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AtoningBlood:
@bolded is the reason why children love their parents more. How do you think you will be more responsible if your wife failed to give you one more son and you go out to impregnate another woman? My brother, do you know how much school fees is? Four children and you are still looking for more sons? We've passed the dispensation of son or nothing. In my village, men now look for girls, because na them dey take care of their father. Think well and think for tomorrow.

i know how much school fee be. I understand the country is hard. The Truth is, i have lots of in-laws that dont care regards the sex of there child. But remember, we are all different. I hard for me to conclude that, na only one Son i go get, its scary i swear. Its possible to have a son, i know there are methods because i have read about it, but the Ovulation day thing is the most common one i have read about, so i just want to be sure.

ibechris:
U have to meet a gynecologist to help you out on this,it's not expensive at all.
I had my two children expecting at least a boy but it never came before we proceeded for the third child which the gyno really helped seriously,after the drug and injection and he gave us a date and the third pregnancy brought our only son.
Though the experience was hilarious and positive.

Please share your experience.

descarado:
You are right.
To be on the safe side, not just the first day of her ovulation but when her ovary just released the egg. That is the koko. Sometimes women release egg from the two ovaries one after the other and they don't know except they have ovulation pain both sides for those who normally have that.

A member of my family had this problem. 3 girls and the man went rabid. I was very close to the wife and this lady tell me everything. I got to know about this through her. When she used kit the first time and it worked( bought her kit from Holland), she told everybody she knew about it who had the same problem and all got pregnant with baby boy. Alternativey, if you are sure of your ovulation, no need for kit, as soon as you release the egg, have sex immediately even if it's midnight.

Unconsciously because of cultural norms of some tribes, women try to be safe by following this rule as long as conception isn't the issue.

Pls what kit are you talking about?

You see if you are Yoruba, You would not understand where am coming from. Am not mocking Yourba's but most Yoruba's dont place priority on Male children. Its there culture and an individual thing. Its just like some people, after building just one house, then its okay for them, they will kill there hustling spirit because they are contempted. In my case i have A boy and the Girls. I dont know how i was able to do it the first time, but i want to have another boy. I have tired having a boy right from when i wanted to have my third child, it came out to be a babe, third babe. So when i seek advice, i was told about this Ovulation day of a thing. As a matter of fact, I love my babes very very well. In fact my First Daughter is more Academically sound than my son. I would train all my girls minimum to B.Sc level, but the reality is, in a family setting, there are role for guys and for babes. Personally i dont like putting all my eggs in one basket, having only one son, would result in me spoiling my son, indirectly i would be pampering him because i would be scared because he is all i got. Also when you have more than one son, you confuse your enemy.

Something happened to me on the 1st of this year. i was to load lots of appliance into a Truck on 1st of Jan, 2022, Nor Aboki was avail around 5pm, the truck came early, when the truck driver told he was close to where the appliance was, i woke my younger brother and we proceed to the said location where the items where. It took myself and my younger bro about 45mins to load the appliance, items where gates, AC,Pumping machine etc after loading those items, we then proceed to where i leave again to load the second bash, after loading i followed the truck to where i would be off loading the appliance. While we where moving, something came to mine mind, i have only a son, if it was my son that wanted to move this items, will he start knocking on his friends door at around 5am for them to come help him, then i decided that i really need to have a second son. Besides my son has been begging his mom to give him a brother.

So for you all shouting, its what you give is what you get, agreed, but remember on this same thread, someone said, his father had 6 girls and was looking for a male child, when his father met his mother, she gave him 3 male child because his mother understood the Ovulation thing. So for the ladies dont every tell your husband that, its what he gives he would get, if he then goes outside and meets a woman that understand the way this ovulation thing works, then you would have yourself to blame.

It was my friend that advised me about the Ovulation thing, but i was not sure, so i decided to bring it here.

Akakanfirstclass:
My dad had 6 girls from 3 women, but was still hunting for male child until he met my mum.. She is a nurse, an health educator.
My mum bore 3 male children..
That was over two decades plus..

Now there is this lady I know, she has 3 girls and has been doing every thing for a male child this last time..
So last year December, I was hosting with my mum then I mentioned this lady's case and my mum laughed and said she should meet her husband on the first day of her ovulation..
I guess judging from my mum's fruits, it works

Thanks.

IgweBUIKE1:
He asked a simple question...the best we can do is advice him... everyman with where he de pain am

Nairaland is just full of children..... Its a question, i never asked your Children on Nairaland for there response, i asked the married men and women.

