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ConcNiggress56:
i am decent and hardworking. i don't wear provocative outfits although i stay classy. this my father's agemate has been on my neck for some time now just to go down with me. i keep telling him NO and all but he won't bulge a bit. he's got a wife and kids.. i don't wanna ruin his home neither do i want to put my own future in jeopardy by sleeping with him..

however, jobs are very scarce in this country and i don't wanna lose this 6-figure paying job cos he keeps threatening to lay me off if i don't do his bidding.. what do i do?? please advice!!


mods.. i will appreciate if you can push this to fp... i am so confused right now... i need people's opinion.


cc lalasticlala, seun

Get a trusted Doctor to give you a fake test result that says that you are to abstain from s*x for a period of two(2) years due to something something (the Doctor should look for one big Medical jargon) and show it to him. The test result should be backdated so that he will not suspect. Hopefully, that will stall him while a permanent solution to keep him at bay is being looked into.

na wa for all these old men. Plenty runs babes with all manner of shapes and sizes dey outside and he dey disturb a hardworking lady in his office.

VERTEX1:
NO, IT'S REGINA PACIS (FORMER SOCIAL CENTER) WHEN STILL UNDER GOVERNMENT.
FOR ME IT IS THE FINEST, NOT THE BEST.

This school is real fine. Were these new structures built by the Anambra state government of were they built by PTA or the school management?. I hope the total fees(tuition, boarding and others) for this school is not too high. A school with structures like these will likely not be cheap.

nikkypearl:
thanks bro,no one believed me,here is a copy of the cost for foundation

For the sumo roofing sheet,we spent 885k including the workmanship.

Please cover the 'To' name because of privacy.

mercylicious:
I noticed builders don't do dpc as b4 especially in locations with far water table. They just mark out the plan and continue. After roofing, they then do the floor.

Sister mercylicious, we no dey see you for that other side(site) again. Wetin happen?.

abdulmuqsit15:
If 4 men can clear a peice of land in 32 days. How many days will it take 3 men to clear thesame peice of land with thesame energy capacity?...WITH EXPLANATION PLS.

4 men ----------------> 32 days
3 men ----------------> ?

more/less * 32 days

4/3 * 32 = 4 * 32 / 3 = 128/3 = 42.67 days. QED

NB: more/less principle. If 4 people use a certain no of days, it means that 3 people will use more days.

Acidosis:
Those who nurture such preconceived ideas are hypocrites.


Ask them deeply, they all have one issue or the other with their sister in-laws (their brothers' wives).

Mother in laws are wicked yet as small as you are you condemn your brothers' girlfriends and wives.. make we hear word abeg

Do not mind them. There is this lady that i know of that when her brother's wife did not get pregnant on time, you need to see the pressure she was putting on him to go outside and was even arranging outside babes for the brother so that he can have kids. She too now got married and when she did not get pregnant on time, she said that Pastors and Prophets said that her mother-in-law is a witch and that it was the mother-in-law that has closed her womb. Real hypocrisy.

Benita27:
In order to burst your bubble Sir!,...i don't do home movies.
Secondly, your observation was right...i will naturally be scared of meeting my mother in-law for the first time.

Why will your wife hide to those advice given to her by her sisters if she has a kind mother in-law?.

All been said still doesn't change the fact that there are mean mothers in-law.

Why will you be scared if you do not already have the 'wicked mother-in-law' thoughts in you?. I do not know if you are married yet and if you are and you have a son, then in future, the lady he is going to bring home to you will also be naturally scared the first time. So the cycle continues.

Mothers always find it difficult to let go of their sons. It is a natural thing. Fathers easily move on about their daughters and that is why it is easier between father-in-law and their son-in-law. Despite the fact that i have kids of 11 years and 9 years, my mother still calls me a boy and will even threaten to slap or flog me if i misbehave and we will all burst into laughter. So, you can see that a mother's bond for her son never wanes. That is what causes the friction. I was recently in the hospital where a mother has been with her kid son that is on admission for two days. You could see the stress and tiredness on her face and also how the boy is clinging to her with her continuously petting him. Such a mother will always look back at such bond. Daughter-in-laws should always try to understand. The day my son went to boarding house, when we got home, my wife was wiping tears from her eyes. This is a school here in Lagos that is just a 10 minutes drive away and there is now GSM to even call the boarding house master. I now told her that she should then reflect on what my own mother went through then when i had to go to boarding house in a place that is about 300km away without GSM then to call and the only means of communication was by writing and posting a letter through NIPOST.

