₦airaland Forum

Chijeep:
It all happened like this...
I(a single man) and a married woman with 4kids who we both work in the same restaurant fell in love with each other, though we never had s3x but we use to have hot romance because I don't think I can bear sleeping with another man's wife.
These hidden relationship have been going on since 2 months now.
Like a joke, she asked me that will I marry her if she's single and I told her that yes because she's a spec both physically and otherwise.
BUT NOW I'M AFRAID OF WHAT'S COOKING NOW BECAUSE THIS SAME WOMAN HAVE TOLD HER HUSBAND THAT SHE WANT OUT OF THE MARRIAGE JUST FEW DAYS AGO AND THIS WEEK SHE HAVE INFORMED HER PARENTS OF HER INTENTION OF GETTING OUT OF THE MARRIAGE THOUGH HER PARENTS ARE NOT IN SUPPORT OF IT.

THOUGH I TRIED CLEARING MY MIND BY ASKING HER WHY WILL SHE LEAVE HER HUSBAND AND HER 4 KIDS AND SHE SAID THAT SHE NEVER LOVED HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE AND IT WAS HER MOM'S IDEA TO ACCEPT THE MAN'S PROPOSAL BECAUSE SHE WAS JUST 19 YEARS OF AGE WHILE THE MAN IS WAY MORE OLDER, AND TO CROWN IT UP, SHE SAID HER HUBBY ISN'T GOOD IN BED THAT HE PRACTICE HIS CHRISTIAN WAYS OF HAVING SEX SO MUCH THAT EVEN THE LITTLE SHE'S ENJOYING IN THE S3X OF A THING THAT SHE'S THE ONE TAKING IT UP ON HIM.

PLEASE HOW DO I GO ABOUT IN THIS KIND OF ISSUE, THOUGH I LOVE THIS WOMAN BUT I DON'T WANT TO HAVE A HAND IN THEIR SEPARATION.

you have your hands and both feet in their separation,you can service a woman's pvssy but to lure her out of marriage is a big NO,that is the height of indiscipline and rascality

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
person wey her papa no get bicycle

ti seems these women has not yet see were the wind of change is blowing to,,that a time may soon reach even poor men will refuse to marry them,this generations men are no longer impressed with martiage

Lungdick:
Omoor!

the best option for the woman is just pack his load and run away before the soldier reaches the nearest ak47

kestolove95:
But una dey give una wife to guess na..

there will always be an atom of truth in such ,maybe it happens far back but I doubt if such may be happening again,but to be sincere I have lived in gboko for 2-3 years and whatever rumour I hear about tiv people and pvssy I don't doubt it,they are the undisputed heavyweight champion of fvckery in Nigeria,no contest.mind you I am from imo state but this people pass us

Anny69:
Interesting.

I stopped reading when he alluded that so called aliens built the pyramids and other ancient magnificent structures,this is an insult to the ancient engineers and architects that build those structures,due to technology and it's convinence mankind has devolved most of our natural ability that what was common work in the ancient times are now mind boggling to us,you may even think the pyramids is a feat of engineering until you checkout the kallissa temple complex in ellora, India,a temple carved from a granite hill from top to bottom,and the king that built it is well documented in ancient scripts not aliens.

omolola100:
My mother advice me never to look for a rich man who is well do whenever i'm set to get married.
she said i should marry a man that we will both start our life from the foundation, according to my mum, she said it is better to suffer with man to acquire wealth, than to go for a ready made soup.

Looking at the way things are going now, do you think a woman will now stoop so low and marry a poor man that is trying to make ends meet? Although, money is not love, but why would a parent wish her daughter to marry a poor man, i am begining to see my mum as a bad mother who does'nt wish me well.
Is it advisable i follow my mothers advice? I should stay in SURULERE instead of OLORUNSOGO.

it may even be possible to look for poor man to marry you will not see,the men of this generation are not priotizing marriage nowadays,so a time will come when it will be perfectly normal to see unmarried woman everywhere

JASONjnr:
If what they're doing is right, why hiding your faces?


