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bleep!ng seems to be the main criteria to get a girl hearken to you.........
I guess You''re an atheist, but am a Christian.. Yeah! And I can't lose my soul to enjoy some indefinite pleasure.. There's too much at stake for so little!

You are already equating anything sexual with hell/ sin; you see, this is the indoctrination of the christians with wrong doctrine i often talk about, one day now you go go carry ashawo because you are fighting with nature - one day your body cant take it no more! Christianity or rather some of its pastors does injustice to men by giving anything sexual negative connotations and causes men to fear, feel guilt and shame for their feelings.

sosalekins

No bleep!ng is not the main criteria and you, just like many other naija folk, misinterprete many things. my point is, if you like a girl sexually, then show sexual interest (also treat her like a normal human being while doing that....no gifts please!) even in the Bible when it was time to find a wife for moses or so cant remember his name they said "Let us go and find a wife for moses" i.e. they make it clear what they want (religious component). then when you meet the girl, make your intentions clear (it could be putting her name with your surname joined with something physical like hand holding, petting or my preferred - making out) - this is the biological component that says non-verbally - "I am attracted to and interested in you for long term relationship"; then you have to attract the girl and keep the girl attracted not get boring or become a door mat, give only deserving gifts not be a door mat etc. this is the third and final component which is sociological.

two words of advise:
i.) dont be a shy guy and use christianity as an excuse for not making advances (it could be just hand holding, petting, making jokes and calling her her name + ur surname); I strongly recommend kissing or pecking and no sex to say "I like you" - no where does the holy scriptures say "thou shall not kiss before marriage" - it is only evil if you have determined in your heart to sleep/ kiss multiple partners from the word go. Nigerians just take stuff overboard. British ppl are some of the most natural set of ppl I have ever met within the church - they dont have these hang ups.

ii.) You will continue to lose out on the ladies until you become more at ease with your sexual side...

And I am no atheist.

sosalekins:
not really but thanks anyway.. I've never dated a girl out of sex cus I don't think its fair.. Am just gonno move on concerning the girl.

Herein lies the problem. I have had a girl tell me before she was looking for a "sex activity partner"... i dont judge because sex is natural and desirable to most females. they want a good bang!

The biggest mistake guys make is not realize that babes also desire sex strongly, you are doing the women a great disservice if you just want a "fair relationship". Women sometimes cheat in marriage too because they are not getting good sex.

Bottom line, forget fairness, even just kiss the babe initially (they will appreciate this more than your initial gifts) to show sexual interest then extend it to long term relationship. this has always worked for many guys.

sosalekins

You are being logical while the woman is responding to attractive triggers for mating (biology).

It may help you to recall that humans are primates.

hope this helps.

sosalekins:
this has nothing to do with Christianity nor religion.. And it seems you're so stressed on se+x and multiple satisfaction..
There are more important things than those..
And besides, you've got the right to choose your religion so do not castigate a religion because you're unable to abide by its precepts.
The end is all that tells.

I am not castigating religion. I am just saying that if you have Mr John a Christian who reads his bible etc. the bible is all for no sex before marriage, monogamy, courting, one man to one woman, treat women like angels, do not replace women etc.

All I am saying is a guy going into the dating world with this mindset is doomed because women respond positively only to the opposite traits you must display to succeed.

Go and chase women with marriage intent and see what will happen. Then go and chase them with a take it or leave it attitude with a bit of harshness and they respond much better.

My take is women should be dealt with a religious compass (but not religion alone as you WILL get burnt), a biological compass (understanding what really works with women and the biological and hormonal activities involved in mating, natural selection, darwinism) and a sociological compass (dominance, alpha traits etc)

this is the fundamental problem with christianity...
I for one am permanently releasing myself from these judeo christian injunctions!
What women respond to is bad boy, sex before marriage, hard to get, already married and non of the courting non-sense prescribed by religion.

Stories like this are self evident assurance of my non belief in monogamy, marriage, sex before marriage avoidance (im not too keen on sex anyway), replaceability of women at all times once they no longer serve my purpose.

I am coming to honestly think Celibacy, No Marriage and No Women is the best policy for men. Initially, it may seem hard but give it some deep thought, you will see its wise. Paul even recommended it.

