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Professor of young players, excatlllllllllllllllllllllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!

How sad, can we really blame Zain? The company, like others is facing stiff challenges that have killed compnies Like Dunlop, textile industries etc, It is a reflection of our national rot,

Who could believe that Dunlop will go under two years ago? for zain to remain in buusiness, it has to carry out painful decisions, I weep for my dera country and for the victims,

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@poster,

Do you have your own lover?

can you explain this clearly? are u talking from experience?

@poster,
have you tried shouting it from roof top?

there is notthing wrong in mother in law living with there children, but there is alot wrog if such mother in law choose to interfere in the domestic issues.

I have seem the beaty and ugly side of this arrangement and i can say that much depends, actually on the ocuples, and not the mother in laws,

Well, so far so good. Eyeshadow has got the best advise so far. She should just ignore anyone trying to grag her into a fight.

One more thing: know what yu are doing, . . .

I quite disagree that the lady must specified her true age on the forum before she can be taken serious.

I also disagree with the kind of insult being ppoured on her by all and sundries. It show that we consider ourselves the alpha and omega of wisdom. people who cannot go wrong. That someone was decieve for six years is never smething new and we know that there are chamelon among us who can transformed into anything.

The fact that everybody run riot and started calling the lady stupid is an indication of intolerance. I know that most of us did not specified our ages on the profile. I also know that some peopleactually posted for other people just to conceal their identity.

Nairaland will be a better place if only issues are take on merrit and people dealt with with courtesy and respect. let your opinion be guided by desire to genuinely interested in other people's problem.

Anyway, e go beta!

it depend on what he mean by poor. Maybe he meant to say those who have at least one square meal a day.

At any rate, in anation where data are never taken or kept if taken, the whole thing is just assumption.


I wont take that man serious.

Well, in my view, I think you made a serious mistake by turning blind eyes to certain thing about the guy.

Before i comment, let me ask you, if you return to your ex, what are you going to do with the pregnacy? Is your ex aware of the preg?

It is not advisable. . . . . .and it is!

na wa o! Isnt there no way we can talk to one another without making others look like a fool?

@poster,

Will you be kind to tell us exactly what happened rather than generalise? We are not there, so we will need more information before we can cntribute.

Why for instance do oyu think his sister is nehaving like that? Why is she living with him? What are the thing she actually did to you?

Dd you attempted to sllep over in the house? please shed more light

Na wa o!

So if i have not come to nairaland, I would not have known about the wedding?

How is my in law doing Aisha2?

@topic,
I think only women can tackle that question

Na wa o! The conspiracy theory at work,

Nautilus you dont need to. Until you find someone you know on it. remember anita Hogan? Is she lso a fake one?

Anyway it wasnt for me to find out what happen underground but fo me to let guys out there know that it is not right to risk such thing.

Maray,

Home based? what do you mean? most of the pictures that are flying around are from abroad. Are those also homebased? It is only recently that naija content are coiming in. You know you can easily diferentiate a real one from a fake one? if take by phone, you will know instantly through it quality and the unsteady hands that was filming it.

I rest my case on this topic. It is not the type I enjoy discussing.

Well, I wouldn't know. I dont Know the guy personally, my my friend did. i also dont know the lady either. she is obviously back to her home-town after graduating.

@khadija,
let me tell you something. The biggest mistake you can make is not to trust again. You will definitely trust again, but not foolishly.

yes, he decieved you. that is not typically African. It happens all over the world. It happens even among the whites. i know of some people who will marry a rich lady just to have a share of her wealth. And then, when the lady is thinking she is in, the man will file for divorce and they share her wealth. This happens more abroad.

The problem your man hs may be his own making and it may be as a result of presure from the family. I will not join in others by castigating him. We all knows that some fmilies go to the extent of using juju tobring back someone who has gone abroad for many years. a friend of mine fell victim to that and he is now suffering alone.

Rather than worry yourself with betrayal, look within and find your own strenght. resolve in your mind that you must rise above him. Your positive attitude will fetch you a better man. and it will spell his own downfall. look beynd the problem. Like someone said to me above, it easier said than done. But it must not be for long. after rain comes sunshine. You have the choice to begin afresh or remain grief striken forever. But from your attitde, I have no doubt that of you are indeed close to God, you will smile sooner than you thought.

Don't make the mistake many people made by hating all men just because of the hurt of a single man. It will aggravate the problem. But, love with caution!

@brutal,

In life, the cheapest thing you get is talk. Sadly, the only way you can get the bes out of life is to express it. That is why we can't do away with talking. When you look at every peoblems, you will recognise a familiar partnern; they tend to be the most difficult to the victim. But there are people with greater problems who will simply wave aside the victims problems.