And I wonder how Bakasi and other non-igbo speaking region of the Southern Nigeria became a Biafra merged state?


If these regions supported Biafra way back, that doesn't mean that the support will still stand.

do you think an idea that took 3 million lives could just be forgotten,with the level of poverty,frustration and hunger in the land? poverty and hunger is a critical matter of national security

Ever8090:
You are an idiot to compare criminals to innocent girl who did nothing to some backward thinking clowns headed by one useless old idiot called Sheikh Gumi....not in support of jungle justice but you appeared a clown when you tried to put such two different scenarios in same pot...

I support jungle Justice because I have suffered multiple times In the hands of this criminals that I don't care if they are roasted or shot,if you push am igboman against the wall he will fight back and not climb the wall,these thugs are a problem In onitsha, anything you buy they will collect tax from you the people are fighting back, armed robbery in the southeast and south south comes with a deadly consequence, you are warned

Wujio:
It will work

for a while but will break down under high extreme temperatures,that oil does not have the viscosity to be used in an Internal combustion engine,that engine is gone

Cutedey:
Jungle justice is never the way to handle issues!

the traders have been pushed to their limits by this boys and their brazen daylight robberies , remember if you come between an igboman and his money you are playing a game of high stakes of deadly consequences

okunwaye:
What is love🤔

i don't enjoy companionship and wish to be alone at all time.

i won't turn into a vegetable at old age so I will definitely be able to take care of myself

nobody knows what tomorrow can bring,it is best to be proactive and prepare for the worst, freedom of religious choice is still a fundamental human right and you have that choice,but most times the choices we make influence our lifestyle and behaviours,don't you think people maybe avoiding you due to your satanistic believe?most of your peers
or business opportunities may even be scared stiff of coming close to you,and I doubt if any company will employ who fills in Satan worship as a religion in his CV,even good women will sense the negative energy you have for them and also aviod you,you have already make your choice just make the best out of it

MrBrownJay1:
see pikin... lol! the BASTARDIZATION of the word "love"!

how I remember those days of no telephone or internet,if you want a girl you will physically approach her and talk her down to a standstill, adolescent age is probably the happiest phase of a man's life,with no cares,worries or responsibility,

Uptheante:
If I were you, I won't pay for her hair, neither will I give her any transport after seeing the other dude flirting with her & she doesn't seem to discourage him because she obviously likes him.
I'll completely ignore them & go my way, let the guy take care of her bills.
You can say I'm petty or childish or jealous, I don't care.
I'll find other girls to catch fun with

you sound even more Petty and childish than the op,what if the guy is a family friend,former classmate,old friend,past neghibour,former church member,the ifs is endless,for the op to follow a woman to the salon of all places shows the character of the man and for him to jump to a hasty conclusion shows an insecure man,

CasNova:
When $£x is consensual, it is a mutual thing.

The two of them enjoy the act.

The gal enjoys it as much as the guy.

The gal may even experience multiple orgasms in one act.

Why then must the guy pay for it?

Why must $£x be commercialized?

a girl will experience multiple orgasm when she is with a man that cares for her,that is how nature meant it to be,if you cannot care and protect her she will not be excited about you ,talk more of having orgasm

richeeyo:
That's why me no dey follow this generation small girl dey play oo, very dangerous set
They would actually make advance towards u

she maybe 14 yrs but she is already knacking smart and walex,joke with Dem at your peril

bobobenz:
NIGERIANS WHAT DO YOU THINK?

SHOULD THE PRESIDENCY BE SPENDING THAT SORT OF MONEY ON A YATCH

what do you want me to think?we were given a choice during the last election and the difference could not be more clearer between me Peter obi and Mr tinubu but due to corruption and ethnic bias the majority vote for BAT,this news and others to come is the result of the decisions we made on election day,anybody that voted for BAT will need to ask himself a critical question,did I made a wrong decision?

Karleb:
You don't need to lay a finger on her but rather, insult her back.

When she calls you a fool, call her an idiot.


