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Romance / Re: Ladies Why Getting Married In Your Late 20s by Obalende: 7:33pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
I have a cousin in naija right now who is 22 and I am encouraging her to get married. I strongly believe the reason why men cheat is they want fresh goods. tell me why I would cheat on my beautiful 21 year old wife? By the time she hits 30, I wont need as much sex anymore. I even believe thats how the maker made it. smart girls marry young. period. |
Romance / Re: Ladies Why Getting Married In Your Late 20s by Obalende: 7:27pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
craziebone: Shut the Bleep up! It is hypocrites like you who label men pedos then still go after the same girls... im same as him, anything above 23 is damaged goods. After all the years of abstenance, I deserve something young. period. |
Crime / Re: Nigerian Man In UK Scams Women Of £100,000 ( Photo ) by Obalende: 2:24am On Dec 06, 2014 |
nairalandist: Gen 9 Cursed be Canaan, a servant of servants will he be unto his brethren. the black race is cursed even in my area overseas, the blacks steal cars, steal and vandalize property, the youth low waits their jeans, its all part of the genesis pronouncement. |
Romance / Re: I Am Getting Tired Of Looking For A Wife by Obalende: 12:03am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Tashamania: and then he will go and self-service with the image of the same girl on skimpy wear. Nigerians sha oh. Its the effects of carrying religion for head. 10 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Am Getting Tired Of Looking For A Wife by Obalende: 11:55pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
Tashamania: dont mind these ppl. the average nigerian is over religious and indocrinated. 10 Likes |
Health / Re: Hollande Becomes First European Leader To Visit Ebola-hit Region by Obalende: 8:36pm On Nov 29, 2014 |
Octaves: hold it right there with your foolish self hating generalization instilled thru your thick skull by western media. No we do not blame anyone else but ourselves. Maybe you do. Nigeria has been developing. The West is in decline. You need mental healing from self hate. |
Romance / Re: Twelve (12) Reasons Why You Should Consider Settling Down With A Beautiful Lady. by Obalende: 12:43am On Nov 28, 2014 |
first, i hate when nigerians introduce christianity/ religion into purely biological processes. these idiots who live in denial will marry an ok wife then cheat on her with a hot student or young professional. lol. |
Education / Re: First Class Graduate Killed By Policeman Over Girlfriend by Obalende: 12:49pm On Nov 27, 2014 |
i have said it before and i will keep saying the truth. nigeria is a cursed nation. same as USA. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Nigerians Don Suffer Sha - Even Morocco by Obalende: 4:05pm On Nov 26, 2014 |
irresponsible government causes wasted time used to apply for visas = suffering (time loss) anyway I dont blame you are already used to the apply apply mentality. What if you could travel there without visa? UK nationals etc need no visa. 1 Like |
Travel / Nigerians Don Suffer Sha - Even Morocco by Obalende: 3:35pm On Nov 26, 2014 |
just got off the phone with their consulate and nigerians need a visa to enter morocco - chai!!! And Niger does not need. |
Webmasters / When Is Nairaland Migrating To Vbulletin? by Obalende: 5:21pm On Nov 22, 2014 |
Food / Re: Are People Currently Eating Bushmeat? by Obalende: 5:20pm On Nov 22, 2014 |
Anyhow I am not encouraging anyone to eat, just thinking out loud. |
Food / Re: Are People Currently Eating Bushmeat? by Obalende: 5:20pm On Nov 22, 2014 |
How did bush meat that had not carried ebola for over 10 years suddenly start carrying it again? Me thinks the whole story is fishy... |
Food / Are People Currently Eating Bushmeat? by Obalende: 4:13pm On Nov 22, 2014 |
What is the status on this? |
Romance / Re: Why Its Better To Stay With One Woman by Obalende: 4:09am On Nov 21, 2014 |
the issue though with marriage is this. Most men are seeking the youngest, most fertile and prettiest ladies with the best character they can get but these girls are not ready for commitment yet. By the time these girls are ready for marriage around 26, most men will start eyeing younger girls, the guy will then marry a 32 year old babe but then cheat on her with a 24 year old. You see the problem? I hear these girls talk and all I hear is "I am attracted to John, etc" never "I want to get married to John" How can we resolve this dilemma as men? Me I want a very young chick so I dont have to look outside but then they are not ready to settle :-( |
Romance / Why Its Better To Stay With One Woman by Obalende: 3:03am On Nov 21, 2014 |
Proverbs 14:12 King James Version (KJV) 12 There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death. I want to talk today about this new trend of side chick, main chick etc. I believe what the Creator intended is one man to one woman at a time. Yes you are not tied to one woman fair enough if she misbehaves you can select another but the concept of having multiple women at the same time leads to emptiness, STDs, etc. What do you think? |
Romance / Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by Obalende: 3:53pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
OP there is no one without sin. |
Romance / Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by Obalende: 1:48pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
Abortion is murder. Please do not do it. Give birth. the Divine will make provision for the child. |
Romance / Re: Enough Of This 'nigerian Girls' Bullsh!t by Obalende: 11:39pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
