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Moradeyo95:Are you a Northerner yourself or you're saying what you read on the pages of newspaper?. |
Davash222:Those guys in your Aso rock will shoot at her even when it's glaring that she is not armed. |
Akolawole:Which "North" you think he will not beat him in a free and fair election?. |
kahal29:And you think Buhari didn't lose? |
naijazee:You get mind ooo,I no fit keep cylinder inside house,to think that you bought a fairly used is scaring. |
izzou:And you believed him? |
Qadaffi2idiamin:He registered on August 27,2019 and wants to know everybody,omale jati jati |
Reucy:That's the height of morale decadence and it goes a long way to show how he was trained at home(just if he had any). |
Bonatheripper:Say "you" don't know him not "we,"what's your worth if I may ask?.if she is a maid,how is that your headache?. I believe you're still looking for a female pant to steal,lazy Nigerian youth. |
I honestly don't know because we were together for over a year while I was completely broke.Bros if I were you and i have the means,I will keep supporting her not because I am expecting anything from her but because I derive joy knowing that I was able to put smile on someone face.We get our rewards in this life one way or the other. Have you asked yourself why you were able to make it online? or even alive?,many started the same business but failed.A lady who works in a mama put in one of markets with a wage of 500 naira is now in Canada. Nobody knows tomorrow, if man didn't reward good deeds,God will surely do. |
[quote author=bakeuhappy post=80033866]Oga Ibo tradition does not allow for any right to be done on a woman once it's known she's pregnant. 2: you knew she was young, naive and foolish.. I'm not saying you shouldn't do but I'm asking since you are older and more mature, you should have used a 'condom'. In the absence of using a condom why didn't you buy her the morning after pill ? 3. She's not polished o yeah!! Not enough excuse to dump her.. You can polish her to your standards.. 4. Love grows and love wanes what makes a solid marriage in my opinion are: respect, trust and friendship.. When you grow to old and weak for sex.. It's the bond that's created through friendship that holds the relationship 5. I'm not saying you should marry her or not but my advice to you is to sleep over this issue and think it through very well.. It's not going to be an easy ride.. Especially when she gives birth and you saying her mum will help out isn't automatic because her mum has her own life to live.. Your mum might be in a better position to help out. 6. I understand a bit of you saying you don't want to marry from Anambra. I'm from IMO state and learnt about the Anambra/Imo bruhaha. But I don't judge people based on where they come from but on individual basis. I can tell you that my closest friends are from Anambra state and they have stood by me through thick and thin. 7. Whatever you have chosen to do. It's your decision and your choice to make but 'do the right thing '. Are you really an Igbo or belonged to the, "mama say I be Igbo", are you from Anambra(Onitsha or it's environs to be precise)?. Why would you say something you are not knowledgeable enough or generalize an issue?.In fact,I know part of an Enugu that have such custom because my friend 8 years ago got an Enugu girl pregnant and there was an understanding that they can't marry and he was ask to come and do some marriage rites before the birth so that he can claim the child, which he did and I was present. Don't say what you don't know please.Maybe you're confusing yourself with the," ike nwanyi na-afo ime" custom, I.e the custom that forbids a pregnant woman from marrying while pregnant. This custom forbids a woman from marrying another man(a man other than the one that got her pregnant) but she can marry the one that got her pregnant.The reason is to forestall a given Mr A child to Mr B.If Igbo's don't marry while Pregnant, haven't you seen heavily pregnant Igbo ladies on a wedding dress doing both traditional and White weddings?. |
[quote author=sirdouglas post=79985421]You can see how people with perfect lives are condemning me already. I doubt if some of them read all that I said. The thing is this, I will be spending at least 5 years abroad. I am sure I am spending five years there because I decided it and I am not living illegally so I will only leave when I want to. She knows that too. I said at least because I don't know what tomorrow holds and I really don't want to be in Nigeria anytime soon and I just left. Barely three months now. I can't keep her waiting and the two kids is going to make it really difficult. It would have been easier if it is one. What I am asking is, I don't know anambra traditions very well but there are parts that won't let you go with the child if you didn't pay the bride price or iku aka I really don't know how the whole thing is done and whoever that marries the girl goes with the child. I really want her to get married and I am really sorry this is happening but I wouldn't want to lose my claim on my kids if finally they are mine to anyone or situation. From the legal side,that Igbo custom that denies a man custodian of his child on the ground that a dowry was not paid had been abolished because it is repugnant to natural justice equity and good conscience.All you need do is to approach a high court with the DNA test and the child is yours but if you don't want it to get to that level, based on custom, the best time to pay the dowry is before the delivery of the child NOT AFTER DELIVERY. |
Nasa28:I am an Igbo man myself, don't come here to play ethnic card |
Nasa28:Igbo's are their own problems, this type of levy doesn't exist in any other part of the country except in Igbo land. |
JubrilBuhari:Listen again with an open mind |
JubrilBuhari:You certainty listened without understanding or you listened with a biased mind |
JubrilBuhari:You certainty listened without understanding |
34webers:Why talk more than the court? |
34webers:Hope I will get Buhari's assets declaration form when I applied to the Bureau?. |
[quote author=atakamus post=74738330]If Wike said this, I wonder what he is afraid of. CJN is not above the law. Let him prove himself innocent. This has nothing to do with the Niger Delta people. The law is the bases. Let the law be upheld. [/quo Nobody is saying that the CJN is above the law,the position of Nigerians is that the constitution is very clear on the procedure of such trial and that that procedure has not been followed. |
emezuo17:It was Buhari that recommended her to Jonathan when he was asked to nominate person to the INEC because Jonathan does not only want the election credible but to be seen as credible. |
Trunaijian:Who is she then?,liar |
Patrioticman007:You're wrong, Jonathan asked Buhari to recommend a commissioner to the INEC in the build up of 2015 because he want a credible election and Buhari recommends her.Ask Junaid Muhammad who she is to Buhari. |
NaijaRoyalty:What do you expect from Keyamo?, birds of the same feathers flocks together,didn't you read Chima Amadi allegations about him?,have he refuted it or taken action?. |
coolcatty:Ogbuawa is not an indigen but he has a house in Nnewi,did built it on air? |
CilicMarin:You're also aware that the crime he is been detained now was committed in 2005 and in 2009 High court discharge and acquitted him and the police did not appeal the acquittal, 9 years after, (when the police have lost the right of appeal),he is been arraigned for the same offence, can you tell me under which law the police derived their powers now?. |
Jonathan:Are the soldiers not hungry?, some are sent home to treat themselves with their personal money.I have a Major friend who is a commander. |
ClearFlair:It's the PDP vandalising it,anu |
FortifiedCity:Na you go tire |
highqueen:It's a matter of choice, nobody force her or can force you. |
kestolove95:That's expected, when a large number of girls hate condom with passion. |
Liliyann:Na all these girls their papa no get bicycle go come online dey talk rubbish. |
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