₦airaland Forum

Goodmarlian:
When your rich uncle or friend refuse to give you that money you are asking for, don't blame them. Sometimes it is not their fault.

You see this Nigeria, once people notice you have little change they will never let you rest everybody will be asking you for favour both boys and girls. The more people you help the more others get the information and still come to you for financial assistance.

Take me for example, I am not rich I am just hustling inside campus. I run a POS business, a business I started with just 30k.

Because people see that I deal with cash, they believe I have a lot of money. There is no day someone doesn't ask me for one favour or the other. If it is not buy me food, it is I need tfare, can I get 5k ,10k ,15k. Ladies try so hard to manipulate me into doing their bidding. If I don't oblige, they call me stingy, akagum etc,it is just so annoying.

This 2023 I want to have very little but reasonable friends. In fact i don't even want to have a girlfriend so I can grow my business to the next level.

People will nearly beg you back into poverty, be wise, hide yourself.

Gbam!!!
Nothing to add.

Kingpin1000:
Too many weak men these days.. someone is having an affair with your wife and all you can do is to tell her to block her joy giver and yet she told you no, with a flimsy excuse of knowing the bastard before you..
Oga that guy is more important than you and you shouldn't be surprised if He lay claim to your daughters because he was banging your wife before you knew and got married to her and is still banging your wife.
Ones a woman taste another prick and she cum, my brother just forget it.
Leave that wife ASAP so that we will not see obituary of a nairalander.
Ì know you won't listen because, your type na SIMP.

Although I hate all this redpill, SIMP nonsense and rubbish.
Some people are simply emotionally sick and have never experienced love on an emotionally level. They simply have philophobia instead of seeking for treatment they are here boasting of being strong men
There is actually a sickness whereby someone is unable to feel pain (Congenital insensitivity to pain and anhydrosis (CIPA). Can someone with such a sickness be said to be strong?

I can never remain with a woman that has cheated on me. Leaving her maybe painful.
But my vivid imaginations of someone banging her will never allow me remain with me, I simply cannot.
In the voice of Patience Jonathan; I rather kill myself than commit suicide

dauntless15:
Lmao, since you lost day 5 all the profit of the so called rollover is down the drain now tell me why you're worth getting paid 5k for? Professional like you dey loose bet?

Imagine between January 1st and 2nd he has done day 1 to day 6, and loosing day 5 and yet asking for N5k.
He will now same the N5k he will collect from gullible people, spend some and gamble with some.
While his gullible followers have lost N5k upfront, and keep loosing their stakes, he has made profits from the N5k's he collected and it is still from it he will stake on his gambles.

These guys are the most heartless motherf*ckers online.
I have a friend that is into the business, I stopped talking to him last year. I promised him that I will soon attend his burial very soon, if he does not look for another this to do to make money.

Yusufisraelj:
Honestly, looking like it, a loose lady like that, the guy better be careful.

@G00DHardDick Na so you wan start new year? I day always laugh when guys day feel say to bang pussy na achievement or something to discuss. Day play, just day play.

The matter just tire me.
Some idiots will just be there banging away their mini destiny calling themselves sharp.
By 50yrs or 60yrs they will now be parasites to their so called dull/simp friends begging people for money and being a nuisance after banging away every virtue in their destiny.

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

I wonder what a woman and her husband will be doing at home for a week or two without sex. Apart from after child birth activities.
I have been married for 16yrs plus and even my children know that Daddy and Mummy's room is no-go-area
Our room is area 51, highly classified things and restricted activities are always ongoing there.

Please plan an outing with your wife. Maybe just a Friday night out in a decent hotel. Take time out to tell her how you feel and ask her what is also wrong, and please be open and sincere about any issues that comes up and find solutions before morning.

God1000:
Such horrific death this new year, this is premeditated assassination

We hardly hear of such horrendous incidents in China and India with the population of 1.4 and 1.3 billion people respectively.

states and federal government in Nigeria have failed us completely in the area of security.

