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jerrykokolet:
esu see how hin dey look

How far

Every woman has the capacity to receive their husbands up to 3 times a day. If it's not possible, Jesus won't advocate for monogamy in the new testament. It's necessary especially in this immoral generation to avoid temptations outside. There's just this dark part of their attitude every woman have to break and deal with..Thinking it's a favor they're doing for allowing their husbands have sex with them. When a man does not love you..that's understandable. But even with all the love and pampering and buying her things, yet they escape their duties when they shd even be the ones seducing their husbands in the matrimony. It's when they lose what they have that they'll start valuing it

Single mothers don't struggle to get laid at all. In fact they're best offers for getting laid since they're not under any man's control...free as a bird and they need getting laid severally so as to cater for their child. But marriage I can't say cus ppl are selective when it comes to marrying after-one

Her porn is not sweet sef. She no dey show the real thing. Some softcore stuff. She dey try sha

Lol. Which redpill. You just grew better and there's room for more. You're a king, a leader, a pace-setter. When a girl has a better idea than you do which is not a crime, if they can't communicate it reasonably unless they're rash, you opt out. Simple. You shd have another girl as back up though cus sex starving is their weapon after being irrational instead of them coming to terms with their mistakes.

As young as they are, I still believe if they're properly trained, all these won't happen

Easybela:
You didn't give us the title of your story

Lol your pic is funny.

ValCon888:
The only reason there's a lockdown is because people are dying. In other words, she's thanking God because people are dying.

Foolish woman.

You have a problem.

It's so romantic giving your wife a treat. It merrys her heart to watch her husband once in a while take charge of the kitchen. The food may not be so sweet but it's fun. She shared the video to express her joy, doesn't mean she's happy people are dying.

Grow up bro.

Well 3 things are noticeable.

-Perhaps the father had sexually assaulted her in d past. Cus if it's just paternal strictness that made her say this, then she's cursed. A lot of us were treated trashy. In my case, my mom was d dreadful one and I never spoke negative of her.

-Her mother is either dead or had poisoned her mind against her father. Cus if she lives in that house and her daughter has lost it like this, her future as a mother to this girl is a disaster waiting to happen.

-She may not be ordinary, maybe she's been initiated into some dark powers long ago. Who knows?

Guess this shd be giving feminists some joy now. Cus they claim to fight for what is right but what really drives them is bitterness and unforgiveness and they're so blind to see it.

So its your fear of her suicide threat that's keeping you bound to what your heart doesn't desire? You better don't be a fool and work on ur self esteem.

As smelly as her breast is, if she finds another man who ignorantly promises her marriage, you will be dazed with how trashy she will treat you then you'll start wondering where all the shame of smelly breasts and suicide thoughts flew to. If you marry her, you will then see worse things than her breast n family cuz once she's crossed the wedding border, all the tender suicide tendency will turn out to the boldness of a Lion.. the change in confidence will shock you and you can't opt out anymore.. you shd know women better than this. Now is the only chance you got to opt out so better firm up your heart for ur own good and look beyond pity.

But youre really funny...you keep sleeping with a smelly breasted girl and the u think she won't be happy she's found a Messiah who loves her with her condition. You shd work on your self esteem in total bro. Guess she's the first or most free pusssy you've got. There are many pretty girls out there

Timil:
Guy you need medical attention.

Go see a DOC and stop displaying a form of lunacy here

Reaction to truths comes in this form

DedeNkem:
Some people always claim they were joking when caught.

"Caught" on Nairaland. Youre retarded.

DedeNkem:
You still believe in "baba" in 2020! What a waste of a human you're!
You're a product of the abysmal education system in the country!

You have problem for not being able to distinguish between a joke and a serious post

Is it all these small small girls on Nairaland that have not had any tough experience apart from jamb and waec that you're telling these deep things to. You funny o.

Oyo people no dey exposed to that level. They're conc and tribalistic yorubas.

