₦airaland Forum

Pistotita:
What is the price of rice sir? Come put and analyse it and stop talking in unknown language. Stop spreading useless lies. I am not a fan of Buhari, but this is the best policy so far.

So he should allow smuggling to continue because you want to eat rice. Right? You better take your time. Soon, kidnappers will visit your house if you dont take your time. Na that rice you want to eat will kill you. Do you hear me. Its only food you know. Go sit down. We appreciate what Buhari is doing here. If you like,cry...baba will not open it. Ungrateful people.

You must be an agent of rice or car smugglers. You think he is weak like Jonathan. No way. Jonathan that spoilt the ban on importing 10 years used vehicles. Very weak Jonathan.

maasoap:
The lawyer who killed her husband in Ibadan, what happened to her in the end? She sentenced to seven years imprisonment and was pardoned by either the governor or CJ after serving two years.

27Pushing30:
We are also feeling the pinch here ... Turkey now N1,700.

The trials and tribulations we have to go through as a country in order to become great is unbelievable and overwhelming.

I keep telling people not to blame only buhari but to blame themselves(the citiZen) and past leaders.

As a nation we’ve really been unwise these past 59 years...

Wait till they squarely face power

mrvitalis:
I really blame niger delta for how nigeria is today ...

If they raise up and demand resource control or nothing and insist on it ...nigerian government go sit up

uckennety:
Op

South south is a geo-political zone

Not a region

It's geographically located in the south eastern region of Nigeria

Please try n act like your educated!

Hope you study geography in secondary school

omoleyeib:
brother just try to take life easy. Am a graduate like you. I did my youth service 2009 up till now no job. But God is too faithful to me, after my youth service, I gather my saving to bought okada then 105k Ride it in Lagos .i stay with a friend at agbado ijaye then for two years I saved money with one cooperative when my money reached 250k I apply for loan 550k I bought one Mazda 323f motor then relocate to portharcourt where I did my youth service then started transportation business. Till now that is what am doing to survive. In addition true out my stay in Lagos I mean for two years I and my fiance didn't see each other till when am back to portharcout and glory be to God we married 2014 with two kid now. My advice is to focus to be a man now ,if that girl will be yours she will understand the situation at hand now.All is well my Brother.

aishaemeka:
In the past, though I don't mix with ladies like before. A lady came to my house, and I was touching her, though not too deep; but while I was touching, her phone rang, she picked, and it was like the guy from the other end calling noticed a movement & probably asked her who it was: this lady started saying "junior common stop it or bla bla bla like that"....Do you know who she was referring to Junior? it was me. "She passed a message" to the other guy as if a little boy or child named junior was jumping on her or disturbing her....

The lady was a good girl though...She restrictedy moves too....She can be a wife material; but that "junior"....hahaha

FroshJaynex:
Had an experience of this way back in school, Was fucking this girl hard and suddenly her phone rang, I understood the game nd kept mute as she had a conversation with Mr lover boy, dude even just printed a customised T-shirt for themselves nd I was like WOW, Men dey suffer o, Naso I increase the speed of banging

NoFap123:
@ bolded, it's bother.
Can you now see that even a Prof of English can make mistake without realizing it?

aldelly2003:
e be liks say i don chop vegetables
oooh! But am trying to get
unemotional about her. What
should i do
I will ask u 3 questions,how did u meet her,2 what kind of Church does she goes,3 when did she break up with last father of her 2 child and y, I will tell u bros just be prayerful and try to avoid her ,their a lot of women like that ,that are destiny killer ,bro it took me 7yrs b4 my eye clear o,I leftg l
Europe to come and marry her after 7yrs ,I come c well well ,bros jazz dey o,I never believed but now I do. am just getting back on my feet ,you are under a spell and u can't kW it ,only does outside the relationship will c it

engrchykae:
mine was devastating.
some women are devil personified.
three months to our traditional wedding,I saw a contact on her phone with the name " my love"
I thought am the one na as husband to be very soon.
I looked closely and saw that its not my number so I confronted her and she told me its her mopol friend.
she started explaining how the guy loves her so much.
I got angry and told her " then why are you not with him,why didn't he come to collect the list "
I called her father and lodged my complaints,the father later called back telling me how she has changed.
I called her and warned that if such happens again I will reconsider my position in marrying her.
do you know that this statement was registered in her heart for revenge.
I married her and after seven months she left me to get revenge and make me lose of all I spent in footing the bills of the traditional wedding.
I have learnt to be mean in handling relationship with women.
before I pity them and wrong myself to please them.
but not anymore.
what pains me most is that my siblings whom I first got married are now with kids each while this devil was deceiving that she is pregnant and I registered her ante natal.
when she attended for six months,I wasn't seeing any sign of pregnancy and she would tell me how she had flat tummy,how the doctor is surprised at her flat tummy.
I will be like,flat tummy in six months ?
I told her to go for scan which she did reluctantly.
results came out no pregnancy .
she started telling me how a prophet told her that time would come when her pregnancy would be appearing and disappearing.
how somebody is manipulating her pregnancy.
I told my mum to help her meet those women in the village who help in such matters.
that was when they told her that she should tell her husband the truth.
she came back packed her things in our house in the village and travelled to her parents.
later came town took her things and left.
if I assist my mum financially,there will be trouble in the house.
if she add her own money in preparing food,I must refund her.
she knows my pay but I don't know her financial status.
she hides her financial status from me.
I thank God she left as I feel liberated

Spatta:
If only these Kids on Nairaland Knows this evil man. Babangida was the one who single handedly led Nigeria on this path of poverty. the Nation is yet to recover


Talk about Evil, This is the Man. very few people still remember the wickedness of this evil genus
THEY wiped out History so YOU all will not recollect and the ignorant are saying Happy Birthday to an evil man

emmaodet:
Ubunja, you are a God sent.
You always amaze me with your replys.
How i really wish i knew you 5-10 years ago.
80-90% of what you do say happened in my relationship.
I am the good/nice guy type but tbh, it really hurts.
How i wish i loved with my head and not my heart and also knowing that the reason why our wives married us is because of what we can provide or finance is really a bitter pill to swallow.
I have never seen a relationship or marriage were a man leaves a woman because she lost her job but have heard hundreds of where females leave, insults, disrespects a man because he lost his job.
It is a harsh world out there and really saddening.

Baselm:
Why would any sane person advise her to leave her matrimonial home, because the husband is emotionally attached to another lady?? All these NL oloshos forming feminist advice.
I will advise you to stay in your place and continue with whatever you have going on for you, channel your love to your child and get a job or face your business and continue to pray.
Focus more on your life than the prayers, it should be a side hustle.
If you must, confide in your pastor and parents to pray with you and probably counsel him.
Leave when your life is being threatened, otherwise don't leave, do the things that make you happy, he will come to his senses soon.

If you leave
1) you abandoned your home for someone else to take over. you have made them winners
2) you will deprive your child of the love of both parents.
3) as much as polygamy scares you, have you given having different baby Daddys a thought? or have you given being Single for a large part of your life a thought?

STAY FOR AS LONG AS YOU ARE SAFE AND FOCUS ON PERSONAL IMPROVEMENT, YOUR CHILD AND EVERYTHING THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY