Uzomacharles:
Gees in the house, can you imagine??

https://www.nairaland.com/7189483/please-guys-what-young-girl#114022017

elimsun:
Good day great people of nairaland. I'll make this as short as possible and forgive my typo errors.
I've been working in this construction firm for the past five years together with taking care of my family and my girlfriend who has been in school but due to ASUU strike, now at home.
I'm usually busy and spend less time at home except on weekends - Sundays.
Recently, my girlfriend has been talking me into changing the nature of my work to another job that will afford me the opportunity to give more time to my family and her. I insisted that I'll need more time to be able to find another job but she will not have it that way.
Seems to spoke to my mother about it and it's now hell in the home with my mother threatening she will kill herself if I don't quit the job. This job is something I have used in completing my house and paying the fees of my girlfriend.
Lest I forget, I got the hint that my manager is considering me for a promotion and my quitting the job might just spell doom on me!

I'll appreciate all your suggestions, advice and criticism. I'm really in a fix!

Ardar:


Its also common knowledge that Nigerian males are chronic domestic rapists and international fraudsters who have brought nothing but pain and shame to the country.

Ardar:


You had an encounter with one woman and suddenly all Nigerian ladies are behaving like that.

If she had given you money or done something nice for you, you won't talk about how Nigerian ladies are like so good and nice.

ahnie:
It's the courage to raise a child that makes you a father.

ahnie:

Op isn't ready to claim the money to buy half crate of eggs I proposed to him.



Give me a mention on Saturday.

Lilimax:
As long as that baby stays in your womb for 9months and your brought him/her out, you are a mother. No controversy!

Lilimax:
It literally means that you should face your own matter and do not meddle in what does not concern you.

Meanwhile Happy fathers day to every responsible fathers out there. Those that are shouldering their responsibility as the MAN of the house, loving their wives as their help meet and pointing their children to the right way.
May the Lord bless and keep.you all in Jesus name. Amen

JESHAL:




So are you now saying the better option is to settle down with sexually active women, are you seriously redpill aware or a troll

Sucre6:

ireneidiva:

Why must someone be in control? Una no dey tire?

Datboredberri:
How many men do what you do?

It's not a gender thing...

There are millions of women who give... Unlike you they don't come here to brag of chastise others...

Do your sh** in peace... Doesn't make you any better...

All the men you helped, why didn't they give to someone else?

Millions of Nigerians can't afford to be generous...

MrBrownJay1:
nothing more to say as the person who replied him gave the PERFECT ANSWER!!!!

Whiteheartbit:


@opeyy thanks your contribution make sense, I'm also seeing things in a different perspective now - educating.

@opeyy I've asked her questions on things I'm not doing right and shown her my willingness to improve and make it right and be a better man for her and father to the home yet she says I'm doing things right.
But you comment just stroke a cord as I read through, if she manages to say anything she'll say 'i don't send her text messages the way I used to'.
As for hygiene I keep myself very neat, I also try to help her to be neat the way I want her to be.
My problem with her is she doesn't speak, and I creat room for that always because I want everyone to be free in the home.

Her love language is attention, but have been in a situation where you give the required attention as needed but the person doesn't respond as required rather as transfers the attention to the children.

Okay some days ago she said it's been awhile we saw a movie together, I obliged to do so with her she downloaded the movie of her choice we freshened up go set to be see the movie 10minutes into the movie she slept off. I just smiled and continued enjoying my movie, till today she has not said anything about it.

I'm so sensitive to her that any negative comments she points about my attitude towards her which I see may affect our relationship I quickly start working on it and adjust.

I bound myself to a rule that once I'm at home I'll not stay over the phone for more than 30mins so I could give everyone attention both in the day and night but guess what countless times we may be gisting and playing and laughing suddenly the next thing I notice is that she has slept off

I'll take your advice to work more on myself, hygiene and others.

Eyinju112:
I have once found myself in this kind of romance.
Advise for op, don’t listen to any redpiller, hold on till your babe gets herself under your roof. She won’t be able to talk to her denied bf anymore and with time her relationship with him would sink...

mystery22:
Your wife is likely a lesbian or not sexually attracted to you

Wonder why you are complaining now though like you didn't notice all this before marriage

luminouz:
The two above are both right.

Depends on your interest level in the girl

Alvelt14:


How’s the first one simping? You abused the one simp too much on this platform.