Na places like Lagos, port Harcourt Abuja u fit see hook up with light speed. Then ogun n ondo. Well maybe ibadan Sha but that Oyo town I doubt. They're too culture-driven and yorubalistic

This op is extremely confused. Sometimes nairalanders behave as if they'll be forever Young... Not acquiring any additional wisdom to the outdated ones they have. Is the church a personal thing? How would you hear that there's free food and nose mask for you to partake in, if it isn't announced? It's on personal grounds that that verse admonished xtains not to brag about their righteousness

Tell us what you talk about first. So we can help you.

Ah! How are you meeting them sef.

PM me, lemme take you to one baba.

Nothing is more beautiful when the main purpose is the core of the ceremony and not frivolities.

Jullima:
Lol wetin you dey talk? What has your response got to do with the OP?

Kunkun say you don't understand so we can know you're too young for what's been talked about instead of shining teeth

If we have few more women like this, the society will be sane. I agree with everything you said and having this kinda mentality of thinking outside the box or outside what the society sees as norm is the maturity needed for marriage. Unfortunately many young girls just follow the bandwagon's status quo and expect a different result. Little wonder they have problems in marriage.

An additional info I wanna add is that, men are naturally more on the forgiving side than ladies. It could be an additional reason why they let go of some of such experiences especially the petty ones. If men were to press charges (like women do) on every little offenses they go thru in women's hands including marriage, this world won't be peaceful at all. Unfortunately only few women, such as you, know the pain they bear to forgive and let go of many issues, while women keep repeating same annoying mistakes again and again and keep malice over little issues simply cus she's a woman and the society does not support a pained reaction from the man such as harshness or even beating. If the man does that, another extremely breaking step would be taken by the woman which is divorce... Something contrary to the laws of love and forgiveness.

However I agree there shd be limit to what a man shd swallow in d name of forgiveness for the sake of psychological well-being, health and longevity.

In other words, the grievance or the horror level of the abuse is also a determinant. If it's a really demeaning one, the manly forgiving ability may not come to play anymore

Ktiffany:
Yes. For him not to pick your calls again.. I think his cheating on you

Choi madam adviser. Una fit scatter home with una rapid conclusion. Everything na rush. I hail you!

I discovered masturbation by myself and peeped bathing women. Blackberry and Android wasn't common then, I bought porn DVDs and magazines

MrBrownJay1:
i fully disagree with the above...
1st of all, this has nothing to do with how old one is....there are plenty of geriatric old fools out there.
2nd of all, if you marry a "loose-mouthed" woman, you STILL dont need to be dishonest with her, you just need to prepare/understand that you will go through very difficult times dealing with her... thats what comes with the territory when marrying such woman.
FINALLY, whether your wife will get upset/mad (or not), it is irrelevant to HONESTY in any union. if you cant be fully honest to your partner then you have no business being with that person. you cant go around believing that doing something WRONG can ever be beneficial to your union. thats where wisdom comes into play, as a wise/experienced man would find the proper way to approach his wife with the issue and make her understand that A) there is nothing wrong with help from that person and B) make her understand that you guys NEED this.

if you actually believe that wisdom is to LIE to your wife, then i am sorry to tell you that you must be living in la la land!

I pity you

Eya. Sorry o

MrBrownJay1:
true...but regardless of the consequences and/or how hard it may be, a man should always be fully honest with his wife/GF.

Most of you on this Nairaland talk as if you will remain young forever. Only God knows how long it will take you to distinguish between wisdom and honesty. You shd learn from the story of Samson and delilah in d Bible...if u marry a loose-mouthed woman, you will know that it's not dishonesty to keep some facts away from her.

The guy knows how funny his wife would behave, he told her only what her understand could bear and you're here saying he's not honest. The person who gave him d money was a friend at the moment..an enemy would not help when help is needed the most. That's what his wife's understanding could bear.