nickxtra: My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.
Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.
I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.
My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.
I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.
You want to divorce your wife because she lied about her age on waec n ssce credentials..seriously r u for real.do u really knw what love and marriage is ? I guess u don't..divorcing that woman will be your greatest regret and u wil leave to regret it..if u eventually do,pls let her go with the kids. I will leave you this line-He who has no sin pr hasn't committed likewise pls cast the first stone....your wife has made an error she will need to work hard to regain ur trust but u r about to throw away a good thing..trust me
MisterGrace: Until this week, I worked with an Environmental Consulting Firm. Things were going on smoothly and all. Nobody ever thought about it until it hit us so hard.
Hey Guys!
You know you are all good and very important to this organization? The boss started. But I am so sorry this is happening...
By this time, the perspiration on my forehead started to role down.
It was on a Monday morning and there was no sign of it coming...
As you all know, continued the boss; the company can no longer afford to pay the salaries of everybody for now. This is as the result of the ongoing economic recession in the country.
Since I can't find fault in any of you, we shall embark on some very rigorous tests and anyone who can not make it through will have to go back home, maybe when things gets back to normal, we can reconsider.
After all the talks, we were arranged into the conference room and served with question papers. In it were questions on organic chemistry, economics, physics, philosophy, politics, geography and calculus.
The pass mark was 80/100%. But in the end, despite the fact that I scored 88% I wasn't selected because, I couldn't attempt the questions on calculus.
But what can I do? But the bitter this is that, I just got married to wifee few months ago.
#dude you scored 88% and you didn't attempt calculus..if u had attempted calculus u would have scored 120/100...
kennybabs1980: I met Viola at the university, very beautiful young lady. I loved her so much but she was always asking for money from me even as a struggling student. I tried to dissuade her from the attitude but her chant of "you're not caring" will always rent the air at each occasion l tried to. Always very confident about herself. After NYSC, I secured a job where I earned 60k per month, she was in her final year then. I told her about the job and her response was "is it 60k job you're celebrating"? I made it clear to her that I won't continue the relationship, she smiled and went away.
She later sent a message to me in the night of that day saying "60k is not enough to marry me, good riddance to bad rubbish". Fast forward six years with a wonderful wife and two beautiful kids, I bumped into her in a mutual friend father's funeral yesterday in Abeokuta, she wasn't looking as beautiful as she used to be, I greeted and exchange pleasantries with her, she responded grudgingly at first but later came back to tell me that "you're looking like a real man now". I asked her what she meant which she didn't respond to.
I heard from a friend who followed me to Ife from Abeokuta while driving down to my base at Akure today that she actually separated from her husband because the guy lost his job in the bank in 2014. What an unrepentant money monger is this Viola lady? I haven't stopped thanking my God that I made a wise decision to leave her in 2009. I pray she learn on time.
I have an advise for young ladies and gentlemen in the house, ladies change your mindset about money issues if its wrong like Viola's. Young men, shine your eyes and work very hard to earn a respectable living, cheers.
nameerfhtennek: It's more than 20minutes, I'm still unable to put words together to begin this story. I will try keep it simple and necessarily detailed so everyone will understand the true picture of what happened, why against my belief that writing personal experiences on social media is immature, I had to still write mine. Let's just say I'm not thinking right now, maybe I'm so upset but truth is, I need your advice.
I'm writing this thread seated at the back of a Hilux truck just outside our apartment. Yaa, that me in the picture. You see, today is EID and believe me I should be resting in the house since I'm not working today. Days like this only come by 6times in a whole year and more than anything, I would have loved resting than being out here.
It was yesterday evening, she called and said she her driver were headed to my office. She wanted to pick some stuffs around my office. Yaa, I forgot to say this is Saudi Arabia. If you know Saudi quite well, you will agree with me that a husband will definitely get exhausted running errands for his wife or the family. I was not in the mood for shopping but she wanted to shop. She got upset that I didn't want to accompany her shopping.
She did her shopping alone and returned few minutes before I closed from work. We headed home. Unknown to me, I forgot my internet router in my office because I was rushing to get home and continue with my FIFA 16. Her internet service expired some days back so we were using mine.
While playing game, she walked into the seating room and demanded for my router. Mine, not hers. With her tone and facial expression demanding the router, I didn't respond because there was an indication that she was warming up for a quarrel. I wasn't just in the mood. The thing is, she is very skilled in extending her anger phases. That is one thing I can't understand till today. Believe me, it was not like this while we were dating. Sorry, I forgot to tell you I married my university girlfriend, she years my junior and the same department. Ya, I'm one of those guys that dated and planned for the future with their girls at the same time. God blessed that plan but at this point I don't understand everything that has been happening for the past one year plus since we got married. She repeatedly demanded that I handed over my router to her but I was quiet. Meanwhile, it occurred to me that I forgot the router in my office the minute she first asked about it. Truth is, I actually needed to use the internet that night for my online FIFA.
