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Islie:
https://dailytrust.com/breaking-health-worker-who-treated-turjis-gunshot-wound-arrested-in-sokoto

I nor understand, why is this news here? He was arrested and tried 2 years ago and has even been released so why the misleading headline? Why post it here as if it is a recent event? Na wah sha, make una continue

ijustdey:
Police Invite Nigerian Pastor, Oba Solomon After Prophesying Tinubu Won’t Be Nigerian President



http://saharareporters.com/2022/01/31/police-invite-nigerian-pastor-oba-solomon-after-prophesying-tinubu-won%E2%80%99t-be-nigerian

I did not see anywhere where it was stated that it was Tinubu or APC that made the police invite him, abi I nor day see well? The letter stated someone wrote a petition against him so who know where d petition from come? Make pastor go come, he go tell us wetin transpire for there.

Wizywiz:
forget this karma bulshit.....@op u have every right to be worried ooo..me I can't blame you oooo....

If karma is bullshit why then do you think he should be worried?

Sanoske:
I’m Scared Of Marriage Because Of The
Married Women I Dated The first married woman I dated was my
classmate from senior high school. When
I went to class the very first day, I sat
next to her and got her name as Virginia.
One beautiful girl. I got connected to her
instantly. That day we went for a break together. When it was time for dining, I
went with her and sat at the same table
with her. The idea was to build a
friendship with her first and later
propose. But just when I was laying the
foundation for a later relationship, a senior walked into her life and swept her
off her feet. I was devastated. I felt like
crying. To make matters worse, this
senior started picking on me. He would
punish me for no offense. He would make
me lie on the ground and step on me just because he saw me walking with
Virginia, my classmate. He made life miserable for me on campus
so I decided to withdraw a little. I
stopped talking to her and stopped
moving around with her until the senior
completed school and left campus. I
started pushing towards her with the grand agenda to make her my girlfriend.
One night after entertainment, I stopped
her in a corner and told her everything;
“You see, I’ve had mad love for you since
the very first day I set my eyes on you. I
was preparing the grounds to tell you how I feel when I realized that senior
Magoo had taken over. You were the
reason he nearly killed me here n
campus. I was patient because I know
how this normally ends. Senior complete
school, he leaves and forgets about you. Exactly what had happened. I’m here
now asking you to give me a chance. A
chance to prove my worth in love.” I thought I’d given her Romeo and Juliet
lines and was waiting patiently to get a
yes from her. She said, “I’m sorry but I’m
still with Magoo. Ours isn’t like how you
described it. I was with him during the
vacation. We live not too far apart so I saw him often. I’m sorry to disappoint
you but I still love him.” I didn’t give up. When we were in the
third year, I tried again. It was intensive.
I was on her every day to accept my
proposal but she kept saying no to me
until our last day on campus when I
couldn’t take the no anymore. We sat behind one of our classrooms. I was
begging her to say yes to me. She was
not even together with senior Magoo but
she kept saying no to me. I looked left
and right. Nobody was coming so I held
her head, pushed it towards me, and kissed her. It lasted for a second but I
believed it would last me for a lifetime.
She said, “Why do you have to force it?” I
answered, “Because I can’t take it
anymore.” We lost contact after school. The next
time I saw her she was married. Married
with two kids but still looked like the girl
I fell in love with back in school. She
worked in a hospital I visited with my
mother. She took my mom into her care and gave her the best attention she
needed. I called her when she was on
duty to ask how my mom was doing and
she gave me the update. Mom spent a
week at the hospital. That gave me the
opportunity to see Virginia every day. When my mom was discharged, I met
Virginia after her shift just to show
appreciation and she said, “Let’s do it
better. I’m off this weekend. If you have
time we can meet.” We met and it was our time in school
that dominated the conversation. I said,
“Girl I was madly in love with you.” She
responded, “I was too young to
understand. You know I still remember
that kiss you stole from me?” I said, “How would you forget? It is the mark of
the beast.” We laughed. I sat next to her
in her car as we look for a good place
where I could alight and get a car back to
my house. Tension built. I could feel it
and I knew if I try I would get her so I tried giving her a peck on her cheek and
she met me with her lips. Relationship blossomed. We were
together for about two years. I didn’t
leave her and she didn’t leave me. As I
write this, I believe if I should call her
right now to meet me, she would. Was
she lonely in her marriage? Was her husband treating her badly? Did she lack
attention? The answer to these questions
is no. The second married woman was a
dentist. Married for nine years with three
kids. I had issues with my teeth and I
went to her clinic. A clinic she owns. She
checked my teeth and asked me to come
back in a week’s time. I went back and she said, “You’ve done very well for
coming. A lot of people come here and
you ask them to come back but they
