₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Yes. He is a regular poster of his trips around America with his wife. I started noticing a lot of irregularities and I began to wonder how he does it easily.

He is always insulting Black women in America. Calls them fat and grumpy. But when someone pointed out his wife is “fat”, he said he dated many slim girls before his wife and none took care of his stomach like her.

He talks down on marrying homebased or grown Nigerian women. But on another thread he said his wife migrated as an adult from PH.

You spend all day shaming marriage and Nigerian women (In America). Telling guys to try Ethiopians. Whereas you are actively married to a Nigerian woman. Then when you are caught in your lies, you start throwing baseless accusations. He is lucky he is a man and some of his gender are here to mansplain and twist logic on its head. A woman won’t get away with this level of hypocrisy easily.

You really observed the OP, I thought I was the only one that noticed some of these things.

mariahAngel:
Mr Malignant own shock me o.
Judging by what he types, who would've thought his wife serves him abacha, ofe oha, echetaram na echetaram abroad o?

He has actually posted meals from her before, also posted about their trip to Vegas sometimes back, so me I am always surprised when I see his posts on women sha but he always speaks highly of his wife, even posted a little bit of her photo.

Lool at abacha in the abroad.

Munzy14:
Did you remember the discussion?


Never believe anyone online.. People don't practice what they preach...

Some people will be in their bedroom, even naked with partner, while relaxing from 2nd round of intense something and enter nairaland..To tell you na mumu dey love while they are enjoying everything about love offline.

I pity the younger boys and girls using social media..The advanced people will keep forcing non pragmatic suggestions on them..

A pinch of salt will soon make sense more than some advise online and even offline.

A lady will use her salary to be taken care of her man and family, but online will tell you I can't be with a struggling man

A man will come online shouting simp simp..But offline his babe is billing him 24/7..

Choose your path and live your destiny on earth.

The bolded kuku off me with laughter abeg.


OP don enter am today.

shineeye1:
From this thread, it is evident that our highway is full of people on mission. - suicide and murder missions!

I am beyond shocked see dangerous speeds, I honestly used to think readings beyond 120 kmph on the speedometer should not be attempted at all.

See what I have been reading on page 1 and 2. 160- 200km-275 km/h

I thought speed limit was between 80-100kmph on expressway. I don't think can't sit in a vehicle driving more than 110kmph max, doesn't matter if the road is smooth like Lagos Ibadan expressway.

I hope some people won't be encouraged by this thread to do fast and furious with their vehicles, sha remember we barely have emergency response oo and there are other cray people on that road.

Kojuma ribi

Kudos to Bovas they always come through during scarcity and times like these. Always selling at normal rate.

It's 169 here from some major marketers- total and Mobil but the queue na die.

Conoil-230

Other private companies- between 220-250.

WibusJaga:
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Quite ridiculous that a whole General Hospital will refer one of newly born twins to a Private Clinic because of lack of bed space.

Won't be surprised the private clinic is owned by a doctor in the General hospital, or the owner is a close ally of someone in the General Hospital.

What would you have the hospital do if there's no space?

According to the story there was one bed space left for one of the twins. The health of the twins take priority, if they needed admission and there was no space, it makes sense to refer to the hospital they know is capable.

Though a Lagos State hospital might have handled it better, there's Massey, Lasuth and luth they could have been referred to even if the Gen hospitals don't have space

udomma1005:
I paid my landlord last week through my wife since I wasn't back from work yet. Wiffy told me after she offered the dude complimentary chilled bottled water, the ogbeni carefully counted my hard earned bread, smiled, wrote out a receipt, handed to my wiffy, smiled again and told my wife to bring "Christmas drink" naaahhhhhh
Gosh.... Who did we offend in dis kwantri?

Loool I almost rolled out of the chair laughing.

Shey he shouldn't ask for Christmas drink ni.

ruqoyahadenike:
The bilirubin test was repeated and the result showed a very high level of bilirubin, contrasting with the test done earlier at the lab. He was blindfolded and placed under the phototherapy light in the nursery as it was night time already before we got to the hospital.

The following day, the pediatrician in charge of treating him expressed his confusion because aside his yellow eyes and urine, no other symptoms accompanied his jaundice. He's perfectly fine. After two days of placing him under the lamp, his blindfold was removed and we had to go for other tests, abdominal scan and blood culture.

He was later placed on antibiotics for 8days as they suspected and confirmed that it was infection.

On the 11th day, he was discharged with his eyes and urine still very yellow and we were told to come for a follow up test and check up on the 3rd of January...



He's now a month and six days old with his eyes and urine not showing any sign of getting lighter. That's on one hand.


Sorry again for the loooong post

Hello ma'am, I would advise you take that child to a teaching hospital, I had a baby with prolonged jaundice some years back, was referred to Lasuth to see a pediatric gastroenterologist after all the initial phototherapy and treatment at the mother and child hospital but the eyes and urine were still very dark Yellowish tint at 6 weeks. No other symptom except the yellowing.

We ran all manner of tests, scans at Lasuth but they all came out clean so they couldn't find what caused it.

It later cleared up on its own at almost 6 months miraculously.

If you are a praying type also pray, very important.

All will be well.

uvie66:
She was partly responsible for the injury sustained by the young boy by not strapping the boy properly to his seat..... Nigerians and their 'thank God" mentality.

I read the post over and over and she never mentioned anything about driving or car, how you are certain it's about baby car set or strapping is surprising. Accidents can occur even in a public bus o.

Johnchrix:
The traffic n insecurity in that axis is hell

Traffic - that was then, not as much as before besides he will be working from home.

Insecurity- Depends on the area you rent an apartment.

DonPadro you can come to Agbara Ogun state. There's light and price of accommodation is decent.

You are close to Lagos but not in Lagos.

Kobonaire234:
It is because Nigerians do not pay back loans on time, hence the disgrace methods.

If Nigerians were paying loans on time, and IF we had a better records system, and a better address system in this nation, we won't need to resort to this (a similar company in say the UK would just track you via your address records/postcode)

The problem is, if we don't pay back loans on time, these companies won';t have money to pay new customers, and we would once again be at the mercy of criminal agents and so forth if they fold up. Let's not take loans we have no intention of paying back or we cannot pay back. Better to starve for some days (like I did once! ) than to take on a burden that is too much.

Having said that, this is something that, speaking as a christian, CAN should look into. For muslims, even NSCIA. If the church and mosque could set up a loan company that their faithful and even non faithful could take a loan of say N10000 and pay it back in N1000 instalments over ten months, without interest, maybe we may get somewhere. Every church could contribute ten percent of offerings every sunday to the loan company...which could work in the form of an app.

Bad idea, Nigerians won't pay and then you will hear Jesus paid it all. They will quote Bible or Quran for you.

You never see something.

Alfred74:
Don't take the loan if you can't adher to terms and conditions. No one is forcefully coerced into taking a 50% interest loan. This is more like a case of paying 2m for a rent. when rent is due, tenant goes into defence mode saying 2m is too high,did the landlord force the tenant in the first place?

You enter Mr Biggs chop rice and chicken,you were aware of the price of their food before eating. After u chop finish you talk say their food too expensive say u no go pay. Does that make sense? If the rate is too high,leave the loan company and go get loan from friends and families,it's not a rocket science.

Nigerians will see fire,put head inside cone still dey complain, chai!!!

People wey dey even borrow friends and family money without interest, dem no dey gree pay back. Go check eye-opener for Instagram dem full there. Nigerians are mean people.

So right at bolded, the set of entitled people won't pay friends, won't pay family will also not pay loan companies.

AbdulMagaji:
You don't borrow money by mistake

you sef see an


Nigerians have bad repayment attitude EOD, look at people jumping up and down the thread giving tips on how to avoid repayment, how they are illegal blehblehbleh, a simple advise as Do Not Take a loan from the so called illegal apps is not on their mind. The loan people sef as much as they no try, they must have realized that they need to go crazy to get their funds back.

They are illegal abi so stop patronizing them, if nobody takes a loan from these people will there be opportunity to defame any one? NO but for some people they see is as an opportunity for free MONEY, some never even had the intention to pay.

STOP TAKING THEIR ILLEGAL LOANS AND REST.

Thats why I hail Lapo, they will collect their money if it means to come carry your property. They are kings when it comes to recovery.

Where are you from? Is that the custom from your tribe.

Terrible Grammer..... eeesh

warlordd:
U're right, Dokpesi no dey take chances at all. He later cornered Bimbo Odukoya of AIT, and went a step further to marry her.

Tosin Odukoya not Bimbo Odukoya.

Treasuredgift:
Don't this two ever get tired of being on social media?

If y'all are doing all this to pepper tonto, make una two grow up abeg. Its childish.

My anchor, my destiny.....e done do abeg

Husband snatchers be doing the most.

Loool at anchor and destiny
Muchehche.


Laslas they were cheating when he was still married to tonto, they are not saints exactly.

Wait first let's leave Yul matter aside he is on his own crying on SM up and down. He knows what's eating him up.

How many men can provide fully for 2 women? NL boys that are shouting up and down supporting polygamy, can they support polygamy financially.

Men are even struggling despite the fact that their wives work full time and also provide now we are talking polygamy, seriously?