After several times of asking for the router and no response from me, she took the TV remote and switched off the TV. She walked straight to the kitchen and hid the remote. I approached her in the kitchen and told her I was not ready for any kinda quarrel. We have had enough for the past one year of getting married. I then told her I forgot the router in my office, I didn't have it. I guess she didn't believe me, she never did. She told me to leave her alone. I returned back to the seating room with my heart beating fast. I knew she wanted a serious quarrel that night. After some minutes, I returned to the kitchen and requested for the remote. Then I figured out she hid it in her pant. Pretending I was passing by, I swiftly went for the remote from under her short gown and grabbed it. She didn't expect I knew where she hid it. She followed me behind and ceased the game console, second indication she wanted me to react. I do have a problem with my temper just like every human, male or female. I have also learnt to deal with it by walking away at times I feel I was going to lose it. The same reason I'm outside at this time, 9:55 pm Saudi time. She knows I have fought hard to tame my temper issues but most times, she makes deliberate efforts to have me overreact to her nags and rants.
I watched her hide the console in her pant yet again. I shuddered in obvious fear because I knew what the woman wanted, a fight. Unable to deal with it,the intimidation and the shame, I went for the console and squeezed it out from her hand while she was trying to hold it tight. That was when the trouble then started. She wanted a buffer to help her spill everything she had nursed in her mind. "You are a violent person!! You can kill, idiot!! You were not shown love by your parents, that is why you will squeeze your wife's hand to collect the console. They allowed you to grow up in the street without parental guidance and love." Then it came....pwaaaaaaah!!! She spat on my face!!!!! God knows, I have never been spat at before, not by my parents, not by my siblings, not by anybody. " I agree I was not shown love by my parents but your Dad is a coward for running away from your mother without being there for you guys when he needed to play his roles as a father. That explains the reason you are like this", I said and walked back to the seating room.
I managed to play a few games which I lost mostly and then slept off around past 5am this morning. Around 3pm, I woke up and went to the office. Not like I had work but I needed to clear my head away from the house. If only there was alcohol in Saudi, I would have been somewhere in a hotel drinking away the shame. When I returned home by past 7pm, hungry and tired. I needed to continue my game but I could no longer find the game console and the TV remote. I asked for it and she ignored me. I managed to eat and then left the house to this truck.
You see, I love my wife more than anything, more than anyone. She is one person in the whole world I could go any length for. I love her, that was why I forgave her when she broke up with me after I left Nigeria for Saudi Arabia. She broke up with me few months after I came to Saudi and started dating another guy twice her age. She says she never expected I would come back to her after she left me but I did. I did because I saw a future with her, a future I imagined, believed in and worked towards its reality. Today we have gotten to a level where most people out there would want to be, our colleagues envy is because they believe we are privileged and blessed but what they don't know is that in the truth, I have no peace. This marriage has become my legacy and my curse.
I want to send her back to Nigeria in few days time and I hope I'm not making a mistake!!! Spitting on my face, nah nah....am so fed up!!!!
#Dude ..I don't think you should send her back to Nigeria..Marriage is never all smooth..it has a lot of trials and tribulations. Marriage is like a pot,if its broken its not thrown away,it is mended..You said you love her so much..you could do virtually anything for her..from ur story..Guy u love her so much..u love her to the moons..She really bleeped up..I think you both need to go see a shrink..U gotta save your marriage bro..she needs to start respecting you as the husband and man of the house and in her life..I must give credit to you for being so tolerant and cool headed..not raising your hand on her.."Self control is the hallmark of a man"-(odogwu)Danny Brasco
Glory12345: Actually this is my first post on nairaland,I'm a comment reader and a post reader and I have observed how people do things here and I feel I should share my story,please don't criticise me or anything, I just need your help or advise,and please do read carefully to understand,and i am also sorry if i dont type this well,i'm not much of a writer.Thanks in advance
There's this guy I met at 3chub Ikeja,I actually went to ask if there was any standard rechargeable fan because i have been scammed alot by all these "fairly used" rechargeable fan,so i decided to buy a new one because they sell home appliances there,even though people say fairly used items are better which I chose to decline because this is 2016,and this buhari regime doesnt accomodate an extravagant spending.
