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Reminderz:
your fears are valid and that's a very good reason for dumping them.. a woman who still insists on keeping male friends while in a relationship and yet doesn't see nothing wrong in visiting them even in homes is nothing more than a olosho...

see ehn, this century, getting a good girl is increasingly difficult... a real high value woman is not even settling for anything less bro... you have to become high value to have access to these women... most women have been ravaged and destroyed by feminism and liberalism..

even if you want to get a high value woman, the environment matters and how she was raised which includes her family background... else, you'll have to go the baby mama way or avoid getting married legally, but make sure your kids are properly raised..

You are right.
This is what l have seen of recent.

Most ladies that grew up in city lacks moral values. I am not saying you should marry from village but some town has good ladies because their parent have time for God. There is no way your parent brings you upin the children in a way of God without seen that fearness.

The site has been on operations for the past two years.

It is age.
The longer they grow, the higher they behave like a child.

Hmmm Baba.

It is only God that we judge you.
After you attempted to win several times, the whole country gave you opportunity to rule.

I remembered during the time l used to have stop_over at Dubai. I read at their airport how their SHEIK transformed dubai from desert to world class. I thought you will replicate but reserve is the case.

For good six months, you could not appoint ministers!! Companies were folding up, JP Morgans left, United airline left. You burrowed loan from China, from Brazil, Suku bond, imf, mortgage our future, yet no result.
Lagos to Ore is not completed, Lagos to ibadan not completed after eight years !

You rule for good eight years for crying out loud. The corruption you are fighting was mirage. What is the outcome now. Whistle blower nko! You clame you are feeding schools, at the end end, all na wash.

You kill, killl and killl. Your only response was " l assure you" l have never read in the news that they prosecute one single fulani headsmen. You turn us to zombiee. All our best hands have japa and you can see the effect on online banking.

ASUU went on strike more than a year. You crippled our education, economy, health security etc.
Baba you are a disaster!

I expect coach to make more changes around 70 minutes. He has the bench.

The players were so sluggish. I watch Angola and Ghana ànd you will see energy and determination. The coach and the team are not serious yet

Seun (Channestv) is not that good in phonetics but highly intelligent. I gave respect to him when he was interviewing LP vice President yesterday,

Oseni needs professional programs. I stopped watching arise TV when l observed they are bias most time.

bibiking7:



It's actually not new. Bola Tinubu started the IPP in lagos years ago. It was an Independent power project that was done in Lekki I think. Then Fashola continued and commisioned another. It's still in use till now.
They should have just developed more but Ambode kicked against everything Fashola.
Hate him or love him (BAT), I knew what lasgidi was like before 1999 and after, most especially Oshodi, where the roads were so bad, you needed to look for a place where rocks were arranged to cross the road or you enter the mud to cross and then pay some folks to wash your legs. BAT really tried.
If each person that comes into government delivers a major project, we will soon find it hard to get big projects to work on. That is a steady way to development. My own opinion.

Most were babies when Tinubu ruled Lagos. Black race are fool of hatred. I knew how Lagos was before tinubu came to power in 1999. Is it Surulere to national stadium side, Ebute meta to yaba up to WAEC office, palm groove to somolu to gbagada. Even isale eko in Lagos island was transformed then because you can not work freely. Tinubu really tried in Lagos. My reservation is the age but l believe he can appoint a right people in different sector. He performance was what made his party to capture all the SW state then. It is high time we stop hating unnecessarily.

We allowed all tribes to stay with us peacefully. Even gave portion of Land to Hausa and till tomorrow, everybody know that "Saboo" is Hausa settlement in any western state. We allow igbo to live among us, they became so lousy and having entitlement mentality which they will never allow any foreigner in Anambra or IMO state.
We told them to always follow Night bus to East thesame way Hausa they follow Trailers to North and to go and vote in their state. They carry west for head and be talking Lagos is no mans land.
I know they will push us to the wall on day the same way they push Hausa and they deal with them in North

Odewaleadesoye:
The situation isn't funny at all and many Nigerians are really suffering due to this policy.