Whether your religion supports it or not, it really doesn't make economic sense for an average earner. Everything should not be about sex sex sex because I know that's what's motivating some people, different varieties.

Leave polygamy for the rich, even the rich some of them avoid polygamy even if the religion supports it.

Personally I would never advice my enemy to be a polygamist.

tunjijones:
Women dey try ooo. Especially my wife.

I know I don't tell her as much as she wants me to te her that she is trying.

Wifey... Make I talk true and forget all this alpha male shit... You are really trying. Am so surprised how you changed from the hangout and shawarma chic immediately we got married to a mother and a helper. You are the best dear...

I see a you do. And I appreciate. I wld try to appreciate you more.

Oya tell her in these exact words

Richy4:
Have you heard something like this..
Honey can we go and eat out? I am tired..The last thing on my mind is to enter that kitchen and cook besides, we just came back together... Just go and fix something for yourself..

Those type were not on my felicitation group..I always think ahead before I type..

Yimu so there are women that say the bolded every blessed day? Like everytime? Really? ( Though most women feel that way after a very stressful day-which is practically everyday)

Say the truth and let the devil be ashamed Brother Richy.

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1Sharon:
The thing is that most Nigerian men are not sole providers. They can't afford to do so.

Their woman needs to work just like they do.

Only the middle class-rich can financially carry a wife and children.

This table you are shaking... Our Nairaland males don't like to hear it.

Wait for it they are coming for you

Richy4:
No be say I wan praise all womenOoo... Honestly some of them dey try...

Imagine returning from a function with the whole family like Church or any outing for that matter, Some of us usually get tired and exhausted...

But Na she go still enter kitchen go fix some thing wey the family go eat... No question asked about it... Where she got those little extra energy to go inside the kitchen and cook since we attended the same function , I can't tell... Some times we men takes some of those little things for granted...

Anyways, I will use this golden opportunity that festive period has offered to salute the women in the house who are doing all things possible to keep their homes... Well-done..

Uncle praise if you want to praise which one be some women dey try. Shey e get any woman wey no dey do the scenerio you described below the bolded?

The teachers should prepare their minds, it's not like Naija. Be ready to handle children, even spoilt ones without yelling or spanking.


The pro japa crew will soon flood here now and say they don't want people to japa blehbleh bleh. It's better to let them know it's not like Naija, so they can be prepared. To be forewarned is to be foreharmed. Information is power.

ravensckar:
Another voice of reasoning! Bros, more grace to you joor.

You see all of them immature boys screaming 'I'll kill any woman that insults my mum'. Yeye pikin dem wey never mature wey wan marry. Ask them if their own mama no quarrel with her own mother in-law. Quarrel between two women na him dem carry for head like Lapalapa. Funny enough, it's a normal thing for one's mum and wife to do small arm wrestling because both are fighting for control over the man. The mum still wants her son to remain loyal to her whilst the wife too want her husband to be loyal to her. Na the man suppose apply wisdom and know how to give everybody their dues. After all, your mama (not your wife) na him born you and na your wife (not your mama) go born pikin for you.


I've said it here and I'll repeat it again; 'If you still don't know how to navigate between your mum and your wife such that they can both live peacefully, then you have no business getting married'. I'm my mama's son and also my wife's 'baby'. I cannot count the number of times that my mum has quarrelled with my wife for calling me 'baby' in her presence until my dad intervened. He told my mum to look the other way because I'm now my wife's baby not hers. His analogy; I've stopped sucking my mum's breast but have now started sucking and will continue sucking my wife's own breast till death do us part. . My papa na correct OG.

The bolded got be loooling

You sent your pregnant fiancee to live with your mum and you expected there won't be issues? Seriously?

Maturity is not by age, when they say someone is a man it's not only by age or by finances it is also knowing what to do and how to do it.

Alimosho now has an Urology unit interesting.

Dunno why when ever I see teddy A and bambam thread it's comments I had read back then about the toilet matter always comes to my head first.

They should find a way to expunge those stuffs from the internet if it is possible.

It is well oo.

Lovely family.

No wonder people have been asking me if I want to sell my chickens.. Na so e cost this year?

10-12k ke? Oluwa gbawaoo how much come be old layer?

My remaning 4 cockrels are now under maximum protection.

Eyah, she (your girlfriend) too should have known better.

As a lady, giving gifts to Inlaws potential inlaws etc needs wisdom because a random act of what you think you call kindness can be seen as something else e. g desperation to be accepted. Some would say the gifts were out of line, some would accept it some would reject it. Buying clothes seems out of line for some people.

I know someone who was chastised for spraying her boyfriends mother money while dancing during a party.

Now I doubt your mum would reject a small basket of fruits.

Well you would have to return it to her with style.