₦airaland Forum

Quality20:
I know some women might claim that its a gold mine for them, but for the male folks I'm still at a lost over whats driving them and what the gain is in engaging in illicit unlawful sex with women/prostitutes? Actually, if anything men stand to lose their wealth,health reputation and even religiosity

if you are programmed to live forever then life will lose that spark and desire that keeps us going when we realize our mortality,if there is no women in our life's then life itself will be pointless,dull and without purpose,females are the opposite counter force to males to create a harmonious environment,nature created men with high levels of testosterone for a reason and created women with soft supple bodies,intricate curves and valleys for a purpose too,there are some breasts you will see and know that God cannot be mocked,he didn't create those lovely things for babies alone to suck,he is too wise

Moniya4Real:
Hi guys in the house? Pls, kindly give an objective response to the question below :
‘Should a guy take back a wife of 12 years that bore 2 kids after a strong allegation from family friends she cheated with a known person?’.
Thanks in anticipation for your candid responses.

yes of course but in my place in imo state she will do small cleansing ritual before she can cook for her husband,in my area cheating is rarely a case to chase a woman away because if you do which woman will you bring in,,Virgin Mary?

Jjhunt:
Never trust a lady that is all i have to say

how can you trust your fellow human being not too misbehave,it is naive and simple men that believe whatever women told them

Onyeigbo10000:
Hmmmmm, things dey happen, I fear who no fear women.








https://www.gistreel.com/bride-to-be-
relocates-abroad-after-fiance-deposited-n3m-in-her-account-for-their-wedding/

if this happened in the southeast it will be a classic case for the shrine arusi ogwuogwu and she and her family will vomit the money,dead or alive

Sharpsharp00123:
it still surprises me that an Igbo is calling another person coward

If dem born your papa well just go out tomorrow

it is laughable to call a people that held the might of the Nigerian military,Arab world and hunger at Bay for 30 months,a people of warrior spirit that faced down a man with guns and bombs with wooden clubs and matchetes,a people that fought against impossible odds for the ideas of freedom and the believe that every person is equal before God and man,there is no other person or ethnic group I will gladly trust my life in a battlefield than to stand shoulder to shoulder with my fellow igbomen and women,there is no better sacrifice to make than continuing to fight in the face of defeat,for all the civilians massacred,innocent children starved to death and our warriors that paid the supreme price that their children's children may have a better life we will not forget you.

walefresh3:
it is only ipob youths bringing shame to Nigeria all because of hate... At the long run tinubu will still be your president...

did ipob forge certificates?if you have first class in accountancy why fighting hard to hide your result,is it not something to be proud of,if you still naive to believe their is nothing wrong with the certificate then you are a fool,if you must come before equity have clean hands

tiswell:
...and the witch hunt continues

as usual since 1967,it is expected

Persephone1:
Mine is :

Mouth odour

Invisible bulge, I hate dots

Excessive display of material things.

Lack of respect and finesse.

Talking too much


I will add more later.

you missed the main point,if you are broke ,women can smell it on you

JohnnA1:
Peter Obi will NEVER be President!

I think your statement should be no igboman can be nigerias president even in the next 50 years,every sensible igboperson knows that,so we are not surprised,,it is really sad but that is the truth

FreeStuffsNG:
Awesome!! God bless Nigeria for ever! All the enemies of Nigeria will lose las las. They always lose. Check my signature for free stuffs!

you are funny,Nigeria has no external enemies, Nigeria enemies is us Nigerians ourselves,the level of corruption by civil servants,politicians and contractors is now a matter of national security,if you still think the igbos are the enemies of Nigeria you are wrong

Westchester:
Get yourself a female friend that gives you food and also gives you food if you know what I mean 🌚
You mustn’t be in a relationship with her

a woman that brought such sized chicken for a man has hidden agenda

englishmart:
Mature mind only

As a lady your boyfriend took u to his family house for the first time and u met her mother cooking, are you suppose to join her in the kitchen or u seat as a visitor and allow her to finish the cooking and serve u ?
Remember it's the first time meeting the family

it is not a necessity to join in the kitchen but tactically, diplomatically and as a boundary breaker it is advicable for a potential wife to be to join her mother in law to be in the kitchen,that is were the first ice is broken ,questions asked and trust earned,if I am in such situation and my wife to be do not automatically volunteer to help in the kitchen then I will be disappointed because she is not that smart enough

SultanOfPuna:
Guys I'm so confused and angry
I visited home since 12th this month
Everything seem normal and calm until today

I dey bored, I go download Tinder app
Sign in then begin dey swipe babes
I then change the search area to 1km, to search for babes very close to my location

Lo and behold
I just saw my sister's photo on TINDER!!!!!!!!!

omobirin alaanu yi fe pari mi

I feel like reporting her immediately but in the past she don cover up for me many times.
I no wan come look like snitch
But I don't know how to confront her

She dey always send me money well well
And I don't want a fall out with her
Omo I no know wetin I go do

The kind shame wey dey hold me right now
I can't even look her face the same way again
What the hell is a 21 yr old girl doing on tinder??