Go to ChainaLand bad news site and you will hear.
Don't let your heart be troubled, there is nothing new under the sun.
Na internet and cheap data na im make us they hear and see evil news more cheaply.
Very sad

ahms12:
As the guy no get car or e no order Uber, wetn do you or your hand to buy car or order the Uber... rubbish

Woman no dey order Uber from her place ooo.
Na taboo ooo. If she try am, she must sacrifice 3 goats

After graduating from the university, most graduates still end up doing personal business, learning handwork, or trade.
So what is the big deal of going to the university?
I am not playing down on education, but it is high time we know that this formal (outdated) system of learning is no longer helping everyone.
Yes, some people need to go for formal education to do formal work (e.g doctors etc). But the majority of others don't need to waste their time and money chasing a paper certificate that won't add any value to them.

Zonefree:
Bang her and stop taking too much.

Some of you think that it is every man that is a cheap banger

Some men carry grace, it is just not anyhow they bang

mechanics:
hmmm, that's not true, it comes in full, most of my colleagues who received it before said it was full, so if FG will implement it, that will be great.

Ask your friends again ooo.
It was not government that started 13th month salary.
13th month salary in labour law is just your full basic salary, if your friends got more than their basic salary, then something is wrong somewher.

Creamypie:
Even 16 yr old don dey look for d..k

Coming from someone that has been sexually active since the age of 11yrs.
Just wondering why humans are such sycophants

mechanics:
They should pay full 13th month salary to all Federal Civil servants without deduction.

13th month salary is just basic salary, nothing like full 13th month without deductions anywhere

Mumusaphire:
God have mercy on Nigerians and give them wisdom to vote wisely

They will soon come after you now.
I wonder why some people get angry when you tell Nigerians to vote wisely.

Maybe it's because they know for a fact that no wise person will/should vote their candidate.

Notice that I did not mention any candidate in particular but just wait and see...

I don't even know what to say on this issue.
But I sure know that Nigeria has not gotten to the level that a police officer will shoot into a car at a simple stop and search without even knowing the occupants with an intention to kill.

I mean, we have not gotten to that level of lawlessness yet.
Justice must be served, but this officer, his arms, his unit, etc should be seriously investigated, for us to avert a future reoccurrence. Something is seriously wrong somewher.

Mrblaze06:
GTB stop naira master card from international transaction effective from 1st of January.

Was it even working before?
I was surprised to get the mail, my Gtbank naira card has not worked for any international transaction for more than a year

dat9jaguy:
All these vultures preying on people's misfortune to chase clout. What is the use of this his statement . The errant policeman has been arrested and his details made public,on the same day of the incident. So tell me what new thing he is saying.



Modified :
I have expressed my opinion on the issue, which is the matter is being handled and no need for Falz to try and gain over a matter already being handled by the authorities. Come and beat me if I said anything bad here.

It is like you did not read the part that falz said 2yrs down the line nothing has been implemented from the outcome of the panel set up on the aftermath of #Endsars.

You can also make your address public and let's see maybe you are above being beaten

Firstcitizen:
You are wrong. The main reason he is on Nairaland na because of hunger.

lookingfly:
if following anything in skirt or looking for a lady to take advantage of is what you call growing up, I rather don't grow up.

May God answer our prayers.
But my own prayers for you is that you grow old and understand how stupid and ignorant youth can be.

You are just being a spoilt brat.
You said I was a simp that should have put pressure on her and would have gotten my way.
The same you said I was lucky that she did not press charges of attempted rape.
The same you is still saying at my age I should not be pursuing everything in skirt

Hope you yourself can see that you don't really know anything about what went down and you will never know until you grow up.

DenreleDave:
My own experience as a lagosian who have lived in other states in Nigeria:

I don't see any reason why people are taking offenses in what @iDanDizzy said actually. For God sake, the guy is fv cking right. He bestly describe the normal lives of lagosian. I have lived in Lagos all my life, I'm a lagosian, I schooled in ogun state, I schooled in kano, I served in akwa ibom and to be honest, I enjoyed those states far better than Lagos. I feel sad dt lack of Job opportunities made me leave those states to come back to lagos and hustle. If not for money, I rather stay in akwa ibom and live a stress free life than lagos.