Lexusgs430:
Y chromo fit no dey ur body ............. So it's not your madam's fault, but yours .........

You very funny.

4reala:
How many female child did you have?

Three.

Fathers and Mothers. Pls ohh. Myself and my wife, we trying to have a child this year, and we want a Male child. Male Child or nothing else. In fact i just Pray this time it works because trouble FIT dey.

Now my question is, as anybody in the house every tried the method of making love to you wife on the day of her Ovulation and the sex happens to be a Male child?

I have read to much article and the one that got my attention the most was, IF YOU WANT A MALE CHILD, MAKE LOVE TO YOUR WIFE A DAY TO HER OVULATION DAY OR ON HER EXACT OVULATION DAY. Please whom have tired this method and what is the success rate? I nor get money for IVF, so dont tell me say make i go do am ohh, because i heard its not cheap.

Regards

Abeg help save this marriage.

this is my respnse to the other thread where the guy said his girl friend ran away when he wanted to share marriage responsibilities

https://www.nairaland.com/6922097/girlfriend-ran-away-because-proposed/4

i swear, you are the best guy on Nairaland. lots of married men for Naija go die before there time. i always tell guys, that pussy go tire you once marriage enter, in marriage there are bills to pay, real bills ohh, children go chop, them go waste food, them go spoil your chairs, table, my second Daughter done put hole beneath my room door, if i like make i lock the door dey cuddle madam, this 2 and half year old pikin go just enter my room via the hole when she create for my door. sometimes she go enter my room, lock the door and pass the hole come outside, if i won enter my room, i nor go fit enter, i go got to go call them to pass under the door to take open the door. This Dec festive period, i was sick because too much of bills. Most naija girls, 90 percent of them are wired to be lazy, even in relationship, they cant even help a guy, person when nor fit help guy, na she won help for marriage? OP i swear you be the best guy ever. If you won marry any woman, let her know, you have to bring something good into this marriage, not just PUSSY. She needs to understand that if your problem is pussy, there are fucking pussy everywhere. OP i salute your courage. from Dec 20th to to 3rd Jan i done spend more than 200k, watin I even chop self? Nothing, na wife and children. OP if I were as smart as you during my time, I swear I for get BETTER REST OF MIND NOW.Do you know what it means when you need even 500k, and you know your wife GOT your back without any shaking? OP you are blessed.


All i can say here is your papa dey form hard man to take care of him wife and children, yet your mother dey flex her money. someone also said in the thread that her father caters for all there needs in the house and her father doesn't share money responsibility with her mum. One question for you... Your father choose to suffer because he wants to be an HYPER MALE. When him die, your mama go still come claim all watin the man work for, yet the man know enjoy life, to me, your father just came to suffer... Well i nor get must to talk sha. But she woman when get car, she nor fit repair her car herself na your old man go do everything for her, but while are men so stupid? i swear, i can come and die for my children, not to talk of my wife. Am trying all my best to take care of them, but if he hard, i go tell my wife and kids, SORRY PEOPLE I CANT COME AND KILL MYSELF. This life hard, this life hard, i prefer to dey drink garri than make i die.

I think your mother is just the example of the kind of Nairaland babes when we get, they dont want to work, but wan to eat fat, even when they work, they choose not to spend there money and keep waiting for a foolish man to fall for there trap.

SHA NOR RESEMBLE YOUR MAMA WHEN YOU MARRY.


op so you be man.... men na wa ohh. your mama nor try at all.

its for a hotel. i woukd ve having the following

ceiling fans 13unuts
32 inch TV LED 12units
bulbs energy saving 20units
Decorder 3units
PS3 3units.

If I remember others things I would update. But this appliance I have written here, I need them to be power for a minimum of 12 hours.

i need a lithium battery that can power my house appliance. my house appliance is 5000 watts and i want the lithum battery to power them for a minimum of 12 hours. Advice.

solarview:
You could reach me on .... for further assistance

let me have your phone no

VoidLoop:
At worse case, Your estimated load capacity(future load included) is up to 5000watts, I will recommend a 7.5KVA inverter that's powered by a 96V DC batteries with a minimum amperage 200AH

can i have your phone no?

bigpicture001:
My girlfriend whom I have planned to settle down with simply started acting cold and eventually stylishly slide out of our relationship because I sat her down and made a family financial support proposal to her in which she will be financially committed to running the proposed family we intend to raise...

These are the proposal...