Omo! How una dey cope for that kind life?

a time may reach when the honour of been a man is at stake and you are pushed against the wall,that is when a good resounding slap is required,the day my wife seized my car keys that I will not go anywhere,a car I bought with my money,even her father in the village don't have a car,I just have to give her a hot slap and the car keys appeared

FarSide:
The fear shaa. I just can't stand it. For the past two weeks I've been trying to muster courage for this but no way.
I wanted to do it last week Wednesday but when I got close to the hospital, I lost every courage in me, I had to change direction, entered a cool joint, took some bottles of beer and headed home.
I just wish someone can drag me there but I can't confide in anyone Incase if it turns out positive

don't be afraid,such happened to me when i got married and the ante natal clinic requested for a hiv test,my brother come see HBP,that your 12 girls in 4 years is what I can knack in 3 months when I was a bachelor,I cannot believe it can be possible that I can be negative but I summoned the courage and not only am I free from hiv and other STDs but I was actually very healthy,my conclusion is that hiv don't infect like it is hyped because if it is there is no reason I will still be alive today.

CloudTrees:
Please don't judge my post based on any prejudice. I see people with expensive and beautiful mobile devices all the time. Phones with good functionalities and sleek designs.
Then I run online and search for the brands only to see 200k, 300k 450k, 750 and infact over 1 million naira.

I must say I am glad people can afford to buy such phones. It leaves me in awe too because I would like to use such phones with functionalities. Please don't tell me that "vanity upon vanity nonsense".

But one thing that beats me is how people are able to raise money to buy those types of phones. I mean look at iPhones 13 and 14. Also look at the Samsung fold. People get money o.

How do people raise money to afford these phone

you are still talking about phones now about cars and houses that are even more expensive

Babangidapikin:
You are not protecting the economy ... Production low, cost of production high , no credit facilities, no grant for the unemployed to let them keep searching..just continue to listen to world bank advice on how to improvised your citizens more...

correct truth,why looking for thieves and looters to return their loot ,whenl the major reason for the FX crisis is facing you, refined petroleum products takes roughly 40% of the dollars needed for importation and plastics takes another 3-4% and fertilizer may take another 2-3%<between this three products they are taking almost 50% of all dollar demand for importation,the question we will then ask ourselves is why is it so difficult for the government to repair our refineries and have plastics and fertilizer feedstocks as byproducts,

LeoDeKing:
By the special grace of God, Nigeria will be back on her feet. Yes, the problem of Nigeria must be addressed from the root, not mere cosmetic solution which can't stand the test of time. The initial challenge is normal, especially if the problem is to be truly addressed and it takes a man with strong balls to do that.

And for all the enemies of the state waiting in the wings to see my country go down, you will all cry blood, even more blood than the ones shed when your incompetent candidates were rejected at various level of the electoral pprocess.

Wicked souls can start praying, fasting, offering sacrifices and keeping night vigils so Nigeria will go down, all your prayers will be thrown back to you barbarians.

God bless President Bola Ahmed Tinubu, GCFR.
God bless Nigeria and patriotic Nigerians.
God bless the 5 geopolitical zones of Nigeria.
May the worst calamity befall all the enemies of Nigeria.

this is a very hilarious post,it shows that the current government don't have any plan before they removed fuel subsidy and floated the naira,if negotiating and making deals with looters is the plan they have to stabilize the Nigerian economy, then I am afraid of our future.
Moreover blaming the igbos for the currents problems shows the type of person you are,that cannot take responsibility of his failures, is it not the Yoruba people that are now in charge of nigeria,whatever maybe the case all of us will feel the impact of a visionless government, whether you are Yoruba,Igbo hausa,ijaw,tiv ,Jew or gentile.