Anybody bragging about Lagos has most atimes not even visited anywhere talk more of lived anywhere.
Worked in Kaduna with few guys that have spent all their lives in Lagos and noticed the same pattern.
1. They come in with false superiority complex. Just like that of foreigners coming to Africa, thinking we all ride on Carmel's and donkeys, only to see latest Toyota cars that even they can afford in their countries being used as Uber in our airport.
2. They complain of people not being sharp and rugged, not waking up early, being too laid-back
I mean why will we jump out of a moving bus in Kaduna when their is no agbero pursuing the bus, and the bus is not creating obstruction to vehicular movement.
3. Etc because of space.

After spending a year or two in Kaduna 99% of them refused to go back to Lagos. If not for the nonsense security situation that came and send all of us back to the southwest.
None the less, 99% of all my former Lagos guys settled in Ibadan and refused to go back to Lagos.
They simply could not cope any longers with Lagos life after living elsewhere

But it is not shameful that Buhari did not perform up to even 30% of what he was packaged to Nigerians, and yet he spent 2 terms in office.

Okoroawusa:
Yes she was

Wow, I never knew ooo

Okoroawusa:
Their father died earlier in life. Even before Shan became a star

So she was a widow with kids before dating Oke Bakasi?

Penyboss:
How do I get and activate a Wise digital card?

So who will answer all these numerous questions now?
Because I am not understanding this kind of questionable questions upon questions without answers ooo

lookingfly:
so you that is in your 40 or 50 with probably a wife and children. So following anything in skirt in your office is a character of a grown up abi? You can keep the gory details to yourself but I will tell you again, you're alpha simp.

Thank you.
When you grow up we will talk. I have said worst when I was younger

If only he knew how many people started going to church since he stopped.

Prettygirl200:
What do u mean bc she's slim? So slim don't get wet? M a slim girl and if I wet here everywhere go dey draw like ogbono. Look I think it's bc of the harmattan, u know harmattan period no dey good to Bleep the girl go dey dry anyhow. See what u will do when next u want to make love to her, try cover yourselves with duvet, off your AC or fans make the room dey hot with that she won't easily get dry. Shey u understand?

Thank you Lady.
I love it when a lady comments on an issue concerning a lady, unlike some boys here proving sex warriors

I will prefer a lady that is having this issue to explain it to.
Because must guys commenting here have not experienced it and are only making comments out of their limited experience. No disrespect ooo.
You might have slept with 600 babes and might have not come across such babes, while I might have slept with only 6 babes and might have come across 1 or 2 of such babes.
The first babe I ever dated, any time we had sex we must change the sheets, she use to be so wet that you need a towel to clean up not tissues paper or ordinary clothe.
More than 30yrs later now, I am yet to come across any girl that is as wet as her.
So are you telling me that I had more experience then than now, or she is the only girl that has ever been into me?
My point is, some girls are natural extra wet and some are naturally extra dry, we are not all the same.
But their is treatment and remedy for almost everything.

TheGift:
"The assemblying of one another","Where to or three are gathered" is not taking about a church building.

The day of Pentecost did not happen in a church, but in an upper room of someone's house. It may also refer to a dining room, as the last supper was also in an "upper room"

if everyone attends church online, who will conduct the online service that we will attend online?

One thing I hate is contention I love constructive arguments/discuss but I hate unnecessary contention.

Did they gather in the upper room on pentecost day in shorts roasting goat?
Please don't let's just argue for argument sakes please.
Or is the online service you and I are joining being conducted by people in shorts roasting goats in their own house?
Because I don't really understand what you want to argue about now

TheGift:
It is you seeing listening to
Online service as clearing conscience. To the pure, all things are pure. Be careful about judging peoples motives.

This has nothing to do with judgement Sir.
The scripture cannot be broken.

Hebrews 10:25
Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching.

Note that I too attended church online. Infact I have been attending church online only for the past 5 months because of some constraints, but like I said earlier; if everyone attends church online, who will conduct the online service that we will attend online?