₦airaland Forum

MICHEALADEX:
No woman is perfect, just pick your own witch and start pouring anointing oil for the rest of your life.

u are something else.

White South Africans are bloody racist..I hope she is happy with him & his folks. They hold deep hatred for blacks generally.I wonder what she saw in him .Anyway love is blind they say.I wish them goodluck in their marriage.

Is south Africa that Bad, that citizen are allowed to carry guns casually with them at all time?.I am shocked.Thank God he was prepared , if not he might not be alive to tell the story.I just dey imagine sey na Nigerian police see gun for your hand..na kirikiri prison be that oo!!..infact, them go even add machine gun and pump action to the pistol..them go sey you be robber and was caught in the act..yeye police .

Algerian Ke!! be careful with any one that professes love online without meeting you in person first oo!! This person might be a scammer. Algeria is a Muslim African country like Morroco..They are very conservative too..Try do your research very well before you become a victim of internet fraud.

[quote author= post=83580362]We had not seen each other for about 30 years. The Lord has been kind to me. When I saw him again - this time at a hotel lobby - he was looking simple. He wore simple Ankara attire. I felt touched. He walked up to me and was glad to see me again. But deep within me I was not impressed with his status compared to mine and poor me, I couldn't hide it. We exchanged contact details and I could see the joy in him as he collected mine.

I told him I will drop him home in my brand new Range Rover and I pointed it to him. He declined and said he had already called for his car. It looked old, a 2001 Honda Accord.

I invited him the next day for lunch at my house. A part of me wanted to impress him - To show off my success and affluence to him, while another was to discuss opportunities and possibly help him.

He drove to Parkview where I lived. He looked impressed with my home. I had taken a heavy mortgage. In fact I was heavily in debt. We had lunch. He told me he was into small business and particularly real estate. I brought up more business discussions, but he didn't sound too interested. I asked him how I could help him. He said he was fine. I even told him if he was interested, I could help him secure some loans... He looked at me and smiled.

He told me he would invite me over soon to his place. His old car came for him. I was grateful to God for what I had. “Fingers are not all equal”, I thought to myself...I was lucky. I worked in a good place.

Two weeks later, we went to see him in Ikeja. My wife and I. She was reluctant to go because she was not impressed with the man's status as to warrant our visiting him in his house. I was able to convince her that we were close friends in college. We saw the Estate. *Wuraola Estate.* We asked for directions to his home. Those leading us spoke his name with deference.

It was a simple but lovely home. A 4 bedroom bungalow. I saw 4 cars parked in front. We entered his home. It was simply elegant with a touch of class inside. He welcomed us warmly.

Lunch was well served. His wife called him Baba Wuraola

During lunch, he asked about my MD. He said they were friends. I saw a company gift on one of his tables nearby. That company owned about 38% shares where I worked. I enquired from him about it. He smiled. He told me he owned the company. He also owned the estate.

I did not know when I called him sir... I was in awe of him too.

I had learnt a lesson in humility - A big one. Appearances are deceptive. He noticed my discomfort.

Driving back home, I was very quiet. My wife was humbled and extremely calm. I could perceive the thoughts in her mind. I looked at myself. Living on loans, heavy loans and showing off while someone who pays my salary is quite modest and living a simple life!
Indeed Deeper Rivers Flow In Majestic Silence![/quote]You write well.Is this just a short story or a true life event? nice write-up.

Makuos19:
First and foremost, you a confirm Harlot for having sex with someone that is not your husband. The solution to your problem will only start if you genuinely repent from your Fornication, ask God to have mercy on you and cleanse you. And promise Him that you will not go back into it until you are rightfully married and desist from going into Boy friendship!!!
Then you can pray to Him for healing and you will be healed!!!
You cant remain in your sin and be looking for solution!!!

