a way of revealing the case of Ashigbe imo inu ward? cos it's only DNA test that can reveal such in case the DNA doesn't also match with the mother

Now that there's so much noise about paternity scandal, it's apt to make this point for people who may not know.
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It's very possible that DNA reveals a father is not the biological father to his child and yet the wife never cheated, at least during her conception.
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This is how it can happen:
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It can only happen through child swapping or mixmatch in the hospital.
When babies are born in the hospital, sometimes, by sinister intention or by mistake, usually by mistake, a nurse may exchange another woman's baby for another, unknowing to the mother that her baby has been swapped.
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Usually it goes unnoticed until father suspects infideliy and DNA is done. when this happens, and after DNA has shown the man isn't the father, the woman may get dismayed and cry that she's certain she never cheated during her conception.
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If the woman is 100% damn sure of her fidelity: then she should call for a second DNA test to confirm if the child's DNA matches her own DNA.
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If it matches, then the woman is a devilish liar and unrepentant cheat.
if it doesn't match, that means the child is truly not hers, and was birthed by another mother.
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Ideally, a child usually matches both father and mothers gene. It's only during child swap that it won't match with both father and mother.
And during mothers infidelity, it won't match with the man, but will match with the mother, except the baby was swapped.
DNA can never lie!

oyolohi:
...a thread I've anticipated for a long time.


As a guy, I'll like to air my opinion on this "who's the prize" argument among other little things. Rather: I'll like to air my opinion on why I think MEN are the PRIZE?


Firstly, I recognize good philosophy when I see one --irrespective of the gender it comes from. I rarely read such from females by the way (no disrespect). However, I fell in love (at first sight) with the Sandrazima's philosophy and how she presented her points.


I've always been of the opinion that woman is a superior specie to man (I was in denial for some time before acceptance) -- more superior specie in terms of survival --which is, indeed, the major criterion used by biologists to do the rankings. It's no coincidence that women out number men and have a longer lifespan at the same time! --irrespective of the fact (collectively) that men are stronger in terms of physical strength, arguably more intelligent, etc. Than women.


If you give the relationship between man and woman deeper thoughts, you'll realize that the relationship is more like what goes on between predator and prey --men as prey -- more accurately put: FOOD.

Just as the vegetable in my garden strives under the sun to be successful --only for me to feed on it? --thereby increasing my lifespan. In which case, isn't food (a.k.a Man) the PRIZE? Of course!


Sandrazima, you've made lots of good points in an intelligent manner (more intelligent than most guys here will admit) : your comic analogy of why men do not think straight when with an erection cracked me up but about how men stare at female's features...I still do that. However, before rushing into a conclusion that it is a weakness in our biology; consider my experience and little experiment:


I found myself disgusted each time I stared at a woman's bo0bs or a$$. I once concluded that it was in our biology before having a rethink: Generally, a chest with lumps should logically draw more attention same way a planet with more moons will naturally draw more attention. To further prove this point, take note when a 'fine' girl with big bo0b/behind walks by: not only guys stare, all girls present there stare --girls even tend to stare longer! Of course, the girls might not picture themselves in bed with the big b00bs girl, only the guys might do so. Similarly, when a guy with big muscles walks by, he draws the attention of guys and girls but the guys might not picture him in bed, only the girls might do so!



P.S. : Women have embarked on a dangerous journey. How so?
While men tried to provide and protect women since time immemorial, they improved muscles and "ruggedity" in savagery --which has hitherto been a requirement for human survival. Women played along and surprisingly ate the larger part of the pie. While men developed physical strongth, women developed bada$$ traits while covering up with misleading "childishness."


Another bitter truth I discovered is that: men like to suffer unnecessarily without knowing why,same way women might like bad guys without knowing why.


As an emotionless thinker who doesn't give a rat's ass if women one day, figure out a way to make men extinct while maintaining reproduction of females, my advise to feminists is that: acquire the muscles for savage survival before getting too many men to realize how much "food" they are to the opposite gender. If the majority of men realize this, they might get soo mad that there might be an evolutionary reduction of our testosterone levels --of which will definitely thwart all efforts made by women (collectively) and send them back to a mercilessly patriarchal society.


