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Romance › Re: Should I Marry For Love Or Stability? by olanajim(m): 8:01am On Nov 18, 2007

Oh oh, I am getting your drift. Your problem is self inflicted! You are beautiful and he is ugly yet rich and kind. You don't need advice. All you need is contentent. I stand by my earlier statement. Stop looking for how to make him attractive. Bianca Ona was once the most beautiful girl in Nigeria. He has rich young and handsome youngmen at her disposal but she ended marrying an old ugly goatlike but kind hearted war lord. She has never regretted it. You need to put aside the flesh and embrace the spirit. If you continue this way, you may wake up one day to find that he had gone into the waiting arms of another woman who may even be more beautiful than you. Then, you would have the opportunity to marry handsome guy of your choice.
G/luck.

Romance › Re: Should I Marry For Love Or Stability? by olanajim(m): 8:01am On Nov 18, 2007

Romance › Re: Are Very Beautiful Girls Without A Heart? by olanajim(m): 7:44am On Nov 18, 2007

You should never mock her departure! She isn't worth a drop of your tear. In fact, I would suggest you make he departure hurt her. Act as if her departure has brought you joy and stability. Let her feel unimportant. Once you get a better lady, if the brainless beauty is still around, make her jealous. It would hurt her for ages.

Romance › Re: A Deep Pain Within Me. ''pls Ladies I Nid More Of Ur Advice'' by olanajim(m): 7:37am On Nov 18, 2007

David, I have taken note of the guy. Imagine his telling me I was correct to say his stupidity don't need cure? I agreed with you that some guys' brain were filled with water. Let him insult me. He had got the wrong target because, I will frustrate him until the water in his head evaporated. Nobody has the monopoly to insult others. I am sure he would soon be banned.

Pain, you quote bible? I am excited! I need more of that please.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: What Would It Take?(to get a date here?) by olanajim(m): 2:28am On Nov 18, 2007

What i seek in woman is what you would laugh at.

I don't look at face, I look at the heart.

I don't listen to words, I listen to the messages.

I don't nurture love, I establish trust.

I can go on and on.

Being a mirror man does not make me less of human, it make me focused and frank. I am strange. I am not married and I don't think marriage is the height of human achievement. If I have my way, I may not marry. I'd love to be a monk!

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: What Would It Take?(to get a date here?) by olanajim(m): 2:26am On Nov 18, 2007

Romance › Re: Are Very Beautiful Girls Without A Heart? by olanajim(m): 2:13am On Nov 18, 2007

Your pleasure sir.

I really don't know some beautiful babe can be heartless. But they can. That is when their beauty get to their brain.

To cure those arogant ones among them, ignore them! It would make them work extra hard to attract a responsible men.

I would share Baltasar Gracian words with you:

"know when to play the card of contempt. It is the most politic kind of revenge. For there are many of whom we should never have known nothing if their distinguished opponents had taken no notice of them. There is no revenge like oblivion, for it is the enthombment of the unworthy in the dust of their own nothingness".

Beautiful women derives their pride and arogant from the realization that they are the centre of attraction. They love the attention. Yet, without men showing admiration and praising them, their beauty is nothing. Beauty can be captivating and magnitze it beholder to the point of stupidity. The more you admire beautiful babe the more they try to elude you. Your desires soon transform into obsession and your emotion subdued. At this junction, you have given them power.

An arogant beautiful lady can best be tamed by deliberately ignoring her. That way, men can show them they are not more important than others. It hurts them when men ignore them.

Go for attractive lady or beautiful lady whose beauty had not poisoned her brain. Ladies with manner. You would never regret it. Never choose a lady by her look.

Ever wonder why most prostitutes in brothels are beautiful ladies? Or why beautiful ladies often end with broken homes? A look at their character and would tell you the answer.

PS.
The above does not mean that all beautiful ladies are corrupted. But a B. Lady changing men at eleventh hour is a candidate for contempt and must be ignored by any responsible man.

Romance › Re: A Deep Pain Within Me. ''pls Ladies I Nid More Of Ur Advice'' by olanajim(m): 12:31am On Nov 18, 2007

So I am correct to return it back to the sender? Then BACK TO SENDER!