Look at this fanatic.So Mr righteous man, you want to swear before man and God that you are without any sin between yesterday and today? Mr holy holy..na your kind dey engage in dirty activities in the dark and come out to cast aspersion at another person of how sinful they are in the day.The Unilag pastor that demand for sex from students comes to mind..remember him? rubbish

Kelvin30286063:
God is punishing you for having premarital sex... and from all indications, looks like your boyfriend used you for money ritual. Be sincere, is he into yahoo?

My goodness! how old are you? please if you have nothing intelligent to say, then dont say anything at all

DTeekay:
No train in the South-south where all the money is coming from. Which way Nigeria. Come and see Federal roads in the south-south you will weep.

Gaping holes in the middle of the road. Causing chronic loss of man hours thereby hampering smooth flow of goods and services, which negatively affects the economy.

But this is the only part of the country that gives the oil money to build railways and roads in other parts of the country.

South south especially Delta and Beyelsa wey go won collect settlement for the boys first before the project will commence..those enemy of progress...no wonder Delta, Beyelsa nor dey progress becos of their stupid gra gra.

Area4Area:
This is how we we know smugglers or those close or related to them, by their posts we shall know them.

Abeg park one corner..why you nor go talk when you don eat your belle full with little regard for the common that cannot afford rice anymore..

isthatso:
try and be patriotic for once, America is a great country because the average American will always choose the American product over imported even when the foreign one is better. Must you eat rice?

why dont you start by keeping your street and environment clean by not throwing rubbish through your car windows and in drainage .Then also ensure you obey all traffic regulation,stop driving against traffic light and using one way against traiifc so that your country will be livable for all Nigerians as well as visitors.Nigeria it is a shithole because we treat it like trash since nobody cares ..No be only rice matter you remember patriotism. Start buying only made in Nigerian clothes and shoes, buy your car from Innoson cars instead of a foreign cars like Mercedes, Honda,Kia, and Toyota and ensure all the things you use on a daily basis are produced in Nigeria..then we will understand what you mean by patriotism..no be only rice matter you go remember to be a patriot. Patriotism my foot.

As for the rice issue what l see, is the government taking drastic action without proper planing,We masses are the one suffering it becos we now have buy our local rice at a very expensive prices(twice the price of the foreign rice that is clean and sweeter) ,I wonder why?. I thought this is the time for local seller to provide ans sell their rice at the normal price so that Nigeria will forget about the Foreign rice but their greed will not allow them.They made the local rice scares so that they can shoot up the price of rice beyond the reach of the common man in this already harsh terrain and you are here praising this government for their poor planing tactic.

odave:
No one is disputing that fact. What I mean is the Nigerian comsumers. The government did the right but it's hitting hard on us consumers too. No need to pretend here. I will miss those rice

True.Our local rice is terrible and expensive as if it was smuggled.I think government should open the border, pending when our local farmers are ready to do business properly.How can our local rice that is not even clean and sweet like the rice from Thailand and India is now twice as expensive and not even available for Nigerians to buy.

Mkmoney:
So truly we re the GIANT OF AFRICA

A giant ??are you joking ?we are a laughing stock in the community of nations becos we cannot even put our house in order .even small country like Rwanda can achieve basic things for their citizens and they are not making noise.Big for what na?ordinary light, good road,proper education and simple healthcare is now a luxury to ordinary citizens and u are here deceiveing urself that this shithole is a giant of Africa.

IceColdVeins:
You wife can even be her own boss!! Early morning akara dey sell well!

This really got me laughing.. .Anyway, you talk true sha ooo!. People will always buy.

MusaChukwudi:
Clearly you have never been to the western world. The way reality will damage you en? "Everything already set for you", really?
Keep fantasising! Reality will wake you up!

I am sure what he meant to say is that the western world has the platform for people to pursue their dreams and achieve success way better than we have in Nigeria.

