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 Family › Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by nlPoster: 11:00pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
From what I see these days, Nigerians are giving their parents property, not the other way round. |
| Family › Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by nlPoster: 10:31pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Pussywar:1. I don't use sentiment where common sense works just as well. So I wont view an issue from a sentimental angle if doing so would expose me to scammers and vultures who consider me their lawful prey due to a sentimental nature. 2. The topic has nothing to do with me, I simply gave my opinion. I'm not saying I'm right, you do what works for you, likewise everybody else. 3. In this day and age, leave for your kids treasures that wont make them vulnerable targets for unscrupulous people, or people who have a grudge against them for whatever reason, especially if you know you give them the leeway and they (your kids) might not be prepared for the unleashing of such bitterness they might have been unaware of. 4. If you want your kids to have your property, then make sure you do everything required by law to make them your heirs and do not leave any loopholes others can exploit. 5. As I've mentioned before, Nigerians by nature are anarchists and they also believe the property of other people belongs to them. If you carelessly do not do all the necessary things required to protect your investments, then it's assumed it doesn't matter to you who gets them. In which case, they're considered free for all. 6. If you're one of those "jolly good fellow" types to whom the happiness of other people is more important than your well being (we've all been there), then in my opinion, dont be talking about property, just enjoy your own self and leave tomorrow to sort itself out.  My thoughts. 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by nlPoster: 9:46pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
PrimadonnaO:For the Nigerian millenial generation which is typified by nairaland views and opinions, society has to recognize their attitude to marriage is different. |
| Family › Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by nlPoster: 9:30pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Pussywar:How old would the kids be when that happens? If they are grown, they shouldn't need the property unless they're not financially ok. Most property and wealth owned by Nigerians rarely gets direct generational transfer, something or the other always comes up that makes the property too hot to handle. Most, not all. |
| Family › Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by nlPoster: 9:17pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
nini007:My post was devoid of personal insults and discussed the topic. Do the same. You people are really pushing my buttons, your behaviour is so uncouth and you feel its ok. I'm quite sure I am not your mate it's just you have no home training. 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: Top 10 States With The Most Easygoing Citizens In Nigeria by nlPoster: 8:15pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Top notch misinformation. 4 Likes |
| Family › Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by nlPoster: 7:08pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
crackhaus:Stay off the thread. Did you see what the poster after you typed? 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by nlPoster: 6:23pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Sanchez01:Nairalanders' understanding of marriage is just not normal. 24 Likes 2 Shares |
| Family › Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by nlPoster: 6:17pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Women who are rich enough to own property should of course make sure their kids are cared for, but that doesn't have to be in the form of leaving them property although it's the usual way. |
| Family › Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by nlPoster: 6:10pm On Nov 04, 2019*. Modified: 6:38pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
What's the point of all these pointless arguments on nairaland especially all these husband wife etc etc community marriage back and forths? There's one currently ongoing where someone who regularly posts what can be considered pornographic photos, is arguing the man knows better when it comes to advice. If it were a woman or a wife posting photos of men's private parts at random intervals, would he say the same thing about her reasoning process? In my opinion, any wealth or property acquired by Nigerians should be donated to the state or a religious organization after the owner has had their fill of it. There is no point inheriting unnecessary trouble in the name of property, even while the owner is actively owning the property na wahala every time, what Nigerians should try to do is encourage the government to provide for it's citizens so they don't need to fight over property and material things. No offence to the people debating, it's just that Nigerians do not listen to beneficial advice, they only want advice that causes friction and scattering. For the wives, no matter any property involved, do not plan for property that wasn't there when you got married, or which doesn't involve you. As long as you did not contribute over 90% to the purchase, ignore it. Just my thoughts, I could be wrong. I'm just not as property oriented as others, not being a typical Nigerian. I think property ownership should be one, not all, of the things that make for a sense of accomplishment and I am annoyed when people (Nigerians) start acting up as usual over it. It's good to be fulfilled (the Nigerian dream is to own property) but not at the expense of your well being and the well being of others around you. Also why I cautioned someone the other day who went bananas over a random topic about walking away during stress, he interpreted that to mean destroy everything in sight rather than let a woman have it. What the heck?  6 Likes 2 Shares |