Abeg, daughter-in-laws, make una dey pity mother-in-laws. They are not bad or wicked. Daughter-in-laws initial body language is what raises the antenna in mother-in-laws. This is why i normally pray for every lady to give birth to a boy so that she will know how it feels.

Purilizzy:
I am a uniben aspirant but write now I wish I waz not followed a friend of mine to the Tuesday 3rd batch screening,her time waz 3:00 we arried der 2:02 the crowd waz just. Like d. First dae shoprite waz open....u could see confusn in evry1's eyes.its 3:00 nd der re still attending to 9:00 aspirants 4:53 dey wer atnding to 12:00,d so called security men bought out deir rod der would use it on anyone dat cross deir path people wer scrmin, pushing each oder feets wer like footmatch asspiriant waz tired it waz rainy tho no one wntss to liv d rain der wer all pushing backward and forward praying a miracle will hpn some aspirnt broke into tears some wer real strong nd fightin der way thro 5:08 nd nothing is hpnin 12:00 aspirant wer just living the building soon der wer asking for enigeerings only d vc I guess leta came out nd ask evry1 to go home nd come back on Monday d aspirants wer displease dey refuse to liv dey wer all ask to liv but dey remain der will chase dem wit deir rod nd dey will return back a certain man came out and waz like they should come early in d morning d next dae...don't knw wat hpned after 6:00 cus I left....just wonna say I cried for uniben for how disorganise der are,for Nigeria and for bin a citizen..I waz wishing I had d chance to travel abroad..than it crosss my mind have any1 in dis world ever wish to come to schl in Nigeria?....How can we fight to make Nigeria better.

It is good that it was your friend that you followed and not you that went for the screening as i would have thought if a whole Great Uniben had degenerated to a level that somebody like you with this English will be attending her screening. Please, it is not too late for you to still achieve your dream of traveling abroad. It will be in your best interest to go.

Make you no vex sha. What did you make in your WAEC especially English Language if at all you did WAEC.

segcymoor:
Oluwa mi epe!!!!!!!!!

Kai. U people get luxury of time o

E be like say this recession no dey affect them. Anyway, many of them dey obodo oyibo. Moreover, exchange rate is favourable.

abdulwastecx:
I think we can take advantage of the rise of China. The Chinese have the money, the know how and technology. They need raw materials and market, we can use that to our advantage, we can copy or borrow their know how and technology to build our nation.

We can provide the market, cheap labor force that Chinese desire. The Chinese don't have history of colonization like the west.

They do not have the history because the colonization of the West is now past history. They will create their own. You normally see that for every infrastructure 'MOU' they sign, it is their companies that do the work. They cannot transfer their technology to you because technology is never transferred, it is normally 'stolen'. Check all their projects and see if there is any 'local' in their sensitive technology areas

abdulwastecx:
Colonialism us a crime against humanity and one the most absurd concept used by so called WHITE to steal and kill most third world nation.

White don't developed the indigenous population, they dominate, exclude and marginalized host community wherever they settled. Look at the native American in the state, look at black South Africans in South Africa, look at aborigines in Australia, look at native Canadian etc. The so called WHITE create all these mess all over the world.

Our biggest problem is the type and quality of education we inherited from the so called white, they rule us for more than 60years and leave us in a serious mess, with no infrastructure, an artificial nation build on divide and rule etc.

Black or dark skin people are also capable of building a great nation if left alone, we can build our roads, electricity, factory etc if allowed to live in peace.

South Africa is in trouble because of apartheid which discriminated against native.
How would you feel if you are not allowed to attend the University just because you are Black/dark skin?
How would you feel when you are systematically camped in a getto, all your ancestorer land taking away from you because you are black?

South Africa black are one of the poorest group in South Africa because of white injustice.

