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FamilyRe: Once You Hear People Say, "His Wife Is Controlling Him" That Home Is Peaceful by obaidan: 2:52pm On Mar 13, 2024
dgitrader:
This is deep!
Unfortunately it is mostly women that are the culprit to this. The man's mother, his sister's and co.
They want a loving husband that listens and pamper them personally, but they don't want that sister in-law that enjoys same via their brother.

As per men( "Africa Man"wink most of us are pretenders, we lie to ourselves and friends, but when inside that closets, you know that you squeeze out the maximum juice from Ur wife, if or when she holds a "sense" of power or control over most domestic affairs!

If you are not happily married to a strong woman for over a decade, argue with your keyboard only, don't quote me!
Food for thought. Majority of the young girls that complain about about their husband's/boyfriend's mum and sister troubling them will still trouble the wives of their own son and brothers.
RomanceRe: She Made Him Wait For 4 Years For Sex, But Slept With A New Guy In A Week! by obaidan:
I was in a relationship with my (now ex I guess) girlfriend for 5 years. We didn't have sex until we were 4 years in because she wanted to wait until it felt right. I respected it wholeheartedly. Of course I wanted to but I loved her more than I wanted to have sex with her an I waited until she blatantly told me she was ready (and dragged me to the bedroom herself).

his mistake was commiting to a relationship where the other party told him she wanted to wait until it felt right to have sex with him. She didn't say until marriage, if na marriage we fit even excuse am, she wants to wait until it feels right to commit fornication with you. Even when she is at peace with commiting fornication, she no think say u worth am(at that point) BUT you probably kept commiting the things that are valuable to you to the relationship, ur state of mind, ur finances, everything.


Just in January, she told me she wanted to take a step back from our relationship and said she wasn't in the right mind space to be with me. I was hurt but she assured me that she loved me and would be with me again when she got her mind right. We remained friends and talked daily. I was excited for the day we could get back together
see am see finish dun finish u here na why she dey tell u this nonsense and as usual u take am too. U no rate yourself at all. when anyone tells u these things, "I'm not in the right frame of mind for our relationship", "I think you are too good for me and u deserve a better person" ..... oga dem just dey tell u in a nice way that they are not feeling you and they don't want u. Love and support from anyone u love when u are going through shit will have ONLY ONE IMPACT, and that is make u feel better and recover better. So if they ask for space, alaye u are not useful to them ni

What she did hurts but how she did it hurts most. How could she have done this with a guy she barely knew? Such a creepy one at that. How could she have done this so easily when she took her sweet time with me? I feel disgusted and angry. There's so much rage. A part of me feels guilty about how I feel since I know she didn't owe me sex and owns her own body, I'm not usually anywhere close to a misogynist but why is this such a slap in the face? I feel like my heart was bitch-slapped.
i think you are better-off as her brother or father, not as her husband/boyfriend. she took the right decision pushing him away

Am I wrong?
No you are not wrong, you are just SIMPing
FoodRe: Take A Look At The Food I Bought For N1,600 Today by obaidan: 2:26pm On Mar 13, 2024
Multiversed:
I went out very early today and I was already feeling tired on my way home so I wouldn't be able to perform some magic In the kitchen.

So I decided to branch my favorite food spot to buy some food.

To my surprise, The quantity of their food is now so small and costly. My eyes were sore but I just had to pay up and left the place Immediately.

The Breakdown

Jollof Rice:N300
Fried Rice:N300
Spaghetti:N200
Beef:N400
Egg:N200
Container:N200
I need to know who you voted at the last election before I decide what to say to you
AgricultureRe: Please How Much Can A 3 Acres Of Cassava Farm Generate? by obaidan: 2:18pm On Mar 13, 2024
Esude007:
Let's do the math, we have 2.5 acre in 1 hectare, if we plant using 1m by 1m configuration, we will have 10,000 stands, but I will advice you to use 0.9m by 0.9m to get 12,300 stands. If you follow good Agronomic practice, you can have 3kg yield per stand. 3kg * 12300.... 36900kg.