don’t. All because they saw improvement
after they had left.” She did something to
my teeth and gave me her card. She said, “If it starts to get painful in the night,
give me a call, I will show you what to
do. I went home and nothing happened.
Three days later I called her and she gave
the impression of someone who wanted
to be a friend. We kept calling each other
until we met one Saturday evening. She
said, “If you showed me your house and you told me it was ok to visit, then
maybe one day I will pass by.” She passed by one day and by the time
she left, we were in a relationship. A
good-looking woman who smells like a
flower garden. I loved her so much at
some point I wished she was not
married. We spent time in beautiful places. I would be with her and she
would be video calling her husband who
thought she had traveled for a workshop.
They would be doing lovey-dovey stuff
right when I’m around but hidden from
view. The questions that ran through my head were, “If she loves her husband so
much then why is she here with me?”
This is a question I couldn’t bring myself
to ask her. From the onset, she made it
clear that we can’t discuss her marriage.
“My marriage is off-topic. I’m with you because I like you genuinely. Let’s keep
the conversation around the feelings we
have for each other and not my family.” I wasn’t giving her anything but she was
ok spending on me whenever we had to
spend a night in a place. She would post
her family on her status and thank God
for blessing her with such a beautiful
family. She would doll on her husband all day and later sneak into my arms. That
was something I couldn’t understand but
couldn’t also talk about because it was a
no go area. We dated intensively for two
years until we started pulling away little
by little from each other. We didn’t draw the curtains on the relationship. I think if
I should call her right now and say, “I
miss you. Why don’t you come over?” She
may come. I’m a man. I need a woman of my own.
No matter how good these women were
to me, I wasn’t going to own them. They
loved their husbands so much they
wouldn’t leave them for me so I set out
to look for my own. I met Agnes and we’ve dated for four years. I’ve been
faithful to her all these years that we’ve
been together. When I made a decision to
walk away from married women, I made
it a point never to look back or look left
and right for another woman. It was always Agnes. So far so good. She’s been
a good woman. She doesn’t talk too
much. She rather shows her love than
talk about it. To me, marriage is a value proposition.
You marry a woman who brings value to
your life the same way you also improve
her life. Other than that, I see no reason
to be with a woman just because of love.
Agnes has the brain of a winner and she uses it at any given point. Anything she
touches turns to gold. Gold has value and
it’s the reason I’m stuck with her.
Recently the conversation has become
about marriage. She asks me when we
are going to get married. She asks about future plans and even the number of kids
we plan to have. All the things women
get jiggy about when it’s about marriage.
I love her. I would like to marry her but
you know what? I’m scared. I don’t trust Agnes to be faithful to me. She hasn’t done anything for me to
suspect her but those two married
women I dated have given me all the
reasons not to trust a woman. Agnes
looks happy when she’s with me.
Virginia looked happy with her husband. The dentist too. But all the while they
were expressing their love for their
husband, they were with me doing
things they should have done with only
their husbands. I think about it and I feel
so cold. I even shiver at the thought of it because it happened. And I was there
when it happened. I was the one it
happened to. So Agnes wants to marry. I want to
marry her too but I can’t let go of the
thoughts of her cheating with another
man. Not because I did it but because I’ve
come to believe that women would cheat
even when you give them everything they want. They can be happy and
smiling with you just when they had
returned from another man’s bed. This is
the reason I haven’t been able to commit
to marriage plans with Agnes. It’s too
scary. But I want to do it. I want to bring myself to a place where I can believe and
take a step. So my question is, how do I
shake this thought off my head and stay
positive? I don’t want to marry her and
wear the same pant with her. Be
suspicious of the little things she does. She wants her freedom after marriage
and I would want to be able to guarantee
that. How do I do it?

Thank God for karma, as magun nor strike you karma will surely pay you a visit, you ain't dodging it.

Windscribe:
Rejoice with me nairalalanders, I just embraced a new lifestyle; the absolute lifestyle.

Congratulations but over 200 videos? Jesus of anambra, u day get time for other activities? I hope you succeed in abstaining from it.

kettykin:
Dealing in banned substance is far better than killing innocent people and using their body parts for satanic money rituals.
They sold banned substance and not killing their fellow human

So true, you know the banned substance they were arrested with boost human health, continue.

colestephan86:
What is the business of NANS with the payment of their lectures

Students bear the brunt when lecturers don't get paid.

frankleesehi:
https://hgsmediaplus.com/2022/01/30/photo-news-vendor-supplies-water-to-bayelsa-water-board/

It could be the vendor gets his supply from the water board.

