₦airaland Forum

lilwetdick:
How is African Tradition bleeped up?

so in western world, boys dont fear commitment and marriage?

They certainly do.The op seems to compare African culture/marriage to that of the western countries ;he sees our marriage/culture as bleeped up but he will not like a situation where he can not to talk someone when his wife is misbehaving or out of order. African parent(good and responsible ones) do step in some times during crisis in their children's marriages so as to resolve some issues especially when they have gone astray, but the Oyinbos would not interfere becos they see it has rude, since the issue in question is between two adult. Divorce is the next action and everyone goes their separate way. Though the rate of Divorce here in Nigeria is relatively high but i am emphasizing on intervention from parents before the marriage finally hit the rock.
However, marriage should not be too much of a burden for young up coming couples, rather family and friends should encourage these young people to get settled with ease without any extra burden just because of societal expectations.

judedwriter:
They determine themselves by what others think about them.

that is spot on!..this is one very trait of a low self esteem .The ops long list are natural traits with human beings which affect us in our daily lives occasionally. Most people talked themselves out of it in order to over come their fears/insecurities.

selemempe:
The richest northerners are fulanis

Ya! they are giant Iroko trees among millions of ignorant and impoverish trees and grasses that are always happy to take dirty plate to beg for bread from this super rich northerners.

DictionMaster:
Where can I get cat food please?

They eat what you eat.Except you just intend to feed them strictly on cat food alone. They are lovely creatures.

Last year the Lagos state health insurance scheme was launch during Ambode's regime. I dont know if it has start operation.I cant find any advert about it. Has anyone registered? How is the service like?

NiRfreak:
Women no get sense o..lols. See theory.

Awon ode, the only reason why we cheat is because nature does not understand the word cheat, nature wants us to fvck as many cunt as possible and fill the earth....Any other theory is bullshit created by man and his ego.

Being loyal to a woman is not a virtue...its societal and religious bullcrap. A woman doesn't deserve a man's sexual loyalty. In fact, a woman can not satisfy the primal libido of a man..u guys should deal with it.

If u like practice all the theory in the world, a mans libido is not to be tamed..cry all u want..ko kan aiye..we will fvck as many pvssy as we want.

I can only reduce the pvssy I fvck based on personal principle and discretion, not cos of one woman...na my dick una one control? How will I tell Abraham, Moses, Issac, Jacob, David, Solomon, and all the kings of Israelites that only one woman monopolised my diick? just imagine it... You all should stop being stupid, And those Bible personages I listed up there are men of God and I will follow in their foostep by fucking as many as they did... though I no get strength of Solomon sha, but I go try my best

That is why the black man has been unable to invent anything worthy of emulation because all his thought are channeled toward sex and populating the Earth...(the average life cycle of a black man is to work to get money to woe and sleep with as many women as possible and what ever is left is use to feed his children that is if for the responsible ones) They have a very high sexual sex drive, so they have little time to deep think about inventing something or how to solve problem a plaguing the world. So we do not blame African men because that is how they have been programmed as a human being

Blackivy29:
i like this
Men who cheat lack self restraint. Honestly forget this manipulation stuff, he will still most likely cheat. If he's liable or you dont trust him then end things. Any man that keeps me at the edge of my seat aint worth it. I want to believe i can leave my man with a naked woman alone. If i cant, if he gives me that community dick vibe then he can swerve. No room for heartbreak nor stress.

testing your man by leaving him alone with an unclad woman and expecting him not to react is like leaving a fish in front of a cat and expecting the cat not to eat it...any men will definitely fall except he is impotent

seunmohmoh:
I heard body odor is from birth, I haven't seen a person with body odor all my life.

Except you are not base in Nigeria, especially in Lagos, and to crown it all inside Danfo buses where all manner of people hump in and out. Body odor is very offensive and annoying.I some times wonder why people with this odor do not know they have it. Body odor is as a result of poor hygiene

VicM6:
sister, the truth about this is just that this is beyond medical stuff.... it's a spiriual thing.... the world is changing and people are getting more wicked daily...... I can beat my chest on this one, this is a spiritual attack by someone who is wicked and this person will be a family member, trust me..... Just chat me up on this number sister, your problem will be sloved

Everything na spirtual attack..na wa for una oo! go better church, una no go gree..na church wey dem they catch witches and wizard up and down nai una dey go..before you know it you become paranoid with even a fly around you.
This stuff she is having is a sad natural occurrence with adult(though they do not talk openly about it).It happened to my sister and she stopped when she entered the university at the age of 24. she is now 40 and married and she has not experience that again.so there is nothing spiritual there.