1. She earns about 80k wile I earn about 300k.. I asked that we jointly contribute for all the children's Career funding starting from when we get married even before any of their birth.. I proposed 10k monthly from her and 40k from me to a trust account. From it we plan to fund all the children's Career from kiddagatten to varsity or which ever path they choose..

2. That sh choose between Nepa bill or DStv or gotv sub monthly..just one for her

3. I will be responsible for rents

4. We pay into another joint account for vacation once in two years..like sh puts in 20k I put in 50k monthly..

5. I provide all the heavy food stuffs required in the house in large quantities including gas ND change of electronics, but sh provide all the daily food supplements to mk mine complete.

6. She buys her clothes ND I buy mine but we can both surprise ourselfs with gift to the other..

7. I will buy the family car ND maintain it. If she buys no p.

8. I didn't rule out surprise gifts once a while and outting which I bankroll ND expect her to do same occasionally..

Plz oo nairalanders are these responsibilities to a wife too much for her, I mean one who works and earn over 50k...?

i swear, you are the best guy on Nairaland. lots of married men for Naija go die before there time. i always tell guys, that pussy go tire you once marriage enter, in marriage there are bills to pay, real bills ohh, children go chop, them go waste food, them go spoil your chairs, table, my second Daughter done put hole beneath my room door, if i like make i lock the door dey cuddle madam, this 2 and half year old pikin go just enter my room via the hole when she create for my door. sometimes she go enter my room, lock the door and pass the hole come outside, if i won enter my room, i nor go fit enter, i go got to go call them to pass under the door to take open the door. This Dec festive period, i was sick because too much of bills. Most naija girls, 90 percent of them are wired to be lazy, even in relationship, they cant even help a guy, person when nor fit help guy, na she won help for marriage? OP i swear you be the best guy ever. If you won marry any woman, let her know, you have to bring something good into this marriage, not just PUSSY. She needs to understand that if your problem is pussy, there are fucking pussy everywhere. OP i salue your courage. from Dec 20th to to 3rd Jan i done spend more than 200k, watin I even chop self? Nothing, na wife and children. OP if I were as smart as you during my time, I swear I for get BETTER REST OF MIND NOW.Do you know what it means when you need even 500k, and you know your wife GOT your back without any shaking? OP you are blessed.

yes. i would be adding Solar panel. deep cycle batteries are wack, i have a small lithum batter inverter i have been using for 5 years now, i still have the same four hours usage, but when i used deep cycle, aftwr 8 months, the usage time reduced from 7 hours to 3 hours. so i want lithum bettery with Solar panel.

can a 7KVA inverter power house appliance for 12 hours? also remember my desire is to have lithum batteries. so how willi know if that is been sokd to me is 7kva? is there a device i can use to confirm that all the batteries are 7kva?

princeabdul:
I.

i like the trouser. you still have them and how much?

Hello house, am trying to set up inverter in my house. So I want to know the exact Kva I would need. I want to power the following

12units of ceiling fan
20units of energy saving bulbs
11 units of 32 inch led TV
11 units of decorder

Then may be one thing or the other. Definitely not all the bulbs would be turned ON all the time, also not all the TVs would be turned on all the time, but warst case senerio, all the above, would be turned ON at the same time, and if they are all turned ON, I want to to be powered for maximum of 12 hours.

I want to contact someone to help me make inverter, but I want the lithum better not the deep cycle. So how many kva do I need to have ? I need advice pls.

hello i need to buy a bouncy castle.

While she nor go cry when she nor get work.

OP I hope you have the time to read my message, but I support you 100 percent. You see, most men here never marry, so them go just dey mistalk. Even me when dey write so, I experience the same thing during my first year in marriage, most of the time na beating she collect or slap, but to be sincere my wife won the battle because I had this mentality of I nor won destroy my marriage. The first five years is the time you have to stamp your authority in your house, if you pussy out, you would have yourself to blame. My wife mama self know say I be semi agbero, so I be nor go area. One day my wife misbehave and the mama support her, that time my wife's mum was with us, I threw there both load outside and I locked my door, everybody come dey beg. Even if my brother offend or do the wrong thing for my house, if I choose not to take action, make my wife leave am like that, na my family not hers. Since that day, all of them know say I be semi agbero. Stamp your authority, run your home the way you like it, REMEMBER IF YOU A STUPID GUY, SHE NOR GO MARRY YOU, SHE GO GO MARRY PERSON WHEN GET MONEY, So how you go work make money and another person go come dey give you LAMP for your house. OP be strong.

