Nonexisting1: So na ordinary bad attitude make this mumu girl cancel her wedding? This one never ready to marry. True true, women and common sense are big enemies.
Wetin make she do to comot the wedding oh! Until she collect all the blows on her cheek
Righteousness2: The Bible says, a Man shall not put on a woman's Garment neither should a woman put on a man's garment. All that do such are Abomination to GOD. You don't need an angel, Prophet or seer to tell you what is men clothing or women clothing except you wanna Deceive yourself.
No Matter what we argue and say this or say that. We can only Deceive Ourselves, we cannot Deceive GOD. The Foolishness of GOD is wiser than the wisest of Men. Everyone will stand before GOD.
Eternity is a very Serious Matter! It is a Personal Race so do not let anyone irrespective of title or Position make you miss your place in Eternity.
Nobody will answer or speak for you before GOD.
So Get the Word of GOD ( The Holy Bible) and stick to what it says not what Man thinks.
Heaven is Real Hell is real Don't play with your Eternity
You have a point here my brother,but let us all look at it critically , were there trousers or boxers during Jesus era! Why giving ourselves headache,a lady can put on trouser and feel comfortable in it while it’s in appropriate for a man to wear skirts or blouse! Don’t quote bible that you yourself don’t understand! I come In peace
DriftOff: Just wondering, because now every guy, I mean, every guy would want to have sex with you the moment they started dating you.
Why is it so hard for them to wait for the right time, I mean - your wedding night. Guys doesnt want to wait again, they want to 'eat' the thing first before saying "I do."
Guys, what do u think?
Ladies want to take money too before saying I do! Lobatan,it’s Tit for tat
I don’t think he is spraying money on that day oh! But Am sure some spy will be used to trail any of his activities in the country! If care ain’t taken,they will surely interrogate him
Romanoff: To those telling him to let the father take his kids, if you were one of those kids, won't you resent your mother for abandoning you?
Wouldn't you ask that "what type of mother will abandon her kids?"
@Op, you knew she had kids when you married her, I know it's not easy, but you both will have to double your hustle. Get other side businesses, cut your coat according to your material.
If you'll need to downgrade their school, do so, if you'll need to move to a cheaper area, do so.
Do all you can to cut cost.
Those kids will never understand or forgive their mum in the future.
Use two side look the matter.
Another thing your wife can do is to take him to court, especially for child support.
Let her get a good lawyer if she wants him to care for his children.
MODIFIED
She can go through FIDA to sort out Co-parenting and child support agreement.
For those coming for me, if you're not capable of talking like a homosapien, don't mention me, cause I no well. I will drag you from here to Timbuktu. So come correct
Best advise so far! I will implore the guy to stick to this and do whatever it takes to adjust himself!
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A foreign casket worth 30 million Also donated by a business Associate.
Ego Amaka!!!
God forbid bad thing for the guy! Will they come out like this if he needs money for any surgery!
Draslo: My guy's babe is the worst. She's just past her mid 20s, currently in her service year. Her WhatsApp statues in a day is more than 15. She takes selfies of herself everywhere she goes like MTN.
After she posts it, if any of her friends saves that photo and reposts it on their own status, she'll screenshot it and post the same picture she posted earlier but screenshot from someone else's status. She could post 5 of the same picture this way. Now, normally this wouldn't be a problem for me since I'm not her boyfriend but I've been patient and my patience is wearing thin.
Everytime she's around whilst I'm there, be it at his house or mine, out chilling or whatever, this girl will make tons of videos and pictures before she leaves. Also this wouldn't be a problem if she won't post all the pictures online right after.
I'm a very coded guy and I'm in love with this my low-key lifestyle. I haven't posted any of my own photos on any of Mark Zuckerberg's apps in more than 2 years but this girl will just be tagging up and down on IG. Same pictures will be on WhatsApp status.
There's no point in talking to my guy about it, the girl can do no wrong in his eyes. We're business partners and cannot avoid each other. How can I be on ghost mode on my social media apps for a long time but someone is busy exposing me to the world. How can I handle this situation?