ikwedim:
Visit synagogue on Sunday. Don't waste time ok

Synagogue ke!..se una don start again..na so nai Jim Ike carry him mama go there for healing, nai TB Joshua turn on jim ike to cast out demons..since that time his career has never been thesame again. na Only God know where the demon come from..My sister dont answer this man oo!.. just reduce ur liquid intake in the evening and ensure your bladder is empty before going to bed.
Lastly, dont forget to pray to baba God..It will surely stop naturally.

funmijoyb:
They're much divided against themselves. I think they are not politically oriented and inclined compared to other tribes in Nigeria but they stand a very good chance of winning the 2023 presidential election.

Someone like Rochas Okorocha will defeat or almost defeat Tinubu in the South west but igbo will never support him.

Okorocha is a clown..Nigerian would need someone from the south east that is more serious and focus to lead us and not someone that will start erecting unecessary statues all over Nigeria.

Sleevia:
I understand you, but what do you think the North will do in a situation like this? We must always have that at the back of our mind.

Yes, he betrayed the South in some areas when it matter most at the expense of the lives but you and I know that he is playing to agreed plans, probably for sake of Tinubu's 2023...

Well on the issue of being a pastor, that one no concern me because I am not a religious bigot and nobody can use that too fool me. In fact I was telling a man yesterday to leave God out of his lies and deceit over money he is owing a friend after being paid the money from the person he claimed was delaying the money.

So if people fell for that pastor tag, they have themselves to blame for that. Most of you are not aware of the amount of crime people get away with just by bearing Pastor...

They are all fighting for their stomach and there was an agreement, which he must uphold, even if people are dying. I am addressing your religious angle above which is, he should protect people because he is a pastor and I say that folly rest solely on those who think Nigerian pastors give a fork about them. Was Adeboye not the ring leader in that department? What has he done or said... is Adeboye not the head of that church? if Adeboye does nothing, is it Osinbajo you expect to do something?

This thread has nothing to do with the religious affiliation of things because once politics is involved, just forget religion and anybody who tell you he is pastor and a politician is a liar. The muslims pray 5 times daily, yet they are the ones that perpetrated that evil you stated, their leaders pray 5 times daily but turned a blind eye.

What I am saying in essence is bring bible and bring stomach... your pastor will protect his stomach before the bible... FACT!

Maybe you should tell that to some people from the South west that are die hard APC supporters.They have always aligned with the north to the detriment of the greater south .They don't care if all other southerners are thrown under the bus as long as they share from what has been promised to them by their northern friend.
Osibanjo was not an exception.He turned his head the other way when Fulani heads men were on the match across the southern region; destroying farmers crops, raping our women,maiming and killing anyone that stands in between their cows from crazing on people farm.He,Tinubu and other APC chieftain kept mute while they watch in silent as these atrocities were carry out. Infact, Tinubu was ready to dish out land from the south west for cattle colony just because of his political ambitions.
Pls tell these group of people to protect their own and stop becoming mumus to the Hausa Fulani as they will never sell their own over the need of another region.They are united and this unity cut across party line.

Davash222:
Is it not better to evacuate them to Zimbabwe than Nigeria where hunger will finish them

If Zimbabwe was better ,then what are Zimbabweans doing in SA, thesame people who are also victims of this xenophobia.

Frankiss44:
Yes the Ofoni people of Bayelsa are Urhobos. The man in question has been a commissioner in bayelsa for years... An Urhobo man is one of the 3 senators representing Bayelsa state in the 9th assembly

I see.Thanks for the information.

Dpharisee:
Lovely, this inspires hope on each other as our brothers keepers.

I am waiting for MURIC to do something similar and not regular lamentations on the media about hijab

whoo! that one should be meditating on the next religious comment./message he will use to divide Nigerians

winj:
I am directly affected, I am Nigerian travelling the world and I have seen the destruction caused by IGBO criminals on all Nigerians.

Most hate, abuse, attacks and treatment of Nigerians (and other blacks) can be traced 90% to the actions of IGBO criminals.

I was in Jborg and over 2 dozen local people told me their hatred started when Nigerians started selling drugs and doing crimes hiding behind chemists, barber shop and restaurants - when checked these drug dealers and criminals are IGBOS.

In Japan recently, the police started stopping and searching BLACK American soldiers out of uniform because IGBO drug dealers operate in many areas.