Romance › Re: A Deep Pain Within Me. ''pls Ladies I Nid More Of Ur Advice'' by olanajim(m): 12:30am On Nov 18, 2007

So I am correct to return it back to the sender? Then BACK TO SENDER!

Romance › Re: Are Very Beautiful Girls Without A Heart? by olanajim(m): 12:00am On Nov 18, 2007

Step one: Take heart!

Step two: stop going after beauty without heart. Go for manner.

Step 3: do a personal soul searching and see where you are wrong, then mend your way.

Step 4: don't worship beautiful babe, it make them arogant. Worship character.

Last step: pray before you choose a partner.

Romance › Re: Are Very Beautiful Girls Without A Heart? by olanajim(m): 11:59pm On Nov 17, 2007

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Romance › Re: A Deep Pain Within Me. ''pls Ladies I Nid More Of Ur Advice'' by olanajim(m): 11:44pm On Nov 17, 2007

Fortunately for you, I don't understand that language. But I am sure it mean, YOUR STUPIDITY IS YOUR STUPIDITY, YOU NEED NO DOCTOR TO CURE YOUR HEAD!

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: What Would It Take?(to get a date here?) by olanajim(m): 11:40pm On Nov 17, 2007

Am happy acid is going to tie the knot soon. Extremely happy. Hope I would get my IV?

Ariblaze,
so you are searching for babe? Are you serious? I don't blame you. You don't want to be a gentleman, and you limit your criteria as if the lady won't have a say. You deserved the best, and you will soon get her.

Did it Ever occur to you to consult grandma before you go public? In the end, she matter.

On a serious note, there are wonderful singles on nairaland. I wish you goodluck.

Romance › Re: Should I Marry For Love Or Stability? by olanajim(m): 11:17pm On Nov 17, 2007

Absolutely and confidential. Just leave a message or send email. It is on my profile. Take care.

Romance › Re: Should I Marry For Love Or Stability? by olanajim(m): 11:13pm On Nov 17, 2007

Absolutely and confidential. Just leave a message or send email. It is on my profile. Take care.

Romance › Re: A Deep Pain Within Me. ''pls Ladies I Nid More Of Ur Advice'' by olanajim(m): 11:09pm On Nov 17, 2007

David, am sorry! I'd just notice the difference! I was wondering how a good guy can go bad just like that. One is a symbol of moral, the other glorifies lewdness and foul language. There is another adding @yahoo.com! I really don't read names but messages. Isn't there anything you can do? What is in you that made them impersonate you? It is high time you request seun to do something.

Romance › Re: Should I Marry For Love Or Stability? by olanajim(m): 11:01pm On Nov 17, 2007

Alimondjoy,
I always understand you. Maybe you'd forgotten the "mirror business". You can't say you don't know about it. I still use mine though am not sure you are using the correct one anymore.

As for your obituary, I told you I have no filial relation with nairaland undertakers. I am sure you know my mirror works hence my intuition. Some people won't believe you are alive. Seriously this conversation must stop here. Many don't know what obituary has to do with you. It is normal. If you don't mind, I want to chat you on my YM, I have a personal message for you and I won't post it on nairaland. You know how to reach me.

On the poster, she had taken note of the point. Thanks.

Romance › Re: A Deep Pain Within Me. ''pls Ladies I Nid More Of Ur Advice'' by olanajim(m): 10:45pm On Nov 17, 2007

Do what david said and you will get a red card.

The girl has given you green light. Be natural. Be a man and win her trust. Don't mess up your chance by sending stupid messages. She won't think twice before dumping you to dustbin of history.

Romance › Re: Should I Marry For Love Or Stability? by olanajim(m): 10:27pm On Nov 17, 2007

I can see that the poster is having a good time with my babe! She is damn funny and could turn a serious matter to comedy. I wonder why seun is penalising her.