| Celebrities › Re: Lady Wakes Up To Find Live Chicken, & Other Food Items In Front Of Her Door(Pic) by nlPoster: 5:41pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
samspedy pastor after listening to mama samspedy cake fear: "btw, where's the cake?" lolz. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Repent by nlPoster: 5:34pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
AKHOZEM: |
| Romance › Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by nlPoster: 5:23pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
| Celebrities › Re: Pre-Wedding Photos Of Lynda Ebigwei And Her South African Fiance by nlPoster: 4:59pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Kennyswagz2:Are you South African or Nigerian? |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Your View On Church Choristers And Weekly Uniform Imposition by nlPoster: 12:24am On Nov 04, 2019*. Modified: 1:23am On Nov 04, 2019 |
Robe and uniform are almost the same thing, just different designs. It can be voluntary in pentecostal churches ie robe. Meaning the choir has a choice of using robes or not. |
| Education › Re: Photos Of Kids In Public Schools In Different Countries Eating Lunch by nlPoster: 11:22pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
The kids' parents should be empowered so they can eat nutritious meals. |
| Education › Re: Photos Of Kids In Public Schools In Different Countries Eating Lunch by nlPoster: 11:15pm On Nov 03, 2019*. Modified: 11:36pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
The Nigerian picture is so embarrassing, the school feeding is supposed to look like this: https://aledeh.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/FB_IMG_1526461415082.jpg https://alternativeafrica.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/School-feeding-programme.jpg [img]https://serving./921116680a9ad6b121c1ad67ea7eeea25dc9eed8690462663dd243ffb85455f931c79164.jpg[/img] https://i.pinimg.com/originals/81/c4/51/81c451b405d6d29b882561abe8c9cdf3.jpg |
| Politics › Re: Border Closure Is To Punish Christians by nlPoster: 3:08pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
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| Politics › Re: Border Closure: Can Nigeria Survive An Impending Gang Up Of Border Countries??? by nlPoster: 3:07pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
We'll see. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Please Join Me In Constant Prayers Against The Wicked by nlPoster: 3:02pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
Emusan:How do you know the gender of the op? |
| Culture › Re: The Famous Mkpokiti Dance In Anambra (Photos) by nlPoster: 3:00pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
Kennyswagz2:Are you sure he didn't just respond to you on his timeline? |
| Education › Re: Confused by nlPoster: 2:57pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
Cheryph200:We are mind readers. |
| Romance › Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by nlPoster: 2:55pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
condemn:You talk too much, as a man. Are you female? 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: Border Closure Is To Punish Christians by nlPoster: 2:44pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
I would like to know more about this border closure. |
| Celebrities › Re: Pre-Wedding Photos Of Lynda Ebigwei And Her South African Fiance by nlPoster: 2:41pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
Kennyswagz2:Stop typing like this. Give your life to Jesus Christ so you can change your animalistic nature to one of holiness. We all have to make ourselves human, it doesn't come naturally. |
| Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji’s Brother Is Asking Beloved IG Users To Buy Him This Mercedes Benz by nlPoster: 2:36pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Does Been Granted Visa To A Foreign Nation Call For Testimony In Church? by nlPoster: 2:33pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
It's cultura thing. |
| Celebrities › Re: Pre-Wedding Photos Of Lynda Ebigwei And Her South African Fiance by nlPoster: 2:07am On Nov 03, 2019 |
The forum is a Nigerian one, we can assume 98% of the people here are black Nigerians, so let's also assume anyone with Caucasian ancestry and clearly visible Caucasian features, is Caucasian. Nigerians have enough problems already without adding the extra ones you're bringing , thinking is not necessarily our forte. 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Nairalanders Are Very Intelligent People. Share Your Experience. by nlPoster: 11:29pm On Nov 02, 2019 |
No, nairalanders are not intelligent. Cunning is different from intelligence. The intelligent ones here are too few to count, they are vastly outnumbered by stupidity. 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: Husbands, Have You Noticed That Women Change After Wedding? by nlPoster: 11:27pm On Nov 02, 2019 |
1 Like |
| Investment › Re: Help! How Can I Find People That Mine Gold by nlPoster: 11:19pm On Nov 02, 2019 |
No idea. |
| Family › Re: Husbands, Have You Noticed That Women Change After Wedding? by nlPoster: 11:09pm On Nov 02, 2019 |
Most of these loudmouths here know what they're doing. I doubt it has anything to do with their past experiences of any gender. They are just greedy and wicked, that's all. Stop shifting blame. You can't do that forever. 1 Like |
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