The wise man, who want to get the best out of his problem must as a matter of necesity listen to every talk that flew past his ears. whether sane or insane. somewhere in the storm of these varbal advices will emerge the solution to what look like an intractable problem.

You know the poster have two options:
1. To continue to lament the problem and seek sympathisers who are ready to help her lambast her oppresor;
2. she may as well accept what had happned and chooce to live on. But not without picking up one or two lessons sp that it will never repeat itself again.

from her story, she made a mistake which was very glaring to all. But she can look beyond it and live.

@michelin,
Does it really matter? Whatever the reason for their breakup should never have been the excuse for that action. Let me tell you, hers is not the first one i will hear. A lot of juck vids are circulating right now. Most of them taken in the privacy of the victims homes.

My point of the psot is, love or no love, NVER let a man or woma film you naked. It may boorang someday, We all should be concern. we mus not wait tilll someone close to us fll victim before be look beyond the surface. . . That lady can be anybody's sister. I am sure her family will be disappointed to see such vid in public.

it is useless, let the guy go in your own interest,

A cheater is not always a cheater, believe me,

You can deal with a cheater in many ways depending on why he or she is cheating. I f you are the cause of his/her cheating then the only solution is for you to re-examine yourself. If you are not the cause, then first find out, what is the cause,; your finding will heelp you alot,

As for pathological cheaters, there are two ways to deal with them. The most effective way is not to have aanyting to do with them in the first way. For that is the only way you can be spare of their embarasing acts. the seond way is to quit while you still have a chance of doing so. The third way, if you are tied permanently to them is to find a way of deactivating the offending "privates". Any thing you do, just remember that no cheater will cheat on you unless you willingly enter into a relationship with him or her!

Ciao!

To be honest with you, the whole thing still remain unclear to me,

I know that people want to be loved and that they want to love somone, but I still can't understand certain things especially with regard to those who travel abroad and then deceive innocen ladies into love only to flee after they make a breakthrough. This act should b roundly condemned and must be collectively outcasted. Any amn who do that should be ostracised until he is back in the lowest rung of the society where they belong,

There are many options for you, Madam poster. But it all depend on what you want.

I recommend that you see what is happeneing as seed that will yield something positive for you. At this moment of your darkness, I now you will need strenght to carry on. You will also need extra-ordinary will-power to be able to trust men again, especially those that are from the lower rund of the social ladder. But you must never be negative.

I am always an advocate of loving with head. I am also aware that some people are so fanatical about love that they will do anything to keeep that love. Once a while, you find people do foolish things just to show they love the other person. i strongly believe that everyone must know the limit of such foolishness if it must ever be tried.

Yesterday, a friend of mine told me a depressing story which \i want to share so that people out there will nt fall victim of this kind stupidity again.

There is a guy and gal who are madly in love. Both are undergrad at one of the famous University in the country. They do things that are out of this world and were deemed technically inseperable. The live together, eat together and are always found together. . .

Then for reason I can't understand, the story changed and they parted. Not long afterward, the guys stared showing other guys a recorded videos of their past sexual exploits. All of which had the girl in animalistic position mourning like a bitch. She was naked. But the guy was smart as he didnt filmed his own face. he only filmed the lady's face and their acts.

Now every Tom and jrry is copying the clip on their mobile as a part of their mobile content! I didnt know the girl but I found out that she live very far from Lagos (probably not aware that her nude picture is in circulation).

I just want to use this medium to appeal to ladies to be careful in allowing any man film their nude body whether partially of fully. That man may someday become your enemy and will make you regret fr the rest of your life. No matter how strong is love, it must come with a measure of modesty and respect.

I hope this help someone out there!

@poster,

she want to come back or you want to bring her back?

IyaKhdija

I am so sorry to hear of this touching story. I couldnt read the whole thread but I quite get the original point. So what are you going to do now?

Mr man, you are the one confusing yourself. You are behaving like a woman.

Read my earlier posts.

Druss,
That is exactly what I does. Most ladies however don't understand why I had to do that. Even when I meet a lady, I make it a point to know her status as that will determine the kind of communication I am going to send across.

@poster,
though ther is nothing wrong in talking to an ex. There is a lot wrong if that ex want a relationship even though he know you are now married. Tell him to put a stop to it or cut him off permanently.

Can this be true?

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Just a number? Lol! Someone is courting trouble.

Well you maybe right. I remember a guy telling us how a lady use names like Mugu 1, Mugu 2 etc for her bf on her phone. Ladies don't joke with their lovers' names. If a lady truly love you, your name won't be annonymous on her phone.