I just don’t like all this serious minded liar guys sef! What’s your own with your guy babe way of life! You should tell her bluntly anytime she is around you guys and taking pictures! Why coming here to tell us! Mtcheew
LilNetty: APPEAL TO THE EXECUTIVE GOVERNOR OF OGUN STATE.
We are appealing to the Executive Governor of Ogun State,His Excellency Prince Dapo Abiodun MFR to look into the hardship faced by the people in the part of the State.
It is a great difficulties for the people who reside in Agbado,Opeilu,Oluwo, Itoki,Lemode,Abule,Robiyan,Muta,Ibaragun,Orudu,OgbaIyo,Arepo,GasLine,Lisa,Adiyan,Giwa,OkeAro,Matogun,Osere,Lambe,AbuleEkun,Tipper,Oniyanrin,Akute,Ajuwon,Alagbole,Ojodu and Crossing as there is no road you can ride without regretting the hardship and suffering encounter from those who are at the helms of affairs at the State Level.
The previous government with their best and worst is at this point after the lapse of 16 years.The history is for all to read and learn from as it might be applicable.
His Excellency Prince Dapo Abiodun MFR,we want you to use your God-Given Honour to better the lives of people in this axis of the State as I don't know if any of the road in this area is part of the ones your plan to work on.
Most importantly Sango/Ijoko/Akute Road which connects well over 400 communities with Thousands of people living within this border town.
His Excellency,Please come to our Aid.
I stay in olambe and I went out yday and faced a whole lot of shit in that area! I just pray the governor hears our calls cos I bet they won’t respond until next year when campaign is about to start and then you start seeing machines coming to grade the road! God help us
chierodumodu: Hello everyone, please I'm really confused here. My girlfriend is a choir member and I find it really weird for her Choir master to always pay her a visit and mostly at night. He stays till like 11 pm before going. Now the thing is she's not the only girl in the choir but he visits just her. It's annoying and at the same time stupid.
Visiting her is one thing but staying up till 11 pm is stupidity on it's own haba. He does this like literally everyday. I trust her a lot but I don't think it is right to have him always coming over and staying late. Sometimes I'll call her and she'll tell me we should talk later because her Choir master is around... WTF!!!
Pease is it right or wrong? I'm confused really.
Abeg help me I need answers please
Your girl must be crazy for allowing such visit in the first place! No decent lady should accept such visit and I will just tell you never to fight or argue with the man(cos he won’t come if your woman refuse it)..Slug it out with your woman and please don’t be violent oh!
hbemigho: Laurence and I were at a shop close to the house trying to get one or two things when one lady I knew only in passing asked if Laurence is my son and I said yes.
Shey I for just buy wetin carry me come and go back to my house?
I now added, he is my first son actually.
Lady was like wow, you mean you have another son? Like this boy don senior person already?
Pride nor gree me just say yes and go my way. I was like he has two siblings following him already.
This lady legit shouted Obara Jesus!!!!!!
Everybody just start to turn look me, like make we even see the guy wey dey talk sef �
Omo!
One old mama, that was selling pap for the store owner now said, when your age still dey mama house you don born children full everywhere.
To be honest, I didn't know whether to laugh or to vex, because I nor understand the mama.
But whatever she meant, clearly, the mama was deceived by my babyface.
That was how one Oga that was newly posted to our department asked if I was a Youth Corper.
I just said "No sir" and jejely walked to my office.
Me, a whole Registered Engineer and Head of Department oh.
Abeg, I don't want to do baby face again.
Abeg where dem dey sell old man face?
Meanwhile, do you have babyface? What's it like for you?
Yes I have and I have been mistakenly seen as one jambite few years back and truth be told ,I was in my semi final year back in university then,right now am 33years old and am still not looking that age at all!
FalseProphet1: As the topic implies, I recently told it to a girl whom I felt was way older than the lifestyle she was forcing herself to live, I noticed that her mood changed and she went into a rage and said I insulted her... please house look into it, is it an insult?
