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Mariangeles:
She should kuku kill her husband niyen.
Iyawo Oloju kokoro!
Travel to do what by the way? For business or pleasure?

What is the use of a wife that cannot support her husband in the way she can no matter how little?

Looking at the way people churn out their stupidity on here makes me hail you guys that put out the time to reply them. Just imagine the person you quoted just now. Just imagine. Smh

emmaodet:
Hahahaha
You are already following me now, so you will always see my posts

Yeah... But usually when post from people I follow becomes too much, I just refresh and miss out.

Seun:
Enforcing face-masks is easy. When people leave the house, there are places they want to go. Markets, stores, offices, motor-parks, public transport, banks, atm kiosks, etc. Govt can simply instruct the people running those places to deny access to people not wearing face-masks.

In Imo state, it was sounded on the radio twice and also this morning that any cab driver who carries a passenger who is without a face mask, will have his cab confiscated and might not see it again whether or not the cab driver is wearing a face mask. Tbh, most cab drivers are complying because no one wants their source of living taken away from him.

That's lazy governance. If some people are not compliant with the rules, advice them, assist them, and arrest them if they still don't cooperate. Under no circumstance should a government punish the innocent along with the guilty. People following precautions must be allowed to work.

True.

emmaodet:
Good morning followers.
Just to update you about my groundnut farming.
Planted 1st of may but the rain has been erratic due to climate change because until now, we haven't experienced regular rainfall and i pray it doesn't affect the crops negatively.
From the attached pictures, noticed the germination rate of the groundnut is 70% compared to 95% the seller told us.

cc

Baba quote me oh... Make I deh learn.

I became mgtow because I wanted to understand who I am and actualize myself. I didn't want any distraction as to my goals in life. I understood very well that being with a woman is not worth the distraction it comes with.

emmaodet:
Hahaha, okay.
Capital for what? Which business are you venturing into?
Have you drafted a business plan with a good and comprehensive market survey?

You have come with that your Latin. Survey kini? Business planet ko. Make I chat you for WhatsApp.

emmaodet:
How is your side jare bro

Big man, my day was great. I am not minding those whose account balance is like traffic light count down. Just looking for capital.

emmaodet:
Haa haaaaa,
Who is this again?
Seems emmaodet lives and sleeps in your head 24/7.
And who told you my wife feeds me? Are you that daft to jump to conclusion?
Please don't dare me or cross my path because you won't like my reaction. I will place you where you belong.
From my payslip, do i look like someone his wife feeds?
Are you that wretched that you think everybody is like you.
Why the sudden attack at me since yesterday from you stvpid women sef, abeg make una free me

You didn't tell me you are housing a nairalander. Na wa oh... You never even mentioned that some nairalander lives with you that she knows how deep your pocket it.

Ps. I donbelivedatpaslip. It could be doctored I'm kidding.

Mariangeles:
That will just add to your problem.

Your income is barely enough for your family...
Why do men find it hard to take a break and BE ON THEIR OWN?
Must you be with a woman? You say your woman is a problem, yet the solution to that problem is another woman?
Most times, you men are the cause of your own problem.
First of all, you don't take caution to carefully choose someone you're compatible with, then add to that a mistress? You'll just ruin your life by yourself.

Once there's a competition, one gets the most out of it. It's simple. If Glo was the only network in Nigeria, do you think we as the citizens will enjoy it? Competition is healthy. The second woman will know that if she fůcks up she will be changed since the first is alive.

As per your last paragraph, being compatible with your partner is one thing, having same life goal is another. So it's not enough to be compatible, same goal orientation should be considered.

meetme01:
You don F-up. Raising your hands on any woman talkless your wife has degraded you. That's the bitter truth.

Mr man, you lied. So women gets to push men to the limit and it's OK, but when that sane does react, it becomes degrading.

Back to the main issue. Your wife needs your unreserved apology. You need remorseful which is through your attitude. Let her know you are deeply sorry.