Nigeria has so many factors that will frustrate your effort in achieving your dream, especially in the areas of Education, business, research and other areas of human endeavor.Its only the resilient ones with thick skin that are able to pull it through under this harsh terrain

BuhariAdvocate:
I don't know if the innoson cars is tested one Because i don't see rich people buy it.

we don't really need the rich to purchasers the cars . All we need are for more middle class to buy and Innoson is good to go.In a country its the middle class that has more numbers in purchasing goods &services than than the few rich ones.

Nigeria should be careful of this new trend. It’s been in existence for many years but has only become very trendy lately.
There’s still many ethical issues surrounding surrogacy no matter how good it’s painted.

Like the motherless babies homes with its many unethical problems, surrogacy isn’t the perfect solution to infertility that people see it as. There are still lots of malpractices going on from exploitation of the women to even serious legal and health issues later.

There are women who go into these for commercial reasons and there the clinics where these are undertaken must be seriously regulated.

It’s true that the baby takes the DNA of the sperm and egg donors but it is still at the mercy of the surrogate. Surrogates life style and nutrition can impact on the baby. A drinking mum, some women on prescription medications who go into surrogacy to get paid and feeding habit can affect the baby.

A surrogate can die, develop complications during the process, she can miscarry and can also deliver a deformed or disabled baby.

Certain genetic disorders can be detected during the period of surrogacy and the donors might want to have the child aborted...the surrogate might not want that.
A surrogate might develop psychological issues after carrying the baby to term and might not want to dissociate from the child even though her dna wasn’t part of the child...

Who breastfeeds? Donor might not want breastfeeding, this might become the new trend where a whole new generation of babies are denied breast milk!

I had the experience of nearly falling into this trap some years ago. I was approached by a doctor to help a woman get pregnant in return for ‘lots of goodies’. I was tempted, very tempted but I declined. I can never give away my child for any amount of money.

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Your baby? A child that does not share any of your DNA is now your baby? maybe you do not understand the concept of surrogacy( where two parent donate thier sperm and embryo to be fertilized before it is implanted in your womb)..you are just a container for the baby to grow in. You do not share any DNA with the unborn child what so ever; then why attached yourself emotionally to something that is not yours.Thank God you objected becos it is obvious you dont understand what is involve.

PlanetOfApes:
I hope children don't take after surrogate mothers.

Whatever the case, if i were to do, i wouldn't let someone looking like any of these carry my kids.

A clean fit Latina will be OK. I wouldn't want my kids looking like Okro soup after delivery. I would't want to take chances, science can be funny atimes.

If your face resemble obasanjo and your wife too self ugly ee nor get how the best Oyinbo woman or Hisbanic lady will influence the look of that baby.Its all boils down to the DNA of both parent to determine the outcome of the baby.

So a beautiful baby can be carried by any woman be it an Iya Bose or a market woman .A healthy and beautiful baby can be delivered as long has both egg and sperm deposited in her womb have good DNA.

kwyllancy:
Abakaliki rice remains strategic in the face of Nigeria's economic volatility.

Where is the Abakaliki rice now..?? I am sure the price has been inflated beyond the reach of ordinary Nigerians becos of greed.

I also received the same message that is scheduled for tomorrow.Has anyone attended the interview?? Are they real or scammers? Please let me know so that I don't waste my time oo!!

mercyville:


SW had first skyscraper in sub saharan Africa,free health care,olympic size stadium etc.SW also gave you the NTA you are using today

Until this day,SW still remains the most developed.You still have not gotten only 1 single skyscraper in the whole of SE...

List any other state aside from Lagos that is developing? Is it Oyo ,Ogun ,Ekiti,Osun,or ondo states?? U should try and travel to other states in Nigeria as compared to other south western state aside Lagos. At least try and travel to even other African countries like South Africa or even Morocco then u will know that the Lagos that u think is developed is not even half of what we should call developed . We Nigerians are midiocres that is why we see a developing state with dirt all around as developed.

