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Where the armory dey and the weapons

Nairaland has become so boring

Let him be resist it and continue with his work. If he can't he shd quit

Lion sit down jeje, goat go meet am. If Lion chop goat remain small, abeg na him fault?

Ogbeni free your mind, you did nothing wrong at all... It's just her emotions that's haunting you which further shows that you're normal. Just get over it.

She was toxic and rigid. Feeling insecure and want things done her way.

Small small with quarrel o. Na one quarrel you go get one day and there won't be return

My dear I no blame the girl o. If I were in her shoes I will run o. Shoo. Which kind mother be dat one plus Cele church. Her fetish lifestyle go be first class. There are mothers and there are mothers.

Dilijingsly:
king in the game

Na so bro

Unfortunately swag can't stop it. They shd be thankful they're not among the celebs the coro killed

For head hairy. For pussy bald and swollen

Lol that one na toilet love.

If she's a tenant then d landlord is wrong to do that without a quit notice. Even if the quit notice has elasped, it's a court case to settle. But if shes a squatter, the landlord can do and undo cus a squatter is not a registered tenant.

bukatyne:
Where do you guys get these theories from?

It's not a theory and the issue is not where it came from, it's when you will come to terms with the reality of it.

Wetin concern you with Cameroon

Amanee:
I hope you will maintain this stance when a cheating wife is involved

Men cheating and women cheating sound same but are different. A man would cheat and still love his wife. When a woman cheats, there's always no love in there anymore. I'm not trying to be a chauvinist but it's true. So reactions can't be same.

Wetin u don see? You don see where your boyfriend and your best friend dey Bleep each other before? You catch them, them hiss Dem no shock, Dem even change position

So men of God cannot cheat. You're funny. Many pastors cheat in case you don't know. Maybe you don't have prominent features enough to have been asked for sex by some of them before. You're talking about Godliness and you're talking about divorce at d same time. You're confused. Once you're in no matter how irritated you have to stay unless you're ready to renounce your faith. You're just religious then, you have not counted the cost of your faith.

The best u can do is..

-Pray that God gives you your own. If He does, you won't go thru it.

-you shd ask God to break you enough to be able to have the humility need for such even if it doesn't happen.

Op. Your Nick name is ancient of days

MrBrownJay1:
A) nothing wrong with asking an ex for help (beggars cannot be choosy)
B) lying to his wife about where the money came from was WRONG
C) as much as the husband made a mistake lying to wifey, unless she can provide for food, she best keep quiet, be humble AND most importantly, GRATEFUL!
D) her childish reaction clearly confirms why husband lied... as his foolish wife now rather starve to death than eat from that food
E) make sure hubby keeps some of the money so he can bury that foolish wife when she dies of hunger.

LIFE GOES ON!

Lemme ask you, is it an enemy that sent that money? It was not a lover at the moment or a side chick. An ex-lover... Someone he once knew before he married. Not someone he's having an extramarital affair with at the moment. The wife is stupid.

It's the stupidity that made her husband not open up fully to her at first. I don't like such extremely delicate emotional babies o. I trust my gf. She's super mature... I can tell her anything and that's why I chose her!

And what the woman asked for later (if he's gotten the money) is not bad enough to suspect anything. The wife is just a complicated being.

Op you're ancient of days

DaBogu:
Ladies,how do you handle a mother or sister inlaw who doesn't like you?

The one you've married or the one you want to marry.

Mom wasn't at home, only grandma was. I was hungry, stole some garri to chew and went out. As I hopped out of the house, mom suddenly walked in from the gate. I had to run behind the car cus I knew she must not see me chewing garri. She caught me, dragged me inside, asked me to take off my clothes, I did. She said I should remove my pants too, I did, she then started lashing me like goat with plank that had nail in it. Somehow the nail hit my lips and it burst, I bled and had swollen lips for days. Single motherhood is something else. She had no one to control her at all. I was vulnerable to any kind of treatment.

Sometimes cus of little mistakes, she'll send me to bed without dinner and I'll wake up hungry to chores before I have breakfast by 2pm.

When I gained admission and changed it for her that she can't be raising cane on me again at this age, she came up with another matter...said I've joined cults you that's why I'm feeling too big to be beaten. The story plenty.

Mouth odour is easily correctable. Body odour is usually managed throughout life

teelord1:
Be observant and always buy OEM parts for replacement.
Also ensure your mechanic check and retighten while servicing your car.
Trust me you wont have any issue.
Honda is not as bad as they think. It is a very nice car, comfy car out of Japan auto products.

What's OEM

Theobserver835:
Just yesterday a married man not even single o,was promising me heaven and earth if only I will allow him have sex with me.
When he was saying this rubbish I felt like slapping him hard on the face but held my cool.

After he is done talking,I just closed the door on him.
The dude of a neighbour didn't go o,he kept saying that he loves me and want my body so badly.

I just ignored him until he got tired and left.
So I wanna ask why is it that men can't control their sexual urge just as we women do.

Is there a problem somewhere.

First, I commend his boldness to say out his mind. The bottom line of all the polite toastings you get from men is what this man told you in few words. No matter how gentle ur toaster may be, what's driving him is what you heard from that man. It takes boldness to spit it out that way although he did to the wrong person.

I also commend your maturity for not slapping him and just walking away from him. That's mature of you. And that doesn't mean you shdnt greet him when next you see him, just be using wisdom to turn down his request if you're not interested.

I always say if God transfers testosterone to women and estrogen to men for just 5 mins, women would pity men and men would envy women.. The way men feel the urge sometimes is unexplainable

ogechchukwu:
Go to ashwo joint cross to you
As long as you use condom

You are safe

Honestly. I wanted to give op this advice but held it back before ppl say I'm giving bad advice.

Ashawos are useful.. very useful.

Pls what can one do about the front wheels that pull out suddenly on speed. How can one avoid that?

Brunicekid:
Maintain sexual chastity please @ OP...

God loves sexually pure people.

That's not the issue here o. Sure God loves sexually pure people but he put the highest urge from testosterone influence in this age gap of op. He who put the urge there would definitely have a way out of it to keep pure. What is that way?

Another thing is I come from a very religious home where no one taught me abt sex education or that I would have this sort of urge at this stage of my life, all they say is abstain till marriage and all that, like they didn't pass through that stage too

How do I go about it.

This is where our parents make terrible mistakes. Just assuming abstinence is achievable in religion name. More is needed than that to help a child abstain. That combined with being an introvert again is serious indeed. Look for any means that works for you bro. In anyway you choose just be careful. If I tell you how and where I got deflowered, it may take you the next ten years to understand. God help you.

Lol. They use to pray after each round na