We have 1000kg in 1 tonne, so 36900kg divided by 1000kg will be 36.9 tonnes

Going by the current price in the market, 1 tonne of fresh cassava tuber is #65,000, that give us...... #2,398,5000

Thanks
SO now deduct all that cost you incurred before harvest, frombush clearing/land preparation to planting to wages or salaries to tractor to weedcontrol, everything u spent..lets have an idea of net profit. Please make provision for asset reduction too, because I remember we were taught In agric science then that the productivity of a land decreases with time, so account for little depreciation in your calculations of cost.
More importantly, Thanks for the comprehensive breakdown of the likely income
AgricultureRe: Please How Much Can A 3 Acres Of Cassava Farm Generate? by obaidan: 2:12pm On Mar 13, 2024
excanny:
times 3. 200k/acre. Net profit.
Omo 600k for cultivating 3acres round the year? na now i see why Nigerian politicians and elites are shouting that the young Nigerians should embrace argriculture while they send their own children to study IT, medicine, Business, Finance, Engineering
CrimeRe: Enugu Lawyer, Eli Ugwu, Shot Dead In Kogi After Delivering Ransom To Kidnappers by obaidan: 12:17pm On Mar 13, 2024
The police people know the man knows too much about the people that planned the kidnap, so they had to take him out. I fear who no fear Nigerian police
BusinessRe: Nigeria Asks Binance To Disclose Top 100 Users, Executives Remain Detained by obaidan: 12:40am On Mar 13, 2024
In terms of volume of funds moved, you'll be surprised na politicians names go still full there
PoliticsRe: Emi lokan: "It is my turn to be Governor of Ondo State" - Olusola Oke by obaidan: 10:39pm On Mar 12, 2024
Perpetual aspirant. Ds man dun dey contest since Agagu's time
PoliticsRe: Sokoto To Spend N6.7bn On Ramadan Feeding by obaidan: 9:53pm On Mar 12, 2024
Money that should be used to clear farmlands for whoever wants to farm
PoliticsRe: Some Senators Want To Remove You Before June - Bamidele Tells Akpabio by obaidan: 8:39pm On Mar 12, 2024
the sad part is that the idiots on nairaland will come out here to say, this tribe is fighting this tribe. abusing each other...i dun talk am, una no too get sense. they are playing u like chess, whether ningi or bamidele or akpabio or yari is the Senate President, they will still unify to deny you of good governance, why una come dey fight each other for goodness sake. whoever is SP, his agenda will be to appease the senators and make them happy, NOT you fighting tribal war on nairaland
CelebritiesRe: Queen BBNaija And Fiancé, David's Pre-Wedding Photos by obaidan: 8:26pm On Mar 12, 2024
Hmmmm... o di kwa risky, o di kwa dangerous
CelebritiesRe: "Baba Suwe That Stopped Downloading" - Seyi Law Dragged Over Comment About GRV by obaidan:
Seyi Law appears to want to kill the little brand he has built for himself. He is actually stupid for wanting to play the slavery jab, i think he's tired of that comedy career, he is ready to risk it all to become PA to Seyi Tinubu
TV/MoviesRe: 5 Nigerians Who Have Received Oscars Nomination, Award by obaidan: 8:12pm On Mar 12, 2024
yoruba and igbos represented....no chance for the idiots on nairaland to go tribal on this one
CelebritiesRe: I Lost My Virginity At 24 – Bbnaija’s Tolanibaj(vid,pix) by obaidan: 2:35pm On Mar 12, 2024
Hiss
PoliticsRe: We’ll Fight You Till Death – Wike’s GDI Turns Against Him, Backs Fubara by obaidan: 2:34pm On Mar 12, 2024
vanitybutiwanti:
He never said he will fight him till death, the video is on YouTube, moreover those guys are hungry, real power brokers and elites are still on wikes side
That in bold is the real reason Fubara will win this Power tussle. What do u mean real Power brokers and elites. Fubara is the political elite here, Nigerian Governors are too powerful and loaded, the young people are so poor, that combination alone is the reason it will be easy for a state Governor to decimate any godfather(ofcourse there were exceptions but people have learnt now). Besides Tinubu no get Wike time for now, he dey grapple with im own problems now. There is no unlimited fund to give him to go and fight Fubara.