WBworldwide:
I have been dating this girl for more than a year and she has been nice to me. But things hasn't been fair to me. She's an orphan, same thing as me.


I am a street boy and we are both in our final year in school. I made some money before she came into my life and then I went broke ever since, i am not blaming her or something but there are some things i can't share here about her.


So she travelled for the holiday for like three months now. She has changed, she told me her cousins are doing well and that their boyfriends' bought cars for them and that she has tried for me.

I really feel for her. That was one of the reasons I didn't want her to go home at first, negative influence. So, she told me she needed space that i have not been trying financially.

I told my friend and he said i should forget the girl for now. The thing is, I don't even blame her, I wouldn't stay with myself if I was her.

I'm just heart broken not being able to do anything.


I'm not simping o... Things are going well for me this period without her being here, i just feel for her that's all.

I'm a full stack hustler... I believe myself die... Even area believe me too

You were doing well b4 u met her, she came into your life n you became broke, she left u now things are improving for you, u nor go go do thanksgiving say bad luck comot 4 ur life?

ashewoboy:
guys, what do you think?

He house resemble restaurant? U nor pass fast food b4 u reach he house? Yeye day smell.

etokhana:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10162197570532837&id=803267836

I'll go with Osibanjo except Akinwumi, Okonjo, Sanusi or Soludo runs for the presidency.

bigpicture001:
Ok.. but why didn't he hand the bizness to his wife.. thier mother

Don't u think the achievement he listed is too much..? People change na.. what if he hasn't achieve them and his sister got married.. so her husband would be controlling their bizness..?

Una don day plan how una go take day cruise round d country b4 abi? Which ride e promise to buy for you? To graduate from school with pass and not to get 7 not 3 or 4 police case hard? Na wah o, nai b say una b constant lodgers for cell o, how many police case una day get weekly? Hmm, make them give d mum way una go fit easily manipulate abi? Una think say d dad na mumu abi? He must responsible by fire by force if not make he go hustle for his own money.

Dainy1:
Pls mature mind in the house.
What would you advise a young lady whose husband is into betting, any salary, loan, contributions that enters his account, he wouldn't tell her, until he finished it.

They have no accommodation right now, they are squatting with a family friend.
Because the husband can not save and he is into loan.

Last night, she said she took her husband's ATM card because his salary has entered
few days ago and he has started withdrawing little by little on betting as usual. He was looking for it this morning, but she denied.
Would you advise her to go and withdraw his money without his permission? What would you advise such person?

She's my colleague and I don't want to give wrong advise.

Was she aware he was a gambler b4 they got married or she's just finding out? How did they become squatters? Were they evicted from where they were living? Gambling is addictive, its like a drug addict/junkie, its not something one can just do away with and from what you described it is obvious her husband is already addicted to gambling. She should sit him down and have a heart to heart conversation with him, blackmail him emotionally if it will work else she should quit the marriage. She should know their future together is bleak cause gamblers like junkies can do anything to get money to assuage their urge whenever it arise, she should think twice about having kids with him.

temmyejo:
I was taken aback when I was woke up to a call at 1:00am coming from my bestie. I was even more shocked to find out he was wide awake and I probed him as to why. He opened up to me in confidence that he has been sleeping with a younger second cousin to him. I scolded him and did a little cyber research just to find out it's okay in some countries which I told him. However, he is currently experiencing serious insomnia co's he can't get it out of his head. Nairalanders what's the Nigerian opinion on this in accordance with our traditions??

Hmm, u nor fit sleep? Just continue like that cause ancestral visit is imminent and na from sleep e day start, nor sleep o, I repeat nor try am sleep cos you just might not wake up.

Belial06:
No freedom of speech
No freedom

It is well

Freedom of speech to defame person abi? God day watch you.

[quote author=maxwelltony post=109750735]Good morning Nairalanders

There is this particular guy that I met on Facebook about two month ago in Facebook, we have been talking and he calls me almost everytime, he has tried to invite me to his house in osun state on different occasions but due to security issue I had to decline his invitation..

We planned to meet on Wednesday and he told me he was coming from osun state, so I told him to drop at Mr Biggs in Iwo Road Ibadan..

I stay at challenge so I had to #200 cab from there down to Iwo road, I was having about #1300 with me before leaving the house, I was already waiting for him for about 40minute before he showed up, he told me his car has fault and that he had to call his mechanic to fix the car for him, we sat down and talked.

During our discussion, he told me to please give him 1k to get something to drink, that he had forgotten his wallet in the car and his phone is off to make a transfer, I gave him and he ordered for soft drinks and meat pie..