I will take up arm to fight any white or Chinese invader that want to take over my country

Are the Chinese not already systematically taking over with all these infrastructure 'MOUs' we are signing with them?. Just do your 'proposed' lucrative assets sales and see the people that will buy them.

gbadexy:
Pop is made of calcium sulfate (gypsum). We have abundance of it in nigeria.
I was just discussing with someone today and he said there is abundant availability of it in the north.
There is sufficient quantity in ogun state also and it's used in part of cement production there to control setting time.
Dangote uses it as additive in cement and it's gotten on his ibeshe plant. I washed the demonstration documentary when they opened the plant.
I've thought about it and even discussed it with my big brother on nairaland when he was enquiring about chemical import ideas with me.
The production is fairly straightforward but the energy and invariably the production cost may deter investors.
The gypsum exists in hydrated form and it's heated to a temperature to partially drive of the water of hydration and ground to powder.
When it gets in contact with water again, it's rehydrate back to the original form it was and thicken as a result. So the water used in pop actually remains in it even in the hard state. The excess water dries out but it's very hard already even before the excess water dries.
So basically, the natural state it exists in nature even in nigeria is the form it exists in your pop ceiling. It's just heated to partially dry off the hydration water and ground (recycled).
That's why it has fire retardant property. When in contact with flame, it releases steam that reduces surface temperature and slows spread of fire.

Nobody will think about this now. Instead we will be going about abusing each other on cyberspace. When the Chinese move in now and start making millions on a daily basis from it, we will start crying that the Chinese are carting away millions from our backyard.

naptu2:
You still haven't answered my questions. Why should the government fix fees? How are parents at the mercy of the schools when there are hundreds of cheaper and free schools? Many people on this thread have said that there are better schools around that are cheaper or even free, so how are the parents at the mercy of these schools? There are people who have the money to send their kids to this kind of schools, but choose not to, so how is attending this kind of school a necessity? Where did I say that they should be scrapped? Please read my posts again.

Parents have a wide variety of schools that they can send their kids to. In Lagos alone, parents have the choice to send their kids to expensive fee paying schools like

Dowen College, American International School, British International School, Green Springs, White Sands, Lagoon School, Atlantic Hall, Chrisland School, etc.

They can send their kids to high quality, but cheaper legacy schools like:

CMS Grammar School, St Gregory's College, Kings College, Methodist Boys High School, Baptist Academy, Aunty Ayo International School, Ansar Ud Deen, Queens College, Our Lady Of Apostles, Methodist Girls High School, St Finbarr's College, International School Lagos, Federal Government College Ijanikin, Command Secondary School Ikeja, etc.

They can send their kids to quality government schools like (most of these schools are free) :

Lagos State Model College Badore, Government College Victoria Island, Government College Ikoyi, Government College Eric Moore, Birch Freeman High School, Oriwu Model College, etc.

They can send their kids to other cheaper private schools like:

Grace Schools, Apata Memorial High School, Adebayo Mokolu College, Fountain Heights Secondary School, Princeton School, etc.

They can also send their kids to free government schools like:

Kuramo College, Victoria Island Secondary School, Akande Dahunsi, Boys Academy, Jubril Martins High School, Government College Maroko.

The people that send their kids to these other schools are also human beings. Check the front page, you'll read about a governor that sent his child to a (free) government school. Yet you want government to set the school fees? What's next? Government should set the price of your car, your phone, your medical expenses, etc? These communist policies do not work! Parents that send their kids to these schools will simply send them to schools abroad, while teachers that teach in these schools will move to other countries where they can earn what they believe they are worth. The owners of such schools will simply set up schools in Benin, Ghana, Togo and other countries where they are free to set the school fees (nigerians already own secondary schools and universities in these countries and there are a lot of nigerian students there). That's how brain drain starts. Parents and the market should determine if these schools are too expensive. If they are too expensive, they won't have any students and they'll be forced to reduce their fees or shut down.

(By the way, the word you are looking for is shylock, not Sherlock Holmes)

You have nailed it with the bold. People always quickly jump out in Nairaland and start blazing away when they see the word 'expensive school fees in millions' as if such parents do not have the choice to send their kids to such a school. It is a choice thing.

If the government is to fix the fees, then what are the various consideration?. Should the school fees for a private school in Lagos be the same amount as the school fees for a private school in Zamfara?. This will now throw up the present problems we have in the political emoluments of elected persons where the government sets salaries and allowances centrally not considering that the monthly IGR of one state can be the yearly IGR of another state and yet the two are expected to pay the salaries and allowances to his elected people.

@Seun


I do not know where this fits into.

Please what is happening to stockmarketnigeria.com?. The site has been down for several days now.

cc: Seun

Businessideas:
Why do you guys hate to read? Visit the school's website first and ask yourself if CIS is a pre-nursery only school.
I will just take the sound advice of a fellow nairalander who asked me to ignore people like you.
The school is for expatriates and wealthy Nigerians so why are you taking paracetamol for the headache of people who know what they are paying their money for?
Do you think these expatriates and wealthy Nigerians are dumb?
O ga o. See hatred o!!!