I just received a message from Uber that there is now an UBER boat.They are in partnership with Lagos state waterways. It will only operate from Ikorodu-Falomo and Falomo -back to Ikorodu. Price: N500.
Bookings can only be done using your normal Uber signup details.
I think its a welcome development for those that ply that rout to avoid the mad traffic.Though they are still testing the waters for now.

But they use use the Hausa as foot soldiers to do their dirty jobs.They have intermarried over the years so they see themselves as one.

NORSYK:
Truly its acidic, even our regular Coca-Cola products aren't good enough for consumption

Wetin kon make am bad be sey, our mechanic kon dey use am dey unscrew tight and rusted bolt/nut.The day i saw them use it to loosen tight and rusted bolt was the day i stop drinking it.It is really acidic

You all commenting on which tribe is eligible to rule Nigeria or not are all diluted and brain dead.How has Buhari better his own state Katsina or his home town Daura, since he became the president of NIgeria? How did the South west fared when OBJ was the president of Nigeria? what about GEJ nko? nothing happened to his state and the people of Otueke not to talk of the general South south region.The only people that benefited from the previous government and are still benefiting are their immediate families, closed friends and political cronies; while the rest of you stupid Nigerian youth, will continue to rant online forever till your children grow's up to inherit the wailers clubs.

We are so useless that we are ready to channel all our energy into unproductive things like fighting one another online over stupid politicians from various political parties; these people do not even care if we live or die in our thousands but will gladly take the first flight abroad for treatment if anything threatens them or their families.

We are all cowards and stupid citizens for allowing our ethno/religious sentiment to cloud our sense of judgment; preventing us from uniting with one voice to demand for good governance over the years..these sentiment was used during our parents time and now we have inherited it and are now in the wailers clubs of always lamenting and doing nothing but divided at all time to confront our common enemies.

We only know how to complain and complain over bad governance behind our phones and laptops and be expecting angel Gabriel to come down from heaven to save us from our predicament, while we cower behind our desk and become supper e-warriors fighting one another.

We laugh and mock people that even made attempt to protest in the face of the current draconian leadership and leave them to their predicament because our mind are prejudiced that they did it for their personal interest. We even allow ourselves to be divided by stupid politicians and even go as far as a carry placard for a few Naira note just to counter other protesters who are demanding for a better welfare/governance.This is very disappointing and heartbreaking.

We are so oppressed that we now see mediocrity as a way of life. Our standard are so low that we are happy to celebrate simple things such as filling of pot holes on our bad roads and repair of drainage as achievement by our government..haba Nigerians.

We all need deliverance from our constant cowardice and mental slavery. Change will not come to us in the confine of your houses, we have to work for it .

on a normal day, who cares if only only one ethnic tribe rule Nigeria?.. will it change the condition of our country and bring hope back to our people?. Dont fight the battles of the politicians, leave it for their children and cronies that are benefiting to fight it for them. Channel your energy into how to unite our people across board and disabuse these factors (Ethnicity and religion ) that have always divided us .If we can remove these two monsters from our head then our way of reasoning will be made straight; with that we can come under one umbrella to battle power from these thief and their cronies. Stop this E- Warrior club and channel it into good use.

GuyWise:
Look at this foolish op Guy there is no South West state more beautiful or developed than ANY South East State.

Guy, two can play this very game.. stop posting old and fake pictures here or I will flood this forum with current way of life in oyoruba states

why are u pained??we should all be ashamed that Nigeria that pride itself as a country with smart and hard working people cannot keep their surroundings clean.Everyone throws trash in drainage and on the streets ,even the front of their stores and houses cannot even be cleaned by us but will be waiting for government to come and clean in front of our stores and houses ..why ??i wonder .is it that we a group of dirty people that cannot clean after ourselves??it is pathetic.we are guilty of this lackadaisical artitude we have towards our environment..our government inclusive becos they are a product of our society.Lagos and other cities in Nigeria are dirty. The only reason why we treat our environment this way is becos of lack of patriotism.

aminu114:
are u proposing a murder?

Murder ke..noooooo!!!