Dear men let me tell you something, don't like your woman stamp her authority in the house when you are not okay with it. Meself I get my own ohh, am telling you the fact, like now, my mama nor fit carry my children out without my wife agreeing, me, myself na SIMP TOO OHH, but sometimes as a man you go dey swallow the issues till the day the cup full.

This is actually what the OP is complaining about, if the op nor stamp him authority the wife go mess am up, now look at it from this angle, the wifes mum can come to the OP's house, but his mum can't? The wifes mum can eat as she likes but the OPs mum can't. See if OP was not well trained, the wife go marry am? A wife wud not want her husband to be close to his extended family, but she wud be very very close to hers.

My brother stays with me now, he wud be moving out soon, but as he still dey my brother dey chop like LION, if fact my brother chop pass LION, my wife dey use style complan, I nor listen, shey be na my money, leave am.

OP nor let woman make you distance yourself from your mama. The Koko is know how to put boundaries between both of them. Any woman when nor ready for marriage, even if she done born, it's better you guys path ways. I have told my wife severally, this marriage is not by force, if you trouble me, I would walk out. No matter what, my wife can't SEPERATE me from my extended family.

NOBODY won go ikorodu, and i get like 10 self contain for there.

i was told i can connect car exhaust which would reduce the noise. In term of heat, the gen would be placed a little bit far from th epoint of usage.

Pls i need Advice, i need a generator that can power 15units of 1Hp Ac. I need a generator that would cost me less money, also the generator has to consume less Diesel. because of these criteria, i am considering buying this lister generator. I plan to buy the new version of the lister generator, because i heard even the new version can be powered by a pregnant woman. i know lots of people in the house are familiar with the Generator, so i want to ask, is the generator strong enough? also how is the diesel consumption like? pls i need advice...


LALASTICALALA pls pls help push this to front page so i can get expects advice

Na Simps full everywhere now. Me I dey for my family Wella. The ony people when dey chop my money more, na my wife and children. My wife family, them go try to collect money from me, I just bought a car for my younger bro last month make him take dey do Bolt, the car na more than 2.5M, but my wife sister ask for help, na beg beg my wife beg me, na bank me and her dey so as I dey type, the sister dey beg for 50k, I dey send am now but the money done go Sha because refund is not coming back. My wife self they tell me say her sister say I go wicked well well ohh, that won call me last week say her phone screen break make I help am fix am, I confirm the price the screen and workmanship na 13500, I tell her say I nor get, she beg me for two days before I answer her. The truth is nor be say me self know get my own simpism too ohh, eg my mama and wife na cat and dog, confirm cat and dog, so watin I do be say mama stay your own for another place my wife stay with me for my house, but I dey settle my mama monthly to take chop. My brother dey my house now, the guy dey chop my food ehh, my wife done bring am come my table say my brother dey finish all the good when dey house ohh, truly the guy dey chop like lion, but na my brother, when me and him dey drink garri, my wife nor dey there, so anytime she talk am, I go say I done hear.
As a man your extended first before your wife family because your wife would not choose your extended family over hers, the only person your wife would choose over her entended family is her husband.

Me I done master the game well well because I marry inside family house where my younger sister and my mama dey, the funny thing was my younger sister self senior my wife, so them trouble her Wella, finding myself in this situation made me smart in terms of dealing with my wife, her family and my extended family.

i just paid 9k for my gas as am typing... But boss e go better. Just make sure you dont give your self wahala to the point your BP would start rising. My neighbor came home around 11.pm and by 1am she had died, she was forming from her mouth and ears, she even defecate on her body, in less than 30 mins of the pain or na sickness, she died. but bro remember a living Dog is better than a dead Lion. i totally understand your pain.. the country hard ohh. but e go better, go back to your wife and just let her understand say, a simple BABY THIS MONEY NOR REACH OH AND TALKING TO YOU IN A RESPECTABLE WAY WOULD HAVE SOLVED A LOT OF ISSUES. But last last na your wife. It is well.

RealKellyLove:
You will need Escorts, as customers may want to patronize them from you. .

I dont understand this part of your statement.

Please kind you show me the picture of partybox 1000? pls send me the pics, am interested.

i even forgot i created this thread. the ministry is moving forward. I believe the Guest House would commence next year. As someone rightly said, i should take note of the weakness of my competitors, So i want to install AC in all rooms, and i plan to use a spring bed of 5feet by 6.5feet bed, i want a situation where by after the WAR both parties can sleep or rest comfortably. As suggested, i would do a wood bed for the mattress. also am lucky because the house that am using for the Guest house is situated in such a way that, the house is sitting in between three different streets, and my house is closing all three streets, in other words, you can come into the hotel from three different streets. Pls i would like to have further ideas on what and what i would plan for, before the hotel commence.