To make matters worse
HER TINDER ACCOUNT IS VERIFIED!!😭😭😭

a 21 yr old is an adult,liable to visit porn sites,smoke cigarettes,gamble ,vote or go to jail,whatever she decides to do with her life and especially her pvssy does not concern you

Curse777:




*and I so much dislike him because he's fair and I can't stand fair guys.

*they started having issues because she was the one bearing most of the financial burden in the house.

Summary of this long epistle

1: He first asked you out and you rejected, as a man he moved on to your sister and you resented him deeply

2: He is currently financially handicap and he irritates you, you hate poor men and poor men neither deserve marriage, or children

3: To you financial burden of a family is exclusive responsibility of a man


PS:

Dear Men, stay completely away from marriage if you are not financially bouyant as you are only rated for your financial strength by Women



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this is a very bad advice,when will a man be financially buoyant?will fate and destiny fold their hands and wait for you to be financially buoyant?how much do you think a man will have before he can say he is financially buoyant?the success of a marriage depends mostly on the character of the individuals involved,if you read the story carefully,the lady is not complaining that his sister's husband is poor,but he is lazy with no potentials and also zero proactive reasoning to better himself,a man sleeping in the morning when you didn't work night shift is a red flag,I personally got married in 2000 at 25yrs when I saw a partner and companion that I will spent my life with,I was not rich but hardworking which is what matters, currently now 4 of my children are in the university and I am expecting to be a grandfather by next year,if you want to be rich like dangote before getting married that is your choice but don't discourage other.

slivertongue:
power is also poisonous

very poisonous

confusedlady:
The only good terrorist is a dead one. The armed forces should step up total action to eradicate all vestiges of terrorism in the south east. All terrorists must be eradicated.

and you think using a noisy helicopter or jet fighter that you can hear from several kilometers away and take cover is your so called total action,I have a poultry farm in one of those affected communication in okigwe and I can tell you that the Nigerian military is so primitive and predictable that you can even hear their drones from kilometers away and hide yourself,some battles are simply not meant to be won,you cannot deafeat an invisible enemy that has the support of the common people in their backyard,they just have to look at what happened to America in Vietnam and Russia in Afghanistan to know that victory is impossible when you cannot see your enemies

Peacemaker5128:
Supreme Court should just pass death sentence on him period

what about your fellow kins that butcher and sell human being parts like Keke parts how many has been sentenced to death?ndigbo has seen the destination of Nigeria since 1967 and wanted to leave this sinking ship called Nigeria and 99.5% of ndigbo will vote if ever a referendum is held to flee from this purgatory called country,let the truth be told,this man said it as it was and many of his speeches are now turning to prophetic visions,despite the fact that I don't like his cranky approach to diplomacy but at least nothing can stop an idea that it's time has come

illicit:
So her uncles dey popo her?

😳

they might not necessarily be fvcking her,but the trauma of a mature man you trust sucking your little breasts,fingering you and forcing you to suck his huge gigantic dick maybe to much for a young adolescent girl to bear,moreover we elders know the truth that those mischievous uncle's did some nasty things to her ,that alone is not disputable

Ejioforrr:
A video of some single ladies praying for husbands, dressed in white wedding gowns has caused quite a stir online.

https://ikejabird.com/desperation-is-real-single-ladies-praying-for-husbands-in-wedding-gowns-spark-mixed-reactions/

the world is evolving and the stark sad reality facing us is the fact that not all women are going to get married,ithey are still in a state of denial but it is sinking in,for reasons I cannot fathom many eligible men are not interested in getting married,women has to accept the hard reality and try to give birth to one or two children before menopause as insurance policy,a lady that is 40yrs and still wearing wedding gown and praying for husband is in a fantasy world,she better select a good gene to give her Belle before it is too late

Ragnall:
In saner climes this guy would be locked up asap but he’s friends with apc so nothing will happen

Modified

To those nitwits in the quotes are you aware possession of weed is still a crime in Nigeria punishable by up to 12 years imprisonment

Along with the numerous videos of Marley smoking weed the DJ has exclusively accused him of giving him drugs

But I’m not surprised Apc has made this country a zoo where the only crime you can commit is to be poor

what do you mean locked up indefinite?because of what?smoking ganja,which snop dog does on American national television or killing mohbad,which there is no single evidence linking him to such,the law is not moved by emotions and sentiments but by facts and evidence

Malroux:
Release it if you are a child of God and wants to make heaven.

release what?in Nigeria today

illicit:
It happens all over the world

but why did they refuse to talk with ipob even when the courts has acquitted mnk they still held him,content to sacrifice life's of gallant officers and innocent civilians caught in the cross fire

confessionsad:
There is not a single woman on earth who has tasted sex that can ever fully abstain, so when you meet a girl who is not a virgin and she tells you "no sex before marriage", it's not because she has found christ or she has learnt any lesson from all her previous whoring around, it is simply one of four things:

1)She does not rate or like you enough to do with you what she has been doing with other men so she is giving you silly conditions to push you away.

