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dgitrader:Food for thought. Majority of the young girls that complain about about their husband's/boyfriend's mum and sister troubling them will still trouble the wives of their own son and brothers. |
I was in a relationship with my (now ex I guess) girlfriend for 5 years. We didn't have sex until we were 4 years in because she wanted to wait until it felt right. I respected it wholeheartedly. Of course I wanted to but I loved her more than I wanted to have sex with her an I waited until she blatantly told me she was ready (and dragged me to the bedroom herself). his mistake was commiting to a relationship where the other party told him she wanted to wait until it felt right to have sex with him. She didn't say until marriage, if na marriage we fit even excuse am, she wants to wait until it feels right to commit fornication with you. Even when she is at peace with commiting fornication, she no think say u worth am(at that point) BUT you probably kept commiting the things that are valuable to you to the relationship, ur state of mind, ur finances, everything. Just in January, she told me she wanted to take a step back from our relationship and said she wasn't in the right mind space to be with me. I was hurt but she assured me that she loved me and would be with me again when she got her mind right. We remained friends and talked daily. I was excited for the day we could get back together see am see finish dun finish u here na why she dey tell u this nonsense and as usual u take am too. U no rate yourself at all. when anyone tells u these things, "I'm not in the right frame of mind for our relationship", "I think you are too good for me and u deserve a better person" ..... oga dem just dey tell u in a nice way that they are not feeling you and they don't want u. Love and support from anyone u love when u are going through shit will have ONLY ONE IMPACT, and that is make u feel better and recover better. So if they ask for space, alaye u are not useful to them ni What she did hurts but how she did it hurts most. How could she have done this with a guy she barely knew? Such a creepy one at that. How could she have done this so easily when she took her sweet time with me? I feel disgusted and angry. There's so much rage. A part of me feels guilty about how I feel since I know she didn't owe me sex and owns her own body, I'm not usually anywhere close to a misogynist but why is this such a slap in the face? I feel like my heart was bitch-slapped. i think you are better-off as her brother or father, not as her husband/boyfriend. she took the right decision pushing him away Am I wrong? No you are not wrong, you are just SIMPing |
Multiversed:I need to know who you voted at the last election before I decide what to say to you |
Esude007:SO now deduct all that cost you incurred before harvest, frombush clearing/land preparation to planting to wages or salaries to tractor to weedcontrol, everything u spent..lets have an idea of net profit. Please make provision for asset reduction too, because I remember we were taught In agric science then that the productivity of a land decreases with time, so account for little depreciation in your calculations of cost. More importantly, Thanks for the comprehensive breakdown of the likely income |
excanny:Omo 600k for cultivating 3acres round the year? na now i see why Nigerian politicians and elites are shouting that the young Nigerians should embrace argriculture while they send their own children to study IT, medicine, Business, Finance, Engineering |
The police people know the man knows too much about the people that planned the kidnap, so they had to take him out. I fear who no fear Nigerian police |
In terms of volume of funds moved, you'll be surprised na politicians names go still full there |
Perpetual aspirant. Ds man dun dey contest since Agagu's time |
Money that should be used to clear farmlands for whoever wants to farm |
the sad part is that the idiots on nairaland will come out here to say, this tribe is fighting this tribe. abusing each other...i dun talk am, una no too get sense. they are playing u like chess, whether ningi or bamidele or akpabio or yari is the Senate President, they will still unify to deny you of good governance, why una come dey fight each other for goodness sake. whoever is SP, his agenda will be to appease the senators and make them happy, NOT you fighting tribal war on nairaland |
Hmmmm... o di kwa risky, o di kwa dangerous |
Seyi Law appears to want to kill the little brand he has built for himself. He is actually stupid for wanting to play the slavery jab, i think he's tired of that comedy career, he is ready to risk it all to become PA to Seyi Tinubu |
yoruba and igbos represented....no chance for the idiots on nairaland to go tribal on this one |
Hiss |
vanitybutiwanti:That in bold is the real reason Fubara will win this Power tussle. What do u mean real Power brokers and elites. Fubara is the political elite here, Nigerian Governors are too powerful and loaded, the young people are so poor, that combination alone is the reason it will be easy for a state Governor to decimate any godfather(ofcourse there were exceptions but people have learnt now). Besides Tinubu no get Wike time for now, he dey grapple with im own problems now. There is no unlimited fund to give him to go and fight Fubara. Another Lesson in Life for Wike: Tinubu sort of abandoned his Party man Amaechi and aligned with Wike because Wike was governor and had that powers. Did Wike think Tinubu will not align with Fubara in the long run to have a decent showing in Rivers come 2027? |