I love your writeups already, OP. Please keep it up: these are more bitter truths everyone should know --and I think especially useful to men who really love knowledge irrespective of how bitter it seems!

What a beautiful rubbish mixed with cow.shit. All signs of simpidity painted over you...wake up. ..
There's nothing epiphanic about the Ops write up..you are only ignorant of women psychology. Real men know all these shots she wrote..only simp with long English like u are awestruck by the bland cliche she wrote like a new world discovery.

angelEmade:
sadly, you are right. I think parents have to start teaching the new generation of boys to be chaste and reserved.
This narrative you have given is exactly why we have lots of sexual predators and rapists in the world today, guys just don't know when to stop.
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to fellow guys reading this....let's start creating some decency for ourselves.

You get sense so?

Sandrazima:
I've never seen a guy back down when I reject him, never.

Men don't have self respect. There is nothing like alpha in secret. They only scream alpha when in public. When a guy sets his sight on a woman he doesn't back down. He will not rest until he has sex with her.

The alpha male who bodies all the so called alpha traits doesn't exist. He is an illusion. Lets first address the fact that a perfect human doesn't exist and we all have flaws. But in my 26+ years on this Earth I've never seen a man leave a wan because she said no, except he wasn't first attracted to her.

That's why men are overrepresented in rape cases. That's why men invite girls to their houses and drug their drinks. Men don't give up they chase and chase and never back down. Zero self respect.

And some simp will gladly believe this bullshit cos it sanctions their "simpidity"..(lol...I wish this beautiful sounding word exist for simps register)

Looks scripted

I bet this Antie is still fvbcking..she's just too obsessed with sex issues... I wish I knew who is bunking that old jaded pvssy

SugarPink23:
Please I'll like to ask you guys not to judge me. That's why I created this account, because lots of people know me offline from my original Nairaland account. I just want honest advice and opinions. Nobody is perfect. We all have flaws. Let's not be hypocrites.

So there was this guy I met months ago. He's very attractive and very intelligent. He's also very interesting and fun to be around. But above all, I'm very sexually attracted to him. Like I get wet just standing close to him. Almost everything about him turns me on. Our friendship was very short and he ended things with me over text when we had an argument. At the time I felt he was being very immature and being unfair to me because what he accused me of doing, wasn't even true. The end of the friendship was painful for me because even though we hadn't had sex, I sent nudes, had sex chats, and we had feelings for each other. I deleted his number afterwards and vowed not to contact him again.

I thought I'd get over him, but I haven't. It's been 2 months since I last talked to him and I'm still in love with him. I haven't texted him and he hasn't reached out. A part of me is still yearning for him to reach out. It hurts knowing that he doesn't care about me anymore. I think about him everyday and still have dreams of him.

I just started going out with this new guy and I feel underwhelmed by the relationship. My current boyfriend is a great guy that cares about me, but I'm not as attracted to him as I am to the previous guy. Even though I didn't have sex with the previous guy, I feel that sex with him would be more fun and enjoyable than the sex I currently have with my boyfriend.

Sometimes when I'm alone I shed tears when I think about the previous guy and how he pushed me out of his life like I was worthless to him, despite him telling me that I was special. I'm still deeply in love with him and I feel like I'm being unfair to my current boyfriend.

I'm afraid to contact the previous guy because I fear he might ignore me or worse, say something negative that would.make me feel even worse. I don't think he wants anything to do with me anymore.

I'm so confused. I don't know what to do.

This is usually the beginning of the plot of a story that often times end in a loyal man raising a bastard. When we say men should do DNA, no be joke again

Just make sure you do DNA....since you already opened her gate of pleasure and given her assurance about marriage, note that some wild gals can use that avenue of trust you have for her and start exploring and fvbcking around codedly....No tell me say I no tell you... Remember you even said she has high libido.....
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If you don't know, a recently disvirgined gal can be easily lured into sex if she has high libido and loves money... No loose guard yet