Let me share a very short and sad story with you.

I was at the market yesterday to get some groceries and provisions for the house. I made the payment via transfer because I didn't go with my ATM card. Unfortunately, I was debited immediately but the vendor didn't receive alert on his end.

I came to his shop around 3pm. You wouldn't believe that I waited till 6:30pm thinking that the alert will come in.

Lo and behold, Mr. vendor didn't get the alert.

I hard to return all the stuffs I bought. He collected my phone number and told me that he will call me once he sees the alert so that he can transfer my money back to me.

I was angry but I had to receive sense immediately because it wasn't his fault. He was just trying to play safe too.

I came home angrily and drank semovita with no Sugar.

The policy is just so annoying.



It may sound funny and unbelievable but I prepared it the same way you will prepare Pap.



No, he hasn't but he called me that he has seen the alert.

I haven't gone back to him yet due to my busy schedules of the day.

Opay
Palmpay are more reliable now.
Just download from paystore and register.
You can move like #5k to your pampay account and start paying petty things oo. That is what is helping us now

Transportation is now wahala in city as most danfo bus doesn't give cash.

Is it not better if government can donate BICYCLE at subsidise price. At least it will reduce the stress

Okealaaye:
That's the spirit. I've been living continuously in Ibadan since 1977, but Seyi Makinde takes the sweetest portion of the cake of failure in governance. Never seen a calamity like him before. Even non-natives like the military Governors of the past were much better. All na mouth even when he's as inarticulate as a toddler learning its first words - em em em! Come to Ibadan and see how the English first encountered the word Eyesore. Refuse and alms-beggars have taken over the main streets. That's beside the activities of street and in-traffic sellers o. And he cannot point to an enduring capital project he has executed, despite the claims of his yansh-lickers to the contrary! Makinde ranks in performance with his friend Ortom, the Disaster of Benue. Maybe a class Monitor in Primary 2, but no one would appoint Seyi Makinde Senior Boy in our school way back in the Primary School. It is like he's unable to bear on his slender neck the tonnage of load he has so unfortunately heaped on his head! By the grace of God, an end is coming to this wave of calamities in Oyo state next week.

Chai

Whoever sees you when you were typing will think you have sense but not knowing you are typing with Akamu.
Seyi constructed Akobo bridge which past governors could not do since 1999. We usually spend two hours everyday in traffic. It was terrible. Seyi came in and constructed within 4years. Ajimobi used a whole eight years to demolish houses without result.

My parent hear wuen during time of Ajomobi. Seyi came in and start paying pension and salary on 25th

Even on presidential election, he is just after power coming to South. He allows whoever want to vote Obi or Tinubu to vote.

He should go and sit down. Politician always think of their pocket. It is so shameful that this comment could come from baba Ladoja.
So we should vote for Folarin that is pure Agbero. All because he lost elections, he went to remove transformer he donated to an area.

We are not voting for party again, we are voting for integrity. We are voting for Makinde

Breaking News from AIT

Elections postpone to March 18

Sanwo should not fear. He delivered in Lagos. We voted for Obi because we Christian felt betrayed by APC Muslim - Moslem.
I was so disappointed from comments made by igbos after Obi won Lagos. They started claiming Lagos !! Shuu. I could see they are betrayals but no wahala. A Yoruba Moslem is one million times better than them.
I could see why Northerners usually treat their folkup in North and they will push us to wall one day.
We are voting in mass for Sanwo Olu. He should relax his mind. All my household are

Lesson 1.

Not to underestimate the power of friends. Atiku underestimate G5 governors (wike and Makinde) delivered their state for APC.

Nwaetche:
Sanwo-Olu is a gonner

LP and PDP would gang up and see that Tinubu and his gang of Iragbiji thugs are booted out of their Alausa umbilical cord.

