₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Do you realize that loneliness is one of the major reasons why Nigerian men, for example, commit adultery, and are never satisfied even at that? Marriage does not cure loneliness... never able to do that.

pls don't generalize,all Nigerian men are not the same,you see loneliness from your own perspective but my best friends and companions I will trust with my life is my grown children,the loyalty and tie is unmatchable,marriage is not by force but a personal decision when you feel you are ready for the responsibility and for men that are planning to get baby Mama's pls aviod the Southeast because if you are not traditionally or legally married to a woman any children that comes from that relationship is not yours,they belong to the woman's family because the two of you are still doing boyfriend and girlfriend.

Ensa777:
Been long I saw mudhouses.
What's up with Kogi state?

maybe you are in abroad or urban centers not to see mud houses ,it is common all over Nigerian villages especially in the north ,southwest and middle belt,

Soulsymbol99:
Surprisingly people are still buying oooo even SUVs

even when brand new Peugeot car is #5000 naira but many people can't even afford Vespa talk more of the car,by God's grace and with good health my hustling point next year is to upgrade to an SUV,for my farm business and bush movements

EyeCumInPiss:
In this country, I only applaud Results, and not Initiatives.

we will wait for results until hell frezzes,when an accountant tax man is in charge of an engineering initiative,results indeed

PJwise:
I have done that already. I have this scanner which I'm using to diagnose my car. The codes use to be, oxygen sensor bank 1, but I've replaced the two catalyst and service the sensors. That problem is gone. But the code remaining and refused to go after replacing the part is:
Idle air control valve. Read my initial post.
The thermostat has been removed and the code is there too but my mechanic said removal of thermostat can not make car to consume fuel

don't be surprised that thermostat maybe the culprits,it is there for a reason,to warm the engine faster and maintain a good working temperature that reduced
S fuel consumption,cut and join mechanics and rewires.mad people

Deew22:
Hi everyone.
I drive a benz c230 2006.
Whenever I drive, I get an MPG of 18 to 19MPG.
Three days ago, I gave my friend the car and I sat on the front passenger seat while he drove us. When we checked the MPG on the dashboard, I was surprised to see 27MPG. So I'm curious, I know it'd be the driving pattern. He is a better driver than I am. I have called on him to come to my place to teach me how he's driving.

I want to know how you drive to save fuel. I need to start saving fuel while I drive.

keep a light feet on the accerlator no matter the temptation from the engine,I watched an episode of top gear were similar fuel was put in a Toyota Corolla and a BMW v6 salon and they were raced around a circuit,as the Corolla driver is trying to catch the BMW by using all power,the fuel finished first in the corolla,while stamping down the throttle to match the BMW effortless power the 4 cylinder Corolla was less fuel efficient than a 6 cylinder bmw

kingreign:
Buffing alone won't bring out this level of finish.

that level of quality comes from the body shop and quality of paint,I have seen such level of finish in a workshop and the painter told me that it took 3 total body sprays then sprayed with finisher,them sanded down and resprayed again with last paint and fhinisher,this took almost 8 can s of paint and only God knows how many cans of thinners,hardners and finishers it gulped,now just the cost of original materials to get that level of finish may well exceed #300k

adesegun121:
Who can explain what happened to this tyre??

We need to learn



lalasticlala, Mynd44

it was driven when flat and the tyre walls collapsed,it was repaired and pumped and the air inflated the outer layer that still holds air but it's thin like ballon

TRADELYN:
I have used different types in Abuja, but not impressed.
I presently make use of my perfume along with a toilet soap.

Which is your favourite and why?

abro,cherry organic,in small tin like the California scent

BIZNess123:


This boy is supposed to be given to the mob for jungle justice...

jungle Justice is a merciful death compared to what is waiting for him in the Nigerian prison system as a confirmed murderer,he will cry for death but death will not come,only hunger,kwarikwata,bedbugs,lice,fleas,scabies will come to eat him alive,it is better to die once than to die a thousand deaths in prison yard

ConfidentialDoc:
Yes this makes a lot of sense.

Thanks

is it in Nigeria now that it makes sense to take something that will make me eat nonstop,hmmm,that is a bad idea with rice at #250 naira a cup

Chibrownz:
1. Unrealistic Expectations

Unrealistic expectations about marriage can set the stage for disappointment. Romanticized notions of “happily ever after” can lead to disillusionment when couples confront the reality of everyday life together.

2. Financial Conflicts

Money-related conflicts are a leading cause of marital distress. Differing financial priorities, spending habits, and the stress of managing finances can escalate into significant issues.

3. Infidelity

Infidelity, whether emotional or physical, can devastate a marriage. The betrayal of trust, the emotional toll it takes, and the potential long-lasting effects make infidelity a significant factor in the failure of many marriages.