Along the line, he told me he needed to make a call and requested for my phone so that he can direct the mechanic bringing down his car, I heard him calling and was directing the man down to Iwo road, all of a sudden he just went outside and before I could know it this guy has dissapeared with my phone and was just looking at him from afar..

I couldn't shout as I was just looking like a fool because I don't know what's happening, I waited for about 1hr thinking he has gone to pick the mechanic, I tried calling my number but was switched off, he has gone with my phone and I don't know his number off hand.
I had use the #100 left with me to buy recharge card and was left with nothing..
It was a bitter experience for me as I had to trek all the way from Iwo road to Olorunsogo, When I couldn't continue with trekking I had to approach a lady to please help me out
with #100 after explaining my situation to her and she gave me #500 and wished me well.

I thank God it was not more than this, he only went away with my phone, what if he had used me for ritual?

Please ladies be careful about the kind of guy you hang out with, always take your time to know the person you are moving out with..

I had learnt my lesson, and have handed him over to God .[/quot

Report the matter to the police so you'll be protected should he use your line for any criminal activity.

worriedhubby:
I have been married to my wife for 10years now. My 1st child (7 years) has some health challenge. My daughter's challenge was diagnosed at age 3. Same year, I came back from work to see my child having crisis. I asked my wife why she didn't take my DD to the hospital. She responded, "no more hospital in this house". I tried calling a friend to drive me an my girl to the hospital, she got the phone from me and ended the call. Her words were , " if you are aware what is causing your child's illness, you better let me know ". I kept focused. Got my girl the needed medical help. Next day when I got home, I asked her, she refused answering. I later told the priest that wedded us, who later spoke with her.

In 2020, I got a call from a church in Port Harcourt, that someone brought my picture to the pastor. That I am the evil man causing my wife's and daughter's illness. The person that took my picture is my wife's brother. I was mad! But family and friends helped me to keep calm. A month later, my wife wouldn't UnCloth in my presence. If I entered the room while she is dressing or the bathroom while she is bathing, she will quickly cover up. When I confronted her, she told me it is because she believes my "hands are not clean ". That she was told that I am occultic before she even joined me. That because I am "hot tempere","don't pray certain prayer points ", she believes that I have some dark powers. I did my best to refute her claim in a calm way. But was deeply hurting. I reported her to a Pastor at Mountain of Fire where she now worships. She changed and told the man that she believes I am a child of God.

Just few weeks ago, I picked a paper under our bed where my wife wrote to someone how her brother had a dream in December and was told that I am my wizard causing my child's illness. In that write up, my wife also claimed she had her own revelation that I am in some occultic powers. When I showed her the paper, she tried to cause a scene, but I left her. I only asked, "are all these true?" "Why are you bent on labeling me what I am not?"
Later that day, she came up with lies, that the paper was just some prayer points she was putting down.

Just yesterday, someone called to inform me that he was with a certain owner of prayerhouse when my wife called to tell the woman why she believes I am occultic.

I have tried to ignore her, but I am gradually getting worried. What is she really up to? She doesn't believe in the medical diagnosis for my DD, hence, she won't give the child the necessary medication if I am not home.

How does someone believes that the hubby is occultic, and wants to harm her, yet still tries to initiate s3x with the said husband? When she had a surgery last year, I was the person cooking for her till she could get back on her feet. Why did she not refuse the foods? Finally, who knowingly get married to someone she believes is occultic, then start running to prayer houses for deliverance?

Could it be my wife is mentally sick? Or she is projecting who she is on me?

Your wife is being manipulated and it will take your being firm and strict as a man to put an end to this if not you might end up loosing your marriage and God forbid your daughter, you've to confront that her brother, warn him sternly to stop tarnishing your image and to stay far away from your marriage. Then your wife should choose between changing her ways and quitting the marriage, let her know you're fed up with her ways, tell her you're tired of her spoiling you before people you don't even know, let her know the damage she is causing your image and you emotionally, you just have to be firm if you want this to stop. Best of luck bro.

Maxymilliano:
https://thenationonlineng.net/idumota-mayhem-court-remands-kunle-poly-two-others-for-30-days/

Why just Kunle poly faction? at least it takes two to tangle, e nor day fight himself, what about the other faction he was fighting with?

donleo92:
Goodevening nairalanders. please I got this issue really disturbing me.
My boss wife, came to the work place and told our secretary(female) to please help tell her about the husbands activities at work. That she thinks she is losing her husband. Infact she was close to tears. she complained that her husband comes late every night, that he doesn't have time for her and her kids anymore. Infact she is done been spiritual, that she wants to go physical. she wanted the secretary to be her eyes and ears in the company. but we all leave by 5 after work. just our boss most times stays back. the secretary been close to me came for my advice today. honestly I told her to stay off the case. what's your advice if you were in my shoe

Which one be want us? Na u b d secretary? Tell the secretary to.mind her business, she was employed to be the secretary and not a spy, she shouldn't come between the lady and her husband else she might end up regretting it.