Benefits
i.) No judeo-christian threats of adultery and hell.
ii.) No woman can break my heart.
iii.) No chance to get involved in witchcraft e.g. love spells
iv.) More focus on God.
v.) More peace of mind - no quarrels, girl plays you etc.
vi.) Your estate goes to your immediate family members and to the church.
vii.) In old age, a health/ personal support worker will take care of you.
viii.) By being woman free, you channel sex energy to more productive ventures.

Can you think of any other benefits?

bushdoc9919:
Because the laws of those countries are very strictly enforced. Do the crime over there....do the time.

One other thing...the countries of the universities you mentioned...UK, Brazil, Norway and US....are all industrial. As such the education system is geared towards problem solving....and as such the students are too busy working on problems to join cults. Also, job prospects are better....so the student there is more optimistic and confident than your Nigerian counterpart.

In Nigeria...no jobs because of our oil dependency which stifles industries and thus jobs. The education system is geared towards getting a certificate....and jobs are by connections(because of the scarcity). In such an air of despair....joining a cult seems the 'right' thing to do

Isnt it interesting how Africans have this excuse/ irresponsible mentality. why cant we hv things working in Nigeria? Because they have an excuse/ lazy disposition/ mentality.

The answer to my question is that the students are irresponsible and nigerian students need to become more responsible... its bitter but its the hard truth.

Why is that students @ University of London, University of Rio de Jenario, University of Oslo and University of Maryland dont form violent cults?

It has puzzled me. In UK no cults.

Why is only in nigeria/ africa that students instead of pioneering research start forming cults?

Why is that students @ University of London, University of Rio de Jenario, University of Oslo and University of Maryland dont form violent cults?

It has puzzled me. In UK no cults.

Why is only in nigeria/ africa that students instead of pioneering research start forming cults?

date carribean or from other afrcan countries - Senegalese and Morocco and tunisia girls are all hot. or white.

I recently tried nigerian girls, oh boi I take speed run. For the past over 10 years, ALL the babes I ever took on dates paid for themselves MANY BLATANTLY AND VIGOROUSLY REFUSING when I offered to pay. Just the few naija babes I took recently, the expectation was everything should be on me. to top it op, one lady began by asking my citizenship, how long ive been overseas, my profession etc (calculating what she will gain) - this is just disgusting.

And these girls arent even model types with top notch characters.

I refused them telling them I no get money that they should pay for me. It is a market, as long as foolish guys are willing to continue paying, this market will continue to exist.

as for me, henceforth, its carribean or nigerian girls that were born abroad. If you are reading this in naija, try girls from rich backgrounds...
this leech mentality needs to stop!

I hate it when people say and celebrate first black "whatever". It just means you are accepting inferiority...

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what I am really looking for is reliable Nigerian Stock Exchange Price history. Open High Low Close. NSE is selling it for NGN70,000 but its too expensive.. does anyone know how else I can get this data please?

You send just a letter to Nigeria not even gift, it never reaches it destination.
Even mail from Maryland to Ajah wont get there unless its a po box.
This is reflective of nigerian culture & society.

spare me all this B.S.

the blacks are naturally retrogressive; forget of ancient times, what has Okafor invented recently other than quick money rituals?

this is a very serious matter - dont convert it into a joke. The same thing happened in North America with the implementation of "bit coins"; a a "new type of currency".

It quickly became recognized by the US IRS and Canadian CRA.

We can argue that once bit coins gain popularity and start getting used, once it reaches nigeria, with this infrastructure in place thats it for you!

ppl dont want to accept what is happening... i wish it wasnt real but i cant deny it...

It may not be yet, but it is like 90% there...

My real question is we are religious, so why didnt it start from less religious countries?

anyways, im going to my village to pick my burial spot. im leaving the world!

1. The mark of the beast system is originating from the most religious country in the world Nigeria. Only in Nigeria is banking associated with finger prints, facial recognition, Mastercard linked with national ID; this is even way more advanced than the systems in US and Canada. There is no way to escape the coming tyrannical anti-christ world wide government.