Quelme:
Synlab, Clina Lancet laboratories and El-lab run those test.

That means there is hope.

chily11:
Karma is a damn broke bitch. Karma is a damn broke snitch... Karma is a damn wicked witch. TO ALL THE WOMEN.... SHUN SEX 4 GRADE!... STUDY HARD AND DRESS DECENTLY!!

My brother no be about to dress decently oo! randy Lecturers with wondering eye will always single you out base on their choice of women.
There was this lecturer in my school back then, he would chase anything in skirt and go as far as failing ladies that refuses his advances. Na so we ladies kon form muslim oo! ,we start to dey wear hijab any time we are going to sign course form from him because he does not dare such rubbish with muslim ladies that are very devoted to their religion. He even went as far as trying this nonsense with student that are married and would frustrate them even more if they report the case to the school authorities..He is untouchable because he highly connected in the school;That was why non of the petition leveled against ever materialized. He is dead now; may God have mercy on his soul for all the atrocities he committed while on earth.

I heard there are ways you can detect if a fetus is SS right from an early stage of pregnancy. If it turn out to be SS then you can get rid of it..until you get an AA fetus then you can let it live..while both of you will still be together and your love unbroken. However,they said this can only be done abroad.I dont know if Nigeria is advance for that kind of thing.well doctors in the house..pls step in, your advice is needed.

ufotty2001:
am 34years old ... am earning N100K but where am working the job is not secured i can be sacked anytime.. am afraid of getting a wife

That is why it is good to insure your job while you are still working. This was what my sister used in supporting her family for a year when her company laid her off in 2017.
Now she has found another job and she still continued with the job insurance policy. You should try it out so that it will be a safe heaven for you should the unexpected happens

fk002:
Must yab Nigeria at any slightest opportunity you get?.


Do you have any country other than Nigeria? What are you doing to improve your community and Nigeria to be a better one?


Every country has its own flaws!!

thank you.they are ones that will throw garbage on the street and in drainage, making their environment unlivable , they are the ones that will choose a dull and stupid man to occupy a leadership position over a qualified & efficient person becos he is not from their tribe or religion. Therefor, the way we think is responsible for the sick Nigeria we have today.

edward1984:
I have a polish friend who married with just 20€,, they went to the towns hall, registration fee was 100 zloty which is 20€,, the parents of both couples only and that was that,, and they both are in their early 20s,,, simple as that

That is why the world is diverse with thier unique way of doing things. The way of the polish people cannot be the same in places like India or China or other countries that have their peculiar way of marriage and tradition..

You cannot use another country and their way of life and style of marriage as a yardstick to measure your own continent..it shows you do not have an identity. You are always quick to put down your own because it is convenient for you to accept their style of living, then why don't you take every package that comes with marriages in the western world where the woman rules and the laws favors her if she does not want the marriage anymore. You think sey na here wey you be master of the house?where you can do and undo and society will tell your wife to bear your nonsense and pray for her husband? whilst she continue to be the good wife of keeping the home front running as you gallivant around with your guys around town and a couple of side chicks...

Applying the western culture means you have to be involve with the domestic affairs of the home 50/50..including helping out with the work around the house as well as the children, cleaning them up caring for then as at when due, both of you will be sharing roles and there wont be " I am the man of the house" both of you will share income 50/50 and no body is the head of the house.

You dare misbehave in anyway with another woman or any mistake of unfaithfulness then you are a goner..you will not only loose all your properties, you will lose full custody of your children ,you will be allowed visitation right(that is if she really mean to deal with you)

So marriages everywhere has their pros and cons..it now depend on you to know which one you can cope with. You can travel and marry a foreign woman with just 20 dollas /pound if you so wish..it is your life and we should choose what will make us happy.
Abeg nor dey rubbish our culture ooo..! I am sure that even within Nigeria we have marital rite that are very cheap and less fun fare..it varies from ethnic group to group and families to families