In essence, the rigging machinery of Rivers State have turned their back on Wike. This was bound to happen. These thugs need money to live and survive and keep going, Wike cannot be using FCT money to support them like that, ONLY the Governor have the capacity to sustain them. Wike was naive if he ever thought he would win a marathon fight with Fubara. Can he employ the children of those thugs, can he give them contract, can he afford to still fund them the way he did? If you use money to buy people, JUST be sure u will keep having access to that money forever, OTHERWISE, KNOW WHEN TO BOW OUT HONORABLY this applies to a man that used gifts and money to collect his wife from another man with less pocket. That thing wey u no want make e happen ehn, E go likely happen |
The petition was filed by Olukoya's PA but not on behalf of Olukoya : INDEED dey whine ur followers o Man of God will preach to you on sunday, leave your battles for God to fight Man of God is not leaving his own for God to fight, Man of God dey use Police Eyin sheep, Una go get sense finally, God no go make am too late for una |
Honestey:Leave the idiots make them dey fight one another, the rapists are uniting beyond tribal boundaries, the politicians(thieves) are uniting beyond tribal boundaries, ONLY idiots are fighting one another based on tribe |
E dun go blow whistle wey pass Im power |
Na family affair,police go help them settle am over 1 keg of palm wine...I will reserve my pity for the people that do not deserve to die |
Tradepunter2:I'll never have pity for any cultist. I can't waste my pity. They kill and make life miserable for innocent people, they all deserve to die like chicken |
I pity the people that sent him to school. For him, I say congratulations, e dun see weytin e dey find. To all the others reading this, no worry ur day go come, u wan belong, u wan make everybody dey fear u, continue, ur own fit dey shameful pass this one. Eyin weyrey omo, dem struggle dey send una go school, una dey do rubbish cultism, ur mates are hustling looking for money, building their skillset, una dey do stupid meetings up and down...won ma pa gbogbo yin bi adiye ni |
We have told you nairaland idiots, stop fighting yourselves, u are only making a fool of yourselves doing this yoruba vs igbo rubbish. Your oppressors are united across tribal lines, Jonathan appointed emefiele, buhari retained emefiele for 8 good years, but u are there fighting yourselves. Emefiele is a card-carrying member of the same ApC as Tinubu. Make una continue to dey fight una selves, while they negotiate and forgive each other and keep stealing your resources, na d day una see say tinubu nephew go marry emefiele niece or daughter una go know say una be mumu |
They should stop disturbing us and jail him let's rest. There's kuku no difference between the man and the new government |
YoshihideSuga:they want those ones to go and look for their own care jobs so there wont be shortage. Its all well planned. So that dependant working in IT on his wife's care visa, will have to go look for his own care job that will sponsor him |
IMAliyu:and i just read someone's comment where he says, even students that are finishing and transitioning to Care visa, they are telling their dependants to go back home, the only way out if for the dependant to go look for his or her own care visa or other job sponsorship visa(which i understand are scarce), shey u see say dem dun calculate as shortage of healthcare workers no go dey. |
247man:WTF......to that man saying UK has shortage of healthcare workers, see the scope they are using here. Well planned by them |
Calitoscassius:loooool...that's the downsize of having a population of youth that are ambitious, energetic, hardworking, smart and brilliant. They will compete for anything and everything, and soon the thing will cast |
IMAliyu:yinmu UK dun calculate well well, see ehn, they have enough right now to fill the space and in the coming years too, majority of people that are studying right now and will study will have no option than to start transitioning to health care, infact from what i hear that is what is even happening right now. Even the ones that have graduated are still struggling to get into NHS. They know there's no place the whole number of Nigerians and Indians in their land will run to. US and Canada and Australia wont let them in, una no fit go back home to failing economy, the only option na to go take health care support job and hang on sponsorship. They are not reversing anything anytime soon. |
HRHQueenPhil:loool....u wan make UK returnees come manage your salon? |
9japride:NO, a family person does not have to abandon his/her family, they are not forcing a family person to migrate to the UK. We need to understand that these guys have to protect their citizens, no matter how useless and lazy those citizens are. Those are the people they swore and are empowered to protect first. |
Calitoscassius:Nigerians need to understand they don't hate them. They are only doing what is right for the citizens of UK. Yes UK citizens are lazy, but their leaders are still protecting their interest, Hardworking young Nigerians keep voting for people that are snuffing life out of them, then they want to vent on UK for shutting their doors |
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most of us are pretenders, we lie to ourselves and friends, but when inside that closets, you know that you squeeze out the maximum juice from Ur wife, if or when she holds a "sense" of power or control over most domestic affairs!