Anyway, you'd got the best advice so far. It is left to you whether you want to act or not. Learn to love him and appreciate his body. You can make it work if you want it work. If he is not a pig, if he is not a goat, if he is not a monster, if he is not invested with HIV, then you can learn to love him and have stability in your home. Let me tell you that you are actually confusiing yourself. If a woman can seduce a man to have sex with her, I see no reason why you can't work on a man you want to marry. It is your job. Almondjoy was telling you the truth in between her sacarsm.

PS.
Don't employ her as your entertainer, she would give your guests hypertention! If you must invite her, get medics on standby. Don't say I don't warn you.

Literature › Re: Help:: How Can I Concentrate Better When I Read? by olanajim(m): 9:56pm On Nov 17, 2007

Almondjoy, Nobody is forcing him to do anything. At least he has not said so. Your logic baffled me though.

Yes, he could be in wrong place by his making or his environment. But you can never underestimate the resolution of a determined man to overcome his defficiency. I perceived pessimism in your words and it is unfortunate.

Men and women who had ever risen to the pinnacle of their career did so after doing what people like you thought can never be done. They struggled to overcome their weaknesses and put aside the pessimistic ideal of people like you. Abraham Lincoln have near similar problem but he kept his hope alive and worked hard on himself to achieve his goals. Albert Einstein failed Mathematics at school, yet he invented one of the most important formula in science history and also have loads of intellectual achievents in science and mathematics. Thomas Edison didn't spend a year at school but achieved great feat in intellectual field, I can go on and on.

Yes, it is not by force. But when you find someone yearning for greatness and ready to work his way through. Then, by no mean, give him your little encouragement and wish him luck. If he make it the world would be better for it. And if he fail, it hurt you not. People like you are responsible for Nigerian backwardness. You sees things going badly and turn the other way when you can help just because you are lucky to be in the right environment. We must change that attitude so that our country can move forward.

Almondjoy, repent of your pessimism and stop infecting people with Negative Mental Attitude. For all I know, that chap may genuinely want to make it in life. It is obvious he is young. Please safe your breathe and let him decide whether to rise against odd or to quit before he start.

Please, if you have kids, kindly send them to me before you programme them in your like. Better still, employ an expert if you don't like boarding school. That way, they would not contract your negative thinking

Politics › Re: Sen Jubril Aminu,olanrewaju,adebayo,elewi,others Named In 10m Euro Bribe by olanajim(m): 9:22pm On Nov 17, 2007

Wao! What a land of corruption! It takes foreign country to exposed our incorruptible saints! To say that Sen Jubril Aminu is thief baffle me. No wonder, he was hell bent on silencing Atiku! Who knows Atiku might have known something about it! As for others mentioned, I am not surprise. They walked into power with debt on their head and left with questionable wealth.

As for EFCC, I am sure the present AGF would ensure it remained redondance in the name of due process. I think Ribadu is at cross road. He is now reporting to his enemies. If he act against AGF order, he risk losing his job. He can't resign now as he has little to fall on. That is the prize for being uncorrupted in Nigeria. He would be forgotten once he resign.

Nigerians has to stand firm against corruption. We have to demand for action. Amimu and co must be probed.

Alimondjoy, if I had not known you, I would have taken you up. But then, you are right in a way.

Romance › Re: A Word To The Ladies by olanajim(m): 3:29pm On Nov 17, 2007

Sometimes. And with sacrifice.

Romance › Re: Why Do Muslim Guys Prefer To Date Christians Gals by olanajim(m): 10:48am On Nov 17, 2007

What?

Sports › Re: Which Football Club Should I Support And Why? by olanajim(op): 10:41am On Nov 17, 2007

I have been following your contributions with keen interest. I want to be loyal to a club not because I have nothing to do but because, I have seen something beneficial in being faithful to a football club.

Let me tell you one of my findings. The man who cannot stand for a cause, live for a cause, and die for that cause is a nobody. After religion, sports draw more followers. In fact, it is now getting to a point that sports is taking people aways from God!

I learn LOYALTY, FAITHFULNESS, DEVOTION, BROTHERHOOD, ENDURANCE, DEDICATION etc by being a fan. I also observed these lessons can be translated to real life success. You would stand faithfully by your wife or hussie if he/she is facing challenges. You would defend your people from external aggression; you would walk with pride both in victory and defeat. You stay with your club through thick and thin. You won't jump ship when the boat encounter a storm, . .