You want the news from African countries, South America, Middle East, Asia and around the world?

Xenophobia, attacks and killings of Nigerians, Zimbabwe, Zambians and others can be directly traced to the actions of IGBO criminals!

You are still here talking about tribal stuff but an Igbo man provided his plane for all Nigerians irrespective of their tribes and religion brought them back to Nigerian so that they wont be lynched by South Africans.

He saw them as Nigerians and not as Igbos, Yorubas, Edo or Hausa.What he saw was a group of Nigerians stranded in South Africa who needed help at that point in time. Nigerians for once forgot about what divide and have come together to support Nigerians in SA over their misfortune in SA ; wondering how they will be able to pick up the pieces in the harsh administration and not pointing fingers at what tribes is responsible for the bad image we have right now.If you wish to go there all Tribe in Nigeria have contributed their quota to our bad reputation but innocent people are suffering from their negative action

I know We have criminal from the eastern region who are into drug peddling and it has affected our reputation.may I remind you that other ethnic group are also into this trade?



NOTE: I AM FROM DELTA STATE AND NOT IGBO

dewaskillz:
I believe most of the people here just used the opportunity to come for visiting to Nigeria. They will be going back sooner than later.

By that time the madness would have settled down.If those two Zimbabweans that were killed had returned home, I am sure they would have been alive to plan their trip back when this nonsense have subsided.

Runaway:
Where are the pastors buying jets here and there. Tomorrow they we come and tell me to be my brothers keep when they are the once scoring the goals....

Exactly..pastors! where una dey?..All them Oyedepo,Chris Oyakhilom and co are nowhere to be found..later dem go dey preach for national TV on how people should sow seeds for a better tomorrow..ordinary humanitarian work dem nor sabi do.

CollinsWeGlobe:
Like my village in Edo State almost all the youths don japa.

Na so e be for everywhere I visited one village in Bulgaria me self hail na only widow and old women I dey see

kai!! if na naija, dem for say all the widows don kill their husband finish

what happened to the young locals there? Abi na only old people full there? this is very surprising though

decatalyst:
Where are the SA returnees?



Finally, there is a home!

come on!! try and be nice

Thank you Air piece for bringing our brothers &sister home safely. As for other people that are bad mouthing the effort of this man, you should all be grateful for his kind gesture.we have many billionaires in Nigeria that did not even lift a finger to help these people that needed to return home .U guys should be grateful and appreciate him.Ingratutude is our problem.This is why we lack patriot in this country.

gaetano:
Being a slave? Enlighten me biko

She was never a slave girl oo! according to history, she was a royal princess and a victim of a communal clash in Nigeria.She was meant to be use for sacrifice by her captors until one of Queen Victoria's naval officer took her and brought her to London.Queen Victoria took liking to her because she is a royal blood from the African continent..anyway the rest story you can check on google.

DrDax:
May thunder fire you and all those who liked your comment.

haba! you dey vex ooo!!

johnkay1:
Hmmm

He's definitely impotent or extreme gay

If the story the lady is saying is true, then I agree with you completely.Why marry her in the first place if he knew he could not get it up?.Please, women should ensure they confirm their bobo is active down there before getting married ooo!.

Some brother in the Lord also use celibacy during courtship as a trick into getting vulnerable christian sister to the alter only for them to realized their predicament after marriage.It is well.

ednut1:
Why marry Mostly is for sex and fufil righteousness

If you think so, then you can have a partner that is independent both financially&emotionally, who does not want marriage either and is willing to have a child. I am sure you can have it.
Many people are married because of societal pressure.This same society will mock you when your marriage crash due to incompatibility.

Swinger60:
All this dramas are not necessary .

Rather, you need time alone to evaluate the relationship, where you got it wrong and make sure to avoid making such mistakes again.

You also need time to heal well and move on strong.

You don't need all this drama you want to create.

I concur.

Tootruthful:
Truth is powerful and indisputable

Some of these people think too selfish. ECO currency and the East African Community means power for Black people worldwide. It means one day we will empower the Zulu to totally reclaim South Africa from the Dutch. It's these house niggers with White grandfathers who are the problem in South Africa like they are in America. Bloodline matters in this spiritual war more than race which is how come I stand with the Zulu king son of Shaka. It's not the king doing this it's the Whites and the house niggers behind afro phobia.

No body is causing the black man to hate themselves and no one has instigated the senseless killings that has been going on within the African continent in recent times, except you are telling me we dont have brain to reason on our own anymore.