Lordedifice1:
Good afternoon nairalannders
I was the guy who posted a thread about my girlfriend says no sex this year. But now she officially broke up with me yesterday but i am not depressed or feeling pained at all,after a year and eleven months of relationship she called it off Feb 14th will make it 2years. even though I slept with her 22times and i also have her nudes up to 60nudes and 10 sex videos.mind you i took her virginity away i loved her so much so i wasn't a player i never cheated on her i was real to her we quarrel even when she's wrong i will tell her sorry for peace to reign. But she said of all a sudden she tired of me.

But i am thinking now all this video and photos i have in my possession i could use against her but i said NO
But the only thing I learnt is that no matter how you do love in a relationship never send nudes to who you love in case you guys path ways. Now i i told her that i deleted it when we were still together but i deleted it but i backed my phone so i restored my back up files i found the nudes back.
If we fall in love lets fall with sense.
Anyways I knew from on set that we won't last after she gain admission into the university i noticed some kind of stupid attitude. So when she called the relationship off i have been minding my business and i very cool because I know that i didn't lose rather she lost. I am not in anyway bragging about this.
I just want to update you guys and also learn from real stories that happened.this is what happened. Mind you I am living fine as though nothing happened i am not a redpiller neither a SIMP but a real Guy who nothing can bring him down no Matter what that thing is.
I have been this kind of person that nothing moves me again whether bad or good.


Now what should I do with this nudes guys?

Delete all the nudes and sex videos, you guys are no longer together doesn't make you enemies.

trutharena:
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This is her picture when she gave birth in 2019.

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Late 40s or maybe younger, she never old abi woman way don enter menopause day born?

Crossboy:
It was tragedy at Sunshine Lodge, Ihiagwa, one of the satellite communities close to the Federal University of Technology, Owerri (FUTO), Imo State on Tuesday night. Three students collapsed and died while taking turns to have sex with a co-student after allegedly taking a mixture of tramadol, codeine and vodka. Two of them, according to an eyewitness account, died instantly while the only lady among them and another male student were found unconscious.



They were immediately rushed to the Federal Medical Centre Owerri where they were admitted at the Intensive Care Unit. The male student later died at the hospital, after efforts to revive him by a team of medical personnel failed. At as the time of filling this report, students have vacated the hostel, while the caretaker has been arrested by the police.



The Police Public Relations Officer in the state, Orlando Ikeokwu, a Superintendent of Police, confirmed to The Guardian yesterday that the students used sex-enhancing drugs during the sex romp at Sunshine Lodge. He gave the names of the deceased as Ugochukwu Kingsley, Aka Uche and one Richard.



Acording to him, the police operatives who evacuated the bodies also recovered substances suspected to be Indian hemp and tramadol. “On April 2, information was received from the caretaker of Sunshine Lodge in Ihiagwa, that the students of Federal University of Technology, Owerri, were engaged in a sex romp with one Onyinyechi Okafor, also a student of the same university.



“Police detectives from Nekede Division promptly mobilised to the scene and found the four victims completely naked and unconscious. The victims were immediately conveyed to the police clinic but Ugochukwu Kingsley and Aka Uche were certified dead by the medical doctor on duty. Their bodies have been deposited at the Federal Medical Centre, Owerri, for autopsy, while their families have been contacted. The condition of the surviving victim is still being closely monitored.”Ikeokwu said the Commissioner of Police frowns at drug abuse and other illicit acts by youths, whose parents are working hard to guarantee a good future.



When contacted, the Public Relations Officer of the university, Mrs. Uche Nwaelue, couldn’t confirm if the victims were students of FUTO. She said: “We are still investigating to ascertain if truly, they are students at FUTO.“You know, the lodge where the incident occurred are being occupied by students from different institutions. Apart from FUTO students who live there, students at Federal Polytechnic, Nekede, also live there. We have to conclude our investigations first before we can come up with an official position on the incident. But I have read it online.”



In another development, 22-year-old Chika Alex-Chukwuezie has committed suicide in Ubaekwem community in Ihiala local government area of Anambra State. The deceased reportedly hung on a mango tree for yet-to-be ascertained reason. It was gathered that the deceased until his death was an active youth in the Umuezekwe political ward of Ihiala LGA.