What these mean is that, I WANT TO LOOK BEFORE I ENTER YOUR BOAT. I don't want to enter a ship that is painted beautifully, only to find that it had serious engine problem. As you know, I won't want to sink with a sinking ship. I am a winner, and want a winning team. A winning team aren't necessarily those on top or those benefiting from other people's fall. I want PEACE OF MIND FOR THE SAKE OF THE PASSION and LOVE OF THE GAME.

So, I am searching. I am sure many are reading this to learn from it.

For my country sake, I want both local and foreign. One each. Thank you!

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Romance › Re: Why Do Muslim Guys Prefer To Date Christians Gals by olanajim(m): 9:41am On Nov 17, 2007

Bolageez,
your observations and comments are wrong!

Let me tell you that muslims women, I mean "real muslim women" are as good as any "real xtain women" regardless of their religion affiliation. I have found them to be of good standard.

That some muslim brothers are dating xtain ladies has nothing to do with shortage of good muslim ladies or religion obligation. To the contrary, the religion favoured men to marry from other religion.

I don't like commenting on religion but I would be deviating a bit, for once.

1. Muslim women favour early marriage and start getting anxious by 20! So once a suitable man come along, they marry without delay.
2. Muslim women embraces polygamy unlike xtain counterparts. Though the polygamists are gradually losing followers. Nevertheless, some muslim ladies would rather embrace polygamy than stay single at 30+. What this transtlate to is that some muslim guys would be left behind. This couple with the fact that Nigerian men out numbered women make the equation unbalanced. Therefore, the men look to other religions for brides.

3. Most xtain guys want to be rich and confortable before settling down. While muslims, by traditional would take off with minimum provision. I think, this come into play when the lady want serious commitment. When you take away religious opposition, the relationshp would work if love is their motivation.
5. Love transcend religions and races. If the conditions were right, love grows. Therefore, I don't think love err in taking away sisters from your church to muslim's waiting arms!

Psychologistically, however, it appear that the law of absence is taking it course. You forget to mention that most ladies from your church also date guys from other church! Your church is not alone. That single observation should clear your mind on this issue.

As human community, we must never try to undermine other people's faith or race on any issue, therefore we must look at issue subjectively before we arrive at conclusion

Romance › Re: Why Do Muslim Guys Prefer To Date Christians Gals by olanajim(m): 9:40am On Nov 17, 2007

Romance › Re: Why Do Muslim Guys Prefer To Date Christians Gals by olanajim(m): 9:39am On Nov 17, 2007

Romance › Re: A Word To The Ladies by olanajim(m): 8:56am On Nov 17, 2007

Not every guys want a wealthy woman. In fact, most guys are suspicious of wealthy women. I don't know why but that is the reality. Therefore cross it off your list. You may replace the word wealth with another word. Industry, success, intelligent etc are better appreciated than wealth.

Ufo was right to some extent. Men don't tell you everything they want from you, they act.

If a guy has two ladies he know how to make his choice no matter how similar the ladies may be.

I think, most people have thrown morality to dustbin. That is why we have problem is differentiating the reality from absurd.

Romance › Re: The Mathematics Of Relationship by olanajim(m): 12:56pm On Nov 16, 2007

Pls don't be. Everytime you glance at beautiful babe, you commit fornication! That is what a guy told me. I guess he was right. What with the kind of provocative dresses we are treated to by our ladies? I am a sinner because, I sees, (though I don't touch) every hour!

David and solomon were not destroyed but made better! I am sure God love me the way I am. I certain that He loves me too much to leave me the way I am!

Everyday, in everyway, through the Grace of God, I am getting better and better!

Romance › Re: The Mathematics Of Relationship by olanajim(m): 12:34pm On Nov 16, 2007

No. I am a sinner! My hands are soiled with blood. My mouth wet with odourous siliva. My body weakened due to exhaution. I fornicates every hours, with at least ten gals a day! 70 a month! Yet, I am a virgin in capital "V".

May God forgive me!

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