Nairalanders are very funny people. Once they see 'expensive' school, they go gaga and start saying all sorts. Meanwhile, none of them says the actual amount they also paid when they were in school. If somebody pays N2m and they pay 10k, they start shouting that the N2m person has over paid and if such a child is being taught something else. Meanwhile, while they are paying 10k, which they think is small, somebody else is complaining that it is too high and is paying 5k. Another person is also saying that the person paying 5k is too high because his is paying no fees. People should stop hating. Na person wen get him money know how he wan spend am. It is not everybody that is corrupt or a thief. People earn honest money.

2sexynet:
funniest thing is that one 1 kid will come first, second and third. We will still have those who come 44th in those classes lol.

Are you aware that in every sphere of life, there can never be first, first, first etc?. The fact that somebody comes 44th does not mean that the person failed. The difference in marks between the first, second, third and 44th person might not be up to 5 marks. When i was in secondary school, we used to think this way in my class until one day, we decided to tabulate our scores ourselves and discover to my amazement that the the first person beat the second by a 'point something'. This pattern continued for other positions. Today, those we thought were not brilliant because they were in the 11-20th positions are top Medical Doctors and Engineers in the world today.

PaperLace:
You won't see them at 'local' competitions like Cowbell. Their target is solely international.
Excursion - Buckingham Palace not Olumo rock...lol

cowbell competition that after all the several months of stress, the winner goes home with a pittance. The winners of the various singing competitions and beauty pageants get millions while those stressed in cowbell competition get thousands. Na how many rich parents wan stress their kids for such pittance.

Lilimax:
Mr professor, can you afford the school? If yes, good for you! #teamCatholicSchool

But most Catholic schools cost past government public schools now. Abi, which one you go?.

AZUH:
@mank1234 even if the house is 400m2 x1500=600k . They can't deceive me . 4.5m can buy itswell1 generation !!!

I doubt you will get an oven baked step tiles roofing sheet for N1500. Early this year, i introduced my aluminum roofing guy to my wife's cousin and he was given a bill of about N500k. He did not take it serious thinking that the guy was trying to cheat him. He has gotten another person now and he was given a bill of about N820k. Shame has made him to quickly part with N750k as mobilization for the work to start. Prices of materials have gone up.

mufutau55:
What I am saying is that, there are lots we don't see on Nairaland.
I am sure you are aware that embedding electrical/plumbing into the walls requires a lot of planning, which most of us may not have the finance and patience to go thru. All these has to implemented fright from the foundation, any slight mistake and it's money wasted.
And when it comes to repair or maintenance, it won't be easy o. But it will be a nice option to have.
Personally, for now, they can keep breaking my walls.

Hajji M.

Oga Egun does not know that poor people like you and me that are doing kobo project that will take sometime to complete cannot afford the luxury of what he is saying. Na big man like him that can afford it from the beginning. My walls were broken several times when i was doing my project.

mamachizzy:
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He ain't. last time this happened, he didn't receive communion for 3 years and he doesn't want a repeat of that

Who says he must and has to receive holy communion only in his parish?. Why can't he switch parish?. I think the Rev. Father that denied him holy communion for 3 years on account of him giving out his daughter out to somebody of another faith does not know his theology. What offence did he commit?. You Father should give you out and if the Rev. Father again denies him, he should take up the matter to the Diocese.

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post=49127684:
DENNIS MEMORIAL GRAMMAR SCHOOL (DMGS) ONITSHA

Thanks

Irenemmeso:
St.Charles College Onitsha, Christ the King College Onitsha and Tansi International College Awka

Thanks.

Irenemmeso:
Queen of the Rosary College Onitsha is the finest
LongLive my Alma Mater

Which Catholic boarding school in Anambra state will you recommend for a boy.

post=49103463:
I have been to many mission/gov schools but this to me is finest, few these pics and judge

Which school is this and where is it located?.

Ytechconst:
Lol...Thanks My oga....The external will be given final paint finish this week so i will update you...As regards the door finish we spoke about, i will also update you when its finished....

Will be watching out for this.

Shuoooooo. So these two people still dey here dey behave like primary school kids?. Na in the 80s for AJ as small pikins wen we dey wear only 'dross'(pant) without cloth dey run about for neighborhood we dey do this kin thing.