2. The speed of implementation should give you a clue. The Nigerian Govt has always been sluggish in project implementations - take electricity generation for example. The fast implementation of cashless Lagos, NUBAN, BVN points to the fact that there is something behind this.

3. I remember when I was a kid, they said when that time comes, they will say it is due to security, kidnappings and safety - that will be the excuse. Once you get Mastercard National ID, have your NUBAN and have this Biometric Verification Number and subsequently Biometric Verification Card, NOW INSTEAD OF CASHIERS TO VERIFY TRANSACTIONS THEY WILL BE VERIFIED BY BIOMETRICS (READ EMAIL FROM MY BANK BELOW)! Then you cannot do anything about it.

Nigerians have always been prayerful people, there are churches in every street in Nigeria. Nigerians are very religious. Dear God, why did this not start from SWEDEN or Norway.

Here is the official email I got:

Dear Customer, Complete Your Biometric Registration. BANK NAME has commenced customer biometric data capture in Lagos, which includes finger prints and facial image. This is in accordance with the Bank Verification Number system recently introduced by the CBN in collaboration with all Banks....

The BVN system assigns a unique number to each Bank customer (REAL MEANING IS EACH NIGERIAN), and uses biometrics to identify customers and verify transactions. The first stage is the enrolment, where your biometric data is captured and uploaded to a central database. A Biometric Verification Number will be issued within 24 hours of data capture and you will be notified via SMS with a biometric card subsequently produced for offline verification.


GUYS THIS STUFF IS REAL

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So why does he have to be killed for the faith to go to heaven. Christianity encourages brainwashing and matrydom? Why cant he just pretend to have converted knowing in his heart he hasnt?

THIS IS JUST RADICALIZATION!

the government can now dip its hand into your account and collect taxes with or without cause. and you say i have to check my temperature?

Sanchez01: OP, please stop being paranoid and stop reading meaning to things.

How is it paranoid? I hate to see this come to pass but from all indications, it seems it is what it is. It always starts small so people dont complain. Like "cashless Lagos"; again cashless policies are good. reducing the amount of cash in circulation is a good thing. Cashless Lagos later went on to become cashless Nigeria now.

My argument is that this will be taken further and consolidated into the world financial system. Like a nairalander once said in the past, hitherto and heretofore, Africans have been free to roam in their financial transactions but after this no more.

The danger of 100% e-payments based economy 100% is trace and Government control/ tyranny. Take it or leave it.

refute what has been said, mentally lazy Nigerian who cannot think ahead.

National IDs are normal.

national ID cards that are payments based are not normal.

Mastercard will have your name. Mastercard has a global database. Once your name is put in, it will show your financial details all around the world.

You are the person that needs to check your temperture. Refute the argument instead of getting personal. Lazy slacker.

it sure does! Because Govt rolled out NUBAN, now another unique bank number exercise is in progress. It is simple. In future, they will say all your transactions must be thru this new National ID card via Mastercard. The end of the world is nigh. It did not start from US or Canada. It started from Nigeria - the most religious country on earth!! Why?

Second question, it was claimed in the bible God loves humanity as a whole. Is mark of the beast and the horrors of Revelation "love". It sure seems humanity is on its own.

all Nigerians hear this: this National ID card + Mastercard IS THE MARK OF THE BEAST. Later, all your transactions must be done thru this card i.e. you will have just this one consolidated card. Only a fool cannot see this. CBN is obeying Satanic orders.

What can we do about it?

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Betalife the private sector can do it. Always waiting for Government. Lazy Africans.

Nigeria is also a rapidly emerging economy so OP to hell with you!

Nice and interesting. I don sit don well for this thread.

Everyone blaming govt GOVERNMENT OFFICIALS ARE NIGERIANS

so Nigerians are the problem. We have a retrogressive mentality. The truth is bitter.

but there is a conscience in everyone mazaje... that are not set by rules..

God will not tell you exactly why he needs soldiers.... you are just to believe you are to be killed for Christs sake and to "rejoice" for your reward in heaven. hmm...

but mazaje you do agree on the concept of sin. I think humans can identify a sin... not in the threatening religious sense, but something you just know is morally wrong...