He does not need to apologize to his wife for any reason. Assuming he hit her for no reason, then he has to apologize for being a mad man. One thing I hate about most NL folks here is that they feel controlling anger is very easy. So as a woman she is excused when she says things to provoke her man, insensitive things at that because she's a woman but when the man reacts, he's called an animal? This is stupidity at it's level. You know, men are the sponsors of Gynocentrism and feminism.

To her, is she not working? Why have you refused to set her up in a biz? One problem I have realized in today's marriage is, finance. It's really creating a lot of issues in most marriage. As a man, if you earn from three sources, declare only two. Let her know how the money is spent to the last kobo. That was the initial problem, you need to fix that part asap

OP didn't state whether or not she's not working. She could be working but op decided to finance his home as the man. But if @op didn't set up a business or a job for his wife, it's quite appalling.

Spaxon:
Lol
This was sure in the past.
We're history now

You fit buy me Benz make I shoot my shot?

Kingarthur21:
until she asks of marriage and he says no,then she makes his food with some ingredients..

The ingredients they mix with the food they leave for rats on the floor

Weird. I never thought of that. Shit is creepy!

Airforce1:
First, I want to give God the glory for making everything soft for me .

Today, I wish to announce to everyone who cared to listen that in few weeks from now my second child will soon be here and I shall name him Sydney, Angel De Maria or Emeka.

My first daughter is a year and 3 months and already grown up and making dad proud .
Everyone says she's my carbon copy and i feel so good about that.

Being a single dad is bae. No wiffy drama.

It is too late to fail, Amen.

Keep balling, it seems I'd go your own way. More grace G.

Mbataku96:
what exactly is making you angry, just give your opinion go.

The fact you came out here seeking clout. Whatever is your decision should remain in your house and not out here.

Mbataku96:
Hi readers, l'm a good Christian, one that truly believe in Jehovah God and his son Jesus Christ, but being a devoted Christian has brought a lot of scorning and mockery, people and peers say am stupid, foolish and a dumdum for being so devote as a Christian.
But nobody has given me a good reason to doubt my faith, so I ask you nairalanders who are atheist, to show me otherwise.

You don't need any reason to stop believing in God. You want to stop, you could do it in your house and no one will notice, you wanna continue you can go ahead and still no one will notice. Stop being stůpid on social media.

Kingarthur21:
exactly!I was correctling the notion of mgtow being bad or something.

You are right,at some point a man has to be mgtow. But it depends on how you define mgtow.
A decision to stay away from women in this gynocentric world or opening topics upon topic analysing women and their lifestyle and choices.
For the first decision I support it 100%, but for the second definition...hmmn

For the topics that actually educates it's cool. But for those that are just trolling, I don't endorse those ones.

Ndeoma:
See bro am not the one going after her again. After she told me she is engaged I immediately withdrew myself but the situation here now is that she is the one coming for me. I don't even look at her face in church but one way or the other she will try to come around me. She watches my every move in church just in case I want to try out another lady in church. Most times when am smiling and chatting with my phone you'd clearly see this frown on her face. I've been observing this trend for a while now.

And you know once you love someone, definitely you'd fell like trying your luck once again to see whether their is a chance something could be established between you both. That's the state of dilemma I am in now. And also the lady too fine bro.

I value your advice bro and I will try to restrain myself from her at all cost. Funny enough I don't even call her on phone.

Bro all I'm seeing here is another excuse to go back to her and once you are done convincing yourself, I'd suggest you sit yo ass back and ask yourself some certain questions.

1. She claimed she's engaged and yet she's around you and some time with you, what will happen if she's engaged with me now?

2. What if she's not engaged, is this the kinda girl I want around me, a girl that would lie about her status, is she the ideal woman for me?

Once you are done answering that question do whatever your head tells you to.
And once you do listen to that little voice that will tell you to ignore the from hence fourth (which I know you wouldn't) once the girl comes around, tell her to hearing right there in public, "You are engaged and would soon get married, why are you not giving me the same opportunity to find my better half by always attaching yourself to me? Is it fair?"