I work in Lagos but I stay in mowe,and the electricity there isn't too good so that's why I'm getting the fan so even when the gen is off,i would have an alternative,so when I got to the store,the sales ambassadors offered me different brand rechargeable fan,but i later got a syinix rechargeable fan,because I was impressed with the number of months the warranty covers so I purchased it with my ATM card since I just came to inquire and not buy and I was cashless,I had to just use the POS *I'm only explaining all if these to give you a clearer understanding of the issue on floor*
After purchasing the fan,there was this guy that came to buy a gas cooker and we happened to meet and we both exchanged contacts with eachother and few months later we developed feelings and we had a relationship and we were doing the normal relationship vibe,until this week,he started acting up because I said no sex until marriage...he's a very nice person anyway,he helped me in so many ways(advices,financially,physically) but just because I said no sex until marriage,he's acting up already,although I have my reasons for abstaining until marriage anyway but my story is sad,and I don't know who to tell and I feel more comfortable telling people online because someone that knows me physically might not say the truth to me,because they don't want to hurt me,please I need matured comments even if it will hurt,just tell me
Although we aren't kids,but I'm just troubled because I love him a lot and I don't know what to do.
I'm a loner right now
If he really wants you,loves you and wants a long term relationship with you that will lead to marriage then he should respect your decision..No sex till marriage is a good decision for christian couples..Every relationship doesn't end up in marriage..stay firm on ur decision..mind you..if you are taking money from him you better stop..you can't be taking money from him and be telling him no to sex..both parties should agree on terms...
You have no job. I once got a job like that too, she told me my salary without any letter. When I conducted a background information search, I discovered her last workforce left after owing them several months of salary. It a pity.. You have no documentary evidence against them in case of a breach of contact. But who am I? Let the Barristers speak. Lalasticlala.
I neva even see job,let alone to ask for employment letter...
Berbierklaus: Lalasticlala come and see somebody's daughter
Yes na dear..he spanked you and gave you E..E for Ejaculation...Next time let him Arrive inside or Bath inside..So he will give you an A or B..# Nonsense, Gerrout hia mehn...
Ayo199: Please i need advice on this: Dude this is an academic base test that will be used to evaluate your performance in. 3 units course..It does not in any way suggest or show your religious beliefs..Weather you support the notion that God exists or not it doesn't change the fact of what you believe and it doesn't contradict the truth. In your heart you know the truth..The test is subjective your faith and belief is not..be subjective @ the moment and pass..Your true belief and faith still on the truth that says there is God..Jehovah Jireh. #I am from a christian home and i strongly believe in the existence of GOD.. I am to participate in a debate in one of my courses..philosophy to be precise...which is a 3-unit course.. I am to support the notion which says "GOD DOES NOT EXIST"..But now am confused.. Should I reject it and fail or deny GOD with my proclamation and pass...
PrettyCrystal: A young man shocked passersby in Uganda this afternoon after falling from the rooftop of Mabirizi Complex in the city Centre. The man who was seen on the roof top of the six story building -suddenly jumped with his arms spread out to the shock of those wondering what he was doing there.
Instead of dying as he wanted, he landed on top of a car parked by the roadside, thus escaping death with serious injuries. He however left the car damaged.
No one knows the reason for his action as he was rushed to a Hospital for treatment.
There is no way she could get drowned..she has a follow come life jacket...Great..Amazingly..she has enough backsides for someone with an enormous breast size..she is an epitome of endowment#
There is no way she could get drowned..she has a follow come life jacket...Great..Amazingly..she has enough backsides for someone with an enormous breast size..she is an epitome of endowment#
TheFreeOne: No be only parody na parrot. How will the economy get out of the woods with such half baked economist in saddle
Kemi needs a hard reset for exhibiting such insensitive/parochial mentality as a minister of finance.
# Recession is just a word.... # KemiAdeosun needs a hard reset for exhibiting such insensitive/parochial mentality as a minister of finance. Come to think of it..If she could disown her twitter handle in denial this vividly depict and supports the ineptitude and incompetence in the present dispensation..Afterall they APC have also disowned their campaign promises.. # ARRANTNONSENSE
If PDP owe Nigerians an apology for 16 years of looting what does APC owe Nigerians for plunging Nigeria into recession under 12-14 months,if am not mistaken..Remember some of the people who were in PDP during the 16 years old looting are also in APC...So what are you really saying...Let's call a spade a spade..It wasn't this bad during PDP 16 year looting..
HungerBAD: PDP actually owe Nigeria an Apology for the 16 yrs of stealing.
This is the most outrageous,stupid,dumb-ass, crazy post i have ever come across on nairaland..Who ever came up with this bullshit hidden crap should be shot in the head..
My dear..I think you should go get a lawyer..They guy is taking matters into his hand..I hope ur dad left a will..Cos dat will settle a lot of issues..Meanwhile get a lawyer...this is completely unfair ..gross wickedness
Liverpool vs Manchester United AWEH
Stoke City vs Arsenal AWEH
Vitoria Guimaraes vs FC Porto 1 & Over 1.5
Udinese vs Juventus Turin 2
AC Milan vs FiorentinaX2
Odds: 12.54
Family › Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by odogwu9(m): 5:50am On Oct 04, 2016
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