And why do many girls see that statement as an insult?
Am sure you talking to her like that cos you are already married and you think that is a great achievement on your own path! My dear! Everyone in this world has his/her own life and decision to make,you don’t know what she is going through befor you make that statement last to her! Better be careful and I will advise you go beg her not to feel insulted wit your statements! Thank you
RadioMOUTH: I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)
Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)
Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..
BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM
I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...
She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...
I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..
This was never my life...
Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....
I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused
Modified:
My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...
You need to see the therapist for real counseling! Due to your past life with taking hard drugs and this new girl of yours successfully help you overcoming the obsession you have for it!
hilltop007: Hello, I am corper serving in a semi-urban area in the north central region of Nigeria. My monthly allowance is N33,000 plus my employer's monthly stipend of N4,000. My monthly total earning is N37,000.
Below is my monthly budget (NGN)
TRANSPORT - 3200 GAS - 1600 FOOD - 15,580 DATA & AIRTIME - 1500 MISCELLANEOUS - 1500
TOTAL MONTHLY EXPENSES - 23,000 (apx)
TOTAL MONTHLY SAVINGS - 14,000 + budget surplus
I have learnt to be frugal and only pay for needs and not wants ever since I started service because cost of living in Nigeria is very high. I am also brain storming on business and farming ideas to venture into to supplement my earnings.
Corpers in the house, how much do you earn, spend and save monthly?
Keep deceiving yourself with your analysed and sweet budget! Na so the thing easy abi! Are you telling me you are using 1500 airtime for both data and call rate! Abeg,find another thing talk omo iya mie...
obembet: France star midfielder Paul Pogba followed Cristiano Ronaldo`s footsteps as he removed a bottle of Heineken bottle placed on his table at a press-conference.
France star midfielder Paul Pogba followed Cristiano Ronaldo's footsteps as he removed a bottle of Heineken bottle placed on his table at a press-conference. The beverage company is one of the sponsor of UEFA Euro 2020, but Pogba, who follows Islam, didn't seem pleased with the bottle placed in front of him.
Pogba is not the first Muslim sportsperson to openly display their reluctance towards promoting or being involved in any celebration involving alcohol. England cricketers Moeen Ali and Rashid Khan fled from champagne celebrations, when England lifted the 2019 ICC Cricket World Cup.
Pogba on numerous ocassion has expressed his religious belief, with the latest being during the holy month of Ramadan, when the midfielder went on to continue with a Europa League tie despite being on fast. He has also publicly stated that he doesn't consume alcohol in any form.
The move by the Manchester United star comes a day after Ronaldo removed Coca-Cola bottles placed on his table and urged people to consume water. The move by Ronaldo saw a significant dip in the beverage's stock value and is reported to be at least $4 billion.
Meanwhile, World Cup-winners France kicked-off their Euro 2020 campaign with a 1-0 victory over Germany on Tuesday (June 15), courtesy of an own goal by defender Mats Hummels, as the sluggish-looking hosts lost their opening fixture at the European Championship for the first time.
The world champions went ahead in the 20th minute when Pogba’s raking pass was fired back across the goal by Lucas Hernandez and defender Hummels shanked the ball into his own net as he tried to clear it.
Why he no comot Heineken for the background wey he take snap his man of the match award! Or does he shifts away his tv channel anytime they are airing Heineken advert in TV...Keep deceiving yourself there,you no like beer but to womanize dey una blood...mtcheew
michlins: I really don't know how to process this information. He removed a drink from the table and chose another and automatically $4bn was wiped off the company value and even prompted the to issue a statement about the gesture.
How can an individual hold so much influence over the choice of consumers like this.
If I hit him with a deal, he will be hawking the drink on the express. That's if am the CEO of coca-cola.