Number 4 will surprise you

Read more here 👇https://africalevel.com/reasons-why-most-marriages-end-in-failure/

I think the sum of all these you mentioned is the internet,it opened a Pandora's box called social media were a village girl in ogbomosho can show live videos of her pvssy to a Randy man in Bangalore India

Aimere:
A neighbor in the village introduced his niece to my partner saying they are brother and sister based on same village. She came over to charge her phone and took his number, it's been three days and she keeps calling and coming everyday but doesn't stay, only to plug in her phone. So, she came this time and asked if he has a visitor, my man said yes, that his girlfriend is around, why? She then went ahead to say she's lonely and can't stay in the house alone due to boredom that the uncle travelled this morning. My man came in and told me, I was like saying "lonely" is weird for someone she doesn't know, but it's all cool. So we concluded to just send her movies so she would watch since we had a series to watch. She came and I went to the living room to spend a few minutes with her, cos I and my boyfriend had a movie to watch. Lo and behold, my boyfriend left the room when she came, went to the living room and was discussing with her for almost 2 hours, forgetting the movie, after an hour though, he came and asked me if he should get me my phone for company, got me angry. In all, he came in later and asked we watched the movie, after an episode. I told him I didn't like how much time he spent there and how he was encouraging her disrespect for my presence. He only said sorry, was only getting to know her. And then he stopped talking to me, not long the girl said she was leaving. My boyfriend didn't talk to me for hours, I was cooking at night and she called him saying she needs to charge, meanwhile there was no light. My boyfriend went out of the house to go get her without letting me know, she returned with him, he gave her power bank and they continued their discussion again until 9pm. I was hurt, when she left, I queried him again and his reply was "she did nothing to you, you are only giving attitude". It even got to the point he slapped me, what can you guys make of this? Thank you.

your BF want to fvck her but no opportunity,he may have already fvck her and you are asking what we make of this,when a girl says she is lonely it means she is ready to knack,simple and short.

Roboto11:
Sharap.

Our leaders are just like the followers.

They aren't all clueless but most are.

If the citizens don't find a way to produce products for local consumption or export, there's only so much the leaders can do, especially overnight.

Why people think there's a magic wand somewhere is baffling.

let's be realistic here,roughly 50% of Nigeria imports that needs dollars are consumed by refined oil products and plastics,if we have functional refineries not only will we slash the dollar needs for these two products but also another by product of oil refining which is fertilizer,people like me thinks that if the government cannot properly maintain our refineries which is now a matter of national security they don't have any business governing,bad and visionless leadership is the problem with Nigeria not the masses,and I doubt if any SME manager or factory manager in Nigeria today will make such comment you made

SoNature:
Honestly, I still don't understand why SW leaders have kept quiet about restructuring now their son is the president.

Even Tinubu was advocating true federalism but has kept mute today. What sort of hypocritical country is this?

you have to understand that the north will never support a president that will disturb the current status quo,his silence shows he has already sacrificed his ambition for federalism for the north to support him for president, nothing will ever come out of that

netpro:
The 2023 Presidential Election really exposed Peter Obi. Now everyone knows the following facts about him:

1. He was just an average Governor, despite the economic potential, capacity and opportunity of a State like Anambra. Those who lived through it had a lot to say. Health workers strike, No LG elections, diverting Local Government funds, etc.

2. He is fraudulent like most Nigerian politicians. Diverting State funds into his private businesses, bring in his account officer to succeed him, hiding state money in family and proxies offshore, etc.

3. He is a religious fanatic. Dividing the nation across religious lines. Advocating religious war. Dividing an ethic group religiously - I am sure you have heard the term YorubaMuslim? It is deliberate. Dividing Christians in Anambra in Catholics, Anglicans and Others.

4. A real life 2Face. Him no dey give Shishi, so is the claim but buy LP presidential ticket overnight. Don't tell me they gave it to him freewill donation.

5. Beyond the smile, he is bitter and hateful. Up till now despite the highest court in the land ruling, Peter Obi is yet to congratulate the Winner.

There are many more. An Igboman will be President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, but definitely not Peter Obi.

the man challenged anybody or security officials on national television that has information were he took #1naira from anambra state that he will stop campaign and step down,you did not bring evidence,not efcc,icpc nafdac or ndlea,this man led a state for 8 yrs and did not owe salary pension,gratiiuty,contractor or supplier,he left #75 billion naira cash for the incoming government and on the day of handover all the three banks he has the money was there to present the account details for verification by anambra people,this man did what is truly impossible for governor's to do now,for you to criticize such man and bend the truth shows you a mischievous fellow

PinkPill:
Yes, women are the problem of Nigeria and the world at Large. They are responsible for:

Cyber fraud
Armed robbery
Kidnapping
Ritual killings
Rape
Pedophilia
Drug trafficking
Human trafficking
Bokoharam
Bandits
Cattle Rustling
Herdsmen
Cultism
Bad Governance
Etc
Etc

this is why gender equality is a farce and a charade,men are risk takers and can never be equal with a woman,but I cannot deny the fact that God in his infinite wisdom created women with some special purpose in mind because there are some breasts you will see you will agree with me that it is not created only for babies to suck.