A true Lagosian, Gbadebo Patrick Rhodes-Vivour is needed at the helms of affairs, not immigrant urchins causing problems everywhere.

If the people of Osun can do it, Lagosians can do it too. lagos needs to be unshackled to take it rightful place as a liveable megacity.

Keep deceiving yourself. We Yoruba Christian decided to vote against tinubu because of Muslim Muslim ticket.
We are voting for Sanwo olu in mass

I felt disappointed the way obedient were aggressive. We Yoruba Christian that are voting for obi has begin to thinking deeply of what they might turn country to,

Ma them sabi.

My vote is for makinde.
1) Payment of workers and Pensioner on 25th of every month is what l admired. My pensioner parent did not disturb for money for the past 4 years.

2) Construction and commissioning of Akobo bridge.


I remembered some years back, Teslim folarin donated a transformer to an area and when he lost election, he went there to remove it

Nija will not post the one that is extorting money from them, jumping on their vehicle.

I know a lasma in isheri-magodo that dances sometimes. The guy is very caring, lovely and does his job professionally. He greets you and say hi to you children while controlling traffic.
I have met some around that area that carries iron to arrest you with slight mistake

Not all of them are bad. I have to dash him new year gift when l see him at Berger side

They condemned Jonathan that he could not finished it. Now they couldn't complete after eight years,
Sagamu to Berger is 30 minutes drive. We spent 4 hours in traffic

Can MTN sim see Glo message ? The answer is No. As far as you have a Mark, your mark will be looking for a signal with similar mark.

Avoid manipulation. Nigeria pastors will only see problem, not solution. Their deliverance will not finish.
Pray to God on your own and attend general program like Power must change hand by Mfm.

Johnnyposh:
Plz I need advice from matured people here:
Am 25 and my girlfriend is 24,I met my girlfriend around late 2020 like October,we loved ourselves so much but am a kind of guy that don’t trust ladies and I don’t like relationships but I fell in love with her and we started dating,around February 2021 she got pregnant for me but am not sure am the owner of the pregnancy but the love I have for her overwhelmed me,she said am the owner of the pregnancy cos she don’t date or meet any other guy since we started dating,and I accepted the pregnancy as my own,her parent get to k know about her pregnancy after 3 months and she was asked to bring the guy that got her pregnant,I went to thier house for the first time with my mom to introduce myself as the owner of the pregnancy and her parent was kindda disappointed because they taught the person that impregnated thier daughter is a standard guy and am just a hustler that lives in a one room,her parents insisted that before we can come to take her away and take care of the pregnancy,we have to do an introduction before they release her,and I am a very broke ass nigga,like my phone engineer work is not functioning well,am just managing but I do some online Fraud hustle to survive,we told her parents that we should take her soon to care for the pregnancy first so after that,we can do whatever they want,but the mother refuse to leave her,after two months,I hustled up to get some money and I agree to do the introduction,by then the pregnancy is about 5 months,I called her mom that am ready to do the introduction and we fixed date for the introduction,then two weeks to the introduction the mother called me again that after the introduction I have to go to the registery to get married to her legally,I was so depressed and devastated,I regret impregnating her,I cursed myself that I wasn’t serious with my life and it ended up with suffering for me,I declined that I can’t go to the registry,I inform my mom and she declined too,but after another week I don’t know what happened to me,I then agree to do the introduction and the registry too,cos the woman refuse to release her to us and she is the first child in thier family, we did the introduction and got married in October
2021 and welcome a baby girl in November, I hustled up again and I secure a room and parlour self contain around may 2022 and I furnished it to my taste,I tried all my possible best to make sure that we are doing much better than before but still my phone engineering work is not bringing food to the table untill now and I don’t believe in this my online yahoo fraud activity to provide for the family,each time that I remember that I was forced to get married to her and I don’t have a good work that is bringing food to the table just this online fraud ,am always depressed and not happy.
And after my wife gave birth in November 2021,we use to have issue about her exes calling her and we use to fight about it and I feel like ending the marriage,I’ve reported her to her parents about her exes and I don’t want her to have anything to do with other men,but she has changed a little better now but it’s hard for me to trust her too.
Please am just a 25 years old guy and am so depressed and need help on what to do,my life is shattered with depression and I don’t see a good future for myself or the marriage,help me please,I have made a great mistake of my lifetime, please help me people,I need a good advice on what to do thanks �

Don't be carried away with what you read online. You are taking a good step and your marriage will work, Marriage is sweet, as far you don't do more than your self. That baby needs your love, Assuming your blood sister is doing her ÑYSC and she needs accommodation, will you push her away? Avoid having any baby in the next seven years and both of you should work hard

Let me share a story of family friend.

Their second born got pregnant during her ND1 in Ede poly. They wanted to abort but it was late when the parent took her to hospital. They warn the lady when she was dating the guy but you know children of nowadays (very stubborn and arrogant). Her parent were civil servants and they struggle to pay her school fees, purchase mattress and many other things when she got admission. At last she got pregnant !!!
They invited the guy and when he showed up, the guy was advised to come with his parent. The guy absconded till tomorrow. The lady dropped out of school to give birth. It wasn't easy for retired parent to be nursing a baby. They could not sleep at night because of the cry of the baby. After two years, the lady re-enrolled for part time program, financed by the parent and she came out with first class.
Today, she is happily married to a pilot and she is doing fine outside Nigeria.
As l speak to you now, all the children of civil servants were married and they hardly come home except festive period. The baby of yesterday is the one taking care of the parent at their old age and she has gotten admission now. She goes from home to school in Akoka (unilag), they stay closer.

I want to appeal to you. I don't want you to regret today's action tomorrow. Take both the baby and mother back. She is still young and you can register her for part time program in next three to four years. I don't blame you, it is not easy. That idiot guy that can not use #200 condom will destroy her life. When l spoke with the girl, she was studying medicine and preparing for he MBBS. Assuming the baby was aborted or her mother was abandoned, the story would have been different today. Take her back and forgive, God has plans and knows our tomorrow.

#Truelife story

blissfulheart:
People change
I don't have the heart to cheat but I feel abandoned
I dress well ,I smell good, I hustle,I have a child ,ain't,ugly, I practically worship him.
My emotions are always messed up.

Just take it easy, things will improve

.......... Let motivational speaker deceive into marriage you. You go hear wueee

Let me just take diapers for example. How many of them want to use Napkin which our mother usually use. A cost of Molfix diaper now is #7k which a baby can use within two to three weeks. An understanding partner will abuse you when you can not meet up basic demand. Plan well before rushing into a marriage

There is no crime sharing problem online. We have many doctors and gynecologist on nairaland that can give elementary support.

But the sad news is that the stupid with indomine brain will not allow them to make comments. Just imagine, for almost five pages, they did not allow folks in medical line to comment. Nairaland needs to create mature minded section for matured people.

Just Road or Quality road ?

Pls don't be offended with my comment

You and your husband are extrovert. Prapa-prapa. He just alter that statement because of the way you responded when he complains. You just have to overlook, he has anger problem likewise you.
Let demonstrate it.
You husband: l told you l don't want this moi-moi again
Wife: l am cooking it because my children loves it
Your husband: So children are more important than me. Always cook another meal for me when you are done with moi-moi, l don't want moi-moi.
Wife: l am not your slave. I can not cook two different meal in a day.
Husband: You responsibility in this house is to cook and give good sex

What if you are working in offshore ? Those guys buy intimacy gadgets from jumia and online platform to cool themselves. Long distance relationship is not an excuse to catch disease.

All this your gragra, when you catch disease, your eye will clear. Go and buy intimacy gadget for men to avoid on timely sickness

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The guy should focus and improve our league first, under him , no more under 17, under 20, under 21, no world cup qualification, played nonsense at afcon. Thief want to steal more money

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H2AIBR0dnVw


I watch the video and l fear single mum