Another Lesson in Life for Wike: Tinubu sort of abandoned his Party man Amaechi and aligned with Wike because Wike was governor and had that powers. Did Wike think Tinubu will not align with Fubara in the long run to have a decent showing in Rivers come 2027?
PoliticsRe: We’ll Fight You Till Death – Wike’s GDI Turns Against Him, Backs Fubara by obaidan: 2:25pm On Mar 12, 2024
In essence, the rigging machinery of Rivers State have turned their back on Wike. This was bound to happen. These thugs need money to live and survive and keep going, Wike cannot be using FCT money to support them like that, ONLY the Governor have the capacity to sustain them. Wike was naive if he ever thought he would win a marathon fight with Fubara. Can he employ the children of those thugs, can he give them contract, can he afford to still fund them the way he did? If you use money to buy people, JUST be sure u will keep having access to that money forever, OTHERWISE, KNOW WHEN TO BOW OUT HONORABLY this applies to a man that used gifts and money to collect his wife from another man with less pocket. That thing wey u no want make e happen ehn, E go likely happen
Christianity EtcRe: Police Rearrest Former MFM Chorister Over Libel Against Church Founder, Olukoya by obaidan:
The petition was filed by Olukoya's PA but not on behalf of Olukoya : INDEED dey whine ur followers o

Man of God will preach to you on sunday, leave your battles for God to fight
Man of God is not leaving his own for God to fight, Man of God dey use Police
Eyin sheep, Una go get sense finally, God no go make am too late for una
CrimeRe: 4 Men Gang-Rape 20-Year-Old Lady In Lagos, Record Action & Post It On Facebook by obaidan: 1:54pm On Mar 12, 2024
Honestey:
Ibe Obinna, Sheu Robiu, Olorunlayo Emmanuel and Adebanjo Ayomide? To those of you clamouring for power rotation, there you have it.
Leave the idiots make them dey fight one another, the rapists are uniting beyond tribal boundaries, the politicians(thieves) are uniting beyond tribal boundaries, ONLY idiots are fighting one another based on tribe
TravelRe: Boeing Whistleblower, John Barnett Found Dead In The US by obaidan: 6:36am On Mar 12, 2024
E dun go blow whistle wey pass Im power
CrimeRe: Abia Varsity Undergraduate Dies During Cult Clash by obaidan: 6:32am On Mar 12, 2024
Na family affair,police go help them settle am over 1 keg of palm wine...I will reserve my pity for the people that do not deserve to die
CrimeRe: Abia Varsity Undergraduate Dies During Cult Clash by obaidan:
Tradepunter2:
The abit cultist message have been preached enough..... That people are becoming insensitive and I dont blame them
I'll never have pity for any cultist. I can't waste my pity. They kill and make life miserable for innocent people, they all deserve to die like chicken
CrimeRe: Abia Varsity Undergraduate Dies During Cult Clash by obaidan:
I pity the people that sent him to school. For him, I say congratulations, e dun see weytin e dey find. To all the others reading this, no worry ur day go come, u wan belong, u wan make everybody dey fear u, continue, ur own fit dey shameful pass this one. Eyin weyrey omo, dem struggle dey send una go school, una dey do rubbish cultism, ur mates are hustling looking for money, building their skillset, una dey do stupid meetings up and down...won ma pa gbogbo yin bi adiye ni
PoliticsRe: Emefiele Awarded Billions In Contracts To Wife, Family And Friends - Witness by obaidan: 6:13am On Mar 12, 2024
We have told you nairaland idiots, stop fighting yourselves, u are only making a fool of yourselves doing this yoruba vs igbo rubbish. Your oppressors are united across tribal lines, Jonathan appointed emefiele, buhari retained emefiele for 8 good years, but u are there fighting yourselves. Emefiele is a card-carrying member of the same ApC as Tinubu. Make una continue to dey fight una selves, while they negotiate and forgive each other and keep stealing your resources, na d day una see say tinubu nephew go marry emefiele niece or daughter una go know say una be mumu
PoliticsRe: Emefiele Awarded Billions In Contracts To Wife, Family And Friends - Witness by obaidan: 5:51am On Mar 12, 2024
They should stop disturbing us and jail him let's rest. There's kuku no difference between the man and the new government
TravelRe: UK Bans Overseas Health Workers From Bringing Dependants by obaidan: 8:21pm On Mar 11, 2024
YoshihideSuga:
You're right o. They aren't just targeting the ones in the system (care workers), but those who moved with their families on student visas. Then, in return, they increased the minimum salary required to employ foreign students, but didn't apply the same rule to care workers. Now, they've banned care workers from having their families with them. In essence, they have trapped people inside and the only way out is to leave the country.