2)She clearly sees you are a weak fool who is suffering from acute low self-esteem, very low self-confidence and non-existent self-worth. She knows you severely lack options and will settle for whatever silly standards she sets just so she can at least do you the favour of marrying your pitiful self and allowing you access to crumbs of her vagina.

3)She is seriously masturbating, be it with just her fingers or intimacy gadgets.

4)As she is making you wait till marriage, she is still getting fvcked by her exes, male bestie, male friends, colleagues, sneaky links and one night stands.

It is either one of these 4 options or all 4 of them. This rule applies to EVERY FEMALE ON EARTH and there are no exceptions. No female who has ever tasted sex can ever fully abstain so before you accept any silly "no sex till marriage" from any clown who is not even a virgin to begin with, call your parents and siblings first so they can remind you how much you are loved at home.

some girls are hardwired to like sex,many will be virgins at 9-10yrs but they are already pushing to be broken,they don't even need to taste sex,they already liked it from the womb

Jeon:
Nigerian Men and violence + aggression.





Nigerian Men and sex. They don't understand the word "NO", and can't handle rejection .

don't generalize,maybe you attract low value men with low self esteem,high value men don't need to rape women,infact it is women that force themselves on them,this I know,you don't even need to be calling them,they will be calling and begging to come and visit you,add value to yourself as a man

iLegendd:
What are the advantages of not falling in love with a woman/man in this 21st century with too many unfaithful creatures?

1. You live longer
2. You move on easily
3. You have more investments

List yours.

peace of mind is far more important than all the others,the drama of women is one of the reasons many men die early

Malroux:
Did you impregnate his wife, yes or no?

your question is irrelevant to the investigation,he did not use his dick to kill mohbad,and if the mohbad collected #2m and didn't perform that is bad,well ,every story has two sides to it,but this dude is innocent but he is guilty of impregnating mohbads wife,no need for dna test.

writetopoker2:
Someone please call 911
Tell them OP is in big trouble.
And it's piecing through his soul
I feel the op going mad and so mad

which 911?do you think we are in the western world were everything works?the Op is an adult if he likes pvssy and gambling who are you to say no,like 2pac used to say that suckers are been born everyday

madmohamed:
Abuja no be ebonyi

how can you come to work by 22 pm and say Abuja is not ebonyi?are you happy that these civil servants are not discipled and unptoductive?will the minister come to work by 9 30 and none of his workers are around?do you then expect him to clap for them ,I will never apologise to them

daygee12:
Let's close Ladipo Market first

closing the market because of refuse disposal is like throwing away the dirty bathwater with the baby inside,has it solved the waste problem?but the action itself will be translated by many as ethnic prejudice which is likely because I have not heard about the Lagos government close were northerners are selling cow and goats or are they not dirtier than ladipo?and for government to say they cannot collect waste disposal bill is laughable and a jest,from pictures seen there is no refuse bins avalible and it is dumped on the ground,if the waste managers cannot provide a refuse bins how can they provide a refuse truck and labour,if it is difficult for them to collect bills from individual shops while not they work with the market authority to get such money's for them

chronique:
I'm currently in a very bad situation right now with a technician I trusted and relied on.

I met him on Nairaland many years ago and have fixed a few cars requiring minor fixes(legs) with him.

I handed over a client's car to him since January to fix a wiring issue that was draining battery and not making car to start.

For several months, it was all manner of stories and excuses I kept hearing.

I was in the hospital for a month and just straight from the hospital with my surgical stitches fresh on me, I had to get someone to drive me to him as he claimed car was ready for pick up only for me to get there and car wasn't starting and this man disappeared and wouldn't pick my calls all through my time at his workshop.

After over an hr of waiting, I left. Same thing repeated itself another day again. To cut a long story right now, I have suffered serious reputational damage with my client who owns the car as he has totally lost confidence in me.

As I speak, it's 9 months and nothing to show for it. The said technician doesn't even pick my calls when I call him, neither does he bother to return my calls.

I've been calling for over a week now and he completely ignores my call. I'm really at a loss to how to handle this.

In my many years of selling cars, nobody has tried this nonsense with me.

Not even road side mechanics. 9 fucking months and nothing to show for it. I've had several clients wanting to buy the car but have lost every opportunity to sell the said car as it's not been fixed for 9 months.

Pls, I'd really appreciate input from the house.

electrical problems in a car is not a joke,pls just tow the car away to another workshop,if it is yours I will advice you to sell it and have piece of mind,electrical can defy any attempts to repair,I just sold my Honda that stayed in the workshop from Nov last year to April this year,with more than #200k spent and every rewire within 50km radius running away from it,and yet the devil car refused to start,I just have to sell the fvcking car

Sirheny007:
Check well, Tinubu was there too.

hahahahaaaaaaa,this is not far from the truth

Sulammon:
You can just imagine

any parastatsl headed by a northerner in Nigeria is doomed,their level of corruption is brazen and ridiculous,can't he just take 1 billion or less and quitely leave office