Kingarthur21:
I support this..

MGTOWs aren't misogynistic ,they just want to go their own way...this set of mgtow on nairaland see it as an avenue to be throwings shades on ladies and belittling men that don't agree with them as simps

It good for a man to be mgtow for a certain period of his life. And such man being wise would use that PERRIOD to discover himself.

PerfectMaster:
In other words you just just twisting fact to prove a point.
A virgin has no experience to compare with so can easily appreciate the sexual proficiency of her man.

This is just one of the myrads of reasons why a virgin is the best in terms of marriage and the least is because of sexual experience.

My question how would a virgin know that a sexual experience is without if she had no experience?

Can you know the taste of of something without testing it?

This is some new super power they have now. To know the difference in taste of something without actually testing it.


Moreover women discuss the sexual prowess of their partner based on how the felt during the intercourse. A virgin with no experience could orgasm on her first time with someone with no sexual experience, she won't tell her friends it was with a guy with no sexual experience rather their discussion will go as thus:

1st girl: babe I finally had sex today
2nd girl: really with who?
1st: my boyfriend oh.. He finally opened it and tbh I was shivering afterwards
2nd: hmm what do you mean...
1st: I could not walk oh... He scattered everywhere....


Notice how the discussion shifted from the 2nd girl trying to know about the guy's sexual prowess to the 1st girl talking about her experience.

How do I know this; WOMEN LIKE TO TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES.

Kingarthur21:
I am not saying it is right or wrong,I also don't support it,he said it doesn't happen,I was disproving him based on the fact it happens

Oh... OK. Well tbh it does happen. I'm fact I am a living witness. But it didn't go well with me because despite I liked the girl as a friend cause she's vibrant and didn't want to date her, she made use of every moment of our friendship to her advantage asking for favors which I never declined till I cut her off.

Kingarthur21:
wrong!

You are implying that men can not have female friends he doesn't harbor thoughts of sleeping with later on or dating?that is not true

I discourage men from being casual friends with women. It's either, you are her boyfriend, fùcking her or you are related to her by blood. Anything other than that, you are on your own.

Ihatefeminist:
the way people bow down to authority blindly amazes me

Just see the way our 'leader's' are torturing us
I'm sure these people know that this covid 19 is a huge hoax yet they are enforcing these lockdowns thereby ruining peoples livelihoods and businesses.

The best way to rule and remain in power is if you subject your citizens/followers in abject poverty.

Confusedwomsn:
I got married about five years ago to my friend becsuse I got pregnant...
We were really good friends, infsct best friends and I shared everything with him, I told him everything. While dating I was sick and diagnosed with cancer and ovarian cyst and I got to know that I may find it difficult to get pregnant. Stupid me confided in him that Im scarred I may not be able to get pregnant and we should try. And then I got pregnant and I was like okay fine what's the big deal we are both working and in love, let's get married and have the child but he said I should abort the baby.
I told him no but if he does not want to get married to me fine. So many bullshit later, we got married and it's been hell.
I have endured every bullshit possible beatings, neglect, insults and all that. But I have not been innocent too I've been abusive too.
If you ask me I'll say he provoked me but if you ask him he'll say I provoked him.

He says I don't respect him but I tell him he can't force me to respect him, he has to earn it.
For example, he does not do any housechore , no not even one although I don't really care much because I have someone thst helps me out but I've asked him to take care of his clothes which he does not, scatters his clothes like s child and just wants to sit and press his phone all day then hang out.
We both work and he earns better right now, but I'm 80oercent provide for the upkeep for our home, 99oercent of the furniture and appliances in our home was bought by me. He constantly accuse me of cheating when I don't go anywhere at all, I go to work, my shop and straight back home. He keeps late night and comes back to call me s prostitute and I'm like I sit at home but you go out but somehow I'm the prostitute.
When I'm angry I insult him so much and then he hits me, I insult him because I'm frustrated.
I go out there hustle so hard but I'm been ridiculed..