Thavik I emailed you you never respond oh! please message me thru nairaland. Anyways truth is naija girls are manipulative. |
Romance / Re: Enough Of This 'nigerian Girls' Bullsh!t by Obalende: 1:53pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
its all money money money. but the guys are fools and the girls are just taking advantage of what is available... so its fair game. girls cant be blamed. Just look at the guys, 95% of all nigerian men believe money attracts girls, many start making money just for girls and give it to girls. Girls are just lucky. period. If guys want it to change, naija guys should change their mentality, the girls will follow suite. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Guys Why Do U Have More Than One Girlfriend??? by Obalende: 9:35am On Nov 19, 2014 |
For many guys its risk management. If u have 3 and one breaks up you still have 2. |
Romance / Re: Young Ladies And Marriage: Why Are Women So Gaga About It?!! by Obalende: 10:59pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
When the girls are prime, they do shakara, after prime, they want marriage. But by this time most men start seeking out younger babes. only babes that feel they r about to expire start seeking marriage - at least in the present day world. |
Culture / Why Do We Like Foreign Degrees? by Obalende: 6:52pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
they are seen as prestigious etc. What happened to our own University/ African Universities? Why does every tom dick & harry want to study in white man's land? |
Crime / Re: Suspected Suicide Bomber Burnt Alive By Mob In Gombe (PIC) by Obalende: 5:35pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
major466: By your statements, you are accepting inferiority. That is what they saw as justice. If the white man starts setting ppl ablaze tomorrow, you will follow suite. the white man dictates what is civilized for you. monkey. is lethal injection administered in the US civilized? The black man needs to refuse inferioirity! |
Crime / Re: Suspected Suicide Bomber Burnt Alive By Mob In Gombe (PIC) by Obalende: 5:33pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
GAZZUZZ: You are a monkey. You are a colonially brainwashed monkey. As if SSS does a great job? I dont support the act but that is what they saw as justice. |
Romance / Re: Women Are Difficult To Trust; Why? by Obalende: 9:10am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Women were primarily designed to provide reproductive capacity for the human race. |
Romance / Re: Why Is It That After I Woo A Lady I Won't Be Interested In Her Again by Obalende: 11:59pm On Nov 17, 2014 |
Belzeebub & Incubus, come out of him now!!! |
Romance / Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Obalende: 6:15pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Sagamite: Baba Sagamite. Dont mind these ppl, they forget Song of Solomon (a book of the Bible with a romantic tone is there)- even Bible says man is head of the house (the control you speak of). I have explained to these folk if you go to women with religion alone you will regret it. its nothing to do with ur soul; I believe many ppl in the bible had game as well... |
Romance / Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Obalende: 3:37am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Ilekokonit: What do you mean by "dirty"? When you yourself have sex is it "clean"? How come when an attractive women has it, it is dirty? I understand what you are saying and I have learnt from it; I have made these mistakes myself actually. Anyway, you are kinda right, not all pretty faces are good. Looking for a wife is difficult abeg. By the time you go find that needle for haystack you for don old. The issue is biological... both men and women are looking to maximize their mating opportunities and that, with the best genes. I like a definition given by a man a while ago: "Attraction is natures way of holding together our minds and bodies JUST LONG ENOUGH so that we mate with someone with good genes" This explains why men and women cheat, there is high divorce rate etc. You should be targeting women in their prime... Forget wife, wife will take care of itself in due season - what I mean by that is find a girl in her prime, have your escapades with her with marriage intention then marry her. Avoid the primiscous ones though. My point is finding a wife with sexual involvement of some sort not necessarily sex dont work. |
Romance / How Do You Handle Girls Forming by Obalende: 2:27pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
the maximum number of times i can show interest in a girl is three times, after that on to the next. i just have no time for chases when there are other qualified candidates with less effort can be had in a relationship. is this a good attitude? Pls give inputs... |
Romance / Re: Why Men Cheat On Their Wives by Obalende: 2:02pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
francizy: I think religion is partly to blame for these things; you will not strip dance, Mouth Action or twerk for your husband? Guess what? A prostitute will give the same service! religion makes anything sexual evil... so when ppl get into marriages, they are crippled with fear of sin etc. A mental liberation is needed. I believe the sex life of a couple can never grow sour if they make variety. Second the importance of youthful marriage cannot be overemphasized, youthful looks and a hot body for longer years will make the man cheat less. Even when the babe is 50, the guy will just keep her as they have been together for so long, it will be uncool to go to someone else. |
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