A family member, who preferred anonymity, said the act might not be unconnected to spiritual liberation defect due to the reoccurring suicide incidents that plague the family. He said: “He was a single unemployed young man who had completed his SSS exams, with the hope to excel in business after schooling.



“One of his uncles also committed suicide at a youthful age decades ago. The family will have to subject itself to spiritual cleansing to avert recurrence of this unfortunate incident.”It was further gathered that the body of the deceased had been thrown into the thick forest in accordance with Igbo traditional rites. “Efforts are ongoing to bring in traditionalists who will cut off the mango tree where he hanged himself and sanctify the compound,” a source added.The Police Public Relations Officer in the state, Harunna Muhammed, confirmed the incident, adding that investigation was on to ascertain the circumstances surrounding the incident.

April 2 2021 and it is up here today January 26th 2022, somebody is not doing his job.

Rita005:
Hi folks! I feel like sharing my predicament with you and hope to get a solution. Please bear with me cuz it's a long read. I'm a 26 years old banker (not contract staff) in one of the south south states.

Recently, I met a beautiful soul and I think I'm getting so fond of him now. We connected after the close of service in church and exchanged contacts. He was kind enough to drop me off my house. This guy is doing very well for himself (lives in a nice estate and owns a good ride).

A short while after our first meeting, we spoke on phone and I didn't know when I asked him why he isn't married. He told me it's a long story and would like to talk about it when we meet one-to-one. Fast forward, we met and he told me all there is about him. He's 34, got married about 2 years ago, but now separated from his wife. The reason he gave for the separation was lack of trust from his wife. According to him, his wife is so insecured to a fault. According to him, the first week he got married was when he started regretting his actions. After their marriage, his wife travelled down home to bring her remaining baggage. Before she returned, he made sure he cleaned the house thoroughly. However, when his wife came back, she headed straight to the fridge (she had made soup and stew before traveling) and the next thing was cry! According to him, he said he was confused at first. it was when he asked her what the problem was that she said he brought a woman to their matrimonial home. He said he cried so much and regretted marrying a woman with a possessed mind.

According to him, all the signs were there before marriage and he ended the relationship more than 5 times but she kept begging. What she was holding on to was that there's no assurance that the guy will marry him, hence, her fears. According to him, the woman has accused him of sleeping with his former neighbors and she insisted that they move out of that area. for peace to reign, he agreed and they got another accommodation.

Again, she started accusing him of having something with his new neighbors (even the married ones). To be honest, this guy is admirable and very reserved and I'm not sure if he's doing all the things his wife accused him of. He got angry when his wife decided to report him to the church authority. According to him, this woman has no single proof of him cheating but her reprobate mind is affecting her badly. She even went ahead to share demeaning messages about him (her husband) on her whatsapp status. This guy said he has pleaded with her to stop but it's getting worse. Now, they were married for about two years without a child. He said he could manage to live with the woman for more years without a child but can't do that when his peace is been threatened. He said his wife nags a lot and it was driving him crazy. According to him, his mum was never in support of the marriage but dad was interested in it. As it stands now, he has left his wife and moved to another state where we both met.

I have been friends with him for about 3 months now and I must say that this guy is a sweet human being. He asked me out but I told him we should just be friends, owning that he's still legally married. However, my feelings for him is growing everyday and this guy knows how to get one emotionally attached to him. Even though I can perceive that he wants sex with me, he never begs or act too anxious over it. He's so calm and mature and this is making me to admire him the more.

Note: He said he has talked about divorce with his wife but she's refusing it. This is where my concerns come in.
Now, I'm scared of going into a relationship with him knowing that he's not divorced yet.

To be honest, I can hardly concentrate these days because the thought of this guy has occupied my mind. Can I go ahead with him or the implications would be overwhelming? To be honest, I've not met a guy has coolheaded and admirable as this guy but I'm scared.
please I need advice on how to handle this situation.

Thanks

You don't talk about divorce with someone you intend divorcing, you go ahead and serve him/her the process then meet in court, she does not agree so what's his plan? That guy is married but his wife/kids are not with him at the moment, it is either they're out of the country or they live in another state, the guy day whine you.

Dido90:
Mr. Ali and Miss Simbi have been Facebook friends for over 4years. Mr. Ali is a Nigerian who does business in Dubai according to him, processing visa for people who want to go to Dubai, then twice in a year, he visits his family in Nigeria and spend some time here.