Regards.

when i read comments from guys, i just laugh.. We have lots of baby mind men this days. i would give certain examples.

First, its a poverty mentality that, my sister would want to cook in my house, when she is living with me and my wife would want her to take permission. Guys stop behaving like pussy, stop allowing pussy becloud your judgement. guy work hard, and provide for your home, then nobody would query your instruction. If am responsible for the providing food for my family, if my sister and mama like make them dey chop 4 times daily, e nor concern my wife. its my family, they where there for me before i married her. because i marry her doesnot men i would detach myself from my extended family. Give your wife 150k or more for food stuff, also give her money daily for running the house. Guys remember before you marry the woman, your sister was there with you. If my sister cooks more than she can eat, there by wasting food, then i have a problem with her, but say my sister go cook Okro, once in a blue moon, and my wife want para, men i nor go allow am. Its mine money, mind you, this things happens in my house, My wife go say, so so person done chop the food finish, i go say i done hear and give her money for another one. Recently by younger brother started living with me, last week there was only Egusi soup to eat and the soup could serve only two people, so my wife served me and herself only and told me, soup done finish ohh nothing when your brother go eat, i told her to half my soup so my brother could share, when she noticed i wanted by brother to eat the egusi soup, she decided to give my brother her own soup and made something else for herself. some other guys would just eat there own food and not care for his younger brother.

In Marriage, once your wife throw you lamba, if you know sharp, she go put you for her armpit. when i go to work, her family members comes to take food stuff, me i dont have family members that comes for food stuff, but if my brother pass one door to another, she go say the guy dey bang door, he won wake her pikin, but if her family bang door, nor case. i have mastered this game to some extent.

OP. There is nothing wrong when you cook in your brothers kitchen. The only problem is, if your brother nor get money and you dey short there ration. If it where your brothers wife family, would she feel bad? You see poverty has really dealth with us that it makes us think upside down.

Kaynnedy:
Good afternoon House.

Someone told my sister that there was a connection for a sales rep. Job in UAE, since she's yet to get a job after her NYSC, (you know how tough Nigeria is now. But it will require her to pay some money for her visa, flight ticket and other necessary documents, but my sister told her that she currently don't have money to process any international papers.

After much discussion this lady told my sister not to worry that all documentations including flight ticket will be paid for her but on a commission fee when she arrived her destination and upon resuming work in UAE, a percentage of her salary will be remitted to them until she pays up the debt incurred.

This was two months ago precisely August. Now fast forward to yesterday 3rd November 2021, I got a WhatsApp message from my sister telling me that she was being forced into prostitution upon arriving and not the sales job as was agreed.

I told her to find a way to come back to Nigeria since she has a return ticket that will expire in 4 days time valid till 8th November 2021.

Now the issue is:
1. Her Boss, as she called her earlier took her passport upon arrival in the pretense that she may misplace it or it may get stolen.

2. Her boss insisted on her paying all the debt incurred in processing her peppers which is 125% extra on what she spent in bringing her to Dubai, which amounts to N3.5 million Naira.

Please is there a way she can return back without her international passport since she went there legally and her return ticket is still valid.

Please we need help as during this altercation since yesterday, I cannot communicate with her as her Boss has seized her phone. It's now a matter of life and death.

The truth is your sister just go school for nothing. The the problems with ladies, most ladies, they are not just smart, its only how to swindle a guy to buy them cloths, recharge cards and rubbish na there them dey sharp. How on earth would her international passport be collected from her? shey she know know say once them collect her international passport, automatically she becomes a slave? Now you self is behaving like your sister, asking if there is a way of her coming back to Nigeria without international passport. Am just angry at you and your sister? i repeat your international passport is your LIFE. If anything happens to your international passport while on transit for example na that day you go know say JESU NI OBA. your sister has been played. them go Bleep her she nor get choice because she would not have the financial capacity to fight those guys, and if she over stays her visa, na another money be that one. Pls when girls go smart, them nor go smart... Anybody bring you or taking you abroad, dont release your passport to them, hold your passport, if possible before you reach there, get a neutral person that can hold your passport for you, since you might be staying or leaving with the people that sponsored your trip. YOU GUYS HAVE BEEN PLAYED.