I told him let's have one more child to make it two but he said no that he is notsure , he is never sure about anything, very slow. I still want to have one more child with him because I want all my kids to have one Father but he says his not ready. When will you be ready, he does not know...

My family thinks I'm crazy to still be with him but I don't want my son to grow from s broken home, I don't want my kids to have different fathers, I actually still do love him and although it may be foolish of me, I somehow believe he will change.
I've prayed, cried, fasted but there is absolutely no difference. People tell me I this is how cross river men are but for how long will I continue, he is seven years older than me but behaves like s child with no future plan. I really confused and sincerely tired.

Really if you are tired of him, you don't have to put up with excesses, give him a break and leave him, that's if what you pointed out is true. But I wanna ask, were you the one who forced him into this marriage? Cause with the look of things, it seems you are the one.

It is not your duty to make one happy when one has chosen to be moody. And you don't need an entitled woman in your life.

hazard7:
Disclaimer:
CONCLUSION
The yin-yang energy is transferred from men to women. We men should stop wasting our time on entitled women that believe the world should be fair to them cause they have a pussy. Women are confused species that don't know what they want. Untill my next post. Cheers!!!
#Ubunja
#Martinez39
#Emmadoet
#red pill

Took my time to read and understand it. Now I know why women act the way they do. They just don't understand that respect comes with responsibility, and you can't be respected and cared for at the same time.

Till next time bro. Always tag me. Cheers.

gaby:
A very funny sight to behold yet, not completely alien to our body polity and clime.

These are obviously his immediate clan and kinsmen, who saw his imprisonment as a mere witch hunt and unjust because he is their son and they saw him as one of them. Blame it on ignorance or whatever, but it is what it is.

Nigeria is a country where you get appointed and your hang-ons or kinsmen will be the ones to throw a lavish party to celebrate your new win mostly unsolicited.

Should you make up your mind to serve without soiling your hands by crooked enrichment, even your closest kin will find an unbefitting name for you aside from the "mugu, ozuor, foolish man, etc., dem go ask you say whether na you want to repair Nigeria?

Our problems for this country don too big over time.

Liked how you switched from Soyinka English to MC Olumo broken.

husbandsnatcha:
He is with Amatarasha

Chai Jesus.... This girl sef

Whatshouldido:
I'm so sad at moment, will keep the story short.

I'm 35years old, met this beautiful lady last year February through my cousin, she told me how her ex jilted her, got married to someone else. I loved her very much, i do almost everything for her, took her to my parents, she was well received by my people. We had our introduction last year December while we planned wedding for this November.

Her phone was faulty since last year November, I went to repair d faulty phone yesterday. On may coming i checked her WhatsApp, saw all her chat and voice note with her suppose ex which expose her infidelity.

I confronted her first but she denied, i showed her the evidences and she fainted, i had to call my neighbor and we took her to bathroom, pour water on her to revive her.

She have been crying since begging and swearing with Bible that she will never cheat on me again.
Even threatened me with suicide.

I don't know how to relay the whole thing to her parents because from my mind I'm done with her. Her elder brother use to be friend, maybe i should inform him.

Once a cheat will always be a cheat.

Please what can i do? Once bitten twice shy.

Look within this writeup, you will see the advice you need standing strong and looking you in the eyes.

Check the last two lines of your write up, and tell me what you see.

pansophist:
You forgot the last one. They age graciously. With those weapons of mass destruction and defense mechanism still intact and firm.

God bless the Latinas

If not Latinas, I don't know who to marry.

CAPSLOCKED:
BE READY FOR THE SHOCK OF YOUR LIFE, BECAUSE THE MORE THE PROBLEMS, THE MORE THESE GUYS GAIN MEMBERS. BELIEVE ME.

I thought you'd never comment on this. Tbh I'm just as embarrassed as you are on this Pastor. Like he can never be stupid enough. Quite appalling.