There can only be one GOAT and he's a tall guy
Argue with yourself and your family plus village people
Remember the real GOAT deals on a better package than coke and he doesn’t feel himself too BIG to extent of ridiculing himself! I think he Dey pain Ronaldo because dem no sign am for both Pepsi Nd Coke ����
Favour2323: Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.
Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.
One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.
This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.
Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.
I don't have any advice for you oh, but I have one question for you! What will you do if another guy comes after this second guy and has more better qualoties than this second one? Or don't. You think this new guy will just use this method of yours on you and leave you in few months time cos he will surely nurse that feelings you gonna leave him if another man comes to.... Think deeply and get out of your lustful desires
kestolove95: my husband don't like wearing it and I am tired of using drugs to prevent pregnancy, it's very good d one my sis sent mi from u.k is finished I need another packs Cox me ND my husband have sex everyday
XshegzzyeeiX: Good morning. Romancelanders. Welcome to midweek.
So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.
It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.
I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.
Only simps welcome such waywardness.
PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.
Feminists, waddaya have to say. Alpha males, what's your take on this matter. White Knights, let's hear you out.
Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?
Don't get the question twisted my brother, u ask her what she meant by that statement before concluding. Moreover, it's our duty as a MAn to take care of them within our power and not by force you do things to make her happy at your own detriment.
Happy989: I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.
There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.
During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.
Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.
The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.
I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart.
I understand how you feel and how sweet it is to see a guy that is really taking you up your feet. If I may ask you, how will you feel if your boyfriend is talking to another girl and you are busy loving only him. Just a question though! See ehn, the so called new guy might be fun to be with, but don't forget one thing about we Guys oh, some of us can pretend for so long to get what ever we want from a lady and after getting it, we act as if we never met and at the other hand, he might mean no harm. But think well and very deep..
ken711: I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.
She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.
Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......
She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)
I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....
Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.
The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...
The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........
Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...
Please help!
Do what you think it's right.. If you truly love jee4, kindly find a way to calm her down and talk to her
Descorts: We started as friends. We were so close she could do anything for me and I could do anything for her.
She had a boyfriend who was a serial cheat and treated her like trash. It got to a point they broke up and he left. She was heartbroken.
I gave her my shoulders to lean on. I was there for her throughout those turbulent times and made sure she was never sad again.
She moved on. 2 months on we started dating. It was all fun and rosy. I'm not the type to fall deeply in love or should I say, women don't tickle my fantasy, I'd rather be with my goons than be with any girl.
But this girl came into my life and I don't know what she did to me to make me so in love with her. I loved her, she loved me. It was a heaven made match and a relationship anyone would wish for. On my birthday she got me a really expensive gift and I fell even more for her.
3 months on, her birthday was close and I was planning to make it special for her. Then I heard her ex came back in town, I wasn't troubled, "she loves me so much and she won't bat an eyelid for him anymore" I thought.
And then it happened. She left me for her ex who came back for her. I heard from a reliable source that before he came back, they'd been communicating online and the guy told her he's coming to take her back and he did take her from me.....
I am broken..... I shall rise again in no time, and when I rise... I AM GOING TO BE A HEARTLESS MONSTER. These hoes... non virgins or virgins, young or old, I shall toy with their emotions and break them....
GAME ON
Keep it up jaaare, don't relent on your revenge missions oh...... Best thing will Surely happen to you....
Waytolife: Pls I have a question, am not trying to be rude but just inquisitive, if I decide not to join in prostrating, what will happen? Will i be arrested or cursed?
Then you are not worthy to go beside him........ Stay far away
Like, what happens if I decide to just switch my phone off and stay in my house that day?
Question you are to ask yourself is this,what attracted you to her, cos you can't fell me nothing attracted you before taking a move to ask her out. Switching off your phone wont solve the problem or makes you feel like you did the right thing. Stand up as a man, let her know u are really rich now or try get her something small and don't run away from your responsibilities.
Celebrities / Re: Fancy Acholonu: A Bad Attitude Is Like A Flat Tire - Alexx Ekubo's Ex Fiancée by Ohraybs(m): 8:07am On Sep 02, 2021 