Secondly no body is helping the Zulus in South Africans to claim any land from the Dutch.The Dutch have been there for more than three centuries, therefore they are South Africans and they have right to fight for the land they have in possession. If the Fulanis that came into Nigeria in the later part of the 19th century could claim Nigeria more than the original indigenes then what else are you talking about.

The black man will never take responsibility for his wicked actions but would rather apportion it to someone else.We are a race that is irresponsible for our actions, that is why we are easily distracted and cannot solve our problems.This is because we are made to look else where for the cause of our problem while it is steering us right in the face.

The Euro was established for the liberalization of trade among Europeans so that there will be a stronger Europe.There is nothing sentimental to it.If Africans wishes for a stronger African continent through the unification of our currency, then so be it, but its purpose should not be use in another concept of hate that has nothing to do with the main reason this Eco currency was created.

So oga..all this your talk does not make cut through the African problem.African kill and maim one another not because they were manipulated into doing so but because they are ignorant, selfish, greedy, self centered,covetous, egocentric, ethnocentric and easily brainwashed by people they look up to for counsel..These are the factors that are responsible for our backwardness ,hatred and intolerance of one another and not the white man .

These is what our leaders have been telling us even before we were born..while they go about looting our common wealth for themselves and their cronies..

Titogbanski:
DONT BE DECIEVED.....IT IS THE NEWSPAPER TRYING TO SOW THE SEED OF DISCORD.....YOU CAN SEE THAT PLOT IS ANCHORED FROM DELTA.....THE PEOPLE OF BAYELSA ARE VERY LIBERAL AND MUCH MORE CARING TO THEIR MINORITIES..

SOMEBODY IS ANGRY THAT THEY ARE SHOWING GOOD EXAMPLE.......

THIS IS A STAGED STORY

Really..but we can see so many Beyelsans' that are bigot supporting these youth.

prekumohtim:
Are you ok Do you reason at all ? Have you ever seen a Benin man elected as a governor of Lagos state despite of the closeness? You can as aware say a Ghaninian should be elected as the president of Nigeria because we are all from West Africa . Try to reason before you write anything. Don't just talk because others are talking

Tinubu is not originally from Lagos but he was once a Governor of that state...abeg the Niger Deltans are too backward in thinking..all the locals that have been ruling Beyelsa for decades, how have they fared? As long as the Urhobo man is from Bayelsa, then he is eligible to get any position in Bayelsa state, just the way the Ijaws are clamoring for a governorship position in Delta state.
If they reason like this, then they have no right to demand for equity to rule in Delta state. Their wahala too much self..everything na gra gra for them...at the end of the day they dont have the interest of the common man in their heart..all this struggle na make our person enter so that it will benefit us and our cronies...

naijadrivablog:
But Urhobos are minorities in Bayelsa State na.

Ijaws wanted to have an Ijaw state but somehow, Urhobos live with them.

They should include Urhobos in governance too.

Urhobo wado!!!

Urhobo is in Delta state and they are Majority group there oo! abi we get another Urhobo people that are Bayelsans too?

psychologygh:
am a Ghanaian and this is pure fake news. Nothing has been reported in Ghana except those fake blogs,just look at that Twitter account, Mama slay or whatever. Why do you guys post fake Ghanaian stuffs on your site if you hate Ghana that much.Maybe if you had behaved properly,South Africans wouldn't have targeted you and thus involved other innocent Africans.You Nigerians are a menace everywhere you go not just South Africa and now you're spreading this fake news to put us on the same page with you.Never will a Ghanaian lower his status that low to corrupt other countries. Even if it's done it's very rare.

In terms of wickedness and hatred toward other Africans, South Africa & Ghanians are competing..You are jubilation that South African are killing, maiming and destroying properties of Nigerians and other Africans..sey becos your citizens were not affected this time around?.

I remembered some time back, the xenophobic attack was against Ethiopia, Zimbabweans and Mozambique and Nigerians were not affected. their attack comes with different shades for various target audience at different point in time.
You have a wicked and dark heart , later you guys will be hosting nonsense conference here and there for Africa Unity while you and your citizen continue to hate Nigerians . Don't worry, keep dancing over the grave of Nigerians and other Africans that have been killed ..laugh over their misfortune as you wish but have it in your mind that though South Africa might have come for Nigerians and other African nationals today does not mean they will not come for your people tomorrow.Remember all non-nationals are foreigners in their land.