₦airaland Forum

Fragility6:
My guy dey school for north make una behave o

tell ur guy to come back home, na who dey alive dey go sch

nothing will happen, congratulations.... extra income is very necessary, just be secretive cuz we don't know our frenemies

Yampotatocarrot:
I think her initial response to the question of "what will you do" is wrong. Notice how she said she just hugged her kids because they said they were cooking the noodles for her. What if they were able to put on the burner and still have same answer.

Question I even want to ask her is, "Where was she/the elders, when kids of 1 and 3years went to the kitchen to start "cooking noodles"... That says a lot

It's alright to correct kids where they're wrong and punish them in whatever manner.

Lost a young boy because of this attitude of "they're still children". He died around the age of 4, ended up drinking hypo placed in the kitchen.

Let kids know some things are wrong and some things are OFF LIMIT, even if this knowledge comes through spanking

honestly u are absolutely right Sir.

happy birthday to you, more fruitful years ahead.

lilyheaven:
Hmmm, see how you are comparing my sweet kids to Boko because they were cooking indomie for their mom.
They made a mess , but they had good intention.
That show’s I love them and they are only showing how much they love me
They didn’t just scatter it, they had poured some in the pot with water sitting on the burner, I’m sure he would have switched on the burner if the cylinder was on.
Pray your kids have you in mind,
Is not every time you beat a child.

Since African parents have been beating their kids up and down what did they achieve, Nigeria is detoxifying despite all the beating.
Allow a child to explore,

Cain master!

nice and mature response

QuotaSystem:
Buhari is failing security wise.

No time to pass blames. Whether sabotage or not, the yam and knife are with him and a secure country is in his administration's best interest.

May the innocent souls of the departed rest in peace.

like your sincerity, mày their souls rest in peace, and may God console their family

SpeakOutNaija:
Insecurity in Nigeria -
SE - Unknown Gunmen, ESN or IPOB NW - Bandits NE - Boko Haram NC - < SW - Fulani Herdsmen SS - >

SS - cultists

Kaiser20:
Learn how to read, abi your eyes dey pain you. The poster wrote ' a man's birthday party '...who will divorce who?

lol, what do you expect from an angry goat

Gbadebo01:
For good measure, wisdom is the principal thing.
for example.
He is not active in class could be - "He could do with participating more in class"
She keeps gang in the school could be - "I will suggest the company she keeps is vetted" and so on.
He is a truant - " He needs to improve his attendance in class"

My point is we basically said the same thing but my choice of words were chosen carefully. I mentioned where they need to improve on rather than calling them names.


#my2cents

thanks so much for dis comment, the only thing wrong was his choice of words

illicit:
I used to like d guy

I dislike and denounce him now

same here

Coldshisha:
Bipolar disorder

lol, u no dey forget something?

dynicks:
Someone guess what I'm staring at.....

we know

dis man disappointed me sha, chai I didn't expect dis

lilvicky68:
1..don't spend it at all be greedy to yourself..
2..Eat once per day..
3..delete and block calls from all family members..
4..instead of paying house rent,live under the bridge.
5... Wake up early and trek to work everyday..
Since you don't want to spend it na

lol, and when he dies, people that never matter in his life will take it all..

yrret:
I have left this country. just trying to see how I can export my body to meet me.

Nigeria is over a long time ago. we are just doing patch patch

lol......export your body kwa? u tried.

leave mata jor, na grace dey follow us for naija.... for now anything I see I chop....