Simbi and Ali have never met all these while but they've been chatting with Simbi having interest in traveling abroad to hustle after her Master's degree here. Simbi have been applying for scholarship but none has succeeded, so she decided to use other means to leave the country if the opportunity comes.

Ali usually posts photos of himself in Dubai, sometimes with people he helped relocate from Nigeria, their travel journey, etc. Once once, Simbi and Ali chat with Simbi always reminding him of her plan to leave for Dubai and how she's saving money.

Simbi lives in Abuja, and Ali stays in Lagos whenever he's in the country.
Last year January, Ali was in the country, he called Simbi and asked if she would like to go to UK, that someone just informed him of a UK slot, Simbi was so ecstatic and accepted the offer. Ali said the visa would cost Simbi about N1.5million without flight ticket or accommodation cost, with an initial deposit of N400,000. According to Ali, she won't go for any interview since it's a slot.

Simbi was so happy on hearing of UK visa, all these while, she's been hoping on going to Dubai if things work out well for her, not that she doesn't like Europe or America but because she was scared she might not have the financial requirement and others, thus she was hoping on working for a Dubai visa, but now an opportunity has presented itself for a UK visa.

Simbi discussed with 2 persons close to her, they asked her some questions and at the end, they decided to give it a trial based on Simbi's responses and her trust for Ali. She let them know she had never met Ali in real life but just Facebook friends and could trust him to some extent. When they considered the amount for the deposit, they felt well, one could risk it.

Ali requested for some of Simbi's information and she gave him via email including her passport photograph and a copy of her international passport. She requested to know Ali's office in Lagos or his home with his wife and children, Ali promised he would show her his home in Lagos. He requested Simbi bring the softcopy of her International passport to Lagos.

So Simbi planned a journey to Lagos and embarked on the impromptu journey, taking leave from work.
On arrival in Lagos, she spent her first night in a relative's place in Ikoyi, Lagos, then the next day being Sunday, she waited for Ali in one of the eateries in Oshodi and they met there. They exchanged pleasantries and handed her international passport to Ali.

Then she requested Ali take her to his office, he said he has no office in Lagos, then she requested she be taken to his home to know his house, and see his wife and children. Ali said there would be traffic, she insisted on not minding. Being Sunday, there wasn't really traffic on the road but Ali insisted from the eatery to his place in Ejigbo, there would be traffic and that he had some clients to meet.

Simbi not having any engagement decided to follow Ali in his car to where he said his clients were. They were to somewhere in Mushin, there Ali met with his childhood friends and they all went to a drinking bar. They ate and bought a crate of beer which he and his friends consumed and bought other drinks from 12noon till over 7p.m when Simbi requested to leave.

While in their company, Simbi was taking note of the time and studying everything happening there. Ali introduced her to his friends who were so chatty and let them know she came for a visa processing. Simbi at different time pleaded with Ali to take her to his home to know his wife and kids and also know his place of residence but Ali said there's no need for that, that she should trust him.

Simbi left them drinking in the bar around 7p.m feeling uncomfortable since the passport was with Ali. The next day she was to go to the ATM to transfer the N400,000 to Ali before she leaves Lagos for Abuja but she wasn't comfortable. She left Ali and his friends and went to another relative's place in Airport road to spend the night, while there, she told her cousin about her plight and her cousin wasn't comfortable too on hearing she only knew Ali on Facebook and Ali refused to take her to know his office or his family.

The cousin told her to call Ali and tell him she forgot something in his car, and ask where he was at the moment, because Simbi didn't know the name of the street the bar was. Ali gave her the description and her cousin drove her there around 9p.m. Even as at 9p.m they got to the drinking bar which seemed like a club too, Ali and more of his were with girls and drinking more. She excused Ali and Ali asked her what she forgot in his car, then she told Ali she came for her passport, that she's no longer comfortable leaving the passport with him.

Ali on seeing her cousin, quietly walked to where his car was parked, opened it and handed her the international passport and she left with her cousin.

That was how her business with Ali ended.
Two days later, she returned to Abuja.

A month later, Ali sent her a voice note saying his madam said he should beg her to do the visa, that she can pay only N100,000 as deposit and when the visa is out, she pays the complete amount, and that his madam was also blaming him for not showing her his house and family when she requested.

Simbi was no longer interested and didn't reply Ali.

Few days ago, Ali sent Simbi a photo of a passport with visa approved for a young guy. Ali said it was the guy and Simbi that they planned on doing the visa for before Simbi pulled out. Simbi had the contact of the guy before had never called him before. Simbi decided to disguise and call the guy, Simbi asked to meet him up as a long time friend but the guy said the date Simbi was calling to meet up with him won't be possible because he would have left the country by then. This made Simbi believe that the visa was true.