Oyibo oooo shocked shocked shocked
they want those ones to go and look for their own care jobs so there wont be shortage. Its all well planned. So that dependant working in IT on his wife's care visa, will have to go look for his own care job that will sponsor him
TravelRe: UK Bans Overseas Health Workers From Bringing Dependants by obaidan: 8:17pm On Mar 11, 2024
IMAliyu:
That is possible, I guess we'll see how things pan out.
and i just read someone's comment where he says, even students that are finishing and transitioning to Care visa, they are telling their dependants to go back home, the only way out if for the dependant to go look for his or her own care visa or other job sponsorship visa(which i understand are scarce), shey u see say dem dun calculate as shortage of healthcare workers no go dey.
TravelRe: UK Bans Overseas Health Workers From Bringing Dependants by obaidan: 8:12pm On Mar 11, 2024
247man:
Even those students who change to care visas, they are saying their dependents ( spouse and kids) should go back to their countries because the new care visa does not cover their dependents . Not just the new arrivals. They want to start deporting people who legally entered last year as dependents. Those are the 120,000 he is talking about. If the dependents want to stay, they should also go and look for sponsorship.
WTF......to that man saying UK has shortage of healthcare workers, see the scope they are using here. Well planned by them
TravelRe: UK Bans Overseas Health Workers From Bringing Dependants by obaidan: 8:03pm On Mar 11, 2024
Calitoscassius:
Ofcourse, they don't hate Naigeerians the policy applies to other countries. But as it appears Naigeerians are the ones coming more than other countries, as i mentioned earlier, Naigeerians were bringing in people who are not their family members and collecting money from them apparently, One of my associates who runs one of these oversea employement agencies tells me that they advertise jobs in the Philipine, Zimababwe, India, Pakistan and Kenya. But the most people applying and issued visa are mostly coming from Naigeeria. At one point 300 Naigeerians issued work visa came in 2 months.
loooool...that's the downsize of having a population of youth that are ambitious, energetic, hardworking, smart and brilliant. They will compete for anything and everything, and soon the thing will cast
TravelRe: UK Bans Overseas Health Workers From Bringing Dependants by obaidan: 8:00pm On Mar 11, 2024
IMAliyu:
They're likely going to reverse this in a year or two, when it's effects kick in, and proves to be undesirable.
The UK's NHS was already understaffed, with migrants filling up a chunk of that space. What do they think will happen when they remove an insensitive for foreign professionals to migrate to the UK?
yinmu UK dun calculate well well, see ehn, they have enough right now to fill the space and in the coming years too, majority of people that are studying right now and will study will have no option than to start transitioning to health care, infact from what i hear that is what is even happening right now. Even the ones that have graduated are still struggling to get into NHS. They know there's no place the whole number of Nigerians and Indians in their land will run to. US and Canada and Australia wont let them in, una no fit go back home to failing economy, the only option na to go take health care support job and hang on sponsorship. They are not reversing anything anytime soon.
TravelRe: UK Bans Overseas Health Workers From Bringing Dependants by obaidan: 7:53pm On Mar 11, 2024
HRHQueenPhil:
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super urgent..salary is 200k
loool....u wan make UK returnees come manage your salon?
TravelRe: UK Bans Overseas Health Workers From Bringing Dependants by obaidan: 7:51pm On Mar 11, 2024
9japride:
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It does not make sense. Why can't they employ their youths to do care giver jobs?
So they expect a family person to abandon his/her family back home?
NO, a family person does not have to abandon his/her family, they are not forcing a family person to migrate to the UK. We need to understand that these guys have to protect their citizens, no matter how useless and lazy those citizens are. Those are the people they swore and are empowered to protect first.
TravelRe: UK Bans Overseas Health Workers From Bringing Dependants by obaidan: 7:46pm On Mar 11, 2024
Calitoscassius:
Yep! They opened their borders, let people in, now they are shutting their borders. It is only fair.
Nigerians need to understand they don't hate them. They are only doing what is right for the citizens of UK. Yes UK citizens are lazy, but their leaders are still protecting their interest, Hardworking young Nigerians keep voting for people that are snuffing life out of them, then they want to vent on UK for shutting their doors

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