hecomeshome:
Imagine for a minute that you are a trained soldier.
A Lieutenant.
You have a wife and two kids.
Now, imagine that during the quarterly rotation, you were sent to Bornu to fight insurgence (Boko Haram)
On this fateful day, as you were moving with your platoon.
There was an ambush.
Gunfire ensued.
You shot with all you've got.
You know that you have a slim chance of surviving the attack.
As you were running out of ammo, you called John, your buddy, for a fresh supply.
No response.
You glanced and saw John's head split into two halves.
By your left are Barry, his torso turn and one of his arms lying 10 ft away.
With nothing to fight with, you made a run for it and took a deep dive into the abandoned crater while bullets were getting fired at you.
You passed out
When you woke, you saw yourself in the hospital.
The doctor came in.
"Officer, you are awake, we did emergency surgery. We had to amputate you"
We are sorry.
You then asked.
'What of my teammates ?"
"Well, you lost 18 men and 2 survivors", the doctor replied. "You and Barry.
Barry is still in intensive care."
Now, 3 months later, at the defense headquarters.
Your commanding officer, General Gida told you. "You are back, lieutenant "
"Good news!
We rounded up all the terrorists that attacked your platoon after in another battle confrontation."
They are now in rehabilitation centers.
"Can I see them?" you asked
'Sure!'
You got wheeled to the center.
They opened the door.
And yes.
'There they are!'
Across the hall, Young men in white flowing gowns were eating fried and Jollof rice with multiple chicken parts.
Some were drinking wine.
Laughter filled the air.
Having a ball.
You were told they will soon be taken abroad on scholarship.
Government-sponsored.
As you were getting back to the general's office.
Just outside the defense headquarters gate, you saw the wives of your team, now widowed, as they agitate with high voices and placards.
"We have been abandoned!"
"Pay us our husband's benefits!"
"We are hungry"
Just imagine all that.
------
It is the reality of a Nigerian Soldier in the corridor of terrorism.
Written by Afam B. C. Nnaji.

really sad, honestly so sad

Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....

in my honest opinion, you have done absolutely nothing wrong....I once told my roommate back in BUK that if I have a reasonable friend or any relation that I'm not even so close to that wants to marry her, I will surely tell the person not to, she laughed and I told her I was serious, she is very beautiful. she's married now and we are still friends, but with what I know then, no way I would recommend her to any of my reasonable friend.

I'm happy for her now cuz she's happily married, it non of my business if the husband is lucky or not cuz who knows what that one might have done in the past.


we are not perfect, and I can't judge anyone based on their past mistakes but, I can't stand public toilet, u can't make prostitution ur hobby and be expecting a king to come for you.

if she was ganged raped by 20 men and u decided to expose her pain and secret to ur friend, I would have followed her to curse u as well....

as for ur friend that couldn't keep his source of information anonymous is a big fool, I can't risk such thing for a friend like that.

let her even go to t-junction in the middle of the night, get naked and swear for u, it will multiply on her head times 10, there's always a repercussions for everything, it's time for her to face it.

TruthHurts1:
Dis one has sold his destiny for a piece of pomo

Pomo even still get value, may b he sold it for atardo

princefrank76:
na real "predident" i talk am say this kind vegetable no suppose be president

lol

MikeMicheal:
That his evil wife should be arrested

madness

HWA, more grace in ur homes

warri is dis?

wall gecko disgusts me but, I'm really scared of snakes wether dead or alive. can't even see the pics or watch it on TV......I have serious phobia for dat tin

too bad, no where is safe anymore

SpaceAngel:
The look on the face of the boy collecting the boot from the officers spoilt my day. So sad.

I shed tears.

Tarzan360:
Believe this news at your own risk � Boko Haram terrorists wearing jeans and t-shirt and polo shirts �

were you expecting them to wear iro and buba?

chatinent:
Create a thread for that.

he must be a soldier

rotadeco27:
Get a strong rope , tie her legs and hand to the bed frame

lol, wahala dey

na old people full there o, of course there is no way they'll be going back there willingly. this one na prayer answered for them o

Johnkay01:
Lol

MBA and IDOWU to be lying

INUWA to be packing the money

And we believe Aboki no wise

Dem wise, time shall come that they will be the one seeking for a separation in this country, when they have no need from the south and east soil again

adasbay:
This country will be delivered. Your husband is in London for medical attention and you are here lunching book and celebrating not going to London for medical reasons.

lol, na that one even funny pass, terrible lies and deception from dis family