Now Ali told Simbi another slot has come and she would pay N1.7million for UK or France visa, Simbi is still insisting on knowing Ali or his colleague's office or Ali's house with his wife and children, Ali is not ready to take her to any of them.

What do you think about this? Should Ali be trusted by Simbi?

D guy na scammer hence he's avoiding taking her to his home or office, he couldn't take her to his home cause of traffic but he could sit in a bar drinking all day long? where she won find am go by d time he jakpa with her funds?

BigFrog:
Mod and seun,

Please I don't want this thread on the front page for privacy reasons. Please kindly respect this act before any further decision is taking without my notice.


Here is the story. I rented a shop I am still nurturing. I haven't made money in the said shop compaire to money I keep spending for maintainance. Only hoping one day everything will get better if not I will have to pack out.

Now my landlord called me to discuss some important issue which I obliged.

He told me he is trying to get a loan from Lapo Microfinance Firm. And they required two guarantor with operating business like shop which they will come to visit and make confirmation which the guarantor will agree and confirm to have sign the document.

He said he already told them that he has land and document for Collateral. Which they refuse as they only want a business premises. He said he doesn't want people to know that he want to collect the loan and the loan is for business purposes. Because of the talk and the news will spread that he is collecting loan. He said because I am calm and matures that why he is telling me. Those kind thing and I should help him I have nothing to fear or worry.

He said he will be servicing the loan every week for 6 months and he was sure of paying as it's just half a million. He was so confident of paying it. Of which I know he cannot run away because of half a million.

But I don't just understand the implications of such loan. What if he failed to service the loan will th loan firm come for me? I was just thinking it will be only if he run away that when they will come for me because I don't understand this Microfinance loan.

I need advice as I need to see in less that 24 hours time

How long have you known him and how reliable is he? There clauses in lapo agreement that states that you the guarantor will pay the money if the borrower default in payment and those people day disturb sha, reason am well sha but for me its a no no.

Lucaslookers:
I feel so pained about what's going on in my home right now even though my marriage is still very young but my wife has cheated on me, gotten pregnant and aborted for another man.
We have fought and our families have gotten involved and there's a little peace but my mind is unsettled. I have never engaged in unfaithful activities since dating to marriage with this woman but she has been unfair to me. The only way my mind will be at rest is if I take my revenge and go and have an affair outside too, after that we will be even and can start afresh to practice fidelity.
I feel so pained and I don't deserve this.

If this is true and you guys are legally married not dating then there's something terribly wrong with your head, a woman you are married to got pregnant for another guy while still married to you and you have not filed for divorce, you're here talking about cheating on her, nor worry day here day dig your grave, them go carry another man pikin give you train.

Demigod22:
So my friend have this girlfriend in 100 level, although he just graduated. They have regular and chronic sex. But the girlfriend is always scared of pregnancy.

The problem is that last night they were having sex and the condom burst and he poured everything inside. The girlfriend got angry and left. He advised her to take salt and water, Andrew liver salt, or any gas drink, but she ignored him.

My friend is angry with her because, she is always scared of pregnancy but will never take those things to prevent it, it happened yesterday and she is thinking it will lead to pregnancy. My friend is leaving school on Monday because he has graduated.

Although I have advised him severally to reduce the sex, but the deed has been done already. What is your advice to the girl?

Congratulations @OP, your sperm is about converting to a younger version of you, nor forget to invite us for the naming ceremony.

Nksleek:
Billionaire Ned Nwoko has been alleged to have secured the arrest of popular online aphrodisiac seller and sex therapist, Jaruma.

Focus Naija can report that a photo of the Kayanmata dealer making a statement has gone viral online.

According to gossip blog, Gistlover, Jaruma was arrested over allegations of defamation, drug abuse and trafficking.

The blogger noted that while Jaruma flaunts audio billions online and claims to be operating from Dubai, she was actually arrested in Abuja, Nigeria.

Recall that Jaruma accused Regina Daniels of using her products on the billionaire which led to the separation with his Moroccan wife, Laila.

Ned Nwoko in defense of his wife had a face-off with Jaruma over the potency of her products that couldn’t help her secure her marriage.

Source: https://focusnaija.com.ng/2022/01/21/breaking-ned-nwoko-finally-secures-jarumas-arrest-photo/

U sure say na she b that? This person worwor nor b small o, it is well sha.

Nksleek:
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He gidigidi never end? Make he still form boss na, mumu man, them go day form giant when them don wear uniform, 70 years suffer for you and all like you.