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Keep that in mind. Your target can often do very little to prevent your unwanted attentions.

Belafonte:
Thanks for the compliment.

You're quite aware it's not a compliment.

You can post an opinion here:

https://www.nairaland.com/1156127/trust-husband

Is that a lot of money or not a lot of money?

Sounds like a lot.

Belafonte:
I'm going to assume you haven't been hearing the many stories of men who trust/trusted their wives, but have had to conduct these tests for official reasons only to find out that their 'faithful' having have been involving in side action. There are men who found out bitterly, years after, that they raised children that weren't theirs.

Such stories have currently become plentiful to the point where the general understanding is that 1 in 3 children have been given to the wrong father knowingly or unknowingly.

With the above information, coupled with the fact that Nigerian women have passionately taken up adultery as a hobby, it would be wise to be sure that your children are, in reality, your children.

Hence, this man's actions are fully justified. FULLY. Trusting someone doesn't automatically make them incapable of fúcking you up. Enemies don't betray, friends do.

The wife may be hurt, but he should apologise and make it up to her some way. If she cannot understand his paranoia, too bad. I'd rather risk losing a faithful woman than raising another man's bastàrd

You presume too much of yourself and it's not certain you're mentally ok.

Premiumwriter:
A man is superior. Stronger. Fearless. Domineering. More resolute. And always in control.

If this makes you shudder, then go look for a MAN to hold you. He's not easily shocked

This sounds like a mills and boon man ie fantasy.

Do the whiners on nl fit this description?

I'll be happy when Nigerians stop making America their focus for everything.

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teamforeveryoun:
I apologise if I come across as hard, maybe all this time of trying and failing, expecting but disappointed must have hardened my tone.

My story is very true and I hope talking here helps me in ways that can not be explained.

Yes, I just opened the account, so its easy for people to just give their opinions without judging you based on your past posts on NL.

This is a real story. I have struggled with depression even before I got married and it only got worse because of what started happening, I have been suicidal but remembered that my kids need me and people will end up saying I killed myself because of a man. No, I have this deep sadness growing in me and I just want to open up to people.
You are only alone when you don't say whats wrong.
That's why I opened a new account.
No judgement, just be emphatic, if you can.

Some of your statements in your OP are very suspicious.


And knowing how nlers base 98% of their social lives and existence on people's marriages, any topic referring to marriage is always guaranteed to generate an audience here.

In view of that, you probably should edit your post and remove the controversial phrases. So people dont give advice that would give them.

Genesis 3:6

Eve's desire was attached to the tree of knowledge. It was forbidden, therefore the basis for the husband's leadership was wrong, it was established in disobedience.

OP your language is too hard for any discussion.

Pray for your husband, if your story is true.

Think about how you can have a forgiving spirit so you dont encourage anti social behaviours you dont like in yourself.

I see you just opened this account today.

Premiumwriter:
Thank you.

I was so happy to see this comment today. I think alot of us have so much embraced this saying from the west that most of us have forgotten who we truly are.

today, a man is no longer the head of the home. if you say that, you are not civilized. just so many social changes. its just so sad to even begin thinking about them

This is one of the faulty foundations in question.

Civilization is not something you should be badmouthing, moreso you are typing on the internet.

It's better to be a civilized barbarian than a mannerless exciter.

Brighte:
In life. Foundation is the most important thing. Once the foundation is faulty, everything does not work accordingly.

That's true.

And I'd say about 99% are faulty, especially for Nigerians.

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2 Cor 3:17

Where the spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom

Galatians 5:13

For you have been called to live in freedom

Reptile wildlife seems to be increasing in Nigeria.

foodometer:
Pray Until Something Happens

I dont believe Christianity is supposed to be synonymous with a criminal mentality.

sweetonugbu:
So that you guys will enjoy your marriage without feeling guilty like this

At old age, the arm would be around the shoulders, not on the butt.

peachysteve:
Guys ,,, what can you say about this?? What can you think the guy did wrong that made him deserve this treatment from this babe

Why are we judging? Do we know them? Post links to the source of the photo so we can ask them what their situation is.

What right do the older generation think they have to give the average Nigerian youth life advice after they ruined the country with negligence, incompetence, corruption and overreligiousness?

Was this the country our great grandfathers left for you? Now don't dare try to heap the blame on our mentality for a problem you all caused.

Has there been any time Nigeria did not have problems?

Thermodynamics:
A woman is inferior to a man, I have nothing against women, but that's a fact.

That's what you tell yourself, it doesnt make it true, but as long as it helps your self esteem. . .

The only thing a woman can do that a man cannot do is to get pregnant and give birth.

Ok.

And this is part of the inferiority?

I personally can't stay without a woman

And this makes you feel superior?

Just stupidity.

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Embarassing?

Btw, which part of criminal behaviour and the legal penalty do folks find so difficult to understand?

Are you people Christians and churchgoers? But you dont believe in the rule of law and the legal code?

In case you dont understand what I'm saying, I am asking what repentance has to do with the legal penalty for a proven crime? The police person has a duty, how is repentance involved in these scenarios you mention except when in court?

Someone should explain please.

foodometer:
If you are a police, Forgive armed robbers....

You can give them timeline to repent from their murder, if they still continue killing, let them die...

I am not a police. I have no information on armed robbers. Perhaps you do?

Could you ask a question I can relate with instead of bringing up scenarios relevant to you but which I did not mention since nobody told me?

em, . . . better be careful. E be like say im never marry or date, and he's quite clearly a multi billionaire.

Btw, why is the condom placed right beside the woman's picture?