MS247:
It's an open market.. I can if I have the capital

But Bovas, AA, Rano even Ifeanyo Uba and Obat will ship in PMS and store it for less

I doubt if these companies you mentioned are still even importing,it will be very difficult to compete with NNPC in the same market,it will be like playing against a team that has the referee as striker, moreover this whole problem is caused simply because we cannot maintain and manage our refineries

iwaeda:
LASG need to wake up, Lagos roads are so deplorable, jokes apart.

whenever I visit Lagos I simply admire the tenacity and guts of the citizens,the stress and pressure has toughened these people that they can live even in hell fire with Satan as neghibour and still thrive

Creamcrest:
7. As a guy avoid Nigerian girls.

if we aviod them what do we fvck instead? it may be easier for you guys were you are but for us in imo state,the girls are too beautiful that avoiding them might be a sin itself.

Bintabisiriyu2:
It's only poverty that speaks like you, why not gift baba like 200k to buy a brand new mower, or take them out of the village so they won't have to battle with unwanted grass.
If i was the father and you come to help me cut the grass na to sound you hot slap for ignoring your responsibilities. Ewu

the poor guy just asked a simple question maybe for advice and many supposed wealthy folks here are turning it into a dick measuring contest full of pride and hubris,let the poor man breathe

skj1377:
What kind of poverty is this? When last did I see a cutlass talkless of touch it! Are you living in the village or a farm?

relax bro,not everybody has the grace to live in lekki or ikoyi,that you have not seen a Cutlass or grass before in your life do not make you a more better man than the farmer living in the village

Oluseyi001:
For mature minds only, no insult please.
Can you pass the night with a lady's without having anything or touching her?

quite recently I went to a project site in asaba with a female worker and we stayed 3 days on site without any touching body,infact one night she called her boyfriend and told him she needed fvck seriously,I ignored her,she than started watching adult clips on her phone with the volume turned up,I didn't even send her

Truvelisback:
Somehow, i have experience similar thing but i can't tell whether i time travelled or not or a kind of de'javu. When i was in Benin, i went to a woman's shop to buy bread. I was somehow broke to buy other things i needed. I gave the woman's daughter #500 all of a suddenly i fell into something like a trance. In the trance, we were a kind of argueing about "Change dey, change no dey" take ur money, dey go".(note:i wasn't sleeping, i was like in the Past, present and in the future at the same time). When i openned my eyes, this woman gave me the Bread and my money and told me that she had given me my change without me paying a dime. Whereas, she didn't give me, she only gave me her bread and my money, and the change i would have collected. I don't know how to explaining it. It was like, i went into the past, present and the future and we had confusion or misunderstanding abt what i wanted to buy. Although, i needed that same money to buy other things which i was somehow worried that it won't be enough, luckily before i experience that. It is a mystery. Op might be saying the truth but he may not know how to explain his experience. Nazgul.

what I know is that acute hunger and high fever malaria can cause daymares and hallucinations that are believable

mariahAngel:
Your courage is commendable.

If you could go back in time, knowing what you know now, what would you have done differently?

I don't see courage here,this is an interesting story of a woman that want to justify her actions when she was still young and fresh,the problem obviously started from a very strict upbringing that thought her that men and their dick are taboo that must be avioded at all cost,those men that was discarded must be thanking baba God now for the bullet they dodged,she is still 42 and the best thing she can do now is to get pregnant assuming she is not still a virgin and at least have one child to call his own or it maybe a very miserable and resentful old age for this courageous madam.

Tallesty1:
Looks suspicious really.

The authorities should carry out a thorough investigation.

it is definitely a homicide by just looking at the crime scene,talking about investigation let me tell you what the police will do,they will come and arrest any available young men in that area for #20-30k bailout,I remember a year my grand mother was kidnapped I went to the police station and I have to bring vulcunizer to repair the flat tyre of their patrol van,I bought fuel and paid for their food that morning before they followed me to imvestigate

Kobojunkie:
You dey read at all?

Do you realize that loneliness is one of the major reasons why Nigerian men, for example, commit adultery, and are never satisfied even at that? Marriage does not cure loneliness... never able to do that.

your definition of loneliness is limited and narrowed down to sexual intimacies that's why you highlighted adultery,a cheater will cheat whether you keep him company or not,at my age the companionship of my children is the best cure for loneliness than the soft body of a woman