Quality20:
I'm still wondering and can't understand this at all as a typical northerner. Do they need to gather so much sexual experience with various men before marriage to the lucky man or is it money they are gathering? Or is a lady with much sexual experience and body counts much preferred for marriage?

from 15-17 yrs down they stay in primary and secondary school,from 17-24yrs they stay in University or learn a trade or handwork,from 25yrs up she is working and busy,southern women are not doll baby that men we use to play at 15-16 yrs and call the charade marriage,keep on marrying young girls that are suppose to be in secondary schools studying

STEWpid:
Chai..





The value placed on getting human head in that area is alarming!


Meanwhile, they are also in the business of selling tongues!



I pray that she, her "clit", and the whole cunt area is safe.


Amin.

infact the issue of missing persons in that region is almost caused by ritualists that butcher human beings like Christmas goat,I don't know how long such atrocities will continue to go on and the Yoruba elites keeps quiet,we have a proverb in igboland which says if an atrocity is allowed to linger and continue it will become normal custom,this is what is happening in yoribaland

ChildOfDoom:
I agree. I will be needing more than one therapist

Imagine trekking to the office after receiving pay not long ago

I have to find a way to get rid of this compulsion and exuberance when I embark on anything

It only helps me at the office as colleagues praise my spending extra hours and energy on the job

Had stomach upset this morning (as always) as a result of my voraciousness (love for eating anything I see) and overdosing on pepsi. I take up to 8 tablets of diaflush every now and then to stop diarrhoea. I just hope I have not damaged any internal organs (as I encounter pains at the right side of my lower abdomen during sex romps)

Just like in the movie, 'Sex Addict', I wish there was a physical meet-up group of addicts, helping each other to change, by sharing their daily progress. My life of solitude is not helping matters

why are you worried about what you are powerless to change,let the tide of Life carry you to any destination you like,no need fighting what is more than your power,increase your indulgence and addictions ,maybe the solution can come from the problem itself.

Tonero5200:
You don't need to argue. Just admit you didn't read the post very well and understand the message I was trying to pass.

We are not suffering okay?
I am doing well for myself same with my older siblings.

what you must understand is that in most African societies including the igbos of the southeast,old age and experience is always appreciated and respected,despite that your father drinks a lot but he knows history and traditions that's why people still seek his advice about history and counsel,they will no longer come because he is dead and you the children cannot give such service,they will turn their attention to the next elder avalible that has such ability

Karmar03:
you are mad

I don't have anything against a man that likes dick in his anus,but for a man to marry another man legally,now that is another issue,so that means a man can legally marry anything he fancies from plastic dolls to chimpanzees

Tonero5200:
I don't know why I feel bad, but I do feel bad..I am human. She refused to give birth out of wedlock unless I go see her parents and do the necessary which is very okay by me, because I know I am not yet ready and where she's from I heard just the traditional rite alone can start a building foundation to lintel level...
we have tried breaking up because of this but one way or the other she still find her way back to me..My withdrawal game is good if not the count would have been more than that, but no matter how pro you are they must be some accidental discharge unknowingly most times.
I have advised her from the bottom of my heart because of the love we share that what she's doing it's not good and might affect her in the future with her family which might be me or some other guy. The thought of this is killing me and I am ready to call it off by the end of this month with no looking back.

don't leave that girl for another unsuspecting man to marry,if necessary marry her by hire purchase

Proudlyomonna:
I am still trying to understand how anyone can be worse than bubu

They should shut up and calm down.

Ordinary SHEGE they are wailing

My criminal president, when are We unleashing BANZIA MODE

May the strongest survive.

it is no longer a laughing matter,our limits of endurance will be tested to the extreme end of our capabilities,everybody must buckle up because I see more darker days aheaf

ednut1:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CrYBRcgLCNM/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
she is not your wife, sister or relative. Why are you sponsoring her tertiary education So many useless men out there.

you still do not understand the power of women,nature made them special to please men and it is left for a man to decide how much value he can place on a pvssy and that is his concern not mine,it is not for you to criticize or judge,some men can feel that a pvssy is worth a house,car or scholarship,why not?it is their priority not mine,I only spend what I can afford to lose on a woman.

Acidosis:
You have not answered his question.

the answer is human needs and necessity,people will need essentials no matter the cost,the high cost will just make consumers rewrite their scale of preference.but looking at that charts shows the failure of government,oil imports and plastics make up almost 50% of total imports,fixing our refineries will slash this percentage and even create more materials for the fertilizer industry also,it is a shame that the government cannot declear a state of emergency to repair those refineries,infact it is a matter of national security and must be in place